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Somebody's Son Season 1 Episode 12 - Full
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00:00Previously on Somebody's Son.
00:02I see your mom as your god.
00:03I would never say that my mom is my god.
00:05It kind of triggered me when you said,
00:07look, he trying to defend you, girl.
00:08The energy in the room right now is tense.
00:10So I wrote a letter.
00:11Oh, Lord.
00:12I feel like you're still coming from a place
00:14of judgment at times.
00:15And it is starting to negatively affect me.
00:19All of a sudden, I get a knock on my door.
00:20I was confused, but it was Tamaris.
00:24I'm seeing this side of Tamaris, and I'm liking it.
00:27Now it's just leaving me wonder, am I going to make
00:30the right decision?
00:32I'm so sorry to wake you up.
00:34I cannot leave without telling you goodbye.
00:36I'm satisfied with choosing me and standing
00:40on what I believe in.
00:42You know, I'm definitely interested in taking
00:44this experience past this.
00:46So I just want to see if you want to date exclusively.
00:50I am going to have to say no right now.
00:57Today's the last day in this house.
01:13And now we're winding things down.
01:16And I mean, I got to make a decision.
01:18Oh, it is a lot to deal with.
01:24Having two women's emotions and dealing with them
01:28while trying to navigate my own emotions at the same time,
01:32and really just taking this whole experience serious
01:35has been a lot to bear with.
01:37And I just hope I made the right decision at the end.
01:40How did you sleep?
01:41Very good.
01:42Good morning.
01:43Good morning.
01:44Good morning.
01:45Good morning.
01:46Good morning.
01:47Good morning.
01:48Yeah.
01:49We was going back and forth yesterday night.
01:50I know.
01:51So tell me, what's going through your mind?
01:54Let's talk about the date.
01:55Let's talk about the date.
01:57OK.
01:58Good time.
01:59Good.
02:00You saw when we came in.
02:01You saw the image.
02:02You enjoying?
02:03You having fun.
02:04You having fun.
02:05You having fun.
02:06You having fun.
02:07You having fun.
02:08You having fun.
02:09You having fun.
02:10You having fun.
02:11You having fun.
02:12You having fun.
02:13You having fun.
02:14You having fun.
02:15OK.
02:16I was feeling all right.
02:17Oh.
02:18OK.
02:19But like, me and Shamiel only kissed during a photo shoot.
02:21We ain't never really kissing the date.
02:22But I mean, Shamiel is a funny person.
02:23Yeah, she is.
02:24She's a cool person, good personality.
02:25So it's like, I had a good response.
02:28I had a good morning.
02:29So the first day, Tamaris told me she was going to ride a bike.
02:34So I was like, you know, it'd be cool to see if I can teach her how to ride a bike.
02:38Jesus.
02:39So I told her how to ride a bike, and she was riding. She did good.
02:42Then we started talking afterwards in my football. How could she implement herself in my life?
02:47Would she be willing to sacrifice things as an athlete you might want to hear?
02:51But overall, I had a good day too with Tamaris.
02:54I know she can have fun.
02:56She can.
02:57I know.
02:58I saw her last night.
03:00Hey!
03:02This boy, you're a spy boy, yo!
03:06I was sleeping, and she knocked on the door, and she came.
03:10Hey!
03:12Really?
03:13That was a shock to me. Tamaris is very reserved, and that's not what I was expecting from her.
03:20I hope I won't carry any baby afro from here.
03:23No, no, no.
03:25No, no, no, no.
03:26No, no, no, no.
03:27You're okay.
03:28You're okay.
03:29But that's beautiful.
03:30So think about the emotions.
03:31I go on this really good date with Shambriel.
03:33We got close.
03:34We had a great time.
03:35Great experience.
03:36We didn't test out to see if that chemistry, the physical attraction was there.
03:39Mm-hmm.
03:40Tamaris makes a very bold move.
03:42That's good.
03:43And she comes from home.
03:44Mm-hmm.
03:45Like, are you coming in this room because you just saw that me and Shambriel had a good
03:49time?
03:50Or because you found out I play football, you trying to give me that last little mm to
03:54kind of sway my mind?
03:56It felt not authentic.
03:58So it's a lot of positive, but those are the biggest question marks that I'm still trying
04:01to figure out.
04:02It's like, what do I do?
04:03I do.
04:04I don't know.
04:05I love both of them so dearly.
04:06And that's how it's supposed to be, right?
04:08Mm-hmm.
04:09Okay.
04:10So let's see what the tablet says.
04:15Joshua, you have come a long way on this journey of self-discovery.
04:18I have.
04:19You've grown and you've broken down walls.
04:22Allowed yourself to be vulnerable and trusted the process.
04:25Now it's time to trust your heart.
04:28Ooh-wee.
04:30Okay.
04:31Today, your journey will come to an end.
04:33Oh, wow.
04:34Ultimately...
04:35You will leave this experiment single or in a committed relationship.
04:40Up to this point, the decisions have been in mom's hands.
04:44That means you must have.
04:45But this time, the decision will be in yours alone.
04:47Wow.
04:48Get out of your head and search your heart.
04:50Okay.
04:51You've been making decisions this far.
04:53This one is yours.
04:54It's a lot of pressure, and I'm used to making tough decisions all the time.
05:00But this is tough, man.
05:02This is really tough.
05:03When did the right person win?
05:05I don't know.
05:06I've been thinking about it every time I wake up.
05:10I've been drinking about it, pour me a red cup.
05:15Good morning, ma'am.
05:16Good morning, Song.
05:17How are you?
05:18I'm doing well.
05:19All right, so yesterday, I know you went out on a date with Saverne.
05:24Where'd you go?
05:25You would have loved it.
05:27We went to a butterfly habitat.
05:30Oh.
05:31It was like a really, like, dope.
05:34It's like you were kind of transported into like a rainforest almost.
05:38You just look up and you just see a bunch of butterflies.
05:41Oh, wow.
05:42We had a moment.
05:43We kissed.
05:44Oh.
05:45Yeah.
05:46You know when you spend time with somebody, and you start talking to them, and it's just
05:49like, okay, like, I see you.
05:50You know, like, okay, I'm liking this.
05:51I'm digging that.
05:52You know what I'm saying?
05:53Saverne and I have come a long way.
05:55Like, I feel like we've really made strides in the right direction.
05:58And I could see her vibing with my family and, like, being somebody that I can go through
06:03life with and start a future with.
06:05All right, so I wanted to share a couple things with you.
06:09Okay.
06:10When you were on your date, I had a conversation with Alicia.
06:14I was kind of blindsided.
06:15I wanted to apologize to her about the comment that I made during the exercise that we did.
06:21She was prepared to talk to me as well, but what she actually did, she wrote a letter.
06:26And in the letter, she referenced whatever comments I made.
06:31So what comments?
06:33Regarding my entry walk, outfits, makeup, faith, my demeanor, job, piercings, and tattoos.
06:42You have tattoos?
06:43I do.
06:44I didn't notice that.
06:46No, so I did not make a comment about your tattoo.
06:49That was over my head, so I was blindsided on that.
06:53Because then I felt like I was a villain, you know?
06:56Yeah.
06:57And I felt it was too deep.
06:59Okay, yeah.
07:00So, I mean, you guys made up on that front, right?
07:02You know, we talked about it.
07:04She accepted my apology.
07:06That's good.
07:07I don't have to step in or anything like that.
07:09So I'm really happy that you guys were able to have that conversation.
07:12When it comes to issues with my mom and women that I've dated, like, my mom can really go left.
07:17I've seen how detrimental it was in a past relationship.
07:21So hearing that my mom was able to resolve things with Alyssia without me is a relief.
07:27Y'all weren't having as much fun.
07:28Yes, I think I can be at times too controlling, but I have my reasons.
07:36Because whoever you date, I don't want them to be in-laws.
07:39I want them to be my bonus daughter, you know?
07:44So from a mom's perspective, I just pray you making the right choice to mesh with us as a family unit.
07:51We shall see.
07:55We want to see what we have going on today.
07:58Good morning, James and Charlize.
08:01The end of the journey is approaching.
08:04James, today you will have one final date of this experience with Alyssia.
08:10Remember to have fun.
08:15I'm excited to get into it with Alyssia.
08:17I'm going to try to dig in a little bit more.
08:19I mean, because on paper, things line up with Sabrenet.
08:21Right.
08:22But then at the same time, I want to see if, like, Alyssia could be a potential partner as well.
08:27Okay.
08:28I just appreciate it whenever you have a one-on-one with her.
08:33Clarify, please.
08:34Clarify what?
08:35How I was perceived, because you, I thought when you said...
08:39I just want to leave it where it is, honestly.
08:41I'm tired of bringing it up.
08:42It's done.
08:43It's done.
08:44We put it to bed.
08:45That's what I don't like.
08:46You're trying to be dismissive.
08:47You're not respecting my feeling and something dealing with me personally.
08:52We just asked, are we good?
08:54See, there you go.
08:55Like, y'all's relationship is y'all's relationship.
08:57Like, me being the middleman in this, that's not going to be beneficial to the relationship
09:02that you guys are going to build.
09:04I'm tired of going through the same process of having to advocate for the woman that I'm
09:11dating that my mom will get along with her.
09:13It's way too exhausting.
09:14Why keep bringing it up?
09:15There you go.
09:16I'll ask her, okay?
09:17I'll ask her.
09:18Okay.
09:19I'll ask her.
09:20Okay.
09:21I'll ask her to go.
09:29Thank you, we're with you.
09:30Hey.
09:31Hey.
09:32From the beginning, it's always been you.
09:35You make me forget.
09:36Girl, you're looking good.
09:37We look good.
09:38All right.
09:39Hey, guys.
09:40Wow.
09:41We look good.
09:42I'm really happy to get some one-on-one time
09:47And this is the last one-on-one time I'm gonna get with her before I make the decisions
09:55This is so nice very nice I
09:59Don't want to feel like I have to defend my mom or I have to do basically damage control
10:04I just want to spend time with her
10:08Thank you
10:12Cheers
10:13It feels really good to be on this date right now with James
10:17You're great. You're like really great. You're making me blush
10:21Chemistry is everything when it comes to dating. You showing up and showing out
10:26You've been smiling like crazy
10:28I know I'm enjoying myself if you don't have chemistry then maybe what do you have?
10:36Glad we are here
10:38Me too
10:39So
10:40What's up?
10:41Questions
10:42Do you have some?
10:44I have some
10:46Wow
10:46Okay, I'm ready
10:48I heard that like you wrote a letter and things like that
10:51Yeah, actually but to be transparent with you your mom was very defensive at the beginning
10:56Like I didn't even get through the second sentence before I got cut off
11:01Okay
11:02So I felt like a bit discouraged at the beginning almost questioning
11:05Should I be having this conversation right now? Is it worth it?
11:07But whenever I think about like you and our connection then it was like okay like stay put stay the course like it'll be good
11:14I don't 100% forgive miss Charlize for the things that she said to me and the ways that she's offended me
11:21But I feel like me and miss Charlize are mature women and we can definitely move past this
11:28I have experience with my mother she can be defensive at times but like it's like her exterior like I said I have faced that type of situation before and like learning from my past
11:39I've done the the middleman thing before and it just doesn't work out
11:44It's exhausting
11:45It's so tiring and I'm just like I would want y'all to have y'all's own relationship
11:48This is the start of ours and also yours and my mom's right
11:52I feel like your mom really sees sabrenee for you
11:55But I feel like me and sabrenee are totally different girls and I don't know exactly how you feel about that viewpoint
12:03So put your mind at ease like I enjoy my time with you now
12:07And you know like I can only imagine what it would be like when we're outside of this setting like just how magical it could be
12:24James is so present he is very much in the moment and
12:29When I look into James's eyes, it really tells me that
12:34He's serious. He means what he says
12:37And your girl is falling for a man whose mom happens to be completely overbearing
12:43I feel like I'm going crazy
12:46Can I get a kiss?
12:48You can
12:48Thank you
12:49I've been waiting
12:51Ready?
13:01Okay, James
13:03Whatever it is between me and Alicia
13:13We have chemistry. It's there and
13:16It's time to like really settle down find a partner that I can like take on life with and let's just see what happens
13:21You want to head back to the house?
13:23Okay, Buki
13:24Hi, Buki
13:25Hi, Buki
13:25Good morning
13:30Happy morning
13:31I wrapped it up like candy
13:33Baby you're still fine
13:34Keep on running after me
13:36I'mma let you be mine
13:38I'mma let you be mine
13:40I'mma let you be mine
13:43Good morning
13:43Good morning
13:44How are you?
13:46I'm fine
13:46How are you?
13:47Hi
13:48Well, you want to see what the day holds?
13:50Sure.
13:51It's the last day.
13:52What about you?
13:53Let me jog this one.
13:55James, you have come a long way on this journey.
13:59You've grown beyond your comfort zone,
14:01not only with these ladies,
14:03but you've also deepened your bond with your mother.
14:06I would say so.
14:07Yes.
14:08Now it's time to determine
14:11if either of these ladies are a match for you.
14:15Today, your journey will come to an end.
14:17Ultimately, you will leave this experiment single
14:20or in a committed relationship.
14:22Up to this point, the decisions have been in mom's hands.
14:26But this time, the decision will be yours alone.
14:30So let's see how it ends.
14:32Hmm.
14:33And it's my decision.
14:35OK.
14:36So you've had your last two dates.
14:38So what do you like about these women?
14:40It was really great to see different sides
14:43of these ladies at this point in time.
14:45Like, with Alicia, now that I've gotten to sit down with her
14:50and, like, I see where her mindset is
14:52and how she handles situations
14:54and the maturity to, like, go out and resolve things herself.
14:57Mm-hmm.
14:58And then with Sabernay,
15:00it was more of, like, a comfortable conversation.
15:03Oh.
15:04So it allowed me to see, like, a different side of her,
15:06which was great.
15:07Really?
15:08I think that her personality is great as well.
15:11Mm-hmm.
15:12Glad you've seen some positives.
15:13I've seen some positives as well.
15:15I feel like both of these dates
15:17helped both of these ladies out.
15:19Let me just say this.
15:21I know we hit, um, an issue early with Alicia,
15:26but you made a decision to involve me in this process.
15:31So I would have preferred that you let Alicia know,
15:34first off, I know my mom's not trying to hurt you,
15:37you know, in this instance.
15:39Like, I didn't think I needed to protect you in that.
15:41You should always.
15:42I mean, I didn't think it was a situation
15:44where I had to protect you.
15:46That's what I'm saying.
15:47Like...
15:48Now you know.
15:49But you can clean up...
15:50We're still pulling back layers.
15:51I didn't...
15:52You can clean up after yourself as well, bro.
15:53Yeah, but we just didn't...
15:54It just didn't go that way.
15:55I mean, I did say, you know,
15:57I apologize if I offended you.
15:58Mm-hmm.
15:59I did say it.
16:00I mean, I understand, like,
16:01I apologize if I offended you,
16:03but, like, being intentional in an apology
16:05is also something, like...
16:06I was intentional.
16:07Okay.
16:08And leave it there.
16:09I've heard that sentiment before.
16:11You making it seem like you single just because me.
16:14But I mean...
16:15But.
16:16There's a but.
16:17I'm irritated right now
16:18because this type of conversation
16:20that has come up in the past,
16:21what I ultimately want is, like,
16:23for my mom to not be an obstacle
16:24in my dating life.
16:26I did intentionally apologize.
16:28I meant my apology.
16:30And you just keep going,
16:31and you just keep going.
16:32And I'm like, come on.
16:33This is all about finding the person
16:35who I think I can live my life with,
16:37and you're making this about you.
16:39No.
16:40I'm not trying to make no false image.
16:42I'm...
16:43I am who I am.
16:44I understand that.
16:45You know?
16:46I'm not saying I'm trying to...
16:47Because that's not me.
16:48I have a huge decision to make today.
16:51Am I gonna bring somebody into my life,
16:53or am I not gonna bring anybody into my life?
16:55That's where my head needs to be.
16:57That's my focus.
16:58And that's what I'm gonna be deliberating on
17:02for the rest of the day.
17:03Okay.
17:04Okay.
17:05And that's that.
17:08Like, I love my mom.
17:09But this is, like, probably the biggest thing
17:12that, like, I can't stand about her.
17:15It's a repetitive thing.
17:18It's always gone on.
17:20And I'm tired of it.
17:21Like, I'm really trying to find somebody
17:23I can settle down with and, like, build a life with.
17:26It's really sad to see that, like,
17:28my mom continues to display this,
17:30this type of behavior.
17:36I don't really know what else to say about it.
17:37I don't really know what else to say about it.
17:53I'm going through my auntie Elma.
17:55I'm making a final decision.
17:56And it's kind of scary to think about.
17:59It's been a fun journey.
18:01It's been a whirlwind of emotions.
18:04I know my baby.
18:06I'm liking it.
18:07Oh, my goodness.
18:08How often do you need physical intimacy?
18:13Yeah, that's what I want.
18:15You just call me now.
18:16I could do that for you.
18:18Hair itself is about $450.
18:21Full of sand, a pedicure is $200.
18:23She got a good job and career.
18:25She doesn't have to depend on you.
18:26I can see it.
18:27But them kids.
18:28I already packed my stuff.
18:30I'm just not sure you're my husband.
18:33You look nice though today.
18:35Okay.
18:36Why are you nervous?
18:37I don't know.
18:38I just pray that God will lead you to the right person.
18:41For a lot of years I've been in the NFL having fun and finding my own lane and like real superficial and not being able to get real deep connections.
18:57But through this experience, a lot of those old ways have been relinquished.
19:03It's been fun.
19:04I'm glad you've been here, you know, to guide me through it.
19:07But, you know, this time it's on me.
19:09Yep.
19:10It's on you today.
19:11From the beginning, I love the two ladies and I appreciate them.
19:15Just follow your heart.
19:18Whatever you decide, my son, I'll be okay with it.
19:22I hope it's gonna be a dream date for you.
19:24That's all I need to hear.
19:25Now I can make the best decision I need for myself.
19:28The tides keep pulling us closer.
19:32It's getting hard to keep my composure.
19:36So, um, going into the decision I've been, you know, like, weighing things out, been playing back conversations.
19:45Hi, ladies.
19:46Hello.
19:47I'm James' mom.
19:48Does she need to bite it to feed you?
19:50What?
19:51Listen, I'm gonna let my man, man.
19:53Oh, you're a man.
19:54Yeah, you know.
19:55It's hot.
19:56It's hot.
19:57It's hot.
19:58The final invitation goes to Alicia.
20:03All you gotta do is say you wanna kiss.
20:06Here you go.
20:07I'm gonna wait in.
20:15I think I've come to a conclusion.
20:18I think I know what makes sense for me.
20:21You bet.
20:22No, but I've been there.
20:23Okay.
20:24My son can be hard-headed when he has his mind made up.
20:33He's gonna do what he wants to do.
20:37And if that means he has to go and hit a brick wall, he's gonna hit the brick wall, even though I told him it was there.
20:43So be it.
20:44Not my life.
20:45I feel comfortable going into the decision.
20:48Ultimately, it's like what's real to me and what I believe is best.
20:54And, I mean, I know you want the best for me.
20:58And you have your opinions, though.
20:59I do have my opinions and you don't always agree with them and it is what it is.
21:03But, you know, you're gonna do what you're gonna do, whether we like it or not.
21:10I didn't really understand how heavy this whole process was going to be.
21:14This was stressful.
21:15Like, you can be upset and you're entitled to your emotions, right?
21:20You have no idea what it's like to carry a child that doesn't want to listen.
21:25It is tough.
21:26Like, yeah, I do listen to you and I do hear the things that you're saying.
21:30You may not always think I do, but I do, right?
21:33Yeah.
21:34You have a serious decision to make.
21:38Yeah.
21:41Go handle your business.
21:43All right.
21:50Going into this final decision, it's a tough one.
22:01Both of these women have shown so much of themselves.
22:05It's really gonna boil down to do, I think I can live a life with you or not.
22:10I really don't know what is gonna happen today.
22:20James and I have gotten to learn about each other.
22:23And I have also gotten to learn about his mother, Mrs. Charlize, which has been amazing.
22:36Hey.
22:37Hello, Mr. Handsome.
22:38How are you doing?
22:39I'm doing good.
22:40How are you?
22:41Good.
22:42Doing well.
22:53I'm just thinking about the great times that I've had while being here.
22:56I'm thinking about the challenges and the lessons that I've learned.
23:00Like, wow, are we really at the end?
23:08You're pretty.
23:10Can I hold your hands?
23:11Yeah, sure.
23:12Okay.
23:13I am so nervous right now.
23:15I'm trying to just breathe.
23:17However, you can't help but be nervous in a situation like this.
23:21So yeah, first off, I just wanna say thank you so much for spending this time in the house.
23:28I know it's been an uncomfortable situation, right?
23:31I really appreciate you getting to learn about me over these past couple of weeks.
23:35And I am very interested in you, so I kinda wanna know, like, what you think.
23:42I really wanna know who James will choose.
23:47So, this experience has been amazing, and it's really been great getting to know you.
23:54You've taught me a lot about myself, and you helped me learn what I don't like and what I need.
24:03Oh yeah, this whole experience has been a lot.
24:06Mm-hmm.
24:07Through it, I really appreciate the way that you handle problems, right?
24:10You face them head on.
24:11Mm-hmm.
24:12Uh.
24:13It's been a while, right?
24:14Uh.
24:15Uh.
24:16Uh.
24:17Uh.
24:18Uh.
24:19Uh.
24:20Uh.
24:21Uh.
24:22Uh.
24:23Uh.
24:24Uh.
24:25Uh.
24:26Um.
24:27Uh.
24:28Um.
24:29With that being said, unfortunately, uh, I can't ask you to be exclusive with me.
24:35Uh.
24:36Uh.
24:37Uh.
24:38Uh.
24:39I just feel like our personalities don't necessarily mesh that well.
24:46And, um, it's kinda difficult to see a future with you.
24:54I mean like, yes, on paper things look great.
24:58Yeah.
24:59Um.
25:00But I'm just thinking, like, down the line, I just don't think that it's gonna be successful.
25:05Okay.
25:06Okay, it's been really really great to know you
25:17Bye
25:22But like I'm the better match for James I could definitely see James fitting into my family and
25:28I am sad that I will not be the daughter in love for
25:34Mrs. Charlize. I will miss her. I loved living in the house with her
25:39I loved waking up and giving her hugs
25:43Oh you I
25:45Am still looking for love and you know what? I'm gonna let love find me
25:52I feel like the time that we spent it's been really comfortable
25:57From the first day Alicia caught my eye. I can really see the type of camaraderie and
26:03a relationship that I would look for
26:08With that being said would you like to be exclusive with me?
26:22Oh, this is so crazy
26:33It's been a wild ride, right?
26:41Mm-hmm
26:43With that being said
26:46Would you like to be exclusive with me?
26:48This experience has offered plenty of ups and downs
26:55However in this moment, I'm feeling very sure of my decision and the direction I'm gonna move towards
27:01I'm really happy that we've had this time and
27:05I think you're amazing
27:07so
27:08extremely flattered
27:10My answer is gonna be
27:13No
27:14I think right now I'm still thinking about the conversation between me and Miss Charlize and
27:29Ultimately that does have an effect on my decision
27:35James is shocked
27:37Um
27:38I think he was definitely expecting a guess
27:41I came into this experience hoping to leave with somebody's son
27:44But I think someone's mom who is that judgmental and that involved it's a bit of a turn-off
27:51Turn-off
28:05At this moment, I'm super upset for a I thought that
28:11We were locked in things were smooth
28:14The rockiness came in when it came down to my mom. I know that Alicia felt like
28:21She was misjudged. I know that
28:24She had to relive some traumatic times in her life based off of this house
28:30And I respect her for everything that she's given and the position that she's taken
28:36Hey
28:38It really sucks that I missed my shot with Alicia
28:41I feel like my mom was the reason that I'm single at 30
28:54I know my mom and I know how she is so having this happen again with Alicia
29:01It's way too exhausting
29:03Tell me what's going on
29:05I suppose it's a sabernet
29:06But ultimately I told her I did not want to be exclusive
29:09And uh
29:11I did ask Alicia
29:13Okay
29:14So
29:15What did she say?
29:17And she said no
29:18I mean I respect her decision
29:22You did what you thought you needed to do
29:25Mm-hmm
29:26Mm-hmm
29:27And
29:28I only want the best for you
29:30I'm not mad at Alicia's decision
29:33I'm actually happy about it
29:36Because
29:39My son deserves
29:41Someone who is balanced and equally yoked with him
29:46All right
29:47Well, hey
29:48Very interesting
29:50I thought that it was secure
29:53But romantic rejection
29:55Just gotta take that on the chin and keep going
29:57Like everything happens for a reason, so
29:59Mm-hmm
30:00Can't say I'm surprised
30:03Okay
30:05I was
30:07I wish my son listened to me
30:10With that said
30:12Moving forward
30:13I want for my son what any other mother would want for their son
30:17To be happy
30:18To love someone that loves you back
30:20And build a life together
30:22You good?
30:23Like I ain't mad at her
30:25It's all good
30:26On to the next
30:29Here we go again
30:32I think my mom is a great mother
30:35I definitely know that she wants the best for her family
30:38And especially her kids
30:40But I mean
30:41When it comes to boundaries
30:43You gotta set them
30:44And that's something that like
30:45I learned from this experience
30:47We gonna establish these boundaries
30:48And she gonna have to stick to them
30:50And you know
30:51We gonna figure it out
30:52When I wake up next to you
30:53It'll be okay
30:54When I wake up next to you
30:55It'll be okay
30:56When I wake up next to you
30:57It'll be the best day
30:59I didn't think this experiment was gonna be this difficult
31:19I thought it was gonna be a cakewalk
31:21Man
31:22I was far from right
31:24It'll be the best day
31:26Oh
31:27During this whole process
31:28I've been attracted to Tamaris from the start
31:32The physical attraction is evident
31:34But
31:35I don't know if we got deep enough mentally
31:39With Chambriel it's the opposite
31:44In the beginning the physical attraction with me and Chambriel
31:47It felt forced
31:49But slowly it started to you know
31:55Get better and better
31:57But is it enough?
32:02Chambriel and I haven't even had a real kiss yet
32:05How am I supposed to make a decision?
32:15I'm walking down this path
32:16And my heart is like about to jump out of my chest
32:19Because this whole experience has been the unknown
32:21So I don't know what I'm walking into
32:23And I'm very very nervous
32:25How you feeling?
32:26Overwhelmed
32:28Like
32:29Okay
32:30Me too
32:35As I'm walking over the bridge
32:49I'm anxious
32:50My hands in this moment are clammy
32:53But when I see him there
32:55Despite all that anxiety
32:58I was like oh Joshua
32:59Like I get excited
33:01Hi
33:03There she go
33:05How are you?
33:06Joshua looks great
33:08Joshua looks great
33:10Um
33:11I'm hoping in that moment
33:13That he will choose me
33:19Well I guess I just wanted to let you know
33:21That I am interested in you like a lot
33:24Okay
33:25But I do think that I'm a slow burn
33:27And I think in this process
33:29I kind of like
33:30Didn't express myself enough
33:33But I'm kind of hoping that we can still build something
33:36Yeah
33:39Well I've been very
33:40I think very honest
33:42From like day one
33:43And I honestly
33:44Wholeheartedly yeah
33:45Yeah
33:46And I feel like as we talk
33:47We keep finding like
33:48We have more in common than we think
33:49Yeah
33:50I came to this experience
33:52To find love
33:53To find my partner
33:54And right now
33:55I cannot breathe
33:57My mind is like
33:59Like I'm literally shaking
34:00What are your biggest concerns though?
34:02You know?
34:04I just wanted to
34:05To like be real
34:07You know what I'm saying?
34:08It's been hard in this short amount of time
34:09You know?
34:10Yes
34:11To really get to know somebody
34:12Really immerse your whole self
34:13Into somebody else
34:14So it's like what now?
34:16I love the fact that
34:20We both came into this journey
34:21With an open mind
34:22Got to meet my mom
34:23I got to meet your mom
34:24I know
34:25You know?
34:26Had a good time
34:27There's a lot of ups and downs
34:28And emotions
34:29In this whole journey
34:30You know?
34:31In this short amount of time
34:33You're an obvious choice
34:34No questions about it
34:37You're looking at my past
34:38It's like
34:39You're the one
34:40It's easy
34:44You know?
34:46But at the same time
34:53My past has been something
34:55That I've been trying to change
34:56I do want to be exclusive with you
35:00But I don't think
35:01That's the right decision for me
35:03What's going on?
35:05What?
35:06What is going on?
35:08You know?
35:09What is happening?
35:11I was just confused
35:13I do want to be exclusive with you
35:26At the same time
35:27I don't think that's the right decision for me
35:29Sorry about that
35:31I mean
35:32I didn't want you to hear that
35:33I didn't want to tell you that
35:34But I just feel like
35:35That's coming from my heart
35:40Don't look at me like that
35:41I don't know if you made the right choice
35:43But I do think that it's your loss
35:47Respectfully
35:48We could have built something really beautiful
35:52And I want to
35:53So
35:54I guess hit me when you're ready
35:56All right
35:57Come on, come on
35:58Come on, come on
35:59Come on
36:00Come on
36:01Come on
36:02I feel
36:03Disappointed
36:05For a moment
36:06I thought
36:07It was just going to go the opposite way there
36:09All right
36:10Let's see
36:11Let's see
36:12Can't believe you did me like that
36:16I didn't think you were capable
36:23I feel like I'm not choosing Tamaris right now
36:25Because
36:26I feel like
36:27Trust is a big thing with me
36:29Tamaris, you just didn't give me enough
36:37You made me feel comfortable
36:38Once of all
36:39I just love the fact that
36:40We're alike in so many different ways
36:41Yeah
36:42Obviously I haven't been able to show
36:43Myself wholeheartedly
36:44Yeah
36:45Because I've been like mixing emotions
36:46With different people
36:47And there's a lot of energy spent
36:48Right
36:49But I mean
36:50You align with my family
36:51And I align with yours
36:52And I do want to
36:53Take the chance to be exclusive with you
36:56You're willing to do that
36:59What?
37:00Why you seem so surprised?
37:03Well
37:04Yeah
37:05I'm just like
37:08What?
37:09What?
37:10You still haven't answered the question
37:11Would I like to date you exclusively?
37:12Yeah
37:15Yes
37:16Good
37:17Good
37:18Good
37:19Good
37:20Good
37:21You know what y'all
37:22I am exclusively dating someone
37:25Oh
37:27Oh
37:28That's sweet
37:29I am feeling everything
37:30That was wild
37:32My mouth is probably open
37:34Right here
37:38When I give her a kiss right now
37:39Like
37:40I'm not worried about nothing
37:41I'm excited
37:43This is actually our first real kiss
37:45I would say
37:46And
37:47I literally forget where we are
37:49Which is perfect
37:50I feel like it's just us
37:51We finally got our moment
37:54To just
37:55Do us
37:56So why are you surprised?
37:58Because
37:59I don't know what's happening ever
38:01Around here
38:02Like
38:03I chose Chambriel because
38:09I feel like
38:10In this whole experience
38:11I've gotten nothing but Chambriel from the beginning
38:14I've gotten the authentic
38:16I've gotten the friend
38:17I've gotten the business woman
38:19I've gotten it all
38:20You saw me for who I am
38:22And I know
38:23It ain't run you off
38:25You ain't scared
38:26You know what it comes with
38:27And
38:28Your life
38:29And
38:30My life can coexist
38:31Wait till my mama find out
38:32Oh
38:33She don't know yet
38:34She don't know nothing
38:35I got you nervous now
38:36Just a little bit
38:37Yeah
38:38Cause it's been on my mind the whole day
38:39Cause I mean
38:40It's one thing for me to want it
38:41But
38:42Yeah
38:43You have your concerns
38:44So you're your own person too
38:45You know
38:46This is
38:47Crazy
38:52Hey love
38:53Hey
38:54How are you?
38:57Good
38:58Mwah
38:59Well you'll be able to do that
39:01You'll be able to do that tomorrow too
39:03And you'll be able to do that the next day too
39:05And the next day
39:06Cause she ain't going nowhere
39:07I am so happy with Joshua's decision because if I told him to go with Chambriel probably he wouldn't have listened to me but I told him follow your heart and let God direct you so that's to tell you God works
39:26Congrats
39:27Thank you
39:28Thank you
39:29I'm happy for you
39:30Thank you
39:31Enjoy
39:32I bless you all
39:33I bless you all
39:34I'm so happy
39:36I'm so happy
39:37Your prayers work huh
39:38Totally
39:39Okay
39:40Cheerio on top huh
39:41Yep
39:42Cheerio on top
39:43This one is just a Joshua song
39:45He made his choice
39:46Thank you Lord
39:47You lost
39:48This is something that I never ever in a million years thought I'd be doing ever
39:57You and me both
40:00This experience has been such a wild ride
40:03I've learned so much about who I am and what I look for in a potential partner
40:07It's really allowed me to work on the relationship that I have with my mother as well
40:12My mom is a lot of things but I'm definitely thankful for her
40:19Better be
40:21Hi ladies
40:23Overall this experience has been a great experience
40:27I wouldn't trade it for the world being able to wake up with you every morning talk to you eat breakfast which you cook
40:33It definitely made our relationship better
40:36Yeah I think that you are the most important person to me in my life
40:41In the future when it comes to dating
40:43My mom will you know inevitably think she knows best but honestly I think I'll be able to take care of her from here
40:54It's been a journey
40:55But we did it
40:58Couldn't have done it without you
40:59Thank you son
41:00Thank you
41:01So all I wish is for you to have fun
41:04Enjoy her
41:05And you are planning to hug the baby soon
41:08Chill, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill
41:10I knew you were going to say that
41:11Don't do that
41:14This message is brought to you by Chambriel TV where we keep it 100% real
41:19I need a drink
41:20I need a drink
41:21I need a drink
41:22And I am leaving here with somebody's son
41:24This has a drink
41:29It does not have fun
41:30Talk to me
41:31Once holidays
41:32Of course
41:33Until last time
41:34When tomorrow night
41:35Oh my god
41:36If my god
41:37Is, I nack Jordavans
41:38Hey, Walter
41:39You and me
41:39ذه
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