00:00If you are a girl child and you want to have a successful marriage, this is a must watch.
00:04My dad told me something, one of those words that I hold so dear to my heart.
00:09He said if he had money, it would make any man that marries his daughter rich.
00:13He said it is not easy to take a man's child, a child that is not your own.
00:18She's grown, you bring her into your house, you marry her, you feed her, you clothe her, you love her, you show her respect.
00:25Like, you make her a woman that our family are proud to see.
00:28You know, having a father in my life told me that men go through a whole lot to give us that smile.
00:35You know, when I see a woman smiling at her child, you know, we women, we are so manipulative that our children see us as the one carrying the burden.
00:43Whereas it's not true.
00:44The reason why you can smile at your child as a woman is because there is a man that has shouldered you, blessed you with money, give you money that you are spending on that child.
00:54There is a man who is housed there in the sun looking for how to make sure that you guys are surviving on a daily basis.
01:01Like, I do not play with my husband.
01:03I don't know why.
01:04Like, I don't play with him.
01:06I don't play with his feelings.
01:07I just make sure that, you know, I go right by this man.
01:10Like, I do not take his feelings for granted.
01:13God helping me and God will continue to help me.
01:15I have never for one day insulted my husband before as a woman.
01:19Like, I don't want to see how there is no marriage that does not have its own.
01:23There is nobody that does not quarrel, that does not say get hungry.
01:26But I tame myself because I have come to understand that if as a woman, if I can control this in my mouth, then that marriage is my own forever.
01:34Because our attitude is what drives this man out.
01:36A man will labor so hard to look for money, yet he will have no peace at home.
01:40He will work so hard, yet he cannot come home and not have issues.
01:45There will always be something to talk about, to quarrel about.
01:47No, I am so happy I have a father in my life.
01:50My dad taught me that, no, you must just love that man, regardless.
01:55He taught me, he will still teach me to now.
01:57I am saying my father's daughter because when I feel there is something I don't understand about men, about my husband as a man, I would ask my father because he is a man.
02:05Many of you who get so carried away with mother's love as a woman, you want to know how to handle a man, how to treat a man in marriage.
02:12You are asking your mother, your mother that has failed in her own marriage, your mother that every day will nigh and nigh and nigh and nigh and nigh.
02:19Both you and your siblings have seen them.
02:21See her quarrel with your father, insult your father.
02:23It is that same woman that will teach you on how to be a good wife.
02:26Like I pity this generation of women.
02:28You are like, you are going to come for me.
02:30I will tell you by God's grace and God helping me.
02:33God will continue to help me.
02:34Ah, it's, well, thank God I don't have friends.
02:36I'm not the type that keeps female friends.
02:38I just stay with my family.
02:40If I'm tired, I watch film.
02:41Because I'm tired, I use my TikTok handle to reach out to people.
02:44Talk like I'm doing now and that's all.
02:46Because when I see how women do not know the value of what they have until they lose them, it pains me for them.
02:51I hope this will be a lesson to you that the men are the prize.
02:55Men are the prize.
02:57God created Adam before Eve.
02:59He did not create Eve before Adam.
03:01So let them be deceiving you that you want to be equal with man.
03:04I have nothing else to say because draggers will drag.
