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00:00MUSIC
00:18Oh, hi, Abraham.
00:19Hi, Ben. I'm all right?
00:21Mm-hmm. Yeah.
00:23Have you thought about what's happened, the deception?
00:26Well, I left the room to have a bit of space for Abraham
00:31because he's put single in his social network.
00:35I don't know if he's the man who he says he is.
00:38Is he playing me?
00:40You know, I don't know what to think at the moment.
00:42Yeah, I'm sorry you were upset.
00:45The last time you left, you said I should leave you alone.
00:50So that's why I tried to go on Facebook
00:53and tried to annoy you and tried to convince you to come back to me.
00:58I did it as a joke.
01:01It doesn't seem a very good sort of joke, does it?
01:05Why did you say you didn't have social media?
01:08Yeah, because it was temporarily.
01:11I don't know, one month or something like that.
01:15What, so...?
01:15So it was not there permanently.
01:17Or maybe I didn't delete it properly.
01:20It does sound a bit cock and ball.
01:23I'm not very good on the phone.
01:25Can you check and see?
01:27Yeah.
01:28No social media there.
01:31No, really, I don't have anything to hide.
01:36See?
01:38Not in there.
01:39Oh, it has gone then.
01:40Oh, good.
01:41It's a trust thing now, so how do I know I can trust you in the future?
01:45Yeah, you can trust me, because...
01:47How do I know, though?
01:48You've put a doubt in my mind now, and it's upset me a lot,
01:52because I really love you, and I don't want to jeopardise
01:56my time, my effort, my energy into you
02:00if you're not trustworthy.
02:01Yeah, of course, forgive me for these times.
02:05I think I will, because I'm a forgiving person,
02:07and I think we should start afresh from now on.
02:11What do you think?
02:11Yeah, of course, that will be OK.
02:13But I will be keeping an eye out.
02:15If there's any more inaccuracies with any social medias,
02:20then you could be in a lot of trouble.
02:22Trouble.
02:22So be careful.
02:23I need to confront Ibrahim about these disgusting photos
02:29that I found on his social media of women scantily clad.
02:35Now, I was holding off,
02:38because these photos are my prime ammunition,
02:42and as a woman, I'm a little bit devious,
02:44and I always hold back the best till last.
02:48So I'll be confronting them about that at the right time.
02:52We'll wait and see.
02:54I don't want to be in a trouble again.
02:56Tomorrow I'll take you to the village, to the family,
02:59to try to convince you to forgive me,
03:02and then we'll go back to good times.
03:04Yeah, yeah, that'll be good.
03:06Ibrahim's taking me to meet his family,
03:09and that does mean a lot.
03:10I'm going to enjoy my time in the village,
03:12but I'm also going to be looking
03:14for any other discrepancies that might come to light.
03:22One of the best moments of my life
03:45has definitely been reconnecting with Sandra.
03:47When I first met Sandra 17 years ago,
03:51there was a spark,
03:52but I never thought that spark would stay alive.
03:55And now I'm in Brazil after spending eight months apart,
03:59so this trip will be a real test for me and for her.
04:02It's going to be the first time
04:03that I'm going to be beating all of her extended family.
04:09Embarrassing.
04:09It's also the longest time that we'll be together.
04:13Yay! Saved one!
04:16Come on, then.
04:16Let Julia play.
04:18Sandra's sister was meant to be looking after the kids,
04:20but somehow we've ended up looking after her kid.
04:24Buy two, get one free.
04:27And straight out there.
04:29It's good.
04:37What's this name?
04:38What's his name?
04:38It's so scary to me to be a parental-like figure.
04:42But if that's what Sandra wants,
04:44I'm ready to give that a go.
04:46One, two, three.
04:48I should count and import skis.
04:50Uno, dos, tres, cuatro,
04:53quick, five.
04:55So I'll try and embrace it
04:56and we'll play a game of hide and seek.
04:59That's all I can think of.
05:01They're not here in the washing machine.
05:03Hopefully not.
05:04No.
05:06Could one of them fit under?
05:08Oh, that was good.
05:09Oh, you hid behind there.
05:10So you won.
05:12Well, you're meant to stay.
05:13You're meant to hide.
05:16Running around with the kids in a tiny apartment.
05:19It is chaos.
05:22It's just exhausted me.
05:25And I've got to ask myself,
05:28do I want this life?
05:31We've had two hours of this
05:32and I guess it makes me miss
05:34some aspects of normal life.
05:36It's normal for me.
05:38I think I've sort of numbed myself to it
05:40and just, you know,
05:42a bit stoic about everything.
05:44Finn's being over the top.
05:47He needs to do things like stepfather.
05:50I don't know.
05:54Um, I didn't choose this.
05:56This is the reality.
05:57There we go.
05:58Done.
05:59I chose the love of Sandra, sure,
06:01but I didn't choose anything else
06:02that came with it.
06:03Good luck.
06:03Good luck.
06:04It's a person.
06:04Good luck.
06:06Could I do this day to day?
06:07The answer is definitely not.
06:09Good morning.
06:32Good morning, darling.
06:33Me and Mete have got a fiery relationship.
06:37We argue, we make up.
06:39We argue, we make up.
06:41That's us.
06:41But I'd like to have less arguments.
06:43There's just a lot of tension this morning.
06:48Mete's being so quiet.
06:50I can tell he's still thinking about me
06:52not picking up the phone to Jay.
06:54I just want to get this resolved once and for all.
06:59I need to apologize.
07:00I should have just answered the phone,
07:03but I just worry.
07:04I want you to get along.
07:05I want you to be good.
07:07Maybe this morning we call Jay.
07:09If you want, darling.
07:12I don't want to make you upset.
07:14My first priority to you, we can talk.
07:18I do worry about the doubts that could be in Mete's mind,
07:21but I just want to prove to him
07:23that I've got nothing to hide.
07:25Let's talk.
07:27Okay.
07:28If you want, you talk first.
07:31No problem.
07:33We talk together.
07:35And I think the best thing to do
07:36is just call Jay and get this over and done with.
07:39Hello.
07:41Hello.
07:42You okay?
07:42Yeah, Mete is here.
07:44Hello.
07:48Yeah.
07:53Yeah, okay.
08:00It has upset me what you think about me.
08:04Oh, yeah.
08:05Yeah.
08:06How awkward is this?
08:12Do I really have to be here?
08:14I don't think about the visa anytime.
08:17You know, it was only out of concern for Shannon
08:20and making sure that she was all right.
08:23Jay, I don't understand why you worry.
08:28Shannon is my girlfriend.
08:29It is my work.
08:30It is my job.
08:32I am worried about the Shannon.
08:34Why would he want the visa to come to England anyway?
08:37Look.
08:37Just looking out for you.
08:38Appreciate it.
08:39I need to explain myself.
08:42You think me wrong.
08:44Shannon, my priority.
08:46I don't want to get upset with Shannon.
08:50I love really Shannon.
08:52You know, I, obviously I've, to be honest, that sounds really nice.
08:59Seeing that makes me go, yeah, everything's fine.
09:05Yeah.
09:06Everything's good.
09:07Not knowing, but we just, we get to see you sometimes.
09:10Yeah, that's it.
09:11Like, no one's ever met him.
09:13Same time, you and Shannon, really good friends.
09:17I don't want to damage your friendship.
09:21I want everyone is happy.
09:24Yeah.
09:24All we needed to really do was sit and talk, and we've done that, and it's been great.
09:30I feel better.
09:31I am explaining myself.
09:33You can't talk about me this style now.
09:35We're going to get off.
09:37Have fun.
09:38Thank you very much.
09:39All right, see you.
09:40Bye.
09:41Bye.
09:42Now, we forgot about everything.
09:45Shannon seems now happy.
09:47Okay, if you're happy, I am happy.
09:49I love the Shannon.
09:51I once spent all my life together.
09:55Now, I know what I do.
09:57It is the really big decision of my life.
10:02I am as good.
10:04Shannon, will you marry me?
10:07It is what I want.
10:10Smiley face.
10:12I'm hoping we can just put all this behind us now and enjoy our time together.
10:17Mette's planned a little trip for us, so it'll be nice to get away for a few days.
10:23Let's go get packed.
10:25Let's go, let's go, let's go.
10:27But there are a few worries.
10:29We've managed to communicate better today, but who knows how long that's going to last.
10:34Do you pack the bags?
10:35I am coming.
10:36What the fuck I unpacked the bags?
10:38Help me.
10:40I know we've managed to resolve this issue with Jay, but we need to keep this up.
10:44If me and Mette keep arguing, I don't know how we're going to move forward.
10:48We can't sustain such a rocky relationship.
10:51Miley, look, everything yours here.
10:54Not everything mine.
10:56Miley, what's your problem?
10:57The tree, don't get the tree.
11:25My name is Andrew.
11:34I'm 36 years old, and I'm from Watford.
11:39I'm a software engineer.
11:42Sorry, can I stop a second?
11:44I've got really boring jobs.
11:48I don't know, how do I spice that up?
11:53Well.
11:53My job definitely doesn't suit my personality.
11:59I love flying drones.
12:01I love being around nature, out in the wilderness.
12:05Any chance I get to have an adventure, I'm always up for it.
12:10I'm probably a bit crazy, impulsive.
12:14I actually spent a year as a busker.
12:17But it's worth all of the risk for the adventures that I've had.
12:25We are recording, so...
12:27Welcome, everybody.
12:28How are you doing, Andy?
12:29Yeah, I'm not too bad.
12:31My job may be boring, but my podcast is bonkers.
12:34How many bones would you have, I guess, that you've broken it?
12:36I've lost count.
12:38I have brittle bones.
12:41They x-rayed my spine once, and I had 118 micro fractures.
12:45The podcast is really just two idiots in wheelchairs.
12:49Talking about everything from dating and relationships.
12:53Literally spent like a whole weekend with this girl.
12:55And then she told me she was a lesbian.
12:57Shit!
12:59To the mad adventures we've had together.
13:01Like, when was the last time you've broken a bone?
13:03Went to the bar, got my two rum and cokes.
13:06And as I was walking back, tripped over my own feet.
13:08Now, here is slightly drunk Andy's logic.
13:12I've got a skeleton that could break very easily.
13:14What am I going to save?
13:16Obviously, the rum and cokes.
13:17It's got to be the rum.
13:18So I like supermanned, as I felt, to try and balance these drinks.
13:22Landed face first on the floor.
13:24I don't really walk anymore.
13:26My condition hasn't held me back in life,
13:28but it's definitely held me back in finding true love.
13:34I wanted somebody to share my life with.
13:37And I started thinking about these memories of being in hospital
13:40with these amazing Filipino nurses
13:42who were just the kindest, most caring people.
13:45So I went specifically on a website
13:47that was for meeting Filipino people.
13:49And then I met Ara.
13:50The first thing I noticed was her deep brown eyes.
13:56I just thought she looked really beautiful.
13:58There was something that pulled me in.
14:00And when we started talking,
14:02she was genuinely interested in who I was.
14:04She was asking me loads of questions
14:06about my life, about my job.
14:09I told her about my disability
14:11and her first response was,
14:12I don't care.
14:13And she was okay with it,
14:14which is, I've never experienced that before.
14:16It was very unexpected.
14:22I mean, I wasn't sure if it was genuine
14:23or she's catfishing me or something.
14:25There were all these different thoughts
14:27going through my head.
14:28How are you?
14:29How was your day?
14:30Fine.
14:30What are you up to now?
14:34It's nothing.
14:37But I really have fallen hard for Ara.
14:40So I have to just trust her.
14:43You mum okay?
14:45Um, yeah, I'll be going there once this fall.
14:50As I did.
14:50Yeah.
14:51Yeah.
14:52We've never met in person before.
14:53We've only known each other
14:54for just a short amount of time.
14:56But completely in love with her.
15:00All right.
15:01Okay.
15:03You want to go?
15:05I need to take care of my mum outside.
15:08All right.
15:09How about beautiful?
15:10Okay.
15:11I love you.
15:22I told my friends and family
15:24as little as possible.
15:27A few of my close friends,
15:28I said that I'd met this person
15:29and I kind of downplayed it.
15:32Today, I'm meeting with my friend, Abby.
15:35Hey.
15:36Hey.
15:37You all right?
15:38How are you?
15:38Good to see you.
15:39I really value Abby's opinion.
15:42Thanks so much.
15:43Goodness for you.
15:44How have you been?
15:45Busy.
15:46Yeah.
15:47Yeah.
15:48How's Ara?
15:49She's good.
15:50Yeah, she's amazing.
15:51I'll be honest.
15:52Like, when you first said
15:54that you were dating someone online
15:56from the Philippines,
15:57we were a bit like,
15:59oh, is this okay?
16:01Like, a bit worried.
16:03A lot of people thought that, I think.
16:04Yeah.
16:05I've watched a lot of, like,
16:06catfish TV.
16:07Yeah, me too.
16:07Yeah, it does make me a little bit worried.
16:13Everyone's saying that.
16:15So, do you think she's real?
16:17I mean, I was a bit worried.
16:19Really?
16:19Yeah, I just thought, like,
16:21what if this person doesn't exist?
16:22But, you know, I just saw her
16:24and I thought,
16:24this is the person for me.
16:27So, I'm going to go out to the Philippines
16:29to meet her in person.
16:30I don't know if it's brave or stupid.
16:38I mean, going out to the Philippines,
16:41it is objectively mental.
16:45How long was the flight?
16:46In total, it's about 30 hours of travel.
16:5030 hours?
16:51Yeah.
16:51Andy.
16:55So, Andy and I both have bristle bones.
16:57We have had similar issues with our spines
17:00and, personally,
17:01I would never, ever go on a 30-hour flight.
17:05What's the access like?
17:07It's not great.
17:10I can't imagine going there
17:12and just trusting someone
17:13that I've never met before.
17:15I have often been worried about Andy
17:17because he does make reckless decisions
17:19and he takes risks.
17:22I just feel like all of this
17:23is happening very quickly.
17:24I mean, it's kind of
17:26what I've always been like.
17:27I know, yeah.
17:29I think she's understandably
17:31a bit worried
17:31that I'm travelling 30-plus hours
17:34across the world
17:35on my own in a wheelchair
17:37to go and meet somebody
17:39that I've never met in person before.
17:44So much that could go wrong
17:46and so many risks.
17:49Is it worth it?
17:51Yeah.
17:51I know that sounds crazy,
17:54but, yeah.
17:57If you love somebody,
17:58you love somebody.
17:59You can't help that,
18:00no matter how crazy it is.
18:01I think tonight will be fun, though.
18:20Did you get a cake?
18:21I think I also got a cake.
18:23Tonight, we're going to a family barbecue.
18:25It's her sister's birthday.
18:27I'm going to be beating lots of family members
18:29for the first time.
18:30I do have some nerves here
18:31because I've got to try
18:33and speak some Portuguese.
18:34I know very little.
18:36I am really worried about it
18:37and I don't want to let you down.
18:39That's the main thing
18:40in the whole world.
18:42My honor.
18:42I really love Sandra.
18:44She brings an awful amount of joy,
18:47happiness,
18:47and I want to impress Sandra's family.
18:51Ten minutes and we'll be there.
18:53Ten minutes.
18:54Si.
18:55When coming here,
18:57I want him to spend time
19:00with my family and my kids.
19:03Hello.
19:04Hello.
19:04Hello.
19:05At the end of this trip,
19:07I hope he can decide
19:09this is the place he wants to be.
19:12Hello.
19:14Good to see you.
19:15Hello.
19:16Hello.
19:16I have a huge family.
19:19I wish him all good luck.
19:22Wow.
19:40What are they singing?
19:42It's her birthday, yes?
19:50That's everyone, right?
19:51There's no one else.
19:52Oh, it's another one
19:53going to appear through the walls.
19:58It's just a sea of people.
20:01I don't know the place.
20:02I don't know the language.
20:04This is totally not my world
20:06whatsoever.
20:07And breathe.
20:10It's unusual, this.
20:12That's a lot of people.
20:15Shall we sit down?
20:19I'm just going to hide here.
20:20When I'm with my family,
20:22I like to spend time with him.
20:24And Finn just sits on the sofa.
20:27I don't want to do that.
20:28What's the Wi-Fi password?
20:31And he is here in Brazil.
20:33He needs to communicate with my family.
20:37He needs this too, Matt.
20:38He needs this.
20:39Yes.
20:39Yes.
20:40Yes.
20:44The brother, yeah, Erasmus.
20:47He is full on.
20:50And we've got a whole night of this.
20:52I'm staying on this couch.
21:04I'm staying right here.
21:06Absolutely humiliating.
21:20I didn't expect it.
21:21I didn't want it.
21:22And the sooner we forget about that,
21:24the better.
21:25Welcome to my family.
21:27Can you stay for a little bit?
21:32It's quite hard work, this.
21:35I'm really not feeling comfortable enough
21:36to interact with everyone.
21:38So far, our brother's come along.
21:39He's picked me up.
21:40There's a lot just dealing with him.
21:42I just need to take stuff and breathe.
21:45You should learn Portuguese.
21:47Yes, I know.
21:47But at this stage,
21:49it's difficult saying that now.
21:50I can't just learn Portuguese in a night.
21:54I'm in the shit here.
21:55I'm really struggling.
21:57Because I need you like I've never needed you before.
21:59I am not going to be up all the time.
22:02So this is how it's going to be.
22:04Can you do that?
22:07No, but I don't think I have a choice.
22:09Yes, I'm sorry.
22:10Just stay for a little bit,
22:11because really, my heart rate is still going.
22:14There's a lot going on.
22:16Finn's been very dramatic.
22:18He didn't try,
22:19and I didn't like that.
22:21Honey, this is how my family moves.
22:23It's either sink or swim.
22:25And at the moment, I'm sinking.
22:27Don't leave me.
22:29I'm properly scared.
22:30I use laughter as a defense mechanism.
22:33When I feel uncomfortable, I laugh.
22:34When I think something's funny, I laugh.
22:36There's no difference.
22:37I want to go there.
22:39Eat.
22:40Be with my family.
22:42Oh, dear.
22:45Sandra's just run away,
22:47which is genuinely annoying,
22:48because I've got to fend for myself.
22:51I'm annoyed with Sandra
22:52that she's just done that.
22:54I need her.
22:56If I could get off this sofa now
22:58and run,
22:59I would.
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23:18Oh, my days.
23:19Oh, my days.
23:20Oh, my days.
23:21Oh, my days.
23:22Oh, my days.
23:23Oh, my days.
23:24Oh, my days.
23:25Oh, my days.
23:26We're on the ferry to meet Ibraham's family.
23:29I'm meeting them for the first time,
23:30so I'm really excited.
23:32But I'm also on a mission looking for anything that would lead me to believe that he's not
23:39been honest with me.
23:41I can't wait to see my room that you made for me, because I'm excited.
23:45Oh, okay.
23:46I even forgot.
23:47Oh, how could you forget?
23:49Most of the excitement.
23:50I forgot to tell you.
23:51Ah, ah, ah.
23:52That's so exciting.
23:53Ibraham's built me a room in his house, and I think that's really sweet, and I can't
23:59wait to see it.
24:00Let me show you Xena's room.
24:07It's going to be amazing.
24:13As you can see, it's still not really ready.
24:20A lot of things to do.
24:21But God is great.
24:23Maybe very soon I'll be able to finish it.
24:26Inshallah.
24:28Oh, isn't it lovely?
24:34Oh, look.
24:35I'm glad we're here.
24:42It's a long journey on that boat.
24:45Does your family speak English, though?
24:47English, no.
24:48Oh.
24:49Oh, wow.
24:53This is good.
24:54I've never had such a warm welcome.
25:08They seem so lovely.
25:10Where shall I sit?
25:11I can see my family, they are very happy to see Xena, and I think she will like it in
25:23the village.
25:24Yes, definitely.
25:25Let's have a look.
25:26Let's go ahead, yeah.
25:27Not many boyfriends would build a room, would they, for their girlfriend.
25:37I'm really excited to see my room.
25:39I can't wait.
25:40Where is it?
25:41Let's go.
25:42That's it, eh?
25:43What, this one?
25:44Yes, this one.
25:45Oh, are you joking?
25:48Is that it?
25:50Sorry, it's not ready.
25:52When it's finished, it's going to be perfect.
25:59I'm upset.
26:00I am a bit.
26:01It's just like a shack.
26:03Why hasn't it got a roof?
26:05Why hasn't it even got a window?
26:07Is it going to have a window?
26:09Of course, yeah.
26:10I wasn't expecting Buckingham Palace or anything like that, but...
26:16When are you going to get it finished?
26:19When?
26:20Oh.
26:21It looks like ages.
26:24Oh.
26:25Oh.
26:26Oh.
26:27Oh.
26:28Finance was the main issue, man.
26:31I know.
26:32We'll see what we can arrange financially, maybe.
26:35I still need 2,000 pounds.
26:39Yeah.
26:40Windows, roof.
26:41Yeah.
26:42The bathroom there behind.
26:43What, en suite?
26:45I think she can help me a bit there to finish the room.
26:49You're just going to have to get your finger out and get it finished ASAP,
26:53because this is a huge disappointment for me.
26:56Oh.
26:57Very sorry, babe.
27:01Can you show me where the toilet is?
27:03Yeah.
27:04Follow me.
27:05Okay.
27:06Is it a long way?
27:07No.
27:08Oh, that's the toilet.
27:14Toilet, yeah.
27:15Oh.
27:16You're joking.
27:17What do you think?
27:19No.
27:20No.
27:21I can't.
27:22This is a...
27:23This is a local toilet, man.
27:25Local?
27:26Why did...
27:27If I sit down, I won't be able to get up again.
27:29What if a gecko comes crawling around, nibbling up my bum?
27:33What do I do then?
27:35First impression?
27:37No.
27:38Didn't know it was like this.
27:39Upset, man.
27:40Okay.
27:41It's authentic, but that's...
27:42I'm thinking of what is going to be my backup plan.
27:46Really, my best bet would be for me to go wee in a jug.
27:50Because I can't sit down or stand over that.
27:52I would need a jug, wee in a jug, and tip it down.
27:56So, have you got a jug?
27:57A jug?
27:58A jug.
27:59A jug.
28:00You know, like a jug what you cook with or you tip with.
28:02If I'd have known, I'd have bought one with me.
28:04I am a lady of a certain age, and I don't know how I'm going to manage,
28:09because I will need to go to the toilet more than once in the night.
28:13I'm not feeling it.
28:14I'm not feeling it.
28:15I'm not feeling it.
28:16Hmm.
28:17Ugh.
28:18No.
28:39It's pissing it down.
28:40It's not a really good start to the trip.
28:42Me and Messe are going on a trip.
28:45He's organised it all, so I have no idea what he's got in store for us.
28:50I am scared.
28:53I love all-inclusive hotels, spas, all that kind of thing.
28:58I'd love to be on a beach right now, sipping a cocktail in the sun.
29:02I just went, where is he?
29:05Oh.
29:06Oh, here.
29:08What the fuck?
29:09What the fuck?
29:14Hello.
29:18Oh, my God.
29:19Look at this.
29:20She is absolutely like the caravan.
29:24This is the really good way the holiday.
29:27Amazing.
29:28Amazing.
29:29Yeah.
29:30Can I see inside?
29:31Yeah.
29:32Okay.
29:33Oh, my God.
29:37God.
29:38This is not my cup of tea.
29:40Small though, how we had together this space.
29:45We're going to have to keep each other happy and positive.
29:50If we have an argument, there's nowhere to go.
29:53No problem, darling.
29:55We make good holiday together.
29:59Let's go, co-pilot.
30:03Please don't crash this caravan.
30:05Why, you say it in our negative.
30:07Just I want this holiday.
30:09We make the good holiday.
30:10We make the good holiday.
30:11You don't make me arguing.
30:12I make us arguing.
30:13I don't make an argument.
30:15I don't.
30:16We don't argue this trip, okay?
30:18Promise?
30:19Promise?
30:20Yeah.
30:21Okay.
30:22Okay.
30:23We see.
30:28Be careful.
30:29I am careful.
30:30I don't think you understand this map.
30:35How are you, though?
30:37Bad?
30:38No.
30:41You need to say turn right here.
30:43Okay, okay.
30:44You are the boss.
30:45I am listening to you.
30:46You say to turn around.
30:47Do this.
30:48Do this.
30:49Do this.
30:50Do this.
30:51Mete's not helping me at all.
30:52Okay, look the fucking map.
30:54Mete, I don't know.
30:56He's not listening to me.
31:00Really, you fuck this map.
31:02Okay.
31:03At this rate, I don't think we're ever going to get there.
31:07Ugh.
31:08What?
31:09Ah.
31:10If you don't look this map, really don't do this map.
31:19Hey, who is that the arguing first?
31:21I am Sladegaard.
31:22I am Sladegaard.
31:23I am Sladegaard.
31:24I am Sladegaard.
31:25I am Sladegaard.
31:28Maybe we find a good area here.
31:30We look here.
31:32No one here.
31:33You know what?
31:34Yeah, we don't need anyone.
31:39Uh.
31:41This camparelle looks really great.
31:44Fishing jump.
31:46Amazing wheel, calm, no anyone here.
31:50Just Shannon and me.
31:52Okay.
31:55Okay.
31:57When I imagined the caravan trip in Turkey, I thought of beaches, sun.
32:03This isn't what I thought of at all.
32:06Oh.
32:07You've got to get your ass off.
32:08Pardon, pardon, pardon, pardon.
32:11It's tiny in here.
32:12Shannon going the mood slowly, slowly, because small area, she's stressed out.
32:18If you know, if we booked the hotel, they already make the bed.
32:23Calm down, darling.
32:24We are here just on the nature.
32:27Calm, relax, please.
32:29You don't like the camping life.
32:31If there's no rain, it's not muddy.
32:34Really good.
32:35I don't like the rain.
32:36I'm coming to Turkey for no rain.
32:38I'll just eat behind here.
32:42This barbecue has gone from bad to worse.
32:45Sandra's left me to fend for myself.
32:47I'm really struggling.
32:48He needs to communicate with my family.
32:49And my sister wants to have a chat with him.
32:50She wants to know what he's really intentioned.
32:51He needs to communicate with my family.
32:52And my sister wants to have a chat with him.
32:53She wants to know what he's really intentioned.
32:54With me.
32:55Hey.
32:56Hello.
33:01Could I have a conversation with you?
33:02me to fend for myself. I'm really struggling.
33:08He needs to communicate with my family and my sister wants to have a chat with him.
33:14She wants to know what he's really in tension with me.
33:20Hey. Hello.
33:22Did I have a conversation with you? Depends what about.
33:25I'm a little bit worried because she's going to tell him a lot of things that he doesn't want to hear.
33:31You know, I'm very protective with Sandra Wright.
33:34I just want you to be sure that what do you want with her?
33:42This is Sandra's closest sister.
33:45And Heloise are coming in like that.
33:47It's now put me right on edge.
33:49You don't like kids. And she has two kids.
33:52Well, I think my reservations around having kids are just so many.
33:59I've never had that desire or drive.
34:03Like, I would never see myself as Lorenzo and Elisa's dad.
34:09What's that father?
34:10I don't think I would want that either.
34:12But you need to accept her with her kids.
34:14As with her kids.
34:15Okay?
34:16You are going to be responsible for them as well.
34:18The most important thing is to think about that she has kids.
34:24But I don't know if he's going to embrace this.
34:27It's not only about you.
34:28I feel like this is becoming a grilling and I'm not ready for this.
34:34I'm very worried about how it would pan out.
34:37There's also culture difference.
34:38There's a language.
34:39I don't see too much effort for me to learn.
34:42You only speak in English.
34:44Yeah.
34:44Even with my family.
34:45I'm really worried about it.
34:48You know our history, right?
34:50Yes.
34:51And my mother had nine.
34:52Nine.
34:53Nine children.
34:54And so I think Sandra would like to have more kids with you.
35:00Really?
35:01Has she said that?
35:02I don't.
35:02Yes, she did.
35:03That's a surprise to me.
35:05Yeah.
35:06But she said.
35:06I feel like I've signed up to something I didn't know I'd been signed up to.
35:13The impression I got is just different.
35:15I don't think I can make any decisions now.
35:18This relationship has taken a step back.
35:21Heloise has put a lot of doubts in my head.
35:24You've been with her for two years and you're not sure about what you really want.
35:30But you are in doubt.
35:31But I think that I can't give what everyone wants straight away
35:35because it wouldn't be realistic.
35:37I can't be rushed in a situation like this.
35:39And I feel like the more people that rush me,
35:42the worse it will get.
35:43It will push me away.
35:44Sandra is more decided.
35:46That's why I don't want her to suffer.
35:48There is no rule book for this.
35:51It's small stages.
35:53Need to put more efforts.
35:55If you cannot, I don't think our family will accept you.
35:59Okay.
36:01You're not convincing us, my family and I,
36:04that you really accept our culture, Sandra's kids.
36:08It's not a relationship.
36:10I don't believe in this guy.
36:12To be honest, I don't believe him.
36:17Think about it.
36:18This feels like judgment day.
36:25She's saying that I've made no effort tonight.
36:27And that's tough because I think I've put in enough.
36:32The biggest thing that's come from all this is Heloisa drops the bombshell
36:36that Sandra actually wants more kids.
36:39There's a lot to think about.
36:41And if I'm honest, I'm not sure how I feel about where this relationship is going to go.
36:44You think there's rain, it is the fire.
37:12It's raining, the sky's gray, it's miserable and depressing.
37:19I just feel like I'm back in England.
37:22What?
37:22Do I look like the barbecue expert?
37:24No.
37:25Maybe you will watch anyone.
37:27Here we go again.
37:28Why has everything got to be an argument?
37:31Oh, fire, stop.
37:33It is dying.
37:34It is dying because you are really talking too much.
37:37What the fuck?
37:41Medium.
37:42Medium.
37:43Yeah, medium.
37:44You think you are in the steakhouse?
37:46Yeah.
37:47Oh, my God.
37:48Oh, my God.
37:49Really, Shannon going to stress.
37:52Darling, what are you doing?
37:53One's a boot, one's a shoe.
37:55Really good idea.
37:56I think this is hard for Shannon.
37:59It is really wet.
38:00It is really cold.
38:02It is coming off.
38:04But we are together now.
38:07Cheers.
38:09We will be happy.
38:12Do you know, would you rather?
38:15No.
38:16Basic one.
38:17Would you rather have bad sex all your life when you want?
38:22Yeah.
38:23Other one.
38:25What is the other one I am choosing?
38:29Oh, best sex of your life.
38:32Really amazing sex.
38:33Ooh.
38:34But every five years.
38:37Oh.
38:39Can we make cheating?
38:41Me and Mete have so much more fun when we're not arguing.
38:44I wish it would always be like this.
38:49Car coming.
38:49He has flashed his light.
38:54Look.
38:54Yeah.
38:55Look, look, look.
38:56Yeah.
38:56You know what this mean in England?
38:58No.
39:00We call dogging in England.
39:04Dogging?
39:05What?
39:05Really, I don't know.
39:07I am think just dogs.
39:09Woof, woof.
39:10This mean?
39:11Car sex.
39:12That's lighter than the sex, Annie.
39:14Yeah, we're not doing that.
39:16Now I am showing you my flashing light better than your face.
39:19Flushing light.
39:21Ha?
39:21Ha?
39:22We don't want to join them.
39:24Turn your light off.
39:25It means that we want to join them.
39:28You want the chamois?
39:29No.
39:30We can turn off our light.
39:31That's mean in Turkey, not the sex, anything.
39:37Just we are doing the doggy.
39:43Does it count if it's in a caravan?
39:45It's really cold now.
39:50Maybe we'll go inside this.
39:56You don't want to make it.
39:57No, I don't want to make it.
40:00Too cold.
40:02Really shit.
40:05You turn off this light.
40:08That's mean that.
40:10What's mean this, huh?
40:11Stop.
40:13We're not doing that tonight.
40:16Yeah.
40:17Turn off.
40:17Today, I'm flying halfway across the world to the Philippines.
40:40Ara and I have never met.
40:41I'm terrified, but I need to know if it's real.
40:52The accessibility in the Philippines outside of Manila is not great.
40:58Oh, my God.
40:59Heathrow.
41:00Yeah.
41:01It's a less developed country, very provincial.
41:05The roads are barely good enough for cars,
41:08and they're definitely not good enough for wheelchairs.
41:09Have you ever been to the Philippines before?
41:12Uh, no.
41:15I think a lot of people were very cautious,
41:17and I've never had that in me.
41:19The kind of life I've lived with having a disability and everything,
41:23you sort of take chances when you can,
41:25because you don't know when your next chance is going to be.
41:34Can't wait to be there.
41:35My parents were always worried because of my condition,
41:38and they don't want me to have any fractures or accidents away from home.
41:42But I think as I've got older,
41:43they've learned that they can't really stop me from going anywhere,
41:46so I'm coming to the Philippines.
41:50This is all a bit mad.
41:55I have no idea if Ara's going to be there when I get there.
41:59Well, I don't know what I'm going to do if she's still up there.
42:02She'll probably sort this through a little bit more on the front of Jack's blade.
42:06Ash-me-lap.
42:07It's taken me forever to get through customs and baggage.
42:34The airport's insane.
42:44It's noisy, chaotic,
42:47and I can't find her anywhere.
42:53Nothing, and there's no Wi-Fi at the airport.
42:56My phone won't connect to any of the networks.
42:59No free Wi-Fi, no signal.
43:05So I can't call her.
43:07Absolute nightmare.
43:11What's she on here?
43:13What's this, like, real?
43:14I've been on two planes and nearly 30 hours of travel.
43:30Yeah, I can't see her.
43:33I have no hotel.
43:36I am screwed, basically.
43:42What the fuck is she?
43:45I can't see Ara.
43:51I'm really worried that she's not going to show up.
43:53Maybe she was stringing me along the whole time.
43:55What happened?
43:57Shorna, don't respect me.
43:59Like a partner, like a boyfriend,
44:00that she's so fucking rude.
44:02This is extremely hard for me at the moment, mate.
44:04I don't want to lose.
44:05And then...
44:05For me, everything is done.
44:07What are you doing?
44:09God, no.
44:09Saying to you, stop.
44:11I am really angry.
44:12Mete doesn't listen to me.
44:14My toe's nearly under the wheel.
44:16If you don't have the good communication,
44:18I can't ask her,
44:19will you marry me?
44:20What does your nephew call you?
44:22He called me father.
44:23What the fuck?
44:24Certain things I don't think are adding up.
44:27Oh, I'm struggling.
44:30Oh, mate.
44:31Ah, there's a cockroach.
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