Cosmo Confessions with Jameson Blake & Sue Ramirez

Cosmopolitan Philippines

Watch "Flower Girl" stars Sue Ramirez and Jameson Blake get candid about love, heartbreak, and what truly matters in a relationship.  VIDEO PRODUCED BY: Kate Sarmiento, Cherrie Julian  VIDEO SHOT BY: Jino Del Mundo VIDEO EDITED BY: Olan Pingco

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00:00What's up, Cosmo? This is Sue and I play Ina on Flower Girl.

00:04And I'm Jameson Blick and I play Dick here in Flower Girl.

00:15I would say attraction at first sight.

00:20Yeah, because I believe it takes time.

00:23I mean, at first I would say it's just attraction.

00:26Maybe not love.

00:28Maybe you're deceived.

00:31Or lust.

00:32It's not. Lust is too extreme.

00:35Maybe in between.

00:37Maybe wholesome lust.

00:39That's right.

00:46Oh, dating age.

00:48What?

00:49Dugyot.

00:50Yes.

00:51Madungis. Madungis.

00:52Madungis sa katawan sa kuko.

00:54Ganyan. Siko.

00:56Ano yun.

00:57Sorry jina-judge ko.

00:58Pero kasi yung cleanliness ng tao sobrang important yun.

01:01How he holds himself up.

01:02How he goes day to day.

01:04Alam mo yun.

01:05So...

01:07Gusto ko hindi dugyot.

01:09Actually yung nakalimutan ko eh.

01:15Ito ko.

01:18I've been single for a while.

01:20Um...

01:21How does...

01:22What sorry?

01:23How does being in love feel like?

01:25Um...

01:26Um...

01:27I would say it's...

01:28You get this...

01:29Sense of comfort.

01:31And you get this...

01:32Rush of...

01:33Inspiration or motivation at first.

01:36And...

01:37When you just feel safe and comfortable with someone.

01:40Someone you can talk to all day.

01:42Talk about anything.

01:43I think that's a big factor when...

01:45You love someone.

01:46Isip ko akong...

01:52Sige.

01:53And may...

01:54Nung bata pa ako.

01:56Meron akong childhood jowa.

01:58Tas matagal kami nun.

01:59So hindi alam siyempre ng mommy ko.

02:02So tinatago-tago pa namin.

02:04Until one day birthday ko.

02:06Naglakas ng loob na siya.

02:07Sinarprise niya ako.

02:08Sa canto ng bahay namin.

02:10As in may...

02:11Andunlat ng barkada namin.

02:12Tas happy birthday sa akin.

02:14I think yun yung pinakamalaking...

02:16Gesture na nagawa...

02:18Para sa akin ng isang guy.

02:20Parang...

02:21Naglakas loob siya.

02:27To give...

02:28Right now...

02:29I think...

02:30Love languages...

02:31Change.

02:32It's like seasonal.

02:33So...

02:34Right now I think...

02:35In general I would say...

02:37To give is an act of service.

02:39I would say...

02:40I think that's...

02:42More beneficial.

02:43More beneficial.

02:44Or...

02:45I think it makes...

02:46I mean...

02:47It depends.

02:48It's either quality time or...

02:49Or...

02:50Act of service.

02:51Kasi...

02:52We can be busy nowadays.

02:53So...

02:54Quality time is a...

02:55Big factor.

02:56And what I would like to...

02:57Receive...

02:58Words of affirmation works for me.

02:59A lot.

03:00But then sometimes...

03:02You know...

03:03You can't tell if they're being genuine.

03:04Pero...

03:05Words of affirmation...

03:06Um...

03:07Helps me.

03:08That's where...

03:09I...

03:10Absorb...

03:11Their love somehow.

03:17Natodo pala ako talaga...

03:19Pag nagmahal...

03:20Yung...

03:21Nakakalimutan ko yung sarili ko...

03:23Na...

03:24Natutunan ko din naman na...

03:25Hindi pala...

03:26Dapat...

03:27Parang...

03:28Na...

03:29Kahit ibigay mo lahat-lahat...

03:31Kung hindi...

03:32Ito yun.

03:33Hindi ito yun.

03:34So...

03:35Kailangan magbigay ka talaga ng space for yourself.

03:37At...

03:38Accept...

03:39Kumbaga...

03:40Space for acceptance.

03:41Na...

03:42This might probably not work out.

03:43And...

03:44If...

03:45Yun nga...

03:46Kailangan tanggapin mo.

03:47Kailangan mo na-acceptance.

03:53I think growing up...

03:54Um...

03:55A lot of guys...

03:56Are...

03:57Afraid to say...

03:58Even though it's...

03:59To a guy friend.

04:00So I think I grew up...

04:01Learning na...

04:02You can just say to anybody.

04:03It doesn't really matter.

04:04And...

04:05Um...

04:06It shouldn't...

04:07The gender shouldn't come into the picture.

04:08If you really...

04:09Love someone as a friend or...

04:10Because you appreciate them.

04:11I mean...

04:12Just voice it out.

04:13Ako...

04:14Yun nga...

04:15Lumaki ako sa industry...

04:16Na...

04:17Sinasabi sa akin palagi na maging...

04:19Mas feminine ako.

04:21Pero...

04:22Ano ba talagang ibig sabihin ng mas feminine?

04:24Ano ba talaga?

04:25Sino ba nagset ng standards na yun?

04:27I grew up in a household with strong women.

04:30My mom was also...

04:31I hate this term...

04:32Boyish.

04:33I hate that term talaga.

04:34Because I was called that growing up all my life.

04:37But I don't think naman na...

04:39Alam mo yun?

04:40Boy...

04:41Boys lang ba pwede mag basketball?

04:42Alam mo yun.

04:43Alam mo yun.

04:44Lana...

04:45Nakulong ako sa ganong...

04:46Ano.

04:47At one point in my career,

04:48I thought I had to be more...

04:50Mahinhin.

04:51I had to be more...

04:53Not...

04:54Hindi ako dapat masyadong maingay.

04:55Hindi ako dapat masyadong madaldal na...

04:57Wala.

04:58Going back home,

04:59Hindi ko near recent yung kinalakhan ko talaga.

05:02And...

05:03At the end of the day,

05:04Hindi ko kailangan baguhin kung sino ako dahil lang sinasabi ng ibang tao.

05:13When I say true love,

05:15I can definitely say that I know what it looks like.

05:18Because I saw it growing up.

05:20My mom and dad were in a very happy married relationship.

05:24I'm a very lucky girl actually.

05:26Na nawitness ko yun.

05:28It was a difficult situation at home.

05:30Because my dad was sick.

05:31And my mom had to work.

05:33Lima kami nag-aaral.

05:34Pero...

05:35Kilalang kilala ko yung itsura ng true love.

05:37Kasi nakita ko sa mga magulang ko talaga.

05:40She has a good explanation.

05:41You can't really define it.

05:42I mean, you see it with your own eyes.

05:44And I also saw that with...

05:45Also my mom din.

05:46Childhood sweethearts.

05:48Tapos she went with my dad.

05:51She had kids with my dad.

05:52And then they separated.

05:53And she went back to my stepfather.

05:55And they got married after like...

05:5812 to 15 years.

05:59So I would say that's true love.

06:01Alright guys, that is it for today for Cosmo Confessions.

06:05Thank you for staying with us.

06:07We want to invite you guys to watch our movie Flower Girl.

06:10In cinemas nationwide.

06:11See you there!

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