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Love & Marriage Huntsville Season 10 Episode 2
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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03What you been up to?
00:04Arianne.
00:05Mm.
00:06Yeah, trying to get her to nursing school.
00:09You investing in your woman?
00:11I better.
00:11It's getting heavy.
00:13Yeah, we good.
00:14More serious, like?
00:17Like, you know, she keep on putting
00:18the cards right, she's going to get that ring type thing.
00:20Yeah.
00:21I want you to take that thing off your head.
00:22That's what I really want you to do.
00:24I'm trying to prepare you for when you go to college.
00:27You're going to be meeting young girls.
00:28Well, it's a good thing you don't go to college for girls.
00:30Well, you're not the fun parent.
00:32And I can understand why MJ wants to leave.
00:35We had a conversation with Marquez.
00:37Me and Marquez definitely in a better space.
00:39You also have to give somebody the chance to change.
00:41Oh, come on, yeah.
00:44Everything.
00:45I don't say.
00:47What we?
00:49Y'all want to talk about something while we're here?
00:51I kind of do.
00:53I don't know about Trish.
00:54Literally, you got questions, and if you haven't met me.
00:55Well, you asked a question, sir.
00:57Calm down.
00:57You came in to ask the question?
00:59I came in to drop my daughter off.
01:01Marquez is going back and forth with Sharon,
01:04and it's starting to piss me off.
01:06I need you to relax, bro.
01:07I am right.
01:07No, you're not, because you showing out right now.
01:09You came in here with somebody else.
01:10I didn't come in here with nothing other than
01:12to drop my daughter off.
01:13Don't bring her into it.
01:14She don't even know nothing.
01:16She don't know nothing about me.
01:17She don't know nothing about you.
01:18She met you four years ago.
01:19She don't know you.
01:20No, you don't, you don't know me for real.
01:24We keep it moving all day, all night.
01:29Yeah.
01:30Ain't no stopping up.
01:31Drop that.
01:32We ain't stopping.
01:35You know, you know, we keep it moving all day, all night.
01:44Yeah.
01:47Yeah.
01:48All day, all night.
01:50Yeah.
01:51Ain't no stopping up.
01:55Yeah.
02:00Up in the club, you know we got you bouncing.
02:02Up in the club, you know we got you bouncing.
02:04Up in the club, you know we got you bouncing.
02:06You know we got you bouncing.
02:08Bouncing, bouncing, bouncing.
02:08And I shake it like you trying to get the crowd.
02:10I say shake it like you trying to get the group up.
02:12Not betting to be doubled up, and booted up.
02:14Tune it up and boot it up and run it back down.
02:16Tune it up and boot it up and run it back down.
02:18Run it back down, baby, run it back down.
02:20Now, Sharon!
02:21Hey, what's going on?
02:22Hey, what's going on?
02:23Man, what's up?
02:24What's going on?
02:25I should have known you was going to be dappered up.
02:26Bro, listen.
02:27This dude coming out on a t-shirt.
02:29I'm like, bro, you know it's cold out there, right?
02:31I just got off the road.
02:32So after all the drama and with Marquez and the chaos
02:36he caused with Sharon, we just need a little break.
02:40Definitely.
02:41So we're meeting up with some of our friends, Kimmy,
02:43and Maurice, and I think they've been through similar situations,
02:46you know, so it'll be good to get their insight
02:49and try to figure out how we can fix our issues.
02:51So what's going on in you guys' world?
02:53We just recently finished renovating our house downstairs.
02:57So we're at an Airbnb.
02:59Oh, man.
03:00I don't like staying nowhere but at home.
03:02Got to know each other a little bit better.
03:04Oh, yeah.
03:06Right.
03:07So I know y'all came to the party, the backyard party,
03:10y'all see?
03:11For the most part, handle myself, you know, kind of well.
03:15When you're not present, you allow me, the outsider guy,
03:18to build a relationship with you not being there.
03:21You don't feel like you owe me anything?
03:23I feel like I'm compensating for you didn't do.
03:25But from your perspective, like, I guess you was in a situation with the divorce.
03:32So Marquez, at some point, this has to get resolved.
03:36I don't like going back and forth. I don't like arguing.
03:39I really don't like even being angry.
03:41Like, it takes me to another level mentally that I just don't like being.
03:44So I reached out to him for 30 minutes, of course, as a shouting match.
03:48Yeah.
03:49But Fanny was like, you know what?
03:50I'm going to make sure that at the end of this conversation, we're on good terms.
03:55And by the end of it, we were good.
03:57But it's like Marquez, it's one of them situations where it's so frustrating
04:02because we will have really good moments.
04:05And then he do what he did the other day.
04:07So the other day, Marquez said he's going to go get Zaria.
04:11I was at the house with my friend, Sharon.
04:14So he comes to the house.
04:15He came bursting through our door, uninvited.
04:19Was Ken there?
04:20No.
04:21So listen, as Trish and Ken are talking about Marquez just walking in,
04:26I don't even know if there can be two sides of a story on that.
04:30Like, how are you just walking in to these people's house?
04:33He felt comfortable enough.
04:35You know, he's now stepping up.
04:36He's taking care of the kids.
04:37Maybe he just got comfortable and just decided that he should walk in.
04:41He came in there while Sharon and I was talking,
04:44and he immediately got hostile with her.
04:47With her?
04:48Does he know her?
04:49No.
04:50That's what she told him.
04:51She said, I've been knowing Trisha for four years.
04:52I have never seen you in my life.
04:53What was the initiate for him getting hostile?
04:55I don't know.
04:56I don't know.
04:57He just came in there with the chip on the shoulder.
04:59He came in there, like, immediately just upset for no reason.
05:03I literally just gave him a whole rundown.
05:06Because he asked me, he was like,
05:08man, how do you get along with her so well, man?
05:10And I literally told him, I was like,
05:12listen, bro, you have to learn how to compromise sometimes.
05:14Like, sometimes talk a little lower.
05:17Change your tone a little bit.
05:18Stop being so aggressive in your speech.
05:20Oh, I was just bringing my daughter to the house.
05:22He talks real aggressive and real angry.
05:23I was like, you didn't even know to bring your daughter
05:25to the house until Xavier told you.
05:27It's difficult to give advice to Kid and Trish about the Marquez
05:30situation because you got to tread lightly
05:33when there's children involved.
05:34But my experience with Kiowa and Kimmy.
05:37You act like you haven't given me a reason to have an issue.
05:40You keep acting like I came up with this by myself.
05:43What have I done to you?
05:44All of this stuff.
05:45Are you kidding me?
05:46What have I done to you?
05:47Why do you keep saying that?
05:48What have I done to you?
05:49You're talking about-
05:50Tagawa, you have been ill towards me from day one.
05:53If you don't have to have contention, don't have it.
05:55If you can foster a good relationship, do that.
05:58You know, ultimately, you guys are still parents.
06:01And you're going to have to co-parent for the rest of your life.
06:03So it might as well be a good relationship.
06:06So he hasn't been stepping up,
06:08but he stepped up in that situation, right?
06:10Well, yeah.
06:11Okay.
06:12I felt good.
06:13I said that was great.
06:14He did one good and one bad.
06:16A lot of the key to getting along is getting along.
06:20To me, I think that-
06:22Not to cut you off, but the thing about it is,
06:24we're there every day.
06:26The kids live with us.
06:28Go to our school and ask the principal who they know.
06:30Go to the teacher and ask the teacher who comes and sits in their class.
06:33They don't see them, they see me.
06:35No matter what, he's going to be your children's father.
06:38Yeah.
06:39Right?
06:40The kids are indifferent, he's going to be his father.
06:42It's how can we make sure that we do whatever it is that we can do the best possible way?
06:48And what's the best way to move forward?
06:50As a profession, I have to look at both sides of the coin.
06:54You know what I mean?
06:55Because at the end of the day, there's something that has him, you know, acting the way that he's acting.
07:00He still has to learn how to be respectful to me.
07:03Like, everybody wants me to respect the boundary as far as him being their father.
07:07Like, when do you respect the boundary of, you know, now this is-
07:10I know it might sound weird, but those are your kids, but this is my family now.
07:15And I was like, dude, I'm not trying to eliminate you as their father.
07:19You're doing that yourself by not being there.
07:23Like, it's weird.
07:24It's very weird to think that sometimes people would rather their children not like you than to like you.
07:32For them to actually like the step-parent turns out to be a problem.
07:38I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong, but I'm constantly trying to fix the problem.
07:42I'm the one that's constantly reaching out.
07:44I'm the one that's constantly letting you throw low blows and letting you say what you want to say and not saying nothing back.
07:51Can't stop this, cream of the crop, can't top this.
07:58I'm the best of the best, number one spot on your hot list.
08:02What you think this is?
08:03It's not a game, but I play to win.
08:05Might be insane, cause I'm crazy rich.
08:07So queer, the straight jacket never fits.
08:09Kiss the ring, cause I'm royalty.
08:13Kiss the ring.
08:15Hi, welcome in.
08:16Hello there.
08:17I am looking for, I guess, some dining room furniture, living room, and a couple bedrooms.
08:24Okay.
08:25Well, we do have a really great dining table over here.
08:27Okay.
08:28So today I'm meeting Destiny.
08:30I shared with her that I'm going to the furniture store.
08:32I need some furniture for my investment property.
08:35Arian's talking about moving in.
08:36I think it shows that I'm committed to her.
08:38We've made plans in terms of, you know, growing our lives together.
08:43This is a live edge table, so it's going to have a lot of great character to it.
08:47Yes, I see that.
08:48I'm going to just look throughout the store.
08:49Okay.
08:50And if I need some assistance, I'll holler back at you.
08:52Yeah.
09:01Hey.
09:02What's up?
09:03Hey, what's up?
09:04Trying to find some stuff.
09:05Good to see you.
09:06Good to see you too.
09:07I got some nice pieces up in here.
09:08It just depends on what one would be looking for.
09:10I got some...
09:11I need some things.
09:12You know, Jerrica's doing my space.
09:14Oh, really?
09:15I moved downstairs.
09:16Downstairs to where?
09:17So, remember when you came to the first location upstairs that you...
09:21You or your friend Lance was supposed to help.
09:23I know it looks like a storage.
09:24It looks like?
09:25It looks like a storage.
09:27But it's such an eclectic building.
09:29Every time a new place opens, people are converting them into boutiques, hair salons.
09:34Mine is more of a workspace, and I haven't decided if I want to open it to the public yet,
09:38but this is where I'm creating all of my products.
09:40Oh, so you got like a little store front.
09:41Correct.
09:42Oh, that's what's up.
09:43Yeah.
09:44What you looking for?
09:45So, moving Arianne and my son and her daughter into my career.
09:51I'm sorry to say what?
09:52Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
09:57I would like my brokerage office to be done first.
10:00On getting your brokerage office done?
10:03Yes.
10:04Yeah.
10:05I mean, I thought it was going to be pretty soon.
10:09The thing is, you got to see what you've done in this thing.
10:12What did you do?
10:13I didn't leave a long time ago.
10:15My dad told me on the day that we were getting married that it won't last five years.
10:19What you looking for?
10:22So, moving Arianne and my son and her daughter into my career.
10:28I'm sorry to say what?
10:29I'm moving her into my investment career.
10:32Oh.
10:33Yeah.
10:34Oh, okay.
10:35What?
10:36I'm like, wait, y'all moving in together?
10:38Nah.
10:39We can't live together until we get married or something like that, right?
10:42Oh, you want to do it right.
10:43So you gave her a ring?
10:44We're not engaged yet.
10:46Okay.
10:47You said yet.
10:48Yeah.
10:49Not yet.
10:50I mean, we're looking forward to all of that.
10:51Okay.
10:52You know the steps to it.
10:53You been looking at rings?
10:54A little bit.
10:57A little bit.
10:58So I would definitely say Arianne, she is wife of material.
11:01And that's the only reason I've been pondering on that, because she does have those qualities
11:06in terms of, you know, the respect is there, the taking care of me is there, the simple
11:13things, the cooking, making sure the family is good.
11:18I pay attention to all of that, to a person that I want to make my wife, because all that
11:23is important.
11:24I thought what a man knows, he knows.
11:25Like, it just...
11:26Oh, yeah.
11:27But you still got to take steps, especially when you 43 years old, and when you've been
11:31married before, and it seem fresh, and you got children.
11:35You got to make sure that you don't just make any...
11:37What seems fresh?
11:38My divorce.
11:39I'm still trying to shake off still, though.
11:41You know what I'm saying?
11:42Because I'm reminded in terms of having four children by her every day.
11:45Are you still stuck?
11:46No, I'm not stuck.
11:47I'm not even thinking about my...
11:48You just said you think about it every day.
11:51That's stuck, bruh.
11:53It's more of...
11:56I keep suggesting you go into therapy and, like, working with various people so you
12:00can get through that.
12:01Oh, there's counseling.
12:03I'm talking...
12:04Because you don't...
12:05That's why you're still stuck, bruh.
12:06No, I ain't stuck.
12:07You didn't have a conversation with somebody.
12:08I'm not stuck, I'm good.
12:09So for me, it's difficult to know when to stay and fight or to give up.
12:14But out of everybody, I would definitely think that Destiny would know.
12:18She would know about all this because, again, she's going through some of the same things
12:21that I'm going through.
12:23Well, somewhat.
12:24So what happened with you, Lance?
12:26I feel like I gave him an open-book test and he failed.
12:29Oh, damn.
12:30Just like a man, I had failed a few of them.
12:32Did you, like, break up with him?
12:35It just kind of fizzled out.
12:36You date to try to figure out if it's gonna be more and it never became more.
12:39So are you gonna be dating anyone else?
12:42If somebody piques my interest and they ask me out, I'm gonna say yes.
12:45I think Lance is an old soul, but I also think he has a lot of things going on in his life.
12:51And as far as relationship goes, I don't know if he was really ready for that.
12:55But, like, dating life is good. Great, actually.
13:01And I think Lance is a nice guy, just not the guy for me.
13:05Yeah, you need to let me coach you so you can get you a man.
13:08What? I'm serious. You probably do.
13:14No, thank you.
13:17No, thank you.
13:19Come.
13:24Come out...
13:26Come out.
13:38Come out.
13:39Purchasing 10 acres, up a 200-foot elevation, on the opposite side of a limestone rock quarry.
13:51Not understanding that you have to blast boulders the size of trucks.
13:57We put about 500 cubic yards of concrete.
14:01But when we got 18-inch steel I-beams, so no.
14:07Scott Manor is not a house.
14:09Scott Manor is definitely a mansion.
14:15Here comes the boss.
14:17Hey, girl.
14:18Woo!
14:19Is that the top of the house?
14:21How tall are those beams right there?
14:23That's going to be the top of the roof, maybe six inches down.
14:27Oh, wow.
14:28We've been building on Scott Manor since 2019.
14:32It has been a very long process.
14:34I feel like I've made plenty of sacrifices for this particular home.
14:39I'm happy we're starting to see something because the last time we was here it was just this right here.
14:44This wasn't up.
14:46None of this was up.
14:47Last time I was here, this wasn't here.
14:49Y'all are sitting to see something now, but it takes less time to do this than it does to prep the ground.
14:53It took us years to prep the ground.
14:56But look at this view.
14:57Look who we're walking out to.
14:59Bruh.
15:01We have three kids sharing one bathroom.
15:03So I'm so ready to move into Scott Manor.
15:07It's just so funny seeing how our kids are growing up and the personality they're taking.
15:11I'm super happy.
15:12They have, they're well-rounded.
15:14They're just intelligent.
15:15They're all 4.0 students.
15:17MJ's about to be 18.
15:19Tip your boy off to college.
15:22You excited about where he gonna go?
15:24No.
15:25I want him to go to Michigan.
15:27I'm sure.
15:28That's where he wants to go.
15:29I want him to go to Michigan.
15:29He's not ready to face it.
15:31MJ wants to go to college in Michigan.
15:33And of course, Marceau is okay with that because Marceau is from Michigan.
15:38However, I'm not okay.
15:40It's too far away.
15:42I need MJ to be a little bit closer.
15:44I need to better get in my car and reach him.
15:46I'm happy that.
15:48No, just to see like where we came from to where we're at right now.
15:52And this is like still the beginning of everything.
15:54Like it's not even like, we haven't even reached our peak yet.
15:58We're doing some stuff.
15:59We're finishing up the house on Whitehall.
16:01Yeah.
16:01And I hope we're finishing up Jordan Lane, Kimmy and Reese's project in a second.
16:05Man, I tell you, they got to get on the same page.
16:08Because Kimmy will tell me one thing and then I'll come talk to Marce.
16:11And he'll tell me something totally different.
16:13You probably should listen to Kimmy because this is her main project.
16:16I know, but it's so hard communicating.
16:21Well, I'm sure Kimmy has a very clear...
16:23No, they don't.
16:24Oh, because you've been working hard on Jordan Lane.
16:27Like I passed that the other day.
16:28I've been working hard on everything.
16:29It's looking really good.
16:31I'm a hard worker, teacher.
16:32I never said you wasn't.
16:33I would like my brokerage office to be done first.
16:35On getting your brokerage office done?
16:39Yes.
16:40Yeah.
16:40I mean, I thought it was going to be pretty soon.
16:50We hit some hiccups as far as HVAC concerns.
16:52We had to move the unit.
16:54So I got the guys to move the unit from there and put it in a whole different location.
16:58It's kind of centered the floor now.
16:59Do we have a time frame on that?
17:01You should be done in 30, 45 days?
17:0430 days.
17:0530 to 45 days.
17:05I hit 30 days.
17:07Can I give a yes on 30 days?
17:0930 to 45 days?
17:09Like 30 days.
17:11Wait, 30 business days, yes.
17:1230 days.
17:13Business days.
17:14No, no, no, no, no.
17:1530 days.
17:16Mark my calendar for that.
17:17You got yourself a husband, bro.
17:18Thanks, babe.
17:19You got yourself a hug or not?
17:21Okay, so Marceau thinks that I'm joking about completing my project, and I'm not.
17:25Scott Realty Buildout has been pushed back so many times over the past year.
17:302024 was a rough year for me.
17:33I lost a lot, a lot of family members.
17:36And I just want Marceau to hurry up and complete my project because 2025 is my year.
17:41I'm claiming it.
17:42This year, I just want to just celebrate, like, celebrate the big things and small things
17:47and just life in general.
17:49What are you thinking about?
17:50I don't know, but I do want to involve my mom in it.
17:54She got her food truck, like, it's been taking her a while to get that off the ground,
17:59so she got the food truck going now.
18:00Wait a minute, if we're trying to celebrate life, why would you invite your mom?
18:05Because that's a huge accomplishment for her.
18:07It's something she's been working towards.
18:09She hasn't completed now, so...
18:11I thought you were talking about some positive stuff, Tisha.
18:12You're talking about celebrating life and got me all excited, then you're going to bring
18:16your mom in.
18:17Is that what you did?
18:18Is that what the whole thing was food?
18:19And I got to bring her up here so I can show her where her room is going to be.
18:22No.
18:23Yes.
18:23We do have room for a mother-in-law.
18:26We have ten full acres.
18:29Now, I would say watch out for snakes and things like that.
18:32I haven't seen any, so she should be safe out there.
18:35And for food, we have plenty of wildlife.
18:39Dang.
18:39Trust me, she could talk a deer to death.
18:44Her room is going to be right here.
18:46She's going to be like, why y'all putting me in the corner?
18:47Her room is going to be over there somewhere, over the mountain down there.
18:52Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
18:55So you believe the whole time that she didn't want to get divorced, right?
18:59That's not.
18:59I gave her to Ken.
19:01I think we do need to set boundaries, have another conversation about boundaries.
19:09Set boundaries?
19:09We should have set boundaries two, three years ago when y'all started talking.
19:13We didn't need to.
19:14He was out of sight, out of mind.
19:15Let's go.
19:15Yo, Maurice, what up?
19:33How you doing?
19:34What's going on, my guy?
19:35How you doing, bro?
19:36Me and Kimi, we had a chance to catch up with Ken and Trish, and there was a lot of conversation
19:42about Marquez.
19:43So I felt like he's not gotten his just due.
19:46I need to have a one-on-one with him.
19:48Our dinner with Ken and Trish made me think about Marquez's side of the story.
19:51And the truth is, going through divorce is two sides to each coin, and I'd like for Marquez
19:56to, you know, share his side.
19:58How long are your time, man?
19:59I'm here as much time as I need to.
20:01Absolutely.
20:02That's what you're doing?
20:03Yes, sir.
20:04That's what's up?
20:05Man, honestly, I'm glad that I'm here because I wanted to talk to you about how my divorce
20:10kind of is playing out.
20:11When I went to go sign the papers, it said that we didn't have no minor children.
20:15You know, when I went to the choir house, they told me that if I had signed it, that
20:18I would have to prove that we had children.
20:20So I didn't sign it yet.
20:22Neither one of you guys have attorneys?
20:27No.
20:28You got somebody good for me?
20:30Well, I mean...
20:31You?
20:32No, I don't do that, bro.
20:33What type of...
20:34Okay.
20:35When it comes to, like, matters of the heart, you know, I don't usually get involved in
20:38stuff like that, brother.
20:39You can't ever win in situations like that.
20:41Usually what people do, they spend money, the lawyers get paid until they're out of money,
20:46and then the court decides.
20:48Yeah, no.
20:49We don't want to do that.
20:50No.
20:51So the main thing to you is your children, right?
20:53The main thing is the children, but the main thing is also to resolve this issue with me
20:57and Trish.
20:58Until we resolve that, our children are still going to be infected.
21:01She's done a lot of different things to make it difficult for me to see my daughter without
21:06me having to force myself on her.
21:08Like, last week I stopped by the house to take Zaria home, and I walk in, and she's having
21:12a conversation with her friend and a guest about me, and it turns into a whole situation
21:17where this lady don't even know me, but she's already getting these opinions.
21:20So my main thing is figuring out how to work with Trish, because me and Ken have been,
21:24we've had a conversation.
21:25Did you reach out to him?
21:27No, he reached out to me.
21:28He reached out, and I ain't gonna lie, I felt like he had some motives, but then,
21:34you know, hour one, hour two, hour three, I'm like, hold on.
21:38And then next thing you know, I understand why Trish loved him so much.
21:41Because she's just like her dad, everything she ever wanted.
21:44And that's not me, and that's what we gotta work through, man, is she always wanted me
21:48to be her dad, and I'm not him.
21:49I don't really think Marquez is an introspective guy.
21:52However, he lets on to be.
21:55But I think there's more to the breakdown of Marquez and Trish's marriage, especially
22:00more than just, you know, he wasn't like her father.
22:05There's always multiple sides to a story.
22:08The thing is, you gotta see what you've done in this thing.
22:12What did you do?
22:13What did I do?
22:15I didn't leave a long time ago.
22:18When was the long time ago?
22:21After the first year, when I knew we weren't supposed to be together.
22:25Gotcha.
22:26So what was it?
22:27I felt sorry for her.
22:28My dad told me on the day that we were getting married that it won't last five years.
22:32You wanted to prove him wrong?
22:33Yeah.
22:34And I really think that that really drove me.
22:36Because when that five-year mark came and I made it, I just was like, yeah.
22:40Mm-hmm.
22:41It lasted more than five years.
22:43Seven, ten, twelve.
22:46You know, I think year ten I really didn't want to be there.
22:49But then we had these situations with her family members and I couldn't leave her.
22:53Like, I understand she felt like I left her, but I couldn't leave her, bro.
22:56The thing that doesn't make sense to me though, if you're working a job and you don't even
23:01want that job and you are putting in your two-week notice, right?
23:06And then they said, you know what?
23:08We really don't want you.
23:09Why would you still want to be there?
23:11Well, Trish never said she didn't want me.
23:17That's what divorce papers are.
23:19Yeah, but I filed a divorce.
23:21She don't want to divorce me for real.
23:23She also filed.
23:24She filed because Kim made her file.
23:29So you believe the whole time that she didn't want to get divorced, right?
23:33Of course not.
23:34I gave her to Kim.
23:38If I wanted her back, I could have her.
23:40It's not about that.
23:43I got a chance to hear Marquez's side of this story.
23:46And the truth is, Trish doesn't want you the way that you think she does.
23:50And the sooner that he's able to realize that, he'll be able to move on.
23:55Like, I lost my best friend, to be honest.
23:58You know?
23:59I still love her, but not in a way where, like, I want to be with her.
24:02But I'm going to always be there for us.
24:04In the ideal world.
24:05Divorce finalized.
24:08My son moves with me.
24:09My daughter continues, you know, on her journey in dance.
24:13Me and Ken, we continue to build our relationship.
24:15Me and Trish build our relationship.
24:16And then we take a vacation.
24:18One big happy family.
24:20Maybe I'll have a girlfriend.
24:24Am I setting unrealistic expectations on what my relationship should be?
24:28Oh, I believe so.
24:29I believe so.
24:30What does it look like with your ex?
24:31Do y'all hang out?
24:32Do y'all talk?
24:33We don't really hang out and talk.
24:35Even if you graduate to the point to where you're cordial and everything's good,
24:39that still ain't friendship, like, to the point to where you're talking about.
24:42Best friend?
24:47Yeah, no.
24:48Yeah, I think you might want to find a new girl.
24:50Yeah, no, we can reconsider that.
24:52I'm going to find my new best friend.
24:53Yeah, I think that you might want to find that in somebody new.
24:56Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
24:59You get no cool points for doing what you're supposed to do.
25:02And you don't get no cool points for being the boyfriend
25:05and doing what you're supposed to do because you live here, my guy.
25:07Let me tell you, the only way we're going to be able to go forward
25:09is by holding yourself accountable.
25:11Yeah, you are the cause of all this.
25:13You are the common denominator, right?
25:33How's your birthday?
25:35I don't know, but besides school it was fine.
25:37I cannot believe, MJ, you're getting so old.
25:41You're not my little baby anymore.
25:43I can't believe it.
25:45Today is MJ's 18th birthday.
25:47And I really just want to spend as much time with him as I can
25:51before he goes off to college.
25:53He's not a little boy anymore.
25:55anymore and time spent with mom is getting very very small i was 25 years old when i had you
26:03and you're graduating in 2025. isn't that crazy it's almost like you planned it this is just not
26:09another birthday like this is like your 18th birthday this is like a big birthday like you're
26:14legal like you can vote you're graduating high school you want to go to going to college but
26:20you want to go like away why you want to go so far away from me there's a possibility you would
26:26never live in huntsfield again you know the thing is when i left home to go to college like i never
26:33went back i never moved back home with my parents if you go to michigan for real mj i'm going to get
26:40me on townhouse like around the corner from your campus i don't think so why i don't think they
26:48allow parents within a certain radius to the school they don't care who purchased land outside
26:55of the campus i'm not gonna be on campus with you but i need to come visit you at least once
27:04a week okay every other weekend do you think that's too much yeah i'll always get to call mom at least
27:13weekly though so you know oh you're not gonna be calling me weekly you're gonna be calling me
27:18every day i'm gonna be facetiming you every night before you go to sleep he's excited to go off to
27:22college and fly and i want him to fly but i also want him to know that mom is still right here i'm
27:30touchable so are you worried about like leaving me no you're not at all why are you gonna miss your dad
27:44probably i'll just miss him a little more mom dad's kind of like a pillar for me
27:53okay okay so what am i to you then
28:05hmm probably like a line that just keeps me straight
28:10nobody sees all the work that we as moms have to do to keep the house flowing marzo allows the kids to
28:17get away with a lot that i do not i have to enforce the rules i have to enforce and make sure things get
28:24done around the house with marzo they laugh and joke and play games so yeah i would want that cool father
28:29too i'm always going to be worried about you you're always going to be a concern of mine like just because
28:35you're away in college don't mean that you you're not my child anymore you're still my child
28:41this is to death do us part you're always going to have home no matter where you go how far you go
28:46away there's always going to be like a place for you in our household you always have a safe place okay
28:52and i know i always have a place to go visit
28:59coming up on love and marriage huntsville this is where you gonna get out ken how about that i'll put
29:08you out yeah y'all better bro y'all better do what better do get out get out man bro
29:29oh yeah getting it all ready trying to like zarya dance tomorrow you got everything packed i got it
29:39together this time we're getting ready for zarya's first competition of the season it's very hectic
29:46because there's so many little details that goes into each costume each dance but i'm excited to see
29:53how it goes i'm tired you're tired what you got going apple juice okay you all right though
30:01as i'm gonna be yeah so i decided to sit in on this conversation with marquez and ken um and i also
30:08invited sharon because i feel like marquez owes her a much-needed apology we do need to clear the air
30:13i think he definitely owes sharon an apology i felt like you know after all the conversations me and him
30:18have had we had a better understanding but obviously we don't and um i'm willing to hear
30:24him out maybe just this one more time but uh i think this is about i still feel it's not gonna go
30:29well i think so nope i know you're frustrated but we we gotta set set up some some boundaries and some
30:39you know make sure people understand their roles in this situation so i just want you to be open to
30:48listening and i feel like we never really have an issue until he comes around so you know we got to
30:57nip that in the bud and make sure that you know everybody again understands their role yeah before
31:04i go from zero to a million yeah we know how to do that with marquez we've had a conversation or two
31:10about boundaries but i don't know if i've always been as direct as i need to be like in his mind
31:17you know that's my wife those are my kids i can do what i want and that's just realistically not how
31:24it goes that's dumb i've ever heard how it's going to go with me i mean he does have some points
31:30that we need to listen to i'm not saying that all of them are valid but we still gotta you know allow
31:37him to express himself the way he feels let me get that one come on in hello we don't get to
31:53open the door this is crazy work what's up it's cold you all right man did you say come in baby come
32:01on come on come on oh man what's going on you all right boy i'm good what's going on man so i mean you
32:09know why why are we here okay when i turned out can i get a drink asking ken where's his where his
32:18drink is he gives you this energy i know him he's going to give you this soft weak link but then he's
32:27going to get under your skin and try to piss you off kick him this little hot dog he's going to piss me
32:31off um i was gone the other day when the whole little incident went down um i think it's kind
32:40of frustrating for me because we've had conversations about you know trying to do better being better and
32:46i feel like that situation kind of put us backwards but i think we do need to set boundaries have another
32:54conversation about boundaries said boundaries we should have said boundaries two two three years ago
32:59when y'all started talking matter of fact it should have been boundaries before anybody came into the
33:02picture and that's my fault yeah you're right we never we never had that conversation no we didn't
33:06need to you was out of sight out of mine oh you were out of sight out of mine
33:12okay so recently you know i picked up zarya the day that i came over when i walk in
33:19it's automatic hostility animosity you came into my house uninvited marques and i are getting a divorce
33:27ken and i live here you don't live here i mean it's not rocket science you just don't barge in
33:32someone's house especially when you don't live there okay how about this ken ken boundary said now
33:36what donna said i want i'll make sure i call i'll make sure that i knock on the door that's
33:41like now what are we doing now hold on hold on what are we doing but here's the thing this is why
33:46this conversation what are we doing now go get that this is why the conversation has to be had
33:50because marquez you saying you're speaking as if somebody is asking you to do something that isn't
33:56to me already understood or like bro i just wouldn't walk in your house
34:02bro i did not walk in the house ken you gotta understand that's my daughter she opened the door
34:06bro what is you saying i'm not gonna let her walk in with two drinks and three bags bro i don't care if
34:10it was my house my granny house her house somebody else's house i'm not letting her walk in with two
34:15drinks and three bags bro i apologize you should stay at the doorstep now okay well guess what you should
34:19have handled it differently you should have been more mature yes you should have said what because
34:23you you came already on the rip and i don't even know this lady because this lady came in you have
34:28never done it before hold on hold on no matter of fact would you like to introduce me sharon
34:33fed off my energy how you doing you have never my name is marquez thank you i would like to apologize
34:37for the energy because i felt like i don't know you right and when i came in because i thought we were
34:42in a better position right because i didn't want my daughter to walk in with these bags okay that's my
34:46mindset hear me hear me out hear me okay let's get past that part would you like to sit down please
34:52thank you here you go you want something to drink no i'm good okay can i get something to drink because
34:56i'm kind of thirsty i'm sorry i didn't bring that because i didn't know okay but next time i'll bring
35:00a bottle so what made you feel like you can impugn my character what what made you feel like you had
35:04to demean me in front of this lady who you said is your close friend right there's no need to express
35:10anything that happened in the past the past is past let's live in the present let's get the do what we
35:14gotta do for the kids and let's keep it moving how can we how can hold on how can we get past that
35:19how hold on hold on because i really don't care but you should care if you really cared about the
35:24kids you should care no i care about the kids i don't care about hold on hold on because if you
35:28cared you wouldn't be doing all this bro you're broken let me say this here's the thing marquez
35:32i would like for both of you like because i tell her this stop bringing the kids in the middle of
35:38situations listen listen listen no they're not yes they are i'm gonna tell you i'm gonna be 100 with you
35:42we're being honest with each other right now these kids aren't traumatized about nothing do they
35:46miss you do does xavier miss having a certain relationship with you yes but are they going
35:52through some traumatic situation where they're just so hurt no they're not their mother is traumatizing
35:57them bro no no listen bro what do you mean no they're not they're not bro first of all y'all first
36:03of all me and my kids have our conversation y'all don't know what we're talking about no you can't
36:08assure me anything when it comes to my children can okay well you can't assure me anything when
36:12it comes to my children you want to know how the conversations no you can't you can't i'm the
36:16active bro i'm active bro hold on hold on hold on hold on you i'm letting my emotions we can't go
36:20back it's not going back the reality of it is it feels like my kids listen to me this is the reality
36:25those are your kids right correct you can agree to that right absolutely but right now this is my family
36:30this is the reality those are your kids right correct you can agree to that right absolutely
36:44but right now this is my family
36:48it's my family it is the family no you're the boyfriend to trish no it's my and you're you're
36:54the bonus guy like you said right you're the bonus but it's still my family it's still my family what
36:59does family we live family we live together give what's the we do everything together guess what
37:05i take zaria to dance i pick her up from dance her competition are you gonna be at her competition
37:09tomorrow absolutely did i not give you money bro you gave me 500 you know how much cost and stuff
37:15like you get no no cool points for doing what you're supposed to do and you don't get no cool
37:19points i'm not trying to for being the boyfriend and doing what you're supposed to do because you live
37:23here my guy tell you the only way we're going to be able to go forward is by holding yourself
37:27accountable and being real with yourself bro i'm being real yeah because because at the end of the
37:33day real with yourself at the end of the day you are the cause of all this you are the common denominator
37:39right and take accountability but it starts with you and if you're not ready and he's not gonna be
37:45ready then i'm not gonna be ready the way he talks to trisha he talks her as if he has that right
37:51to be disrespectful and he's doing it in my face now i don't care what nobody else do you're not
37:56gonna disrespect my woman in my face you know where i was at tonight i'm juggling being here i had
38:01to go to alex's football games i'm all i'm active they see me in the flesh not a text message not a
38:07phone call they see me and they saw me and xavier saw me so i'm here bro i'm in husville i'm here now
38:15i'm here now now what does it look like how do we set up these boundaries hold on the divorce right
38:21i called the courthouse they said we wait for a court date because obviously you put on there said we
38:25had no minor children bro that's a lie bro we can go prove it bro yeah go get the edited version at
38:33the end of the day marquez definitely knows that the kid's name on that paperwork um and it's so
38:37frustrating because you know he has the same paperwork that we're presenting to him i just feel like the
38:43guy just loves yeah he just loves picking and you know he sees that this is almost you know the end of
38:51the road for them being married and him having that access to her and i just think he doesn't
38:56he's he's not ready to let it go what's the date stamped on that at the courthouse september 19th
39:00and what does it say no minor children what does it say something about no minor what does it say
39:05what is that what does it say where let me see hold on why are you showing it to her who's naming stuff on
39:09there why are you saying it to her where it's already hey that's why you gotta stop lying bro
39:15what am i lying about bro that's why you gotta stop lying you said that the kid's name
39:19weren't on there the kid's name are right there we got reassigned because you could test it who's the
39:22judge so we got reassigned right because you put on there that we didn't have no minor children
39:26right here you don't come man get your job bro bro i'm gonna do it look it says it right there
39:33zayga burnett zarya reed exactly man stop lying relax here's the thing marquez hey marquez sit
39:40down just sit down just sit down i'm gonna sit down you're gonna sit down or you're gonna get out
39:46ken how about that or you're gonna get out can't stop are you going to get out no point
39:50on appeal you're going to get out it is what it is i'll put you out we can do it that way
39:56damn bro like you make this right there are we moving forward it's right you want
40:00we can't do it right when you say dude bro are you are you serious it's right here bro that has
40:06nothing to do bro this is the line this is the one it's right here it's right here
40:12stop lying all the time dude what's about you and this is about walking in my house
40:17you just did it again you just did it again hey y'all better bro y'all better do what better do
40:23get off get off get off man bro get out of here it's gonna be dead get it get it stop
40:30next on love and marriage huntsville growing up when me and him were both in the house you would
40:37always come ask me to do stuff i didn't really like that did you feel difference in love like i love
40:43monster more uh what are you going to do when marquez pops back up you can't get away from this so here's
40:50the thing i'm not dealing with but you do though you guys keep trying to talk and then no no no it's
40:55not i'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings and trying to i'm almost treating him
40:59you ain't trying to marry him lance had mentioned wanting to hang out with ken he had got a call
41:05saying he needed to get back he had baby on the way in labor when i started on social media i was
41:11side on you i was like not nail having him a destiny date he had a whole girl pregnant the whole time
41:19i was actually talking to jaylen he came by he actually failed he's not asking for help he thinks
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