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22-YEAR-OLD Kiersten lives with a rare condition called Friedreich's ataxia (FA), which "causes progressive coordination loss" in all of her muscles. Growing up, she was a naturally athletic Varsity cheerleader - "the girl who would get thrown in the air." But on a family vacation, Kiersten's parents noticed that her sister Lauren was having "balance issues" and put Lauren "through a gauntlet" of various different tests that eventually led them to a diagnosis of FA. As Kiersten watched her sister perform the fateful balance test, she noticed she was "struggling too" and two weeks after taking blood tests, both sisters were formally diagnosed with the condition. Kiersten told Truly: "I was numb, I did not want to believe it, I didn't want anyone to talk to me about it. I was totally freaked out." The news rocked the family, as they learned that the condition is progressive and there is no cure - but, with the support of her parents, Kiersten came to terms with her situation and resolved to "turn that fear into working out and fighting it." With a harness rigged up in their garage at home and an exercise plan designed to keep Kiersten as mobile as possible, she uses her physical therapy sessions as a "stress reliever" as much as a way to maintain strength and coordination. Even though Kiersten now finds it difficult to walk down the stairs, with her relentless positivity, she has not allowed FA to prevent her from forging a successful career creating educational content for the rare disease community, or from finding love with boyfriend TJ, who never flinched when it came to the reality of her condition. However, she has faced judgement when out in public, with people accusing her of "being drunk" due to her coordination affecting both her gait and her speech. Whilst Kiersten admits that it "does really get to [her]", the negativity has only persuaded her that her work in raising awareness is ever more important - and she is now more determined than ever to let the rare disease community know that they are "not alone."

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00:00I'm not drunk.
00:01I have a rare condition.
00:03I am gradually losing control of my muscles over time.
00:07I was a varsity cheerleader.
00:09I was the girl who would get thrown in the air.
00:12Now it is hard to get on the stairs.
00:15People have accused me of being drunk in public.
00:18They don't know me.
00:18They don't know my story.
00:20Like, how dare they?
00:21No!
00:22Today, my friend Madison is coming up.
00:24I'm going to go through my old cheerleading stuff
00:27for the first time in years.
00:29She wants to have fun.
00:30She wants to dance.
00:32She wants to have all the music experience.
00:39My name is Kirsten.
00:40I am 22.
00:42I have pre-trix ataxia.
00:44It causes progressive coordination loss in all of my muscles.
00:51It takes me a little bit when I get up to get ready for the day.
00:57Growing up, I never would have thought I would have this.
01:03I always thought I would be the person who could still do a backflip when they were 30 years old.
01:09Typically, when you get diagnosed, the doctors say you'll lose your walking in about 5 to 10 years.
01:20It affects speech as well.
01:22It can cause heart problems.
01:25Sometimes, when I'm more tired, I'm scared I'll fall.
01:29I do fall sometimes.
01:34Dad, will you help me bring my coffee out?
01:37Both my sister and I have F.A.
01:40They first suspected something with my sister.
01:45She was having some balance issues.
01:48I think the first time that I noticed something was wrong.
01:51I think when we went on our family vacation, I could kind of see her walk in her gate.
01:56I was like, it looks a little off.
01:58We really then just put Lauren kind of through the gauntlet for the next four months,
02:03going from doctor to doctor to doctor, trying to figure out what all this was.
02:07I remember vividly the balance test.
02:11I was like, I feel like all the tests they're doing to her and she's struggling with, I'm struggling with too.
02:18She did the balance test where she closed her eyes and she fell over and I'm watching her do that.
02:25And I closed my eyes and I kind of started swaying.
02:29They took my blood.
02:30My test results came back two weeks later.
02:33I was numb.
02:34I did not want to believe it.
02:36I didn't want anyone to talk to me about it.
02:39I was totally freaked out.
02:41My disease is progressive.
02:44So what I can do now, I won't be able to do in two years, four years.
02:48It is hard to stay positive when it is such a hard diagnosis.
02:52We try to continue encouraging you guys to live your dreams.
02:57They've changed a little.
02:58The diagnosis was definitely hard on my parents because no parent wants to hear that their two daughters
03:06both have a rare disease that's progressive.
03:10They don't really show that they're upset or struggling.
03:13But I'll catch them maybe being upset on their own and they'll try to act okay and strong for me.
03:20But I know it has to be really hard.
03:22You guys, you know, are now holding down careers and doing awesome.
03:27Just pushing through this and saying we're not going to let this defeat us.
03:31And there we go.
03:33It is terrifying knowing that I am going to lose functions in the future.
03:41I honestly try not to think about it.
03:45But when I do, I try to turn that fear into working out and fighting it.
03:53Keep those elbows straight.
03:57Physical therapy now is a way to kind of work out my stress and my anger.
04:02It's stress reliever.
04:04And I feel really accomplished when I finish a physical therapy session.
04:10It's difficult to watch, but we know it's necessary and we know where we're at.
04:14And we just got to keep pushing forward.
04:16All right.
04:16Here's my day in the life of living with Friedrich's ataxia.
04:23What are some of the negative assumptions people have made about your condition?
04:27People think I'm drunk.
04:29There have been instances where people are mean like bouncers and they're like,
04:34I don't care.
04:35You're making it up.
04:37I have spoke on TikTok about this topic and it was crazy to me how many people there are that
04:45do not care about people who have disabilities.
04:48They're like, if you have a disability, you shouldn't be out drinking.
04:52I am a human.
04:53I do deserve to go out and have fun and have social interactions.
04:58But it does really get to me because I'm like,
05:01they don't know me.
05:01They don't know my story.
05:03Like, how dare they?
05:04I want anyone with a rare disease to know that you are not alone.
05:11Hello.
05:12How are you?
05:13I'm good.
05:14I missed you.
05:15Come on in.
05:18Today, my friend Madison is coming over.
05:20She knew me before diagnosis and after diagnosis, she has been the greatest support.
05:27Do you remember when the day I got diagnosed and I called you?
05:32Do you remember that conversation?
05:34I do.
05:34It was so sad.
05:35I was so sad.
05:36I cried a lot.
05:38I cried a lot that day.
05:40I thought I would be that 40-year-old mom who could still do a backflip on the man.
05:46But if you would have asked me, I would have embedded on it as well.
05:50Yeah.
05:50Growing up, I was a varsity cheerleader.
05:52I was the girl who would get thrown in the air and I'd be on one leg.
05:56They'd throw me up and catch me on the other leg.
05:59How does it feel just looking at these now?
06:02I don't know.
06:03It kind of makes me sad.
06:05Yeah.
06:06Yeah.
06:06It does.
06:07Send me your pictures together.
06:09I love that picture.
06:10Is it hard that you know that you can't do stuff like that now considering you were an athlete your whole life?
06:19Yeah.
06:19I feel like I have this crazy skill and that got taken away from me.
06:24I miss being able to dance.
06:28I wish I could still dance and I've lost that ability.
06:33She wants to have fun.
06:34She wants to dance.
06:35She wants to have all these experiences.
06:40And she can't.
06:44And for me to see that is hard.
06:50I wish I could just pick her up and take her out there and dance with her.
06:53Like I always have to remind myself, it's okay.
06:56You're okay.
06:58Everything's fine.
06:59It was all about the fun, the friendships, and you can never take that stuff away.
07:05You're right.
07:06Nobody can ever take those from you.
07:08Yeah.
07:08You'll have those forever, those memories for sure.
07:10And we wouldn't have been so close.
07:12I know.
07:12We didn't cheer together all these years.
07:14I know.
07:15I love you.
07:16Ooh.
07:18I am hoping in the future there is going to be a cure and I'll never lose my walking.
07:24But even if I do, I just really hope with the future of the family someday and still do the
07:32things that make me happy.
07:34We love fishing.
07:35This was actually our first date ever.
07:37My boyfriend knew that I had F.A. when I first met him.
07:41In the past, guys have been totally freaked out by F.A. and their families.
07:45And they were like, you don't want to date a girl who's going to be in a wheelchair.
07:49When we first met and I first told you about F.A., what was your initial reaction?
07:55Um, at first I had no clue what it was, but I did a little bit of research and, I mean,
08:02it doesn't have no issue with it for me, so.
08:05And it's scary at all?
08:07No, it's not really, no.
08:08He is very understanding.
08:10He knows that I do get a lot more tired than he does and he will step it up and help me when need be.
08:17I've had a few people ask if I'm comfortable to be there to support you and that's totally
08:23something I'm willing to be here for and I'm thankful to have you with me.
08:29I hope that people know that if they have a disability or they're newly diagnosed with a
08:34health condition that it's not going to stop you from finding love and living your life to the
08:41fullest, you can find adaptions to do the things that you love to do.
08:46My perspective on life I am grateful for and I wouldn't have had that if I was not
08:52diagnosed with Friedrich's ataxia because I like to live my life to the fullest.
08:58I like to be happy and I try not to let the little things get me down in life.

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