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00:00Subtitling Canadian Broadcasting Corporation
00:30We're not in high school. I don't need a, hey, what are you doing? Oh, my mom, wait to sleep. Did you go on the phone call? No. I'm grown, pushing 30. So if you're not planning dates for me, if you're not taking stress off my f***ing plate, if you're not booking me a massage, paying for my nails, doing something for me as a provider male figure would in my life, I'm going to act like, literally I'm going to text you for fun when I'm bored.
01:00So, a rather sensitive subject, that of single mothers. For several reasons today, each more legitimate than the last, these gentlemen avoid this category of women like the plague.
01:09And that's what we'll see today. So subscribe, like, and let's go.
01:11So we will start here by talking about the path that leads to this condition of single mother. What are the causes that lead to this result?
01:17So already from the very beginning, in their early youth, there is a fundamental difference between a boy and a girl. So in general, the boy in his early youth, unless he is very attractive and quite a bad boy, if I may say so, will most often be invisible to girls.
01:29And it is from there that he must work on himself physically, financially, intellectually, etc. in order to have more success with the female rim in the future.
01:37And believe me, it works. Where the girl, unlike the boy, has no need to work on her feminine attributes in her early youth.
01:44Where the teenage boy will be invisible to the eyes of girls, she, as soon as her feminine attributes appear, will be chatted up by absolutely every guy who passes by.
01:50And usually these guys are older than her, and often have more money, a car, a playboy attitude, etc.
01:56In short, being a step above her will make her feel special and also a little superior, because that's usually when she'll start treating guys at her level like shit.
02:04She calls them immature, not good enough for her, she will start to look down on them, disrespect them, etc.
02:10It's an extremely classic path in life.
02:12And very, very, very often, the girl, suddenly discovering an existence in the eyes of men, and knowing what she can get out of it, very often chooses to take advantage of it,
02:19will get together with several men at once, make the highest bidder a priority, and the latter, of course, will also take advantage of her, especially sexually.
02:26And the nice boy, the teenager, the young man, the one who is actually at his level, will be friendzoned in the best of hearts.
02:32The girl, sincerely believing she deserves her men on the finish line they have built for themselves, and who have the means to provide for her needs.
02:38But what she doesn't take into account here is that this man who built himself up and who takes advantage of her sexually by dangling before her a life she didn't deserve, didn't need her for that.
02:44He didn't wait for her to make his life, I mean, when he was suffering, she wasn't there.
02:47And now that the guy has built up his flirting skills, she thinks that's his level.
02:50But no.
02:52This kind of man, in reality, has a choice, and takes advantage of it, and for a very simple reason.
02:56Women almost all want exactly the same type of man: handsome, rich, good in bed, etc.
03:01And what they often don't understand is that even if they do manage to find this kind of man, the competition will be extremely tough.
03:07And then she will say to herself, maybe by having a child with him, he will choose me and stay with me.
03:11And unfortunately, that's almost never the case.
03:13There's no reason for him to stay, especially if he didn't see the potential of a partner in you.
03:16It will break.
03:17Where the young adolescent, who knew nothing about it, chose to build himself up, and will now also have the choice between several potential partners later in his life.
03:25So that's one of the paths that leads to this single mother outcome, hypergamy.
03:29This tendency for women to believe they deserve better than they actually are in terms of a partner.
03:33But there are others too, such as the death of the husband and father of the child.
03:36And there, it's no one's fault, no one is blamed.
03:38Or again, and this is one of the major causes of this epidemic, divorce.
03:42Because yes, in the vast majority of cases, the court almost automatically gives custody of the children to the mother.
03:46And this bullshit has consequences.
03:48In the United States, for example, the black community is the most affected by this phenomenon of single mothers.
03:52The opposite would have surprised me, mind you.
03:54The majority of fathers are either shot dead, because very often they choose bad boys to procreate, or in prison.
03:59And this absence of a father in the home will cause problems in the children who, lacking paternal authority and discipline,
04:04will start to imitate in most cases the worst examples in terms of behavior,
04:08which will have the same consequences for a boy as for a girl later.
04:11The majority of prisoners and inmates in jails come from single mother homes.
04:15Men today are less and less masculine and unable to control their emotions, because they only have their mother as their educator.
04:22Girls are becoming more and more shameless for the same reason.
04:24These children are much more prone to depression, suicide, and the risks don't stop there.
04:29In case the mother remarries or gets back together with someone for example,
04:32nothing says that the man in question is not a pervert who will attack his daughter, or his son for example, who knows?
04:36And who will intervene in this case?
04:38And seriously, this whole thing about automatically giving custody of the child to the mother is incredibly stupid.
04:43In the USA, for example, there is a single mother, black obviously,
04:46who abandoned her toddler daughter for several days at a time to spend time with her boyfriend.
04:50And when he comes back, guess what?
04:52No, seriously, guess what?
04:54Yeah, his daughter is dead.
04:56End.
04:57And that's not all!
04:58Here we have a single mother who had the good idea to display her expenses, and look closely!
05:02Lightning, kindergarten, so to take care of the child, daycare, all that, 250 dollars.
05:06The cost of the car, 300 dollars.
05:08Gym, $50.
05:10Cat food and litter, $280.
05:14Starbucks, so coffee, $100.
05:16Rent, $2,400.
05:19Going out, meaning going clubbing, having fun, all that, 500 dollars.
05:23Manicure, $180.
05:26Haircut, $240.
05:29Food, $80.
05:31So, I don't know about you, but personally, I'm a little shocked.
05:34I mean, this is a single mother of five, and going out is the second biggest expense after rent.
05:42A single mother of 5 who values her outings more than her children.
05:48I mean, even food is $80, where going out is $500.
05:53What the hell is this?
05:54And that's not all!
05:55So, the following video really made me laugh and shocked at the same time.
05:58I mean, this is a single black mother, again, yes.
06:01And listen to this.
06:02Hey, listen, what do you think you're doing?
06:05I mean, I mean, I mean.
06:08I said to myself, I met a young man who doesn't want children, and he doesn't want,
06:12he doesn't want to, he doesn't want to, and so I'm deploying these children so that we live
06:17our life. We want to go through, we want to explore the world, and I can't do
06:20this with children. I can't. I can't. I can't. I can't.
06:23It's time for me to be happy and I want to be happy and be happy and be
06:26happy without these children. That's all I want.
06:29You have to ask me.
06:32I can't. I can't.
06:36That's respect, Angel. That's respect.
06:40I hope you respect my decision to put my life with my new man and
06:46no children. I'm not awake your children.
06:49I don't know.
06:50I don't know what I don't know, because I am not the fact. I don't know.
06:53I don't know, I don't know.
06:55I'm tired of being a parent who's a parent.
07:00I really need to add something. And these are not isolated cases.
07:24It happens more than you might think, and that's because of the growing scourge of single mothers.
07:28So yes, there are women who manage to cope with this situation and provide a decent education for their children.
07:32But this is very rare, and the prison population and this kind of story, far from being unique, are proof of this.
07:38And for several reasons, men, when it comes to choosing a partner with whom to spend the rest of their lives,
07:42rarely choose the latter.
07:44So, reason number 1, you will never really be the father of her child.
07:47Because yes, it's his child, not yours.
07:49You will certainly be able to help the latter and his mother if necessary.
07:52But when it comes time to discipline him, his mother will often intervene by saying things like
07:56“Don’t touch my child, you don’t have the right to scold him, etc.”
07:59And the child himself will tell you nonsense like "You're not my father, etc."
08:02And you'll feel like an idiot.
08:04You provide, but you cannot discipline.
08:06Which brings me to the next reason.
08:07Single mothers are not looking for love, but for help.
08:10Their situation is not easy and they hope to meet someone who will be more of a provider, that is, a beta for her, than a lover.
08:16She doesn't have time for this, the bills have to be paid and the alpha's children have to eat.
08:20Flirting and romance are not her priority, she has already given that.
08:23"I have never loved, but I have never loved, never yet."
08:35A guy left a comment under my post.
08:38His stepdad supported his mother for 15 years.
08:44It happened where he couldn't work.
08:48It happened where he couldn't work.
08:52And his mother was ready to leave this mother after 3 days.
08:58He had been supported there for 15 years.
09:00So you mean to tell me that it made me put up with this woman for 15 years.
09:06And the moment it gets into a hardship, she's ready to go in 3 days.
09:12There is no need for these men who have proven themselves for women who have proven themselves for women who have proven themselves for women who have proven themselves for women.
09:20And I'm sorry.
09:22I understand why men have proven themselves for women who have proven themselves for women.
09:24Because you don't think logically.
09:26You are still selfies and entities.
09:28How you respond to these things is selfis and entities.
09:32It's always me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.
09:35OK?
09:36In a relationship, it's not me, me, me, me, me, me, me.
09:39If you want to continue to do the me, me, me, me, me's, then stay single.
09:42Which brings me to the next reason.
09:44Her ex, if he's still alive, could show up at any moment and take her and the children he's been caring for until now.
09:49Women never really forget the men they have children with.
09:52Children will often pass off their real father even if it was some asshole before you who spent all those years taking care of them.
09:57Which brings me to the next reason.
09:59Reason number 4, very often they are not very faithful women.
10:02Especially if she's had multiple kids from multiple guys, forget it.
10:05They do this very often for alimony.
10:07Many of them are really lazy and have children with several different guys so that they can pay child support.
10:13A lot of people got something to say about the fact that I got six kids with six different men.
10:18So I'm just gonna tell y'all why it is better to do it this way.
10:22If I had six kids with all the same dude, I get 34% of his income which is only 680 a month.
10:29If I got six kids with six different dudes, I get 17% from each one of them which is 340 a month from each one.
10:38$340 a month times six baby daddies is 2040.
10:43So why don't you have six baby daddies?
10:46Don't be next.
10:47And reason number 5, you will never be his priority, his children will always come before you.
10:51Unless it's this one.
10:52And the reasons they give when they try to sell themselves now that men don't want them anymore are truly hilarious.
10:57You know those arguments you use to convince someone to choose you.
11:00They say things like now that I have a child, I'm more mature, I know what's important blah blah blah.
11:04As if they had a choice.
11:05Obviously you have to grow up when you're a kid, you have to take care of it.
11:07And when the argument doesn't work and the guys reject them anyway,
11:10They either use their favorite weapon, that is, the attempt to shame or tactical shaming as we say in English.
11:14Like you're a man and you don't want to assume your role as a man.
11:17You're old enough to take care of a family, stop messing around with his young daughters and take responsibility, etc.
11:22As if you were the one who made this child.
11:24Or they use religion like Joseph was the half-father of Jesus and he didn't have full rights, etc., etc.
11:30It's both extremely pathetic and hilarious.
11:32Anyway, moral of the story, gentlemen, don't play our man's saved game.
11:35Create your own families with young women without children.
11:38And ladies, be careful with hypergamy, there's nothing wrong with building with a partner who's on your level.
11:43You'll be worth more to him than any girl who shows up after you've built something together.
11:48So that's it for this video, if you liked it, don't forget to like, subscribe and comment.
11:52And I say see you next time, come on, ciao!

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