- 6/25/2025
Virgin Island 2025 full Episode 04
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00:00The word virgin, people see it as a joke. It's quite obsessing.
00:11In a world where sex is everywhere...
00:15My God!
00:16The truth is surprising. There are more adult virgins than ever.
00:21Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult.
00:24Social media.
00:25Dating apps.
00:26TV shows.
00:27Porn.
00:28Porn.
00:29Porn is everywhere.
00:30Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
00:33Now?
00:34Yeah.
00:35At this radical retreat, intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution.
00:41Oh, hell.
00:42She's a miracle worker.
00:44Woohoo!
00:45Like that?
00:46I like that.
00:47To help Britain's virgins...
00:49...lose the one thing...
00:51Don't make you nervous.
00:53...they feel is holding them back.
00:55I want to lose my virginity. It's now or never.
00:58But when the moment arrives...
01:01Would you like to move to bed?
01:03...who will be ready...
01:05I just don't want anyone to touch me.
01:08...to go all...
01:10...the way.
01:11Yes.
01:12Yes.
01:13Yes.
01:14Yes.
01:23Over the last few days on Virgin Island...
01:25I'm definitely gay.
01:27I know.
01:29That felt really good.
01:30Yahoo!
01:31...revelations...
01:32This is my buzzing.
01:34...led to breakthroughs.
01:36Right now I feel on top of the world.
01:38...Charlotte's bravado...
01:40Why do you use these horrible stretch marks?
01:43Did you say horrible, did you?
01:44...has caused issues for some.
01:47I've always hated my body.
01:48I know it's a little thing, but for me it's quite big.
01:51And Dave...
01:52How are you feeling?
01:53Good.
01:54...started work with surrogate partner Kat.
01:57It's given me a massive confidence boost.
02:00Now, halfway through the course...
02:02...the group will be challenged like never before.
02:05The relationship with the body is very crucial...
02:08...to dating, intimacy and sex.
02:11How are you feeling about genital touching?
02:14What we bring to sex is our bodies.
02:16If we feel shame about our bodies...
02:18...we won't be able to engage in sex.
02:27It's day seven of the retreat.
02:36And this morning there's an extra surprise in the star.
02:39Oh, fuck's sake.
02:41Well, that's not scary.
02:43It doesn't bode well that there's a robe.
02:47It's the stage of the course they've all been dreading.
02:50This phase of the course is the body.
02:52Please come to this workshop in as few clothes as you feel comfortable wearing...
02:56...underneath a bathrobe.
02:58Suddenly you need the loo.
03:01For about four hours just until after the workshop's over.
03:05I think this may be one of the scariest workshops for a lot of people...
03:09...because it's so intense to expose your body.
03:13I'm not a bathrobe person.
03:16I like clothes.
03:17Clothes are a mark of civilisation.
03:20Morning.
03:22Is that what you're going in?
03:24Yes.
03:25I've never really looked at my body and not felt sick.
03:31In school, my friendship group, I was the uglier, fatter friend.
03:37So even though, like, I'm not as fat now, I feel like I just still feel it.
03:43You're nervous?
03:44Yeah.
03:45I want you guys to know I'm really small and skinny, so don't be surprised.
03:48Hmm?
03:49Is it all about the cock?
03:51I don't know.
03:52I was just nodding my head.
03:53Oh!
03:58Oh!
03:59Oh!
04:00Am I the only one that's not going to fully turn the robot off?
04:02Yes, you never.
04:03In this morning's workshop, the experts are keen to see if anyone has the confidence to bear all.
04:09We get horrible messages about our bodies.
04:12There's so many ways in which we think, my body isn't right, my body isn't enough.
04:17And then we're supposed to go out and, like, enjoy pleasure in our body?
04:20It's quite impossible, actually.
04:21Hello, hello.
04:22Welcome, welcome.
04:31Our relationship with our body makes such a huge difference to how we feel about ourselves.
04:37And social media, where it's, like, constant images of the Kardashians with all of their augmentations and all the influencers.
04:44It just creates these crazy expectations, which is why it's so important to start to reclaim our bodies.
04:54And what better way to get comfortable with bodies than by seeing some firsthand?
05:04Well, Deva, if you feel ready.
05:15So this is my body, everyone.
05:18And though I love my body now, I struggle with something called body dysmorphia.
05:23Which means when I look in the mirror, I don't see the same thing that everybody else sees.
05:28This is my body.
05:41And I also love my body now.
05:44But it has been years with poor self-image.
05:48So, yeah, it's a process.
05:49It's a process.
05:50Yeah.
05:51How do you feel when you look at Joy and Deva?
05:58Sort of feel like I'm crossing a boundary.
06:00There's a lot of discomfort and a lot of feelings of, like, oh, that's private.
06:03But if you're going to have sex, it's not private anymore.
06:07I feel like I actively avoid mirrors.
06:10And I feel like it can bring me down.
06:12So I don't really have mirrors in my room or in my house.
06:15Thank you for sharing.
06:18Thank you so much.
06:20If being exposed to two naked bodies wasn't awkward enough, what's coming next is the group's worst nightmare.
06:28The biggest thing that we can change is how we relate to our body.
06:33We're going to invite you one by one to claim your body.
06:40We're asking the group to take off their robes and stand in front of the mirror and look at their body.
06:45It's such a way to shift their body confidence.
06:51Who's ready?
06:55Do you know what? YOLO.
06:58First to volunteer is 25-year-old Jason, who has always had a problem with his self-image.
07:03OK.
07:05Right. So...
07:09The front I'm fine with is the butt because my stretch marks are really red.
07:13Looking in the mirror feels strange because I don't see myself as attractive at all.
07:18I don't like my hair. I don't like my face.
07:20I've always been, like, a stick man. Like, if you had a cartoon stick man, that's me.
07:24OK.
07:27YOLO.
07:39Can you come to the mirror with me?
07:41Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll do that.
07:43This is your mirror here. You can check yourself out.
07:45I've seen this every day for 25 years. I'm used to it.
07:47And then when you feel ready, I want you to just say, this is my body.
07:52This is my body, yeah?
07:54One more time.
07:55This is my body.
07:56Yes!
07:58YOLO.
08:00Amazing!
08:02Who's ready next?
08:06OK. Oh, my God.
08:07Next to face the mirror is 29-year-old Charlotte, whose relationship with her body has always been a struggle.
08:17I had a massive weight loss. My highest weight was 120 kilos.
08:24Since losing the weight, I have scars. I have loose skin.
08:29When I was larger, my self-esteem, I would definitely say, was lower. But I act a lot more confident than I am.
08:56I have scars.
08:57Yeah, I have them too.
09:02You've been on an intense journey around your body. I remember the queen that you are.
09:11This is my body.
09:13Yes.
09:15Try one more time to really feel it. It's yours. You earned it.
09:23This is my body.
09:25This is my body.
09:28Oh, my God.
09:36As they each get up...
09:38This is my body.
09:40..to face their reflections...
09:42I'm basically, like, pretty dress warm and all of you put together.
09:45...how much they're willing to reveal varies.
09:48This is my body.
09:50There we go. Beautiful.
09:52Looking at their bodies, loving their bodies holistically, can be hugely empowering.
09:57This is my body.
09:59That's great.
10:05Who's ready?
10:07Yeah, fuck it.
10:09So far, 24-year-old Dave has kept a relatively low profile at the retreat.
10:14When I look at you, I'm gonna embarrass you a little bit.
10:31I see a sexy, handsome man.
10:36Yeah, that doesn't embarrass me.
10:38I know. It's okay.
10:41This is my body.
10:47Who else?
10:49So, I think everyone in this room knew I was going to do this today.
10:53Um...
10:54I don't actually want to.
10:59Whoo!
11:03This is my body.
11:09I want to go next.
11:10Hey, love.
11:25How are you feeling?
11:27I just feel like I could be sick.
11:29Okay.
11:31What thoughts are coming up?
11:33What emotions are there?
11:35Like, what emotion are you feeling?
11:36Anxious.
11:37Sick.
11:39In disgust.
11:41You can get up there in front of everybody else
11:44and be with your body and see what comes next.
11:48You're not gonna let a fear or a lack of self-worth
11:53stop you from living your life.
11:59This is my body.
12:06Who else is ready?
12:08Who else is ready?
12:10Who else is ready?
12:14This is amazing.
12:15Aww.
12:21I don't want to look.
12:24You don't want to look?
12:25Then look at me for a minute.
12:27This is my body.
12:29This is my body.
12:30I'm so proud of you.
12:33You're welcome.
12:35Go, be proud of yourself, flaunt your bodies around, shake them, remember what they're there for.
12:52Well done, Dave.
12:55Thanks, man.
12:57I commend you both for what you did.
12:59I got, yeah, you get a little bit of a high after.
13:01You do, right?
13:03That's the first time I've been naked in front of anyone, let alone a room full people.
13:08I think today was the biggest thing I've done so far.
13:12Did you feel this?
13:14Yeah, mixed.
13:15I thought I had this confidence and then it's different when you stare at yourself while other people are staring at you.
13:20I feel like maybe I've hit a bit of a wall.
13:26The exercise was particularly difficult for Louise.
13:30When you look in the mirror, I feel like you just instantly look at the things that you hurt the most.
13:35Jiggly legs and stretch marks on my hips.
13:38That's just where your eyes go to.
13:41I just want to feel good in my skin.
13:45I don't know.
13:47I still feel a bit sick, to be honest.
13:50I feel like it's easier for a girl to be naked.
13:51Really?
13:52I feel like if you've got a small dick, it's more embarrassing.
13:53It'd be very apt if we had sausages in the mirror.
13:54It'd be very apt if we had sausages in the mirror.
13:55It'd be very apt if we had sausages.
13:56Hi.
13:57Hi.
13:58Hi.
13:59It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.
14:00Can you have it in your wedding?
14:01Can you have it in your wedding if you're white?
14:02Of course you can.
14:03Can you have it in your wedding?
14:04Of course you can.
14:05Of course you can.
14:06Of course you can.
14:07Yeah.
14:08I just want to wear that.
14:09I just want to wear that dress.
14:10While the car seems to be building confidence for some.
14:11Oh, I don't know.
14:12Can you have it in your wedding if you're white?
14:13Of course you can.
14:14Of course you can.
14:15Of course you can.
14:16Do you have that?
14:17I just want to wear that dress.
14:18While the car seems to be building confidence for some.
14:19Oh, that's so sweet.
14:20Turning me on a little bit.
14:21Really?
14:22Mmm.
14:23I don't know.
14:24I don't know.
14:25If you've got a small dick, it's more embarrassing.
14:26If you've got a small dick, it's more embarrassing.
14:27I'm going to be very apt if we had sausages today.
14:28Of course.
14:29Hi.
14:30It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.
14:31Can you have it in your wedding if you're white?
14:32Of course you can.
14:33Of course you can.
14:34Do you have it?
14:35I just want to wear that dress.
14:36While the car seems to be building confidence for some.
14:41Oh, that's so sweet.
14:43Turning me on a little bit.
14:44Really?
14:45Mmm.
14:46The body phase is a huge challenge for others.
14:49I was so confident, and then I stood in front of the mirror,
14:52and I was like, don't like that, don't like that, don't like that.
14:54I hate my hands.
14:55At least you've not got man hands.
14:57You've got man hands.
14:58Where's your man hand?
15:00I don't like my face.
15:02Do you know?
15:03Let's talk about Louise.
15:08Yeah.
15:09She was just terrified of being judged,
15:12and she felt that her body was disgusting.
15:14So I was wondering, like, what you feel like the next steps were.
15:17To maybe disrobe the whole way to find new words to describe her body.
15:21I hate the way I look.
15:24I wouldn't say I've ever felt like confident.
15:27I started going to the gym.
15:29That helped a lot.
15:30But, yeah, it's a work in progress.
15:34Come and have a seat.
15:36Ayesha hopes that a repeat of this morning's exercise in private
15:40could help improve Louise's confidence.
15:42So, mirror work, you did that this morning.
15:45And I wonder if you'd like to continue doing a guided tour of your body.
15:49Yeah.
15:50Yeah.
15:51Yeah.
15:52Yeah.
16:00OK.
16:03Yeah.
16:04I don't want to put it down.
16:06If this was a friend's body, and they were like,
16:09Hey, look.
16:10Isn't my body disgusting?
16:12How might you show up differently?
16:14If it was a friend, I'd just be like,
16:16There's nothing wrong with you.
16:17Shut up.
16:19But I just feel like I can't say that and mean it about myself.
16:23Say it like you would to your friend convincing.
16:25There's nothing even wrong with you.
16:27There's nothing even wrong with you.
16:32Next step is to remove the sheet.
16:38OK.
16:41My boobs.
16:42I just hurt my boobs.
16:43One second, lady.
16:45Have you ever had compliments about your boobs?
16:47Yeah.
16:48Tell me about that.
16:50People wish they had these.
16:52Aw.
16:53It's like the perfect.
16:54I want to invite you to receive the compliment.
16:59They're perfect.
17:02Mm.
17:04OK.
17:06Louise is making progress.
17:08But Ayesha has one final challenge.
17:12So, noticing what your body wants to take off next.
17:15And I'm thinking...
17:18..bra.
17:19Great.
17:21When you're ready.
17:23I couldn't do that myself.
17:31What's changed now that your bra's off?
17:35It's always nice to take your bra off.
17:38What's the feeling in your body, the sensation of it?
17:41Obviously, I do feel more free and just...
17:44Yeah.
17:45You feel more free?
17:46Yeah.
17:47Louise!
17:48Everyone feels better when they're naked.
17:50Just...
17:51On their own.
17:53Yeah.
17:54OK.
17:55So, feeling better when you're naked.
17:57I'm gonna bring the robe.
18:02Don't be ashamed.
18:04Don't be ashamed.
18:06Just love yourself.
18:09Just love yourself.
18:11Body image is definitely a place where Louise struggles.
18:15That strength of feeling that she has,
18:17it feels like it comes from way, way down inside of her.
18:21From way, way back in her life.
18:23Louise, look how much you've done.
18:26Thank you for sharing your body with me.
18:29Thank you for listening.
18:31It felt good to replace my negative thoughts.
18:35I try to.
18:37I feel like once I change the view that I have on myself,
18:40then it will be easier to accept it from other people.
18:48How was your one-to-one?
18:50Basically, just redid this morning, but properly.
18:54Do you feel better now, having done it?
18:56Yeah, cos, like, we properly stood in the mirror and, like...
18:58Possessed.
19:00Yeah, thoughts for everything.
19:02I think you're gorgeous.
19:04Thanks.
19:06Although Louise struggled with this morning's workshop...
19:08Tuck in the right up. Yeah.
19:09Bring them out like this.
19:11There. And pull.
19:13Dave shocked everybody by going the full Monty.
19:16Look at your veins.
19:18These popping veins.
19:20I was so impressed.
19:22Three of them got naked.
19:24Three? Yeah.
19:25But, like, Dave was a huge surprise.
19:26Totally.
19:28Yeah, I feel like today he was definitely sending a message
19:31and being like, OK, I'm ready.
19:33But we'll just kind of get in and see, like,
19:35if that energy is there and where he wants to go with it.
19:40There you go. There.
19:42Four.
19:44Two more, two more.
19:46I'm an accountant, so pretty boring.
19:48All of my friends know I'm a virgin.
19:49And actually, pretty embarrassingly, I think all my coworkers know as well.
19:54Because you tell one person at work and then everyone knows.
19:59I don't have the confidence to properly get to know someone.
20:03In an intimate moment, I'm scared about what they're going to think of my body
20:06and what they're going to think of what I'm like.
20:08And I've got to, like, start living my life properly.
20:14Getting naked in the workshop was a huge step for Dave.
20:18Hello.
20:19Hey.
20:21But does it mean he's ready to take his therapy to the next level?
20:23My suggestion would be to practice, like, touch and giving feedback.
20:30OK. Yeah, sure.
20:32OK.
20:34I'll have you start with my arm.
20:38I'll try long and slow.
20:41And can you look at me while you do it?
20:44Yeah.
20:49Building up to sex with surrogate partner Kat is a possibility.
20:53If Dave can master the basics and form a connection.
20:58Am I OK to try to sort of go on top?
21:02Yeah.
21:04Is that what you mean?
21:05Yeah.
21:06Yeah.
21:08And you can kiss, too, my mouth, if you want.
21:11OK.
21:13I feel like this definitely isn't the best position.
21:15I don't like the way my arm is.
21:16Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
21:19Yeah.
21:21Because that's why you're in that position.
21:24It's so obvious now.
21:25Yeah.
21:26OK.
21:27But does that make you uncomfortable?
21:29Subconsciously, yeah.
21:30Yeah.
21:31OK.
21:32Do you want to try again with you on top or do you want to try with me on top?
21:34Absolutely.
21:35Yeah.
21:36OK.
21:37And can you practice coming alive a little?
21:52Yeah.
21:53Yeah.
21:54Yeah.
21:55Yeah.
21:56I'm staying still, aren't I?
21:57Yeah.
21:58Yeah.
21:59Try again?
22:00Yeah.
22:01Yeah.
22:02OK.
22:03Good.
22:08That feels good.
22:12As Dave slowly opens up...
22:16Go!
22:18Mine won!
22:20Oh, it came back!
22:23The course is encouraging Charlotte to address her buried emotions.
22:28I was so large for such a long time.
22:30You think everyone is judging you all the time
22:33because you're so used to being on the defensive
22:35because you feel like you have to protect yourself.
22:41Today I saw a softer side of Charlotte.
22:44I saw, like, the quivering of the lip
22:46and that was very challenging for her, like, to look at herself.
22:51It was really hard for her to keep the inner image
22:54that she has of herself in front of the mirror
22:57and that's something that so many people are struggling with.
23:01At boarding school, I just wasn't fitting in
23:04and that's been a big thing for me my whole life.
23:08And then everyone says, oh, don't worry,
23:10when you go to uni, you'll find your people.
23:13Then I went to uni and then I didn't find my people.
23:16So now, at almost 30, it makes you doubt yourself.
23:22The Mirror Workshop revealed that Charlotte's issues
23:24are more than skin deep.
23:27Hi.
23:28Hi.
23:28How are you?
23:29I'm good, thank you.
23:31So the experts suggest clinical therapist Abby
23:34tries to find out what's really going on.
23:37They kind of want to check in with, you know,
23:39the reasons that brought you here.
23:41Um, sometimes I do still feel like I'm still this sort of young,
23:47you know, sort of teenage girl
23:48because I wasn't really friends with anyone of the girls
23:50at the boarding school.
23:51And also because of my size, I was quite isolated.
23:56Like, here's this part of you that feels emotionally trapped in your adolescence.
24:01Do you feel like no one sees you for you?
24:04My perception of myself can be vastly different to how other people see me.
24:11Mm-hmm.
24:11I feel like I'm trying to really just be as fearless as possible,
24:16putting on what I call The Charlotte Show.
24:18Ooh.
24:19And it's like I think I'm giving off this image of me.
24:22Like, sometimes I have to do it at work.
24:25Mm-hmm.
24:25You don't have to work for people's love and care.
24:41People will love and care for you without performing.
24:46I don't know if you believe that, though.
24:49What if you show up as vulnerable?
24:50I don't know how to kind of do that.
24:55We're going to get there.
24:57We're going to get there.
24:58Yeah.
25:00You can't really hurt something that isn't real.
25:06But I've maybe been putting on The Charlotte Show too much.
25:13I think the whole thing is all about being seen.
25:16And I guess we're going to see who sees me.
25:23Yeah.
25:33It's day two of the body phase at the retreat,
25:36and there are promising signs of change.
25:39I feel like every session I have,
25:42I come out feeling a bit better in some way.
25:44Getting undressed, that is a massive thing for me.
25:48I think I've achieved a lot.
25:50I know there's things that I'm more confident about,
25:53but I think there's still further for me to go.
25:57I'm definitely seeing the confidence level rise.
26:00They're much more likely to try different tools.
26:03They're really growing.
26:06But progress for Zach can't come quick enough.
26:09I'm feeling a little bit of frustration.
26:12I'm hoping to make some more progress and eventually sex.
26:16It is the next step, and it's something I want to do,
26:21and, you know, I'm not afraid to say that.
26:24You can definitely tell, though,
26:29they're definitely amping things up.
26:30Absolutely.
26:31And, like, again, we've got to halfway.
26:33Mm.
26:34I just want to be able to give people compliments,
26:38because I struggle with that.
26:39Let's try that now.
26:40Yeah.
26:40OK.
26:42I like your little nose.
26:43It's kind of cute.
26:44Oh, thank you.
26:45I love your beard.
26:46I wish I could grow a beard like that.
26:47It's phenomenal.
26:48Brilliant, isn't it?
26:49It is.
26:51Let's think of one for the girls.
26:52In a bid to improve how he interacts with women,
26:57Zach challenges himself with his own exercise.
27:06One thing I am not very good at is giving sincere compliments.
27:09So, every day, I'm going to come up with a new one for everyone.
27:13Aw, sweet.
27:16Emma, you have some incredible eyes.
27:20Thank you very much.
27:20It's amazing to stare into them.
27:22Thank you, Zach.
27:23I really appreciate that.
27:25Louise, you have a banging body, mate.
27:29You're fucking sexy as hell.
27:32Thanks.
27:33Holly, you can be so fucking funny sometimes,
27:37and you have the greatest expressions, and it's hilarious.
27:40Pia, you have the greatest smile, honestly.
27:43When you're happy, it's wonderful.
27:45I love it.
27:47Taylor, you have a brilliant singing voice,
27:49and you know the words to all the songs.
27:50It's fucking amazing.
27:50Charlotte, you're always flirting with me,
27:53but I know you'll say you're not, but you're a liar.
27:56That's not a compliment.
27:58Well, it is, and you're actually pretty good at it.
28:00Okay.
28:00There we go.
28:01Woo!
28:02Zach may be pleased with his compliment session.
28:05Thanks, Zach.
28:06I feel like mine needed to be reworded a bit, but okay.
28:09But not everyone is feeling the love.
28:12Don't take this personally, but can you take me out of tomorrow's compliment book?
28:15I don't want to be in it.
28:17Thank you, though.
28:17I appreciate it.
28:18Don't worry about it.
28:19It's okay.
28:20I hope you like the one I gave you.
28:21I compare myself enough to girls I see on social media.
28:26I don't want him to be feeling different qualities about us all individually into my ear on a daily basis,
28:33him thinking it's helping me.
28:34Thankfully for Emma, the boys and the girls are splitting up for today's workshop.
28:42I'm confused why we're taking the book.
28:44I hope it's just, like, drawing, like, a life model.
28:48As it's become clear to the experts, when it comes to the body, they need all the help they can get.
28:54I've never had any contact with anything below a woman's waist.
28:58With my ex, I've, you know, we've touched up there, but I've never been...
29:02I've never got that far.
29:02I believe the clitoris is quite out of the top.
29:06So, admittedly, I wasn't the best at biology in school either.
29:11Someone asked me, where's the clit?
29:13I'm like, I don't know.
29:14No, I need to use Google.
29:18Today, we'll start with a little bit of anatomy.
29:21I know a lot of you really, really wanted to learn how to touch a pussy.
29:27Are you ready?
29:28Okay.
29:34This is the vaginal opening.
29:36We have the outer lips, or labia majora.
29:41I think the biggest mistake that I see men make is they just think, oh, it's all about the clitoris.
29:46And so they just, you know, like, do a lot of this.
29:49Do a lot of this.
29:50And it's quite painful, actually.
29:53When you think of a vulva, I think, like, oh, you know, I want to, like, pet the whole vulva.
30:00But there's only so much you can learn from a diagram.
30:06Kat is generously willing to take her panties off and show you how a real vulva looks like.
30:13I think the show and tell is really important, because when you look at an actual vulva, you're going to see it does look quite different than those quite sterile pictures.
30:28Okay, so here you see the outer lips, the outer labia, right here and here.
30:32And then here and here are the inner.
30:39And there's the pletarus.
30:42And then down here is the vaginal opening.
30:46Take a look at questions.
30:52I was going to say, Kat, I really admire your courage for doing this, because you're basically doing this so we can learn.
30:58So thank you a lot for doing that.
31:00Yeah, thanks for saying that.
31:03Okay.
31:04That's a lot for one day.
31:06I think you deserve some rest.
31:10Bye.
31:14Anyone take notes?
31:16No.
31:17I'm paying attention.
31:18I've got time for notes.
31:20I don't want to whip out a pen.
31:21It's good to hear from women who have had a lot of men make a lot of mistakes and to hear from that experience and to hear how to not fuck up like that.
31:28Across the island, the girls are also talking privates.
31:33What do you think of pubic hair?
31:35I don't really have an opinion on it.
31:36Yeah.
31:36Like Joy, for instance, had pubic hair.
31:39It looked really nice.
31:40It wasn't a lot, though.
31:41It was a very...
31:42She had what was called the landing strip.
31:44It was shaped and I really like that.
31:46Yeah.
31:46Yeah, that's called a landing strip.
31:47A landing strip.
31:48I might go and get one of them.
31:50Yeah.
31:50I think that looked very stylish.
31:52Embrace a girl, yeah.
31:53But it's not the female body most of the girls need to get better acquainted with.
31:59Obviously, you have lessons in school about the way the body works, but it's not really something that I've dived into.
32:06Obviously, I've kissed a couple of boys, but that's about it.
32:12I've had as much contact with the penis as I would like, which is very, very little.
32:17Hello.
32:19Okay, welcome.
32:21Now we're going to invite up Thomas and Deva to give you a little bit of an anatomy lesson on penises.
32:27So, you've got the shaft of the penis.
32:38Sometimes a penis, when it's erected, is not, like, super straight.
32:42It can be a bit like this, like this.
32:44After yesterday's penis preview...
32:47Getting used to doing this now.
32:50Deva can now give the girls a proper guided tour.
32:52People might think that the penis is really sensitive and, like, delicate or something, but it's not.
32:58You can really apply a lot of pressure. It doesn't hurt, you know.
33:02This is obviously the shaft here.
33:05This is the glands.
33:07And this part back here, the frenulum.
33:10But on me, anyway, it's the most sensitive part, don't we?
33:12Yeah.
33:12And this is the scrum, obviously.
33:14Now, that is like Play-Doh.
33:16That's why Jason always talks about Play-Doh skin.
33:19Yeah.
33:20Does anyone have any questions?
33:22Do you think you prefer a touch of, like, hands or, like, someone's tongue?
33:28The best combination that I enjoy is when someone's using their hands but also their mouth.
33:33Right.
33:39I'll see you later.
33:51You all right?
33:52Hello.
33:52How's your morning been?
33:54It's been all right.
33:55What's your vagina?
33:57Really?
33:58Do you see a penis?
33:59Yeah.
34:00Yeah.
34:02Speechless.
34:03You sort of a ruffle?
34:03What can I say?
34:07Louise may be learning more about the body, but the experts now want a window into her mind.
34:12Louise is not an easy person to read in terms of how she feels or what she wants, but you
34:17can tell there's something big going on underneath the surface and that that needs to be dealt
34:23with.
34:23To do that, they've asked Louise to keep a journal, to help understand herself better.
34:29How's the writing going?
34:30Good.
34:31I feel like it's kind of got quite a bit out.
34:33So my homework from Aisha was write my emotions down and things I've felt in the past and
34:41like repressed.
34:42I started with what I thought was like maybe the biggest factor.
34:46I know what it is, but I just can't express it.
34:51Louise has formed a bond with Aisha, but whether she's ready to open up remains to be seen.
34:57How are you feeling today?
34:59I kind of want to feel what I've wrote.
35:03Yum.
35:04I don't know, I felt like maybe reading it to you.
35:06Yeah.
35:07I feel like I'd just be able to let it all go.
35:09I can move on.
35:11So taking a breath.
35:11And when you're ready?
35:19I honestly don't even know where I should start because I almost feel like there's just too
35:25much that could be playing a part in why I am the way that I am.
35:31Pause.
35:32Take a breath.
35:34I know I don't like being or feeling vulnerable and maybe that stems from repressing my emotions
35:40from quite early on in life.
35:43All thanks to my dad.
35:47He was never really a big part of my life.
35:49He just left us for his next wife and their kids.
35:54It's a cool thing.
36:00He always used to think, what's so bad about me?
36:03That even my biological father just doesn't want to know me.
36:07If I wasn't even good enough for my dad, then why would I be good enough for anybody else?
36:19My mum used to say, you're not bothered about your dad, are you?
36:31And stuff like, I'd say no to her.
36:33But a little part of me would be like, but I do.
36:37You were taking care of her.
36:39And now what are you doing?
36:43Now you're taking care of you.
36:44You're starting to build up again.
36:54That sense of, I'm important.
36:58I'm worthy of love and respect.
37:02Would you like a hug?
37:05Please.
37:06Yeah.
37:06I feel a lot better, a lot lighter, slightly happier.
37:14I'll see you later.
37:15Even though it is what seems like little steps, they're making a big difference.
37:25Keen for progress of his own, Zach's attention is still on his compliments list.
37:30Are you sure you don't want a compliment every day?
37:32Yeah, no, just because I've come here to try and steer myself away from comparing myself to other girls.
37:38Well, I do that enough at home on Instagram.
37:39I think you and Louise are the two best-looking girls here.
37:42You don't want to be saying like, oh, Louise, you've got a bang on your body and you've got a nice size.
37:45And then you say, Pia, you've got a nice smile.
37:48I don't know what you did say about that.
37:48I'm not attracted to Pia, though.
37:51That's what I'm trying to like.
37:53Right.
37:53Just put yourself in the position of...
37:55I'm not going to lie.
37:57I don't like being compared to other people.
37:59Do you know what I mean?
38:01It's late afternoon on Virgin Island.
38:17Hi, hi, hi.
38:19And Charlotte still has some body issues to conquer.
38:22So why didn't you go naked in front of the mirror?
38:26Charlotte, Charlotte.
38:26I'm noticing more and more my issue is being vulnerable.
38:31You can't do it.
38:32It's hard.
38:33You can't do it.
38:38How about Charlotte?
38:39When she feels in control, then she feels powerful.
38:43Yeah.
38:44I think like the next step for her is she needs to work on her body confidence and really kind of like feeling at home in her new body.
38:52Hi.
38:56Hi.
38:56Over a few sessions, Charlotte has built a bond with surrogate partner Andre.
39:01But is she ready for the radical next step?
39:04This is an opportunity to see my body naked.
39:11And for me to also see your body naked.
39:17I've never been naked in front of another person.
39:20The intimacy scares me.
39:22It's a lot if everything that I use, such as like clothes and humor, has been sort of stripped away.
39:31I guess I could try going topless first.
39:36And then I could kind of see how I felt continuing on from there.
39:40That sounds great.
39:41Let's go ahead and do that.
39:43Your body is your body.
39:57If there is ever a desire to be in an intimate connection with someone.
40:02Yeah.
40:03There's a good chance that they're going to want to see your body.
40:08Yes.
40:08I think I feel comfortable taking off my top in this space.
40:25How does it feel?
40:27It's refreshing.
40:28Oh my God.
40:29You have beautiful breasts.
40:31How is your energy if we were to remove our bottoms?
40:39I think I'm feeling okay to do it.
40:42Would you like me to turn around?
40:43Yes, please.
40:43Okay.
40:44You know, just keep breathing.
41:03Know that you are safe here.
41:06Okay.
41:07Okay.
41:08Yeah.
41:08We did it.
41:16We're naked.
41:17We're naked.
41:18We're naked.
41:19The change in Charlotte is beyond words.
41:27And there's still room for her to feel comfort and safety in her body.
41:33Knowing that she is worthy of pleasure.
41:36So proud of you.
41:37Oh, thank you so much.
41:39I built that level of trust with Andre that I felt that I could be vulnerable, that I could
41:45be naked with him.
41:46And that he was going to sort of embrace all the little parts of myself that I don't fully
41:51love all the time.
41:55How was that?
41:56So we stripped down naked and it was this moment of like, we did it.
41:59And I was like, we're naked.
42:00Yay.
42:02And I just felt like, you know, the door of the Explorer, when you've like conquered
42:06whatever you need to do with Dora.
42:07And she goes, you did it.
42:09You did it.
42:10I've never seen that episode before where the two get naked in her TV.
42:12While Charlotte is moving on, some of the boys can't stop thinking about this morning's workshop.
42:21You know what?
42:23I wanted to know how to properly touch your vagina.
42:26And I feel there were some good tips there.
42:29Like I said, that's important information.
42:31The thing is, if we gain anything, it's a plus.
42:34It's a plus.
42:38Dave was very interesting.
42:39I did think he took a lot out of it.
42:41He's really interested in technique.
42:43It was super educational for him.
42:45He really wants to know more.
42:47He's thirsty for that knowledge.
42:50Dave may be interested in the theory, but expert Kat needs to find out if he's ready for a practical.
42:57How are you feeling about genital touching?
43:04Okay-ish.
43:06Say it more.
43:06I know I need to do things I'm not 100% comfortable with, but everything that I've done that I haven't been comfortable with, I've ended up being comfortable with, if that makes sense.
43:19Yeah.
43:22To get Dave relaxed, Kat starts with some kissing.
43:30But before progressing to the next stage,
43:32he's got to learn one crucial detail.
43:37But you have to get naked, too.
43:39Okay, sorry.
43:40I mean, if you want to.
43:41Yeah.
43:45Do you have a preference for who does what first?
43:48Maybe you want to touch us?
43:50Yeah, okay.
43:51Go ahead and lie down.
43:52I think touching someone in an intimate way is probably more nerve-wracking than me being touched,
44:00because I don't know if I'm going to be doing it right or if they're going to be enjoying it.
44:10Try to just close your eyes, feel into it.
44:13If Dave is to eventually lose his virginity on the island...
44:27This switch.
44:29Yeah.
44:30..he needs to learn to give as well as receive.
44:33It's always weird the first time, so I feel like you should just kind of try.
44:40Get used to what it feels like.
44:42It did not feel high.
44:51How did you expect it to feel?
44:53I don't know.
44:54Not that.
44:58I think somebody's about to find it.
45:01Can you find it?
45:04Is that it?
45:05Yeah.
45:07And then down at the bottom, yeah, that's like the vaginal opening.
45:12Yeah, that feels good.
45:15I feel more mature now.
45:23Good.
45:29Dave's been gone for an hour.
45:31Hi.
45:33Do you want to walk?
45:34I did.
45:35Was it good?
45:36It was quite good, actually.
45:37Everyone's curious about his session.
45:40Who?
45:41A cat.
45:42But a gentleman never tells.
45:44Okay, how'd that go?
45:45Just educational.
45:47What way?
45:49He doesn't want to say.
45:51I think it was good.
45:53We got through a lot.
45:54So I think this is the most progress I've made in the session.
45:57There was so much I didn't know.
45:58So I feel like I made a big step.
46:00Next time.
46:06Oh, yes.
46:07Lessons take to the bed.
46:09I like that.
46:10And one-on-ones.
46:11I'm going to look on your g-spot area.
46:14Hmm.
46:15Build up a head of steam.
46:17I don't know if you find that intimidating.
46:22But sex isn't always simple.
46:25People get dressed and that's enough for it to be.
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