Skip to playerSkip to main contentSkip to footer
  • 6/29/2025
A heartfelt, unfiltered portrait of love, grief, and trans joy - told through letters written to a boy named Wes. | dG1fcnJrSjFWbWRnSFk
Transcript
00:00As a trans kid, you don't have any autonomy.
00:03It's sort of constantly taken away from you
00:05by the media, by doctors, by the Minister, Secretary for Health.
00:14There's been a big pushback in the NHS against gender-affirming care.
00:20It's not generated by a kind of genuine desire
00:24to see positive outcomes for young trans people.
00:27It comes from a place of believing
00:29that transness is a pathology,
00:34an illness that is to be cured.
00:38When the puberty blocker ban was renewed,
00:42it was especially crushing
00:44because one of my friends had recently died who was trans.
00:49That felt like no-one was looking out for us,
00:53no-one cared about us.
00:54To me, in my life, this massive thing had happened and no-one cared.
01:01So this is also about a much wider fight to restrict autonomy,
01:06to make people less able to express themselves
01:08and to reassert quite traditional gender norms onto society.
01:17I want to believe that we'll put enough pressure on streeting
01:21and we can overturn the ban,
01:26but in reality, I don't think people in government really care about trans kids,
01:32and I think we're sort of a minority that can be sacrificed to them.
01:35and I do have time for it.
01:48Let's take a minute.

Recommended