90 Day- Hunt for Love (2025) S01E02 Full Episodes

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Step into a world where sparks fly and hearts race as everyone is introduced at a masquerade ball to connect, flirt, and find romance. But it's not just about finding someone new—some of these singles have a history! Will old flames reignite? As jealousy bubbles up faster than the hot tub jets during a hot-tub-speed-dating session, tensions rise, and feelings get messy. From flirty first impressions to late-night confessions, expect shocking hook-ups and unexpected pairings. The journey transforms into a thrilling adventure in chemistry and connection, filled with romantic curveballs and twists for each of the singles.

Transcript

00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love.

00:00:04Oh my gosh, it's so nice.

00:00:06I'm here at this gorgeous beach resort

00:00:10to try and make a connection with a man

00:00:13that has the whole package with the package.

00:00:18Oh, it's hot out here.

00:00:21Hi, I think we've met before.

00:00:23Do we meet before?

00:00:24Maybe, maybe a little bit.

00:00:27I was in Turkey for like a month with Usman,

00:00:31but after the trip, I wasn't sure how he felt about me.

00:00:34I'm like, could this be fate bringing us back together?

00:00:36Cheers guys to a really good night.

00:00:38Yes.

00:00:40I was kind of like, okay,

00:00:40there's going to be other 90 day people.

00:00:43But I had zero clue who the hell was going to be here.

00:00:49Oh my God.

00:00:50You gotta be kidding me, man.

00:00:53Jennifer is my ex-girlfriend.

00:00:55Out of all the people, why is she here?

00:01:00Every single time someone sees me in a bikini

00:01:02and they see my ass, they're like,

00:01:03holy , you have a huge ass.

00:01:05Let me see.

00:01:06Do you want a kiss or anything there?

00:01:08I'm trying not to like, go too crazy

00:01:11on the first interaction, but like, damn.

00:01:14Yeah, that is a very nice ass.

00:01:18You know, that's my ex-ass here, right?

00:01:22Why'd y'all break up?

00:01:23The truth, she's a golden .

00:01:27He feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody.

00:01:33But he better watch out, because I know a couple of secrets

00:01:36he wouldn't like anybody to know about.

00:01:42We're going to do some speed dating while in a hot tub.

00:01:45I have a thousand thoughts running through my head,

00:01:49because right before I came to the resort,

00:01:51I was hanging out with my friend Ashley.

00:01:53One thing led to another, and Ashley kisses me.

00:01:57Gosh, where's your dating couch when you need one?

00:02:01I really, I liked it.

00:02:06But at the same time, I was so overwhelmed

00:02:10at what it all meant.

00:02:12Does this mean that I'm a lesbian?

00:02:31Damn.

00:02:33Damn.

00:02:34Damn.

00:02:36Damn.

00:02:39Damn.

00:02:41Damn, damn, damn, damn, damn, yeah, that's fair.

00:02:50Welcome everyone to your very first workshop here at this retreat, Flirting 101.

00:03:17We all know that flirting is hard, right?

00:03:19What works for you one time might not work another time.

00:03:22I signed up for the flirting workshop just because I actually don't know how to flirt.

00:03:27It would feel so unnatural for me to come up to a guy and say like, hey, sugar, how you

00:03:32doing?

00:03:33Like, no.

00:03:35Last night at the masquerade, I met Pornstache.

00:03:39And that guy caught my eyes, but he's not here today.

00:03:43So I want to challenge myself to, like, open myself up a little more to people that I wouldn't

00:03:49usually date and give them a chance.

00:03:51I would love to see a show of hands who thinks that they might need a little guidance in their

00:03:56flirting game.

00:03:57Hi, everyone.

00:03:58How about this guy?

00:03:59Let's be honest.

00:04:00Let's be honest.

00:04:01Oh, my God.

00:04:02I'm so, like, awkward and embarrassed, like, flirting so easily.

00:04:06I'm just like, yeah, and, like, smile and nod.

00:04:08What do you think could change that?

00:04:10What do you think could shift that for you?

00:04:12Alcohol.

00:04:13I hate this flirting workshop already.

00:04:19Usually my go-to opener is like, hey, buy me a drink.

00:04:24That's flirting?

00:04:26Yeah.

00:04:27All right.

00:04:30We're going to practice that with you today.

00:04:32We're going to break down your game and give you some feedback on what's working for you

00:04:36and what's not.

00:04:38So I'm going to choose two of you at random.

00:04:40I'm not trying to set you up, OK?

00:04:42So don't get scared.

00:04:44So I am going to go with Usman.

00:04:49Come have a seat, please.

00:04:51And Cassidy.

00:04:56Cassidy.

00:05:00Turn on that southern charm, girl.

00:05:03I'm such a laugher.

00:05:04OK, sorry.

00:05:05You got this, girl.

00:05:06Are you here by yourself?

00:05:07Actually, I wasn't here by myself because that's it that was waiting for you.

00:05:10It was for me?

00:05:11Oh, perfect.

00:05:12Perfect.

00:05:14You were waiting for me.

00:05:16Yeah.

00:05:17I do not know what's going on between Usman and I right now.

00:05:20I'm waiting for him to make a move, show me he's interested.

00:05:23So watching Usman flirting with another moment.

00:05:28That sucks.

00:05:31What's your name?

00:05:32My name is Usman, but they call me Soulja Boy.

00:05:34Soulja Boy?

00:05:34Yeah.

00:05:35OK.

00:05:35Not the American rapper.

00:05:37Not the rapper.

00:05:37The Nigerian singer, so yeah.

00:05:39Gotcha.

00:05:40You look beautiful, I must say.

00:05:42You look good, too.

00:05:43What do you like to sing?

00:05:45I mean, all my song is all about love.

00:05:47Love?

00:05:48I preach about love.

00:05:49Beautiful women.

00:05:50You want to sing one for me?

00:05:53I mean, you want to?

00:05:54Yeah.

00:05:55Like right now?

00:05:56Yeah.

00:05:58Ah, OK.

00:05:59Make up one about me.

00:06:01On the spot.

00:06:02On the spot?

00:06:03Yeah.

00:06:03OK, what's your name?

00:06:04Cassidy.

00:06:05I love you.

00:06:12I love you, my baby, Cassidy.

00:06:15I love you, I love you, I love you.

00:06:20I love you, my baby Cassidy, I love you.

00:06:23I love you, I love you, Cassidy, I love you.

00:06:27Usman's song is a banger.

00:06:29I swear, when he started singing that,

00:06:30I was like, all right, there's no way

00:06:32he's not getting this girl.

00:06:33I'm being super sarcastic.

00:06:35There ain't no way that's impressing anyone.

00:06:40This song sucks.

00:06:41I love you, I love you, I love you, okay, great.

00:06:43I don't think anyone would be impressed

00:06:45by his lyrics, let me tell you.

00:06:48I had to listen to the guy I like

00:06:50seeing that he loves another girl.

00:06:52And he's like, Cassidy, I love you, I love you.

00:06:55I'm like, you don't even say you like her or you're cute,

00:06:58just straight, I love you.

00:07:00If this is Usman's idea about how he falls in love,

00:07:02I'm worried about how he approaches sex.

00:07:05Is he just like, hi, I'm Usman, can I stick it in you?

00:07:09I'm sorry, I'm not gonna give you like,

00:07:11basis like that.

00:07:12Well, once you get to know me more,

00:07:13you can add in the later stuff.

00:07:15Yeah, I mean, I mean, why not?

00:07:17Okay, cool, this was fun.

00:07:19Okay, guys, sorry to interrupt you.

00:07:22Usman, great job, you were engaging,

00:07:24you were definitely making eye contact,

00:07:25you're very, very charming.

00:07:27However, where you fell down a little bit

00:07:29is that you didn't ask Cassidy enough about her, right?

00:07:31So you could have asked her, what are you into?

00:07:33What kind of music do you listen to?

00:07:35Keeping that conversation and that energy there,

00:07:37especially on your first encounter,

00:07:39that's when the true connections happen.

00:07:41But both of you did a fantastic job, good job.

00:07:45You guys can have a seat.

00:07:48Good job.

00:07:59Welcome to the party, gentlemen.

00:08:01What's going on?

00:08:02Come on in, feel free to pick a hot tub of your choosing.

00:08:06Hey, how you doing?

00:08:07Hi.

00:08:09Come on this side.

00:08:10I really wanted the speed dating to go well,

00:08:15but my head's not in it.

00:08:17I feel like I'm coming across a little bit awkward,

00:08:20but it's probably because I can't stop thinking about

00:08:24what happened before I came here

00:08:26between me and my friend Ashley.

00:08:29It's complicated, I don't know.

00:08:31Like, I've never dated a woman before.

00:08:34I grew up in an environment where I never considered

00:08:39dating the same sex or even saw it as an option.

00:08:43How are you?

00:08:44I'm doing very well.

00:08:45I'm doing very well.

00:08:46A little bit better now.

00:08:48I'm still attracted to men.

00:08:52I am still attracted to men.

00:08:54And I don't know if kissing Ashley was a one-time thing.

00:08:59It's hard for me to put a label on something

00:09:01that I don't even understand right now about myself.

00:09:04So coming here and meeting so many different kinds of people

00:09:08seems like the best way to find out what's right for me.

00:09:13Your two minutes starts now.

00:09:18You know, I think I want to know more about Chantelle.

00:09:20Tell me about you.

00:09:21It's very important for me to have fulfillment in life.

00:09:25You know, I'm doing my dream job right now.

00:09:27What's your dream job?

00:09:28Botox and filler aesthetic.

00:09:30That's my dream job?

00:09:31Yeah, it's my dream job.

00:09:33I love everything beauty.

00:09:35I'm like, I don't know a ton about Botox and that kind of stuff.

00:09:38Well, raise your eyebrows.

00:09:40OK, and then frown.

00:09:42Make an angry face.

00:09:44And then smile real big.

00:09:46OK, yeah.

00:09:47OK, so you could use.

00:09:48Oh, you're going to be giving me three feet.

00:09:49That's all right.

00:09:50That's a theory.

00:09:51Well, it's all relative to what a person wants.

00:09:56So be one aware of your wrinkle spine.

00:09:58Are you telling me I have wrinkles right now?

00:10:00What are you telling me?

00:10:01You got one, but you're very handsome.

00:10:03Oh, thank you.

00:10:04Yeah, you're very handsome.

00:10:05Joe, he's so cute.

00:10:09I could just melt.

00:10:11He's tall, got beautiful eyes.

00:10:14I love the accent.

00:10:16I think there could be something there with Joe.

00:10:19If I'm honest, he could use a little Botox.

00:10:22But it feels good that I could make a connection here.

00:10:41Now, Courtney, you are going to approach Chad as he sits here at this lovely table dining.

00:10:45Oh, my God.

00:10:47Yes, Chad.

00:10:48Yes, Chad.

00:10:49Can I be the one sitting at the table?

00:10:51Oh, .

00:10:52I have to go across Chad.

00:10:55Oh, my God.

00:10:58Like, this is my worst nightmare.

00:11:00Like, why I never approach guys?

00:11:04Like, I don't know.

00:11:10You got this, Courtney.

00:11:13I'm, like, shaking.

00:11:17You got it.

00:11:18I like your red shirt.

00:11:20Um, .

00:11:27Hey, I'm Chad.

00:11:28What you doing?

00:11:29Hi.

00:11:30Can I offer me to sit with you?

00:11:32Yes.

00:11:33Or do I have to ask?

00:11:34OK.

00:11:35So where are you from?

00:11:40Atlanta.

00:11:41What about you?

00:11:42Orlando.

00:11:43Orlando?

00:11:51You go to school there?

00:11:52Um, I went to school in Illinois.

00:11:55Yeah.

00:11:56What did you go to school for?

00:11:57What are you?

00:11:58Oh, finance.

00:11:59What did you study?

00:12:00Uh, football.

00:12:01Oh, nice.

00:12:02I mean, I think we're all insecure a little bit.

00:12:06There's definitely anxiety I have when meeting new people,

00:12:09and especially the ladies.

00:12:11So watching Courtney fumble and get nervous about role-playing is so sweet.

00:12:15We kind of have that in common, honestly.

00:12:17She seems very genuine.

00:12:19I know.

00:12:20This is so awkward.

00:12:21So what are you drinking?

00:12:23A strawberry margarita?

00:12:25See, yep.

00:12:26Oh, my God.

00:12:27Double.

00:12:28Okay, this flirting exercise is horrible, embarrassing.

00:12:35I never want to show my face at this resort again.

00:12:38I'm just sitting there like, okay, this is so awkward.

00:12:41Like, I want to curl up and bawl in the sand and, like, cry and bury myself.

00:12:45Okay, guys, thank you so much.

00:12:47I would love to hear from all of you what you observed.

00:12:50Give them some feedback on what you saw go down.

00:12:53I feel like, sorry, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

00:12:55I was going to say very interviewish.

00:12:58Chat, it felt a little bit forced, and I could see where the pauses were

00:13:01that you were trying to think of the next thing to say.

00:13:03And Courtney, don't take it so seriously.

00:13:06You guys didn't do a lot of laughing.

00:13:07Yeah.

00:13:08Okay.

00:13:09When Courtney and Chad are having the role-play,

00:13:14it's not really that romantic.

00:13:16It's not cute.

00:13:17But at the end of the day, I wanted to end ugly

00:13:18because I wanted to end good with me.

00:13:20All right, you guys can have a seat.

00:13:24Good job, guys.

00:13:25Good job.

00:13:26Good job.

00:13:27Good job.

00:13:28Ladies, welcome to the party.

00:13:40Come on in.

00:13:43So hot tub speed dating sounds fun except for the hot tub part.

00:13:49I'm not super comfortable, like, in a bathing suit with my shirt off

00:13:53in front of strangers.

00:13:55It's super awkward, really freaking awkward.

00:13:58And now it looks like I'm going to be sitting in a hot tub with Jen,

00:14:01and this is what I've been dreading the entire day.

00:14:04How are you doing?

00:14:05How are you doing?

00:14:06How are you enjoying?

00:14:07Thank you very much.

00:14:08Nice to meet you.

00:14:09It's crazy, crazy.

00:14:10Awesome.

00:14:11Yeah.

00:14:12You're really hard to meet.

00:14:13You're really hard to meet.

00:14:14I get that a lot.

00:14:15I'm Southern.

00:14:16I'm slow, man.

00:14:17Like, I'm really slow.

00:14:18I'm old, too.

00:14:19I'm old, yeah.

00:14:20I was just dating a 65-year-old back at holiday.

00:14:23So why are you looking for me?

00:14:24I'm looking for what's looking for me.

00:14:26Oh, so anything?

00:14:27Not necessarily.

00:14:28Any.

00:14:29I'm the only old guy here, and also I'm the only guy here with an exterior.

00:14:34You know what?

00:14:35This is, like, your time.

00:14:36You know, I think it's going to be good for you guys to sit and just have a talk whenever

00:14:38that happens.

00:14:39Y'all do?

00:14:40I think they do that, y'all.

00:14:41I don't know.

00:14:42All right, ladies and gents.

00:14:43Our two minutes has come to an end.

00:14:44But it was nice.

00:14:45Yeah.

00:14:46Oh, my God.

00:14:47We are.

00:14:48Bye-bye, darling.

00:14:49Don't touch it.

00:14:50You're terrible.

00:14:51Look at it.

00:14:52Oh.

00:14:53Do I really have to do this?

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00:15:39Oh my !

00:15:41Oh!

00:15:42You almost killed me.

00:15:47Is this really necessary?

00:15:50It's only two minutes, so I'm sure this will get over quick enough.

00:15:58I mean, there's an empty one.

00:16:00You can just jump in.

00:16:03I mean, it's just insane, right?

00:16:05Like, I came here to do something I've never done,

00:16:08trying to find a partner, and I've got to do this now

00:16:10with literally the only ex that I'm not on cordial terms with.

00:16:18Honestly, Jen being here is making me think about going home real fast.

00:16:23But, you know, I try my best to be a good person,

00:16:27and, you know, I deserve to be happy like anybody else,

00:16:31and the only way I'm ever going to find somebody

00:16:33to share that with is to put myself out there.

00:16:36I don't really have any of the will towards you.

00:16:39I find to be nice and like you're not.

00:16:42Papa, did you remember the things that you have said?

00:16:48I think that your version of history is different than mine.

00:16:51Like, it's not like you were an angel to me.

00:16:53You're like, we both say some bad things.

00:16:55Look, stop.

00:16:56You're like taking little fights that's giving the impression

00:17:02to the other girls that I'm like this horrible dude.

00:17:05I don't think that you are getting corny.

00:17:08I'm not saying the truth.

00:17:09Well, but again, that's not...

00:17:10I'm talking the truth.

00:17:11It's not a point.

00:17:12I think you're right, but I don't think that what you're saying

00:17:15is 100% true.

00:17:17The team attacks like a woman.

00:17:20She likes to gossip and like bring rumors.

00:17:23You cannot be talking negative and saying bad things about me

00:17:27and then expect that I'm going to be nice in a hot tub with you.

00:17:30You do.

00:17:33I'm sorry.

00:17:34It's okay.

00:17:47Chantel and Usman, they kind of had like a conflict

00:17:49before we even went to the room.

00:17:51I never talked to her.

00:17:52So why would she call me a scammer?

00:17:54Because she's a woman.

00:17:55I cannot punch her.

00:17:56So why are you going to...

00:17:57I'm going to punch her.

00:17:58Newsman said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.

00:18:02I'd take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.

00:18:04I bet.

00:18:16You guys ready for the next couple?

00:18:18So ready.

00:18:19Yeah.

00:18:20Okay.

00:18:21Lexi, I'm going to invite you to have a seat, please.

00:18:23Okay.

00:18:24Go, Lexi.

00:18:26And...

00:18:27Colt.

00:18:28Oh.

00:18:29I'm going to ask you to come up and introduce yourself to Lexi.

00:18:32See what feels natural.

00:18:33Let's see how it goes.

00:18:34Okay.

00:18:35Come on, Lexi.

00:18:36Girl.

00:18:37You got this, Colt.

00:18:38I mean, some would say I have game.

00:18:42I think I have at least some game.

00:18:44Maybe half of a game of something.

00:18:46I don't know.

00:18:47Hello.

00:18:48Hi.

00:18:49I do have some magnetism here, but I think everyone will tell you how they want to be treated.

00:18:59You just have to listen and just kind of go with the flow.

00:19:03Oh, you have very interesting piercings and all of that.

00:19:07Really?

00:19:08Yeah.

00:19:09Yeah?

00:19:10Why do you think they're interesting?

00:19:11I guess I'm just not really familiar with that.

00:19:12I don't have any piercings myself.

00:19:13You don't have any piercings?

00:19:14Did you ever want to get piercings?

00:19:15I did.

00:19:16Yeah.

00:19:17You should take a seat so we can talk about it.

00:19:18I would love to talk about it.

00:19:19Yeah.

00:19:20So you're into that type of stuff?

00:19:23I see you tattoo as well.

00:19:25Into what type of stuff?

00:19:26Oh, like piercings and stuff.

00:19:28You know, like a nose or like a nipple or something.

00:19:32Yeah.

00:19:35Is your body like a canvas pretty much?

00:19:38Accessorizing yourself?

00:19:39I mean, let's draw that back.

00:19:41Yeah?

00:19:42Yeah.

00:19:43T on that, bro.

00:19:44Oh, my God.

00:19:47I don't even want to look.

00:19:49Don't ever say that to nobody.

00:19:50Okay.

00:19:51Don't talk about my body.

00:19:52That's a lot.

00:19:54That's so awkward.

00:19:57Yeah.

00:19:58Hold on.

00:19:59Wait.

00:20:02I'm so sorry.

00:20:03I'm not trying to laugh you out.

00:20:05Woo.

00:20:08I feel bad for Colt.

00:20:09Like, that's embarrassing.

00:20:10Like, he's getting laughed at in his face.

00:20:13But at the same time, I think my role play was a lot worse.

00:20:16So I'm giving Colt a pass on that one.

00:20:18I feel like you could have stopped at, like, you like the piercings.

00:20:21Oh, sure.

00:20:22Don't talk about my body the first time you see me.

00:20:24Sure.

00:20:25Yeah?

00:20:26Yeah.

00:20:27All right.

00:20:28All right.

00:20:29Let's reset that.

00:20:30Okay.

00:20:31Okay.

00:20:32So why are you here today?

00:20:33What brings you here?

00:20:34Oh, well, the weather's beautiful, you know, by the beach.

00:20:35I love coming here.

00:20:36Yeah?

00:20:37I love to travel.

00:20:38You love to travel?

00:20:39Oh, super.

00:20:40You love to solo traveling when you do it and you meet people?

00:20:41Oh, yeah.

00:20:42Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:20:43Oh, me too.

00:20:44I love to solo travel.

00:20:45Yeah.

00:20:46Okay.

00:20:47Because otherwise you're on another person's schedule.

00:20:48Yeah.

00:20:49You're going to bring in conflicts.

00:20:50You can't do your own thing.

00:20:51I'm on vacation, man.

00:20:52All right, guys.

00:20:53Fantastic job.

00:20:55Yes, girl.

00:20:57Cool.

00:20:58What did you see happen?

00:20:59I feel like my start was a little rushed.

00:21:01Yeah.

00:21:02Right?

00:21:03I got a little nervous.

00:21:04I'm in front of a pretty girl, you know, obviously.

00:21:05You got it, though.

00:21:06You got it, too.

00:21:07I believe in you.

00:21:08I believe in you.

00:21:09Good job, guys.

00:21:12I like Lexi's energy a lot.

00:21:15I feel like Lexi and I have some kind of connection.

00:21:17All right.

00:21:20Great job.

00:21:21That was great.

00:21:22But I'm not sure where that will go.

00:21:24Is there someone you would have rather?

00:21:26Oh, yeah.

00:21:29I actually kind of like Courtney.

00:21:31She's very sweet.

00:21:32She's actually a pretty interesting woman.

00:21:34I was kind of hoping I'd get to flirt with her a little bit.

00:21:38Yeah.

00:21:39I don't know.

00:21:40But, huh.

00:21:44OK.

00:21:45Carlo, have a seat, please.

00:21:50And Tiffany, you are up.

00:21:52Let's see what you got.

00:21:53Good luck, Tiffany.

00:21:54Ready?

00:21:55Let's go.

00:21:56All right.

00:21:57So I never do this.

00:21:59But my name is Tiffany.

00:22:00Oh, hi.

00:22:01I saw you.

00:22:02And I think you're really handsome.

00:22:03Is anyone sitting here?

00:22:05No, take a seat.

00:22:06I'm Carlo.

00:22:07Carlo.

00:22:08Carlo, actually, I spoke to him very briefly yesterday.

00:22:11I didn't get a feel for, like, who he is.

00:22:15So I'm a little nervous.

00:22:17Oh, don't be nervous.

00:22:18I don't usually come up to guys, but you're very cute.

00:22:20That takes a lot of confidence.

00:22:21You have a beautiful eye.

00:22:23You have pretty eyes, too.

00:22:25When I walked up to him and he first made eye contact with me, immediately I just felt...

00:22:31And then I felt safe to approach him.

00:22:35He's a handsome guy.

00:22:37He's cute.

00:22:39Okay.

00:22:40Where are you from?

00:22:41Born and raised in Jersey.

00:22:42No way.

00:22:43Me too.

00:22:44No, what part of Jersey?

00:22:45Red Bank.

00:22:46Are you south or north?

00:22:47It's, like, central.

00:22:48Okay.

00:22:49And what's your background?

00:22:50Well, I'm Italian and Irish.

00:22:51Okay.

00:22:52Are you Italian?

00:22:53I love Italian and Irish boys.

00:22:55So I'm Colombian and Cuban, but born in the U.S.

00:22:59So mom's Cuban, dad's Colombian.

00:23:01All right.

00:23:02Well, bienvenidos.

00:23:03Okay.

00:23:04Check.

00:23:05Colombian, Cuban, crazy and crazy.

00:23:07Are you okay with that?

00:23:08Very cool.

00:23:09Very cool.

00:23:10Irish-Italian is a little crazy, too.

00:23:11So...

00:23:12Are you?

00:23:13Yeah.

00:23:14I can't tell.

00:23:15You seem very sweet.

00:23:16Well, you may tell soon.

00:23:18All right, guys.

00:23:19Good job.

00:23:20All right.

00:23:21Yay!

00:23:22So, did you guys feel the connection here?

00:23:25Yeah.

00:23:26That was good.

00:23:27What would it take to get the number or to the first date?

00:23:32Ask her.

00:23:33I think, well, hey, we have a lot in common.

00:23:36Why don't we continue this on a night out?

00:23:39Was that you actually asking Tiffany out on a date?

00:23:45Yeah.

00:23:46I mean, I would definitely take you out on a date if you're up for it, Tiffany.

00:23:50Yeah.

00:23:51I'm down.

00:23:52Let's do it, then.

00:23:53Yay!

00:23:54There we go.

00:23:55Good job, guys.

00:23:56I was gonna say, I felt like I was interrupting.

00:23:58I did.

00:23:59I felt like I was interrupting.

00:24:00Me too, my own little world.

00:24:01Me too, my own little world.

00:24:02Good job.

00:24:03When Carlo asked me out, I was like, yay!

00:24:06Like, oh, my God.

00:24:07I was excited, because I was like, I didn't expect it.

00:24:11I definitely still have my eye on Rocky, but Carlo's tall.

00:24:14He's got a nice body.

00:24:15I want to date around and keep my options open.

00:24:18I want to see who works best for me, and that's what I'm going to do.

00:24:21I think what you guys all learned today, that if you just let go and allow the connection

00:24:26to feel organic, flirting doesn't have to be that serious.

00:24:30And now that you guys have all gained some more flirting skills, I want you to go out tonight

00:24:35and apply them.

00:24:37Mingle, meet each other, use your body language, and most importantly, have fun.

00:24:42I'm just not a natural flirt, because I just felt so, like, nervous and awkward, and yeah,

00:24:51it was not good.

00:24:54I think I learned a lot of helpful tips and tricks today watching the other people go.

00:24:59I was just in my head too much.

00:25:01Good job, guys!

00:25:03I think if I could do it again, I would have taken tequila shots before it showed up to

00:25:08this.

00:25:09Yeah.

00:25:10Oh, how late are we going to be up tonight?

00:25:13We did a dream.

00:25:14I want to know.

00:25:15We re-armed it!

00:25:16I do everything for me now, spirit feeling free now.

00:25:21In the know it, on my way to close the dream house.

00:25:24You can't eat your teeth out, darling, what a lethal.

00:25:27Had to go in deep down and make it back to me now.

00:25:33Everything all right over here?

00:25:42The longest two minutes will be the same.

00:25:44The longest two hours.

00:25:46Seems like a mutual readiness to be done.

00:25:49I'm now, like, done.

00:25:51You're good.

00:25:52Yeah, because, I mean, you're all this zombie to go hang out at the beach.

00:25:57Okay.

00:25:58Let her have her space.

00:25:59Seems like that's the solution.

00:26:00That's super sweet of you.

00:26:02That's what I aim for.

00:26:03Jennifer's being sweet all the time.

00:26:05I'm so glad that's over.

00:26:08I'm so happy that Tim got the hand and left the bathtub.

00:26:21He wants to tell me what to say or not to say about him, like it's his business.

00:26:27I don't know how the next three weeks are going to be, but Tim definitely needs to stay

00:26:32in his lane and leave me alone.

00:26:34I love you.

00:26:36I love you.

00:26:37I love you.

00:26:38I got you.

00:26:39I got you.

00:26:40What's up, guys?

00:26:41Hey.

00:26:42Hey.

00:26:43Hey.

00:26:44Hey.

00:26:45How was it?

00:26:46You look so off.

00:26:48What happened?

00:26:49Well, I'm over here because me and Jennifer didn't want to talk to each other and I was like,

00:26:54I'm going to go down to the beach now, y'all.

00:26:56That was very uncomfortable.

00:26:57And I'm hoping that this tension goes away because it's kind of like bumming out my trip.

00:27:04Jennifer has already made Tim feel uncomfortable here.

00:27:09I'm not going to let her cut my friend down in front of me.

00:27:13I will always have Tim's back because I'm like super protective of my friends.

00:27:19And if you cross them, watch your back.

00:27:23Gentlemen, welcome back to the party.

00:27:34Pick a tub.

00:27:36Get yourself settled.

00:27:38You guys already know the drill.

00:27:40Hey, Lisa and I, we kissed.

00:27:46It was a good kiss.

00:27:48And I did want to see her butt.

00:27:50But, I mean, it's only day two.

00:27:54So I would hope that the other women here don't, like, assume that I'm locked in with Elise.

00:28:00I mean, I got to see where her head's at.

00:28:02I'm still kind of watching to see who she is.

00:28:05How are you?

00:28:06How are you doing?

00:28:07How are you doing?

00:28:08How are you doing?

00:28:09Like, this thing was two minutes of your school.

00:28:13I don't know.

00:28:14I don't know.

00:28:15I'd worry about it.

00:28:16I mean, more comfortable talking one-on-one.

00:28:17Then I'm going to be excited.

00:28:18I mean, like, you guys are glad to a party.

00:28:21I heard you guys were talking about me on the bus.

00:28:23Thanks.

00:28:24Who told you that?

00:28:25Yeah.

00:28:26Yeah.

00:28:27Yeah, I missed Tim's on the bus.

00:28:29Well, we'll keep bringing up our pistols together.

00:28:32And I'm like, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill.

00:28:35Don't think too much about it.

00:28:36Don't leave it alone.

00:28:37So, don't you guys want me around?

00:28:39Yes.

00:28:40Yeah.

00:28:41Yes.

00:28:42Give me the one that's most full.

00:28:43Can I get it?

00:28:44That one, yeah.

00:28:45That's the one.

00:28:46Can I get it for you, lady?

00:28:47I thought you were getting it for me.

00:28:49I thought you were being like this for you.

00:28:50I just gave it to you.

00:28:51I gave it back.

00:28:52Okay.

00:28:53Here, you want it?

00:28:54I like to get people out.

00:28:55We can have the most full one.

00:28:56I wanted to make you happy.

00:29:01I don't know.

00:29:02There's this deep connection that we have that I've definitely not experienced with anyone else here at the retreat.

00:29:07But, like, not knowing where his head's at is kind of making me a little nervous, especially, you know, we had some fun last night.

00:29:13Obviously, some alcohol was involved, and we ended up talking the rest of the night.

00:29:17And then this morning, I called him and we talked a little bit.

00:29:20Now, I kind of want to see what he feels.

00:29:22How do you feel?

00:29:23How do you feel?

00:29:24How do you feel?

00:29:25I'm choosing to, um, this process, and we'll let go, and to make connections.

00:29:33Fine.

00:29:34That brings a question.

00:29:35Why?

00:29:36Have you made any connections today with anybody else?

00:29:38I don't know.

00:29:39I don't know.

00:29:40I don't know.

00:29:41Obviously, I'm happy to be here with you today.

00:29:45I'd be like, if you weren't here, I'd probably be like, we'll be funny with you.

00:29:49You need to be thinking about me.

00:29:50Probably.

00:29:51And not focused on meeting other people.

00:29:54I'm a good.

00:29:56100%.

00:29:57Like, I'm either, like, 100% or zero.

00:29:59We're not really in between.

00:30:00, man.

00:30:04She's tripping.

00:30:05She's tripping like, this doesn't make any sense.

00:30:09We've only known each other for two damn days.

00:30:11And I thought we were having fun.

00:30:14But she's just jumping in head first.

00:30:17This is bad.

00:30:18Hey.

00:30:19Hi.

00:30:20Oh, you look so cute.

00:30:21Oh, thank you.

00:30:22Oh, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:30:25So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:30:28Cheers first.

00:30:29Okay.

00:30:30Salud.

00:30:31Tomamos.

00:30:32I'm actually shocked.

00:30:33Oh, that's sexy.

00:30:35Hi.

00:30:36How are you?

00:30:37How are you?

00:30:38How are you?

00:30:39Very good.

00:30:40What drinks do you have available?

00:30:41I have a margarita, mezcadita.

00:30:42Margarita.

00:30:43Margarita.

00:30:44Margarita.

00:30:45Por favor.

00:30:46After the flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo and it says, hey, I wasn't kidding about that date.

00:30:53Do you want to meet up and have a drink?

00:30:54But in my mind, I'm like, oh no, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:31:01So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:31:02Okay.

00:31:05Oh, that's good.

00:31:06How are you?

00:31:07How are you?

00:31:08How are you?

00:31:09Very good.

00:31:10What drinks do you have available?

00:31:11I have a margarita, mezcadita.

00:31:12Margarita.

00:31:13Margarita.

00:31:14Por favor.

00:31:15After the flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo and it says, hey, I wasn't kidding about that

00:31:16date.

00:31:17Do you want to meet up and have a drink?

00:31:19But in my mind, I'm like, oh no, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:31:24So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:31:27Okay.

00:31:30Hey.

00:31:31Hi.

00:31:32Oh, you look so cute.

00:31:33Oh, thank you.

00:31:34Yeah.

00:31:35Yeah, you're totally dressed up and I feel a little underdressed, but you look great.

00:31:48All right.

00:31:49What are you drinking?

00:31:50A margarita.

00:31:51Margarita?

00:31:52Okay.

00:31:53Getting on these chairs is not easy.

00:31:54No, it's not.

00:31:55It's not.

00:31:56And you're tall, so.

00:31:57Well, thanks.

00:31:58Thanks.

00:31:59How tall are you?

00:32:006-1.

00:32:01Oh, I like that.

00:32:02Yeah.

00:32:04Same thing.

00:32:05Margarita, please.

00:32:06Yeah.

00:32:07The flirting workshop went really, really well.

00:32:10I was happy that Tiffany and I got paired together.

00:32:13Basically, we were the best flirts.

00:32:15I'm attracted to Tiffany.

00:32:16I'm attracted to Tiffany because she's like a real person.

00:32:19She's really cute.

00:32:20I really like her eyes and I think she's feeling my eyes as well, so I'm just excited to see

00:32:26what comes of it.

00:32:27Yeah, I feel really nervous.

00:32:28Yeah.

00:32:29Yeah.

00:32:30I feel really nervous.

00:32:31I'm like, I don't like date a lot.

00:32:32Okay.

00:32:33So like, this is weird for me.

00:32:34Okay.

00:32:35Do you go on a lot of dates or no?

00:32:36Um.

00:32:37You can be honest.

00:32:38I do.

00:32:39I feel like I'm in waves of going on dates and kind of just being like, I'm done with

00:32:43dates.

00:32:44Why?

00:32:45Like, if you go on a few bad dates, it's exhausting.

00:32:47It's time consuming.

00:32:48I want to hear a bad date story.

00:32:51A bad date story.

00:32:53You need to.

00:32:54Come on.

00:32:55I feel like that's, I'll just tell a brief story.

00:32:56I went out with another girl.

00:32:57Yeah.

00:32:58From Jersey and I thought like we were clicking based on that.

00:33:01Yeah.

00:33:02And I get there and I hear her voice and it's like the actress from

00:33:09White Lotus.

00:33:10Wait.

00:33:11Jennifer Coolidge.

00:33:12Jennifer Coolidge's voice.

00:33:13No.

00:33:14In like hot girl's body.

00:33:16And I'm just like, I feel so shallow right now, but I just like am instantly turned off.

00:33:21So that was a turn off for you.

00:33:22Instantly turned off.

00:33:23That was it for me.

00:33:24So when you're on the dating apps and you're like, you know, scrolling through, trying to

00:33:28find your person, what do you go for?

00:33:30Really?

00:33:31Okay.

00:33:32What's your type?

00:33:33Um, so I do, like I said, I like exotic.

00:33:36Like bilingual is really nice.

00:33:37Okay.

00:33:38Uh, you said Cuban and Colombian, right?

00:33:40Mm-hmm.

00:33:41So that's a good mix for me.

00:33:42Uh.

00:33:43You're just describing me.

00:33:44That's it.

00:33:45That's it.

00:33:46I'm actually learning to speak Spanish.

00:33:48Okay.

00:33:49So that's nice.

00:33:50I'll teach you.

00:33:51I'll be a teacher.

00:33:52Uh, yeah.

00:33:53I'm learning.

00:33:54I'm very teachable.

00:33:55Yeah?

00:33:56Yeah.

00:33:57Behave yourself.

00:33:58Yeah.

00:34:00Spit some game to me in Spanish.

00:34:02Well, cheers first.

00:34:03Okay.

00:34:04Salud.

00:34:05Salud.

00:34:06Okay.

00:34:07That's a good one.

00:34:09Tomamos.

00:34:10I'm actually shocked.

00:34:12Mm-hmm.

00:34:13I thought you'd be like, hola, come us, cha.

00:34:15No, no.

00:34:16Estoy aprendiendo dos veces por semana.

00:34:18Y mi exento.

00:34:19Hold on.

00:34:20You, like, know Spanish.

00:34:21Sí.

00:34:22Carlos is not generally my type.

00:34:26He kind of looks dorky, but he's sweet.

00:34:29He seems sweet.

00:34:30And there is something sexy about him.

00:34:32He's tall.

00:34:33He's got a nice body.

00:34:34He starts speaking Spanish.

00:34:36And I was like, oh, that's sexy.

00:34:38This guy's smart.

00:34:39He knows a whole other language fluently.

00:34:41So, I feel like he's, like, top contender right now.

00:34:45And I'm actually really excited about it.

00:34:47All right.

00:35:03It is time to wrap up your speed date.

00:35:07Close up shop.

00:35:08And, gentlemen, you're going to rotate to the next hot tub.

00:35:11So, say your goodbyes however you see fit.

00:35:14And then move on to the next young lady.

00:35:17Even though we have a compatibility,

00:35:21I may have jumped the gun making out with Elise.

00:35:23I feel like I need to dial it back a little bit.

00:35:26And now Jen is on my mind.

00:35:30I mean, from the moment I saw Jen at the party,

00:35:32I've been interested.

00:35:33And, I mean, since breakfast this morning,

00:35:35I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her one-on-one.

00:35:37Like Usman said, she is hot, man.

00:35:40She's hot.

00:35:41She is.

00:35:43I've got two minutes to shoot my shot

00:35:48with the hottest girl at this retreat.

00:35:50The pressure's on.

00:35:52I've got two minutes to shoot my shot

00:35:53with the hottest girl at this retreat.

00:35:54The pressure's on.

00:35:55I haven't got our two minutes.

00:35:57I haven't got our two minutes.

00:35:58Actually, I haven't been pulled.

00:35:59I mean, I didn't know how to expect.

00:36:02I got into it.

00:36:04When you walked into the room yesterday,

00:36:06I started to ignite the shoot.

00:36:09You had your mask on, bro.

00:36:12I'm going to look forward.

00:36:13I'm going to look forward.

00:36:14I'm going to look forward.

00:36:15I'm going to look forward.

00:36:16I'm going to look forward.

00:36:17I'm going to look forward.

00:36:18Definitely Rob feels so much better than having Tim

00:36:21in the hot tub.

00:36:22The first gleams that I had from him,

00:36:24it was like, oh no, he's a player.

00:36:27Because he was making out with the release the first night.

00:36:30I see a lot of arrogance,

00:36:32but maybe it's just a lot of confidence, which is sexy.

00:36:34Yeah.

00:36:35So what are you into?

00:36:36Being a girly girl?

00:36:38Like being sexy?

00:36:39Like when it doesn't stay after you.

00:36:41Family of those clothes, actually.

00:36:43Really?

00:36:44Wow.

00:36:45Rob and Jen are like super close.

00:36:48And then not knowing where Rob's head's at

00:36:50is kind of making me a little nervous.

00:36:52I think Jen needs to stop flirting around

00:36:54with every single man,

00:36:55because I don't like competition

00:36:57and no one competes against me.

00:36:59If I want something, I get it.

00:37:01I'm looking very thin, very girly.

00:37:04I love to do adventure things.

00:37:07You just want to see the world.

00:37:10Like I would do it like,

00:37:12if I go to Everest or like to Manchester.

00:37:16Oh my God.

00:37:17Just waiting on me.

00:37:18I hope love's head.

00:37:19Like I will be making myself there

00:37:21and then I'll put it there, you know?

00:37:23Yeah?

00:37:24Have you made love in any amazing places?

00:37:26Have you?

00:37:27You have.

00:37:30I don't know.

00:37:31That sounds like a yes to me.

00:37:33I don't know.

00:37:34.

00:37:35Damn.

00:37:36She's telling me all the right things.

00:37:38What are you trying to do to me?

00:37:39Like, you sure are you trying to like,

00:37:41you're up with my head, aren't you?

00:37:42Like this, you can't be that girl.

00:37:44Like that girl doesn't exist.

00:37:45What are you talking about?

00:37:47That's what I've been looking for.

00:37:48So now I have a goal for Everest.

00:37:51Jen is the only speed date where I'm like,

00:37:56I don't want to get out of this hot tub.

00:37:59I just want to see what this is.

00:38:01And if Jen is interested in me,

00:38:03that I might want to put more interest in Jen

00:38:07and distance myself from Elise.

00:38:09I'm hoping Elise picks up that, you know,

00:38:11I do want to take it slower with her.

00:38:14I had a good time with you.

00:38:16I had a good time with you.

00:38:17Okay.

00:38:18Go.

00:38:26What do we do now?

00:38:27I'm going to eat.

00:38:28I'm so hungry.

00:38:29I'm tired.

00:38:30I don't know.

00:38:31Are you coming?

00:38:32I'm kind of stuck in the middle between these guys

00:38:36that I'm interested in.

00:38:37So what does that imply?

00:38:39Woo!

00:38:56I thought I'd be more drunk and much for college.

00:38:58I have.

00:38:59Hey!

00:39:00We're about to take shots, y'all.

00:39:02We're about to take shots.

00:39:03Yeah.

00:39:04We need two more.

00:39:05Add two more to the situation.

00:39:06Two more.

00:39:07Hi.

00:39:08Good to see you.

00:39:09How are you?

00:39:10Good to see you again.

00:39:11Hey, brother.

00:39:12What's up?

00:39:13How does it taste?

00:39:14Is it sugar, bitter, or salt?

00:39:15It's going to be better.

00:39:16It's going to be salty.

00:39:17It's a little stingy, but it's going to be good.

00:39:18You'll be fine.

00:39:19Okay.

00:39:20Courtney and Usman showed up together at the bar,

00:39:22and I'm not surprised at all,

00:39:25although they want to keep saying that they've never done anything.

00:39:28I'm like, you guys haven't hooked up, and there's nothing there?

00:39:31I call bull .

00:39:33I think Courtney's not going to hold that secret for long.

00:39:36I'm just going to sit back and...

00:39:41sip my tea.

00:39:44Cheers to your first shot.

00:39:45Ready?

00:39:46Go.

00:39:47Get it.

00:39:48Three, two, one, go.

00:39:50Take the lime.

00:39:51Take the lime.

00:39:52Don't throw it.

00:39:53Mm-hmm.

00:39:54Chew on the lime.

00:39:57Okay.

00:39:58Are you okay?

00:39:59Are you okay?

00:40:00Yeah, I'm good.

00:40:01Yeah.

00:40:02See, it's not that bad.

00:40:03Yeah.

00:40:04You got this.

00:40:05Tequila.

00:40:06Tastes so bitter.

00:40:08Um, I don't know.

00:40:10It didn't do me anything yet.

00:40:12Maybe it has to go with the process.

00:40:14I hope it's not going to make me go so wild and crazy.

00:40:17Just watch out.

00:40:19Congratulations.

00:40:20Congratulations.

00:40:21Woo!

00:40:23That's comedy.

00:40:24Yay!

00:40:27I got it.

00:40:28Oh, that was so cute.

00:40:29Ladies and gents.

00:40:30Hi.

00:40:31How are ya?

00:40:32Oh, all right.

00:40:33Let's hang out over here.

00:40:34I got some things to chat with you about.

00:40:35Oh, no.

00:40:36All right.

00:40:37Some good.

00:40:38Some not so great.

00:40:39Oh, no.

00:40:40We're all learning here.

00:40:41That's the whole point, right?

00:40:42All right.

00:40:43Sure.

00:40:44Some of you look excited.

00:40:45Some of you look terrified.

00:40:46So, this will be fun.

00:40:48Uh, so the first thing is, I'll tell you,

00:40:50how are you doing?

00:40:51Oh, no.

00:40:52All right.

00:40:53All right.

00:40:54All right.

00:40:55All right.

00:40:56Sure.

00:40:57Uh, so the first thing is, I'll tell you,

00:40:59the lowest four rated folks based on these scorecards.

00:41:05And I want to preface this by saying,

00:41:07this doesn't mean that you aren't worthy of being here

00:41:10or anything like that.

00:41:12It's just, you know, objective scoring.

00:41:14So, if you are in this bottom four, this is about growth.

00:41:18And you have an opportunity to finding the person

00:41:21that you're meant to be here for by the end of this, okay?

00:41:24So, those bottom four people are...

00:41:32Chantel.

00:41:36Nikki.

00:41:37Oh.

00:41:38Tim.

00:41:40And Jennifer.

00:41:42On me?

00:41:43Yes.

00:41:44Like, I don't think that's fair.

00:41:45Who made this?

00:41:46Who, who came out with those results?

00:41:49It's insane.

00:41:50Now we're going to talk about some specifics.

00:41:52This is just to have a conversation, get some feedback,

00:41:54and we'll move on and have some fun.

00:41:56Okay.

00:41:57Chantel.

00:41:58As mentioned, you were in that bottom four realm,

00:42:00but also looking at some of your scores,

00:42:02you also rated others pretty low.

00:42:04There may have been, like, awkwardness.

00:42:06Sure.

00:42:07Um, with my interactions with other people.

00:42:09It's, it's a tricky situation,

00:42:10because we're trying to accelerate a process

00:42:11that usually happens over six months to a year.

00:42:13It really hurts.

00:42:14I don't feel like I deserve such a low score.

00:42:17Maybe I'm delusional.

00:42:20Maybe I'm, maybe I'm delusional.

00:42:21I really did bad in the hot tub,

00:42:23let's, let's be honest.

00:42:36But I'm still curious about what Joe thought of me though.

00:42:41Hopefully he didn't rank me too low.

00:42:42He is a little young guy when he saw a chor kid.

00:42:45But of course, first of all,

00:42:46younger but I could teach him a few things Rob here's what I wanted to ask a question about

00:42:54you rated the six dates that you had as threes I rated all the dates the same to me it was like

00:43:03every date is us sitting in a hot tub for two minutes so it all just felt like the same date

00:43:08over and over and over and over and over so I just kind of rated them all the same

00:43:11I'm trying to kind of make the least understand that I'm just trying to keep my options open

00:43:16without hurting anyone's feelings and at the same time nobody got a different number so nobody was

00:43:21nobody gained favor or lost favor because I can't be acting like I'm just gonna jump right in to

00:43:28trying to get at Jen I don't want to look like that flaky guy who just like one day I'm all over this

00:43:35girl the next day just like it's nothing I'm all over that girl like let me put a little pause on

00:43:40where's Rob at I guess I'm confused because I don't even understand I guess I'm lost

00:43:47about what what you asked Rob so what Rob was kind of saying was that every date was exactly the same

00:43:54cookie cutter you get in you talk to people for two minutes does that make you feel any kind of way to

00:44:00be described as like you're the same as everybody else you talk to I feel like when I feel it I feel

00:44:05it yeah I don't know if I like okay that's fair I don't know maybe I need to work a little harder

00:44:10I don't know it was the same date six times so everybody got the same number I don't understand

00:44:16okay who wants to go next just kidding we can keep moving forward but a little bit of homework

00:44:25think about the person that you feel like you have the biggest connection with here tonight

00:44:29and within the next day or so I just want you to take that vulnerable step doesn't mean that

00:44:34you have to fall in love tomorrow it just means I'd like to get some coffee with you one-on-one

00:44:39like to go on a date with you take a deep breath let yourself be yourself you can't go back and

00:44:44change today but here here we are so it's been a lovely day of getting to know each other on a

00:44:51deeper level why don't we grab our things and we'll hit the road sound good to you sounds great

00:44:55all right thank you Rob was just so disrespectful to me my entire night last night was with him

00:45:07between us kissing and making me feel special and then giving me a score as just another girl

00:45:14you know we're all messed with the wrong woman

00:45:20Rob yeah so after after kissing me last night and you were trying to get me to go you last night

00:45:31yo this chick is crazy she might be a nutcase

00:45:37you just want to put your me

00:45:39I think it's so attractive that you speak like Spanish

00:45:59have you ever since it's hard for him to get out of the country have you ever thought about going to

00:46:02Nigeria I want to go would you be open to that yeah I wouldn't know how you've already talked

00:46:08to me yeah yeah I see I mean I possibly be like I'm like how many secret wife does he have in

00:46:13Nigeria that I'm gonna have something sounds like trust might be an issue here after you've heard

00:46:17that song no you have nothing to do about yes we're getting another drink we're getting a long

00:46:21island good how are you very good oh the happy couple what's your poison choice

00:46:31right now I feel super awkward around Lexi said some things that kind of made her upset or triggered

00:46:46at the flurry workshop I feel more comfortable talking to women online it's definitely nice to

00:46:52have a buffer when you're communicating with somebody time delay texting you can think about

00:46:56it you know have a tea whatever take a come back to it you know but you know in this real-time

00:47:02scenario here he time is not an option I feel like Lexi and I have no romantic interest in each other

00:47:08but really this could be the opportunity to improve my skills talking to women in person

00:47:13I'm gonna use a bathroom I'll be right back okay I heard something about people going back to the

00:47:19room what happened with that yeah so last night like maybe six of us went back to the room and

00:47:24we're hey we went back to Tiffany's room last oh come over come over yeah so yeah I got heated in

00:47:30her room last night like I felt like Chantel and Usman they kind of had like a conflict before we even

00:47:35went to the room and she told me like be careful he's a scammer and then he got like a little butthurt

00:47:39about that I'm like yeah but even though I heard about that she said oh be careful I still want to

00:47:43like it that was the main reason why I call her attention yesterday I was like hey what's up yeah

00:47:47you know I want to hear the reason why she have that perception about me yeah because I never talked

00:47:51to her so why would she call me scammer I've had a fight last night with Chantel I am still feeling so

00:47:58angry over it Chantel open her mouth and said to Courtney in Istanbul that she should be careful

00:48:03with me I'm a scammer and I feel like she owe me apology because why would you call me scammer for

00:48:07no reason that's not fair but like I don't say that because she's a woman I cannot punch her so why

00:48:12you even punch her yeah that's what I'm saying like if it's a man then what I'm trying to say is that

00:48:18she's a female what I'm trying to say is that

00:48:19hey uh oh hello hey hey welcome back thank you where were you guys at hey I couldn't even tell

00:48:31you like on a beach or something the whole time I haven't seen you the whole time hey yo what are

00:48:36you doing how you doing bro I haven't met you yet Cole Cole Rob Rob I've been hearing your name all

00:48:40day I'm like who's wrong really in your guys's thing or just yes amongst you guys I did I guess Cole

00:48:47and Jen hit it off at the masquerade ball but uh I ain't worried about Cole like there's different

00:48:53versions of a good-looking guy there's me and then there's the good-looking guy that looks like

00:48:59Jack Sparrow before bed or lost at sea look I don't know it's like an odd choice did you guys have a

00:49:08good day yeah it was all right I mean where were you out last night last night I was in my womb last

00:49:14night I was in my womb last night how was your day after the speed dating activity mmm I feel

00:49:31attracted like physically attracted to rock he has like this sexual magnetism but now it is super

00:49:40nice to see all tonight I see that he's a little nervous around me and that is super cute these two

00:49:47men are very attractive but they're very different from each other like two different flavors of ice

00:49:52cream now I have to choose which one I want to taste do you have a big family yeah I do you want

00:49:59to tell me a little bit about that but I am a single actually a single comma kids you have a single

00:50:06kid okay how old is your kid it's seven years old it's my book it's a girl that's beautiful I'm happy that

00:50:13you told me that I have no doubt that's true looking at mom actually does that make you nervous to tell

00:50:21people that it's something that has to be put on the table it's very important and at some place I

00:50:30think it's important I mean a mom changes everything when it comes to dating you have to be sure that

00:50:38you're thinking that just about yourself but what is best for the future as a possible future family so

00:50:45it's a lot of pressure all seems to not freak out about the fact that I am a single mother and

00:50:50and that is actually a super super positive sign that I may be able to to build a relationship

00:50:57with him I really love to talk to you like I always like I don't know like when it has been

00:51:04like really short I'm like it was so comfortable talking to you I love that I feel the same way I

00:51:09think from the very start when I saw you last night with eye contact in the mask there was a spark there

00:51:13for me and I'm happy to hear that maybe that was the same for you Jen's no doubt a powerful sexy woman

00:51:19um I am a little little nervous to talk to her just because the previous night when we met um it was a

00:51:25little awkward just given the fact that we had the masks on and it was hard to hear and I wasn't used to

00:51:29her accent so I kept having to say like what what what are you saying please repeat yourself

00:51:33um when I came to the retreat I was open-minded to the idea that somebody might have a kid

00:51:38so when uh Jen said that she had a kid this isn't a deal breaker for me I think I'd be a good father

00:51:42love to give it a shot and I'm super excited to see where it goes from here

00:51:46okay my biggest one of my biggest things that I want to do is go to a renaissance fair

00:51:52to a renaissance fair anyone anyone I've been to like at least two I've been in it they're great

00:51:58you can throw axes hi how was your day it's out of like you're like oh my god it's like right away

00:52:06anyone you like no everything you said that last night I think I'm talking Rob huh it's Rob

00:52:14ours was fun but we had to like rate everybody

00:52:17why did you say that our date was the same as everyone else is you just I knew you didn't get it

00:52:24everybody got the same okay so after calling me last night you guys are rating each other

00:52:28wait wait wait wait we didn't have to rate each other you guys are rating that date yeah but I

00:52:32didn't really like that particular question Rob I don't really care what you like okay so after

00:52:37after kissing me last night calling me on the phone for an hour and a half and you're trying to get

00:52:42me to go you last night on the phone you're upset because I gave every girl the same number on

00:52:48one particular we kissed last night you're here for the wrong reasons you're telling me to go you

00:52:56last night are you not say that yeah you didn't know I didn't I said I said no no no no no no no

00:53:00I said we can hang out do your receipts pull up the receipt then did I not just say I want to

00:53:05hang out show me some yeah show receipts show receipts Elise is a model for Miami and you're gonna

00:53:11give her three are you kidding me like his game like I could help him with his flirting Elise is

00:53:17throwing herself at you like showing her ass making out with you and you still managed to

00:53:21this up how how did this conversation start she's like sorry something happened she's mad that I rated

00:53:29everybody the same so she's pissed off at me but I think that's ridiculous really so why did why

00:53:35were you because you're refusing to understand my perspective and why I rated everybody the same

00:53:39you should rank her number one thank you

00:53:42I was gonna give Elise the benefit of the doubt I mean at least for now we it's only been a couple

00:53:51days but after acting like this I mean I'm like certain that this girl is not somebody that I could

00:53:58be with like that is the biggest the biggest red flag for me the absolute biggest worst thing that you

00:54:05could do if you think that I'm gonna be interested in you is accuse me I haven't done in front of

00:54:10people that don't know you see where she's saying though no I see her being childish how do you feel

00:54:15if she ranks all the equal but you guys have like I don't get why because I'm not a emotional person

00:54:22that can't get you want to take me behind doors and me so no one thinks you're a dog

00:54:27there you go I'm not an emotional person that can't get why you just want to put your

00:54:45There you go.

00:54:49You're an asshole.

00:54:51You're here for the wrong intentions.

00:54:54You hurt me. It's rude.

00:54:55This altercation right here.

00:54:57I have a feeling that you were going to do this.

00:54:59No, I'm going to hear this.

00:55:00But it's fine.

00:55:00I think that we should be a little more fat.

00:55:03No, you're good.

00:55:04You're fine.

00:55:06In 24 hours, we've gone from we're vibing, we have a connection.

00:55:11But because I ranked her a three, she is now yelling at me.

00:55:15In my face, just yelling at me.

00:55:17And I'm just like, yo, this chick is crazy.

00:55:21She might be a nutcase.

00:55:23Look at these time calls.

00:55:25FaceTimes me.

00:55:2610.43 a.m.

00:55:28Calls me at 2 a.m.

00:55:29Incoming call for an hour and 20 minutes.

00:55:32Wow.

00:55:33But I'm just another girl, right?

00:55:34On the ranking board.

00:55:36Christ, Jesus Christ.

00:55:38I don't know why.

00:55:42Oh, my God.

00:55:43What the fuck is going on?

00:55:45I don't know why the fuck is it.

00:55:47I was like, yes, we talked on the phone.

00:55:48Yes, I told her, like, yeah, we should probably not be baking out on the first day.

00:55:52And it is a bad look.

00:55:53And let's not do that.

00:55:54And let's kind of, like, slow it down.

00:55:56And now she's saying, you want to me behind closed doors?

00:55:58You want to hide me?

00:55:59You, you.

00:56:01Like, I broke her heart because I put a three for everybody.

00:56:04Because you didn't have sex with her.

00:56:08Probably.

00:56:08I don't, which is fine.

00:56:10And so now to make me into the dog who wanted to when I didn't want to.

00:56:14Elise is upset because Rob didn't sleep with her.

00:56:18She wanted to get and Rob didn't her.

00:56:23She wanted her cheeks clapped and, um, is let down because Rob didn't do it.

00:56:32I think.

00:56:34But, yeah, I was just not expecting this.

00:56:38Maybe take it as a red flag.

00:56:40Oh, I'm definitely not interested anymore.

00:56:42Like, I'm, I could not talk to somebody like that.

00:56:44It's only the second day.

00:56:46So, right, I'm glad that this is what happened on the second day because this is way too excessive.

00:56:52I think I'm going to go to bed.

00:56:54All right.

00:56:55Sweet dreaming.

00:57:01So you're not going to say bye to her?

00:57:03No, I'm not going to talk to her ever again.

00:57:05Why?

00:57:05Because that was insanity.

00:57:09That's crazy.

00:57:11Why can't I not have drama?

00:57:14I didn't even do anything.

00:57:15I just got here, man.

00:57:18I don't even know.

00:57:22I'm tired of being taken advantage of.

00:57:24I feel like when I start liking a guy a little bit, he does this to me.

00:57:29After all this time that he's tried to talk to me and make me feel special as just another girl, you know, I know that was fake.

00:57:39Sometimes I speak quickly and I should think probably before I speak and I get ahead of myself.

00:57:46But I'm a real lovable human with a big heart that's just really scared of getting hurt.

00:57:53And it just happened.

00:57:54They get mad because you don't want to f**k them.

00:58:00And then they start, you know, blah, blah, blah, speaking all this nonsense.

00:58:03It happens all the time.

00:58:03Because, like, if that's what she wanted, she really just tanked it and shot herself in the foot.

00:58:08Like, that is never going to happen.

00:58:09Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:58:10Why would you do that if that's what you want?

00:58:12I was not envious of you during that, bro.

00:58:16My day was the worst one.

00:58:17I think, like, out of everybody.

00:58:19No, it wasn't.

00:58:19No connection.

00:58:20No, because I felt, like, so awkward.

00:58:22Just, like, anxiety.

00:58:24You do well.

00:58:25Yeah, but...

00:58:26I feel like I did the worst.

00:58:28I really don't know if I am good at flirting or I'm not.

00:58:31But I am honestly better than Courtney because at the flirting one-on-one, she was crashing.

00:58:38Oh, my God.

00:58:39So I'm just trying to be that gentleman because I like Courtney.

00:58:42And I don't want her to feel bad about it.

00:58:44I'm really surprised, Rob, that you got into something because I really thought it would have been Chantel and Usman.

00:58:51Yeah.

00:58:52Right?

00:58:52Because he said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.

00:58:56Damn.

00:58:56He said, well, yeah.

00:58:57What?

00:58:58Calling him a scammer.

00:58:59Yeah, calling him a scammer and all that ****.

00:59:01We're talking about ****.

00:59:02I'd take Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

00:59:05I bet.

00:59:05She's ready to choke him up.

00:59:06Yeah, I wouldn't want to mess with you.

00:59:09I understand where Usman's coming from, being offended or hurt by what someone's saying.

00:59:14But he escalated too far.

00:59:16And it goes to show you that you're just going to be an asshole for no reason.

00:59:21And I'm hoping Courtney realizes that because I don't want that flower to **** blossom.

00:59:26I'm trying to throw as much interference in there as I can.

00:59:31I mean, it's all about the flirting.

00:59:33They say flirting one-on-one, so, like, if you don't know how to flit...

00:59:36Can I interrupt for a little bit?

00:59:38I want to talk to you, Usman.

00:59:40Okay.

00:59:40Because I heard that you said something behind my back

00:59:43that wasn't very nice.

00:59:44Actually, it was very aggressive.

00:59:47You told people that you would want to punch me?

00:59:51If I was a man, I will.

00:59:52If I was a man.

00:59:53Yeah, but you are a woman, so I can't.

00:59:55I would never touch a woman in my life.

00:59:56Why would you say that?

00:59:58Why would you say something to her about me in allegation that you don't know?

01:00:02Because I felt like they were true.

01:00:05How is it true?

01:00:06Like, what do I scan?

01:00:07I'm very protective of my friends.

01:00:09And I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them.

01:00:12You act so, like, childish.

01:00:14I don't know.

01:00:15Me? Childish?

01:00:16No, never.

01:00:17No, you did.

01:00:23You're going to punch me in the face or, like, what's up?

01:00:28You guys are not fighting.

01:00:29Do you want to fight me?

01:00:31No, I don't want...

01:00:32Please, I don't want to fight you.

01:00:33Do you want to fight me?

01:00:34No.

01:00:35He's not. He's not. Come on.

01:00:36All right, I got to go to bed.

01:00:37Yeah, go to bed.

01:00:38All right, good night.

01:00:38You okay?

01:00:40I'm done.

01:00:41Tired.

01:00:42I'm fine.

01:00:42Boy, you just put me at you as karma.

01:00:44I don't like you.

01:00:46This is some bull...

01:00:48...

01:00:50...

01:00:51...

01:00:55...

01:00:57...

01:00:59...

01:01:01...

01:01:03Trying to talk me out of seagulls.

01:01:07You know what?

01:01:08this.

01:01:11I tried to own up to my misunderstanding,

01:01:14and some man says that they wanted to punch me in the face.

01:01:17I didn't come here for this.

01:01:19I have every right to believe he's a scammer.

01:01:22He did target older American women.

01:01:26I've never been so disrespected by a man in my life.

01:01:34Usman better check himself,

01:01:36or he's going to be in for a world of hurt.

01:01:39How?

01:01:40I feel like you're going to kill the mood

01:01:49if you guys don't make up the rest of the trip.

01:01:51You guys just need to shut up.

01:01:53I'm not trying to deal with this.

01:01:54I want to be having fun.

01:01:55Like, you guys are killing my vibe.

01:01:57Yeah, but the thing is that I'm just not thinking anything

01:01:59that has to do with coming easy.

01:02:00We don't think that about yourself.

01:02:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:02I mean, I don't, I didn't say you, you know,

01:02:05like, but a lot of people think that,

01:02:07and that's fighting.

01:02:08It doesn't matter.

01:02:10It doesn't matter.

01:02:12This is bull****.

01:02:13I feel like Chantelle is kind of, like,

01:02:15trying to run the whole trip for me.

01:02:18I'm finding someone.

01:02:20I'm dipping too, man.

01:02:23You want to go too?

01:02:24Yeah, I'm going to go back to the room.

01:02:25Okay.

01:02:25You have a good news.

01:02:27But, I mean, I'm just having my time to shoot my shot,

01:02:30and then Courtney is right here,

01:02:32and then you keep on saying all these negative things about me.

01:02:36It's not my fault that Chantelle picked the wrong guy.

01:02:40Maybe he's still out because of green card.

01:02:43She should be smarter than that.

01:02:45Good night.

01:02:46Good night.

01:02:47Good night.

01:02:48All right, bro.

01:02:48You safe?

01:02:49Yeah, man.

01:02:50Hey, ma'am.

01:02:51What's up?

01:02:51What a night.

01:02:53Yeah, it's hot.

01:02:55You just need to just let it all go.

01:03:00But you're here being, like, negative now, see?

01:03:05I'm going to be negative to you?

01:03:07Okay, I'm sorry.

01:03:07You're, like, yeah, you're fighting with my friend.

01:03:10I want you guys to all be cool.

01:03:11I want to have a great vibe and get along.

01:03:13Okay, I'm sorry.

01:03:19This is not a situation I want to be in.

01:03:21Like, I'm kind of stuck in the middle

01:03:23between my friend and a guy that I'm interested in.

01:03:26Usman's mad.

01:03:28Chantelle's mad.

01:03:29And Chantelle's terrified when she gets mad.

01:03:33I don't want to be caught in the crossfires

01:03:34because I don't want to go to Mexican jail.

01:03:38Good night, guys.

01:03:42Buenas noches.

01:03:43Bonita.

01:03:46Good night, Jennifer.

01:03:47Good night.

01:03:50I think he's here, yeah.

01:03:52Hey, Jennifer.

01:03:53Mind if I walk you home?

01:03:55Yeah, sure.

01:03:57Where do you live?

01:03:58Um, I think it's these ones.

01:04:00Do you know how to do that?

01:04:01I'm trying to figure out.

01:04:02Okay.

01:04:03It's a maze out here.

01:04:05Cole is the hottest pilot I've ever seen.

01:04:08And he's already, like, locked in on Jen

01:04:10and just following her around like a little puppy.

01:04:13But at the same time,

01:04:14I'm curious how genuine and sincere he is

01:04:18because most pilots, you know,

01:04:20have girlfriends in every city.

01:04:22I need to feel him out a little bit

01:04:24before I judge him.

01:04:26This time of night, you've got to be careful.

01:04:29Yeah, of course.

01:04:29I just want to make sure you're safe

01:04:31from these Mexican raccoons.

01:04:34You're too cute, though.

01:04:36It's very clear that I'm going to have

01:04:39a lot of competition

01:04:39when it comes to dating Jennifer.

01:04:42I'm not the type of guy to give up easily.

01:04:44I'm not afraid to spite for what I want out of this.

01:04:47Jen is like a Greek goddess,

01:04:48and that's the one I'm all in on.

01:04:51Is this where you're staying?

01:04:53Yeah, this is my place.

01:04:55Okay.

01:04:55Yeah, so thank you.

01:04:57Yeah, of course.

01:04:58I'm so happy that we had the opportunity

01:04:59to get a little on time

01:05:01and talk about things other than...

01:05:03You're a great job.

01:05:04I like it.

01:05:05I appreciate it.

01:05:07All night.

01:05:07Yeah, of course.

01:05:08I'm so happy to talk to you all.

01:05:10Sleep well.

01:05:10Hopefully, see you tomorrow.

01:05:11All right.

01:05:12Bye.

01:05:13Yeah.

01:05:19Oh, my God.

01:05:23It makes me really happy

01:05:25to hear God's feelings and thoughts

01:05:28towards me

01:05:30because I really like him.

01:05:33Rob and I definitely had a good night

01:05:35to be dating,

01:05:36but I have to say,

01:05:37my favorite is God.

01:05:39I love how we are talking.

01:05:41Also, like,

01:05:42it's very sweet of him

01:05:43to take me to my door

01:05:45and say goodnight

01:05:46and protect me

01:05:47from the Mexican raccoons.

01:05:51All right.

01:05:53You guys have a good night.

01:05:54All right, cool.

01:05:55Love is in the air.

01:05:59They had the best date

01:06:00of all of us, though.

01:06:01They did.

01:06:02So I'm happy for the...

01:06:03Well, what do we do now?

01:06:05I'm going to eat.

01:06:06I'm so hungry.

01:06:07I'm tired.

01:06:08I don't go home.

01:06:08I just want to go to my room

01:06:09and just go to bed straight.

01:06:10Okay.

01:06:11Are you coming?

01:06:14You said you want

01:06:16to go to bed straight.

01:06:17Yeah.

01:06:17So what does that imply?

01:06:18Maybe you should dial it down

01:06:22a little bit

01:06:23and be more subtle

01:06:24about things.

01:06:24I don't know.

01:06:25I'm just trying to enjoy

01:06:26Courtney's company

01:06:27and get to know her.

01:06:28And if he's trying to

01:06:29take her away

01:06:30and keep her all to herself,

01:06:32well, good luck, Usman.

01:06:34The last time was

01:06:40kind of feeling like

01:06:41this Jen and Rob thing.

01:06:43Anytime you talk about Jen,

01:06:44the only thing I remember

01:06:45is what she told us yesterday.

01:06:47What?

01:06:48So, you know, like,

01:06:49it's not something

01:06:49that I actually should tell you?

01:06:51No, tell me.

01:06:53I think if people are coming

01:06:54to tell me a rumor,

01:06:56they want it to get out.

01:07:04I'm tired.

01:07:09I want to go home.

01:07:10I just want to go to my room

01:07:11and just go to bed straight.

01:07:12Okay.

01:07:13Are you coming?

01:07:16You said you want

01:07:17to go to bed straight.

01:07:18Yeah, but...

01:07:19So what does that imply?

01:07:20No, you didn't get the point.

01:07:21I have my laptop.

01:07:21Look at which movie.

01:07:23That's like 1 o'clock, dude.

01:07:25I'm just going to go to my room

01:07:27and eat and go to bed.

01:07:28I don't...

01:07:29Really? Okay.

01:07:30I'm tired as s***.

01:07:31That's fine.

01:07:34I feel like me and Courtney

01:07:36already have the connection

01:07:37and I'm kind of trying

01:07:40to see what will happen tonight.

01:07:42And the cold is being so weird.

01:07:44It's so annoying.

01:07:46I don't feel threatening from cold,

01:07:48but I start to think,

01:07:49like, what's going on here?

01:07:53So what'd you think?

01:07:54I think the night was good.

01:07:56It was eventful.

01:07:56There was a lot going on.

01:07:58My favorite part was our thing.

01:08:00Yeah.

01:08:00It was a great day.

01:08:01I felt very attracted to Tiffany

01:08:04and, like, everything

01:08:06that she was giving off.

01:08:07And I'm just excited

01:08:08to see what comes of it.

01:08:10I think there may be a kiss

01:08:11in the future

01:08:11if things keep progressing this way.

01:08:14This is you here?

01:08:15Yeah.

01:08:16All right, cool.

01:08:17Right here.

01:08:17Cool.

01:08:17That was so much fun.

01:08:19Aw, I had so much fun.

01:08:20It's a great first date.

01:08:21Aw, thank you.

01:08:22Aw!

01:08:23Thank you for being so respectful

01:08:26and so easy to talk to.

01:08:28I really, really enjoyed myself,

01:08:31honestly, genuinely.

01:08:32Same.

01:08:32And I hope to keep getting to the night.

01:08:34Okay.

01:08:35Yeah?

01:08:35We will, yeah.

01:08:37Good night.

01:08:37All right.

01:08:40All right, bye.

01:08:50He's cute.

01:08:53I want to learn more about him

01:08:54before I can say I like him, like him.

01:08:56But do I get excited around him

01:08:59and happy around him?

01:08:59Yes.

01:09:00I feel like, I don't know,

01:09:02it's always nice to know

01:09:03that someone's, like, into you.

01:09:04I'm going to change.

01:09:06What a weird, bizarre ending.

01:09:36To the night.

01:09:37I was not expecting that.

01:09:40Um, I think it was pretty insane.

01:09:45I mean, we just got here.

01:09:46I just met this girl

01:09:47and I'm really caught off guard.

01:09:49I don't know why I'm defending myself

01:09:51against a girl that I just met.

01:09:53Hopefully today's or tomorrow's a better day

01:09:55and we can, uh, forget all about tonight

01:09:59because, uh, I don't know,

01:10:01I need some sleep.

01:10:04Alone, for sure.

01:10:05We're standing in the middle of a big crowd

01:10:17turning on.

01:10:21What am I to do

01:10:23when everything feels too good?

01:10:25It's day three.

01:10:29We did, uh, hot tub speed dating yesterday

01:10:32and that did not go so well

01:10:35because, you know,

01:10:36I'm sure that everybody has realized

01:10:39that my ex is here

01:10:40and that has been super awkward.

01:10:44Uh, man, talk about, like,

01:10:46the last person on earth

01:10:47I expected to see here.

01:10:49So far, I don't think there's any girl

01:10:51that is, like, super into me.

01:10:54And I get, I'm, like,

01:10:55a very acquired taste.

01:10:57But, um, I'm really hoping

01:10:59that things turn around

01:11:00and, you know, maybe I can,

01:11:02you know, connect with somebody

01:11:03because so far, I don't know,

01:11:05it just feels like, like,

01:11:06people aren't getting my vibe.

01:11:08And I'm not feeling down,

01:11:09but I'm starting to get a little worried.

01:11:20Oh, my God.

01:11:21This way, this way, this way,

01:11:22so we're gonna hide from the rain.

01:11:24Yeah.

01:11:25I've had a fight last night with Chantel.

01:11:27I'm worried that I up with Courtney

01:11:29and I'm scared that I'm gonna lose

01:11:31out for another guy.

01:11:35Woo!

01:11:35So I asked Courtney

01:11:38to meet me this morning.

01:11:40And then I'm trying to see

01:11:42what I can get from Courtney

01:11:43if she would say yes to me.

01:11:45Yesterday, we were having some argument

01:11:46and misunderstanding with Chantel

01:11:49because I feel like

01:11:50when I was trying to explain myself over there,

01:11:53nobody would understand me.

01:11:54And everyone was like,

01:11:55ah, I'm tired of this guy.

01:11:56Yeah, you were being annoying after that.

01:11:57Despite that you are her close friend,

01:12:01you see, you know, like, being...

01:12:03You on her side,

01:12:04you are still at the same time on my side.

01:12:06Yeah, okay.

01:12:06I do appreciate that.

01:12:06I feel like a love from you.

01:12:08I feel like you're showing me love.

01:12:09Like, I don't mean, like, love-love,

01:12:11but I'm saying that

01:12:11when everybody's trying to, like, pull back,

01:12:14Yeah.

01:12:14you're still being there.

01:12:15So, you know, like, for me,

01:12:16I feel like, yeah.

01:12:17So I appreciate that.

01:12:18It's giving me, like, a growing light.

01:12:20But I don't know.

01:12:20I don't want to be, like, assuming.

01:12:23I would like to know

01:12:24if what I think is what it is.

01:12:25I mean, like, let's see

01:12:31where things go.

01:12:34What do you feel about

01:12:36all these guys?

01:12:45Right now, I'm not having anything romantic.

01:12:47Like, no guys have taken me on dates.

01:12:48Nobody's done anything.

01:12:49Like, I'm just talking

01:12:51and getting to know everybody.

01:12:52And that's okay.

01:12:52I want to ask you this question.

01:12:57What are we?

01:13:01So you're trying to DTR right now?

01:13:03What DTR means?

01:13:05To find the relationship.

01:13:07Oh, I mean,

01:13:08it's early,

01:13:10but I didn't know you before now.

01:13:11I know you know me before here,

01:13:13so I mean, we're in a different level

01:13:15compared to them.

01:13:18So what do you think?

01:13:18I don't think there's anybody

01:13:23who is beautiful more than you.

01:13:24Like, they are all below you.

01:13:25That's how I see you.

01:13:26You are more beautiful than anyone.

01:13:27You're sweet.

01:13:30Okay, on down,

01:13:30can I kiss you?

01:13:34You haven't even taken me on a date.

01:13:36You're kissing me,

01:13:36something because I think

01:13:37I was showing so much

01:13:38effort on moving forward.

01:13:45So can I kiss you?

01:13:45Oh, my cheek.

01:13:52Cheek?

01:13:53You haven't done anything romantic for me.

01:13:55I mean, you just say that

01:13:56you're taking it.

01:13:58Okay.

01:13:59Let me give you.

01:14:01Yeah.

01:14:02Yeah.

01:14:05Right now,

01:14:06Usman's my number one.

01:14:07He just needs to step up his game.

01:14:09He needs to do more

01:14:10than just talk.

01:14:11Talk is cheap.

01:14:12I think he's a smooth talker

01:14:15and he may just want

01:14:16something physical.

01:14:17I don't want to just hook up.

01:14:18I want something more

01:14:19and he needs to figure out

01:14:21if he feels the same.

01:14:23So, what's up with Rob and Jen now?

01:14:25I was like,

01:14:26what the hell happened?

01:14:26Like, kind of feeling like

01:14:28this Jen and Rob thing.

01:14:29Yeah.

01:14:30But then it's like,

01:14:31Jen and Cole

01:14:31and I like,

01:14:32Cole and Jen,

01:14:33like, they were liking

01:14:34each other too.

01:14:34So, I'm like,

01:14:35what do you think?

01:14:37So, like,

01:14:38well, yesterday,

01:14:39anytime you talk about Jen,

01:14:40the only thing I remember

01:14:41is what she told us yesterday.

01:14:43Yeah.

01:14:44Yesterday, me,

01:14:45her,

01:14:46and Rob

01:14:47were sitting down

01:14:48over there

01:14:48having breakfast.

01:14:50No, she was saying

01:14:51a lot about Tim.

01:14:53I was like,

01:14:53what?

01:14:54What?

01:14:55So, you know,

01:14:56like,

01:14:56it's not something

01:14:56that I actually should tell you.

01:14:58No, tell me.

01:15:00I cannot say that.

01:15:01Like,

01:15:01I don't know

01:15:02if I should say that.

01:15:06Tell me.

01:15:07Okay, okay, okay.

01:15:08You know she's his ex.

01:15:09Yeah.

01:15:09She said he don't want

01:15:10to touch her.

01:15:13Wait,

01:15:14she told you about this

01:15:15that's like,

01:15:15tell me what.

01:15:16But he traveled

01:15:17to her country,

01:15:18he met her there,

01:15:18but he refused to touch her.

01:15:20It's like,

01:15:21why?

01:15:21I don't,

01:15:21why though?

01:15:22Why?

01:15:24So, she was saying

01:15:24that he was ready

01:15:25to pay for somebody,

01:15:27like,

01:15:28because it's a male stripper,

01:15:29right?

01:15:30So,

01:15:30he was ready to pay

01:15:31for somebody

01:15:32to give her,

01:15:32like,

01:15:32lap dance.

01:15:35And he did it,

01:15:36and he watched it happening,

01:15:38and he liked it.

01:15:40No way.

01:15:45You know,

01:15:47Elise,

01:15:47the way that she's been

01:15:49coming at me,

01:15:49it's way too early

01:15:50for all this.

01:15:51I mean,

01:15:51yesterday,

01:15:52the tensions

01:15:52are probably high.

01:15:54Well,

01:15:54hopefully,

01:15:55she doesn't continue

01:15:56to come at me

01:15:57about anything.

01:15:57Elise,

01:15:58she's just a wrecking ball

01:16:00of who knows

01:16:01what you're going to get.

01:16:03You're on.

01:16:12Conversation is an art

01:16:14in which very few excel.

01:16:16So,

01:16:17few know

01:16:17when to proceed

01:16:18and when to stop.

01:16:19I like that.

01:16:20right now,

01:16:23I'm reading

01:16:23my book on etiquette.

01:16:25It's called

01:16:25Etiquette of Today.

01:16:27Looks like it was

01:16:28published in

01:16:301806

01:16:34and 1896,

01:16:35something.

01:16:36Before the 1900s,

01:16:37at least.

01:16:39I don't know.

01:16:39There's some things

01:16:40in here,

01:16:41like tip your hat

01:16:41when you meet a lady.

01:16:42You know,

01:16:43that makes sense.

01:16:43You know?

01:16:53So,

01:16:54he was ready to pay

01:16:55for somebody

01:16:56to give a, like,

01:16:56lap dance.

01:16:58And he did it

01:16:59and he watched it happening

01:17:00and he liked it.

01:17:03I wonder if he's a cuckold.

01:17:06What cuckold?

01:17:07It's like

01:17:08a guy

01:17:09that wants

01:17:10to watch

01:17:11their woman

01:17:12have sex

01:17:13with another guy,

01:17:14basically.

01:17:15You do that

01:17:16in the city?

01:17:16That's, like,

01:17:17something.

01:17:18We don't do that

01:17:18in Africa.

01:17:19I don't do that.

01:17:20Yeah, you shouldn't do that.

01:17:21Like, no,

01:17:22I'm not doing that,

01:17:23but that's something.

01:17:24It's like,

01:17:24if he's not

01:17:25wanting to sleep

01:17:25with her,

01:17:26but then he's

01:17:26paying other guys

01:17:27and, like,

01:17:28enjoying watching

01:17:28other guys

01:17:29be with her.

01:17:30Probably.

01:17:31It's just so weird,

01:17:32the whole story.

01:17:33Like, I just

01:17:33don't understand it.

01:17:36No.

01:17:39I'm not shocked

01:17:40that Tim

01:17:41is into some

01:17:42kinky stuff

01:17:43sexually.

01:17:44I wonder

01:17:44if they take

01:17:45the stripper

01:17:46back home

01:17:47because I could

01:17:48see Jen,

01:17:48like,

01:17:49dominating

01:17:49both the men.

01:17:55I can't believe

01:17:56you waited

01:17:5624 hours

01:17:57to come

01:17:58to Mizekako.

01:17:59Like,

01:17:59when you find out

01:17:59this s***,

01:18:00you guys come,

01:18:01like,

01:18:01tell me.

01:18:02I didn't tell you

01:18:02anything.

01:18:03I did not

01:18:04tell you anything.

01:18:05Okay.

01:18:06That they came

01:18:07to the ocean?

01:18:08Mm-hmm.

01:18:08I'm sorry,

01:18:11but there's

01:18:11very little chance

01:18:12I'm gonna keep

01:18:13this a secret.

01:18:14I think if people

01:18:15are coming

01:18:15to tell me a rumor,

01:18:17they want it

01:18:18to get out.

01:18:19Everybody here

01:18:20is gossiping,

01:18:20and this is

01:18:21some hot tea.

01:18:22Do you think

01:18:22I'm not gonna share

01:18:23this?

01:18:23Also,

01:18:24Tim's a friend.

01:18:25I would want to know

01:18:26if people are s***

01:18:26talking to me

01:18:27behind my back.

01:18:28And then,

01:18:28honestly,

01:18:29I want to know

01:18:29if this rumor

01:18:30is true,

01:18:31so I'm gonna go

01:18:31directly to the source.

01:18:36Man,

01:18:37it's starting

01:18:37to really rain out here.

01:18:38Yeah,

01:18:38you guys brought

01:18:39in the storm last night,

01:18:40then you're bringing

01:18:40it back today.

01:18:41It's not my fault.

01:18:42We need to fluff

01:18:42your energy.

01:18:43Have you guys seen that?

01:18:44Yeah,

01:18:44do that,

01:18:44let me see.

01:18:45Do that,

01:18:46do that,

01:18:46let me see.

01:18:47Oh, yeah,

01:18:47I receive it.

01:18:48I receive it.

01:18:49I receive it.

01:18:50Good energy,

01:18:51good energy.

01:18:51I receive it.

01:18:52All right,

01:18:52help me out.

01:18:53I saw this.

01:18:54It's like fluffing

01:18:55your aura,

01:18:56they call it.

01:18:57Don't do too much.

01:18:58It's okay,

01:18:58it's okay,

01:18:58it's okay.

01:18:59I'm kind of

01:19:00jealous,

01:19:01that's crazy.

01:19:04I appreciate

01:19:05her positive vibe,

01:19:08but I don't know

01:19:09if Courtney's ever

01:19:10heard the word

01:19:12fluffer before.

01:19:13I feel like

01:19:13that word is used

01:19:15in other ways

01:19:17that sounds

01:19:18kind of crazy

01:19:19for her to walk

01:19:20up to two guys

01:19:21and go,

01:19:21I'm going to fluff

01:19:22you guys.

01:19:23It sounds crazy.

01:19:26So,

01:19:27I fluffed your aura.

01:19:28Do you feel better now?

01:19:30I guess so.

01:19:30I mean,

01:19:31this thing

01:19:31just started,

01:19:32so I'm going

01:19:33to try not

01:19:33to feel negative

01:19:34about it,

01:19:35but,

01:19:35you know,

01:19:37Elise,

01:19:37the way that

01:19:38she's been

01:19:38coming at me,

01:19:39like,

01:19:39it's been so messy,

01:19:41it's way too early

01:19:41for all this.

01:19:42Yeah.

01:19:43It's just,

01:19:43it seems like

01:19:44another messy situation

01:19:45where I'm,

01:19:46I don't know,

01:19:47I don't know

01:19:47what to do

01:19:49or what to think

01:19:49or where to go

01:19:50with it.

01:19:51I mean,

01:19:51yesterday,

01:19:52the tensions

01:19:52are probably high.

01:19:53It's like a weird

01:19:54situation that somebody

01:19:55I like and you're

01:19:55watching them flirt

01:19:56with multiple,

01:19:57like,

01:19:57hot girls

01:19:57and do stuff.

01:19:58Like,

01:19:59I think you might

01:19:59be like...

01:20:00But at the same time,

01:20:01that reaction

01:20:02is way too extreme.

01:20:04It's too much,

01:20:04yeah.

01:20:05I was interested

01:20:06all the way up

01:20:06until she blew up

01:20:07on me over here

01:20:08last night.

01:20:09Personality

01:20:09over beauty,

01:20:10you know?

01:20:11Hey,

01:20:11especially if it's

01:20:12going to be like that.

01:20:15Well,

01:20:15hopefully,

01:20:15she doesn't continue

01:20:16to try to,

01:20:17like,

01:20:18come at me

01:20:19about anything

01:20:20and hopefully

01:20:21she doesn't

01:20:21bad mouth me

01:20:22to other people.

01:20:24I think you guys

01:20:25should go...

01:20:26Well,

01:20:27yeah,

01:20:27she needs to talk

01:20:27to the dating coach.

01:20:28I think she needs

01:20:28to talk to the dating coach.

01:20:30I think she's got

01:20:30some really unhealthy

01:20:31dating habits.

01:20:33Yeah.

01:20:33I don't want to give her

01:20:34more ammo

01:20:35to attack me with.

01:20:36Like,

01:20:37clearly,

01:20:37she is very unstable

01:20:38and ready to attack

01:20:39somebody that she

01:20:40barely knows

01:20:40over things

01:20:42that are trivial,

01:20:42like,

01:20:43oh,

01:20:43you talked to me

01:20:44on the phone

01:20:44this morning

01:20:45as if I'm,

01:20:46like,

01:20:46wrong to do that.

01:20:48I came here

01:20:49to find love,

01:20:50like,

01:20:50to find a real connection

01:20:51with somebody

01:20:52that brings me peace

01:20:53and it's like,

01:20:54on the second day,

01:20:54I got somebody

01:20:55yelling at me

01:20:55in my face

01:20:56and it's like,

01:20:56that's what my marriage was

01:20:58and moving on from that,

01:21:01I don't want to

01:21:02waste my time again.

01:21:04I can't be

01:21:04with somebody like that,

01:21:06somebody who doesn't,

01:21:07who just, like,

01:21:07turns on me.

01:21:08Elise,

01:21:09she's the wrecking ball

01:21:10of who knows

01:21:11what you're going to get

01:21:12and she's very demanding

01:21:13and very, like,

01:21:14aggressive.

01:21:15I don't want extra drama

01:21:17for no reason.

01:21:19She's going to figure it out

01:21:20one day

01:21:20that if she did like me,

01:21:22she shot herself in the foot.

01:21:24Hopefully,

01:21:26I can redeem myself

01:21:27with some of the other

01:21:27ladies here

01:21:28and we'll see what happens.

01:21:30Just,

01:21:31just take it easy,

01:21:32you know?

01:21:32Yeah.

01:21:39Hey, Rob.

01:21:40Hi.

01:21:40Next time on 90 Day Hunt for Love.

01:21:50Talk to me about the pillow.

01:21:52This pillow.

01:21:54Is that you?

01:21:55That is amazing.

01:21:55I love that you have that with you,

01:21:57knowing that you were going

01:21:58through a rough time.

01:22:00Dwayne 101 was a disaster,

01:22:02but I still got game

01:22:03when it comes to

01:22:04turning on the charm.

01:22:05Do you think you have the courage

01:22:07to ask May out tonight?

01:22:09Or Courtney?

01:22:09Let's go.

01:22:14Party time.

01:22:15Yes!

01:22:18Rocky, Rocky,

01:22:19do your handstand.

01:22:23I need a porn stand.

01:22:26I love Margarita.

01:22:28Yeah, I do too.

01:22:29Hey, guys,

01:22:30how's it going?

01:22:31With Jen,

01:22:32I feel like there's definitely

01:22:33like a connection,

01:22:34like we're vibing.

01:22:35I like Jen a lot,

01:22:36but Cole's not letting

01:22:37anybody talk to Jen.

01:22:39Hopefully he has good intentions,

01:22:40but yeah,

01:22:41it seems like it's pretty messy.

01:22:42You mother

01:22:43f***ers.

01:22:48Even though I feel like

01:22:48I'm not in my league,

01:22:49I'm going to ask May out

01:22:50on a date.

01:22:51But I'm still

01:22:53keeping my eyes on Courtney.

01:22:55Do you have any dates planned?

01:22:57No, not yet.

01:23:00I heard that you paid

01:23:02for a stripper

01:23:03and you like to watch.

01:23:06For six years,

01:23:07I've been having

01:23:08to defend my sexuality.

01:23:10It's like low-hanging fruit.

01:23:11She knows that

01:23:12that's an easy way

01:23:13to upset me.

01:23:14Wasn't you going around

01:23:16saying all this s***

01:23:17about me to everybody

01:23:18that I like men.

01:23:19Everybody knows the truth.

01:23:20No, because you're

01:23:21telling everybody stuff.

01:23:23You have been talking

01:23:23s*** about me too

01:23:25for the last seven years

01:23:26and now it's my s*** turn.

01:23:28Throw the s*** up.

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