Dapat bang walang pake ang ibang tao sa mga gagawin mo sa sarili mong katawan? Head-to-head na naman sina Nathalie Hart at Arron Villaflor sa debateng ito!
00:00In short, wala ka dapat pakialam sa sasabihin ng iba kahit ba if it's for the best of your interest.
00:09Best of your interest.
00:11So kami, team yes na yes tayo, Pars Aaron.
00:14Team yes na yes.
00:16Yes na yes.
00:17Hindi dapat pakialaman ng iba, yung katawan natin, ano man ang size natin, kung ano man ang ginagawa natin sa katawan natin.
00:26My body, my rules.
00:28So, Pars, gusto mo ba mauna?
00:30Naku, Mars?
00:32Okay.
00:32Okay, tinahabangan ko yung sagot ni Mars kasi may hugot siya dyan.
00:35Grafikah!
00:37Pars!
00:38Okay, sige game na. Abogado na tayo ulit.
00:42Hindi, totoo yun.
00:45Naniniwala ako doon na dapat hindi natin pakialaman yung kung anong gusto ng tao, kung saan siya masaya.
00:52Kung masaya siyang mataba siya, go.
00:54Kung masaya siya na maganda yung katawan niya, go.
00:56Kung masaya siyang marami siyang kinakain, sige lang.
01:01Kung masaya siyang natutulog lang, sige lang.
01:03That's their happiness.
01:04And they chose to be like that.
01:06Yan.
01:07Okay.
01:08Nice one, Pars.
01:09I agree.
01:11Tama ba yun?
01:12Oo naman, diba?
01:14Kasi kaya mga katawan yun, kaya nga ikaw yan.
01:17Kasi you're living in that.
01:18Yeah.
01:19At saka like, if I want to raise my hand, I'll do this.
01:22But if you want me to raise my hand, you won't have control over it, Mars.
01:26I still do.
01:27Which goes to show na ikaw lang din yung may kayang gawin or kung anuman yung gusto mo sa sarili mong katawan.
01:35But, doon naman sa part, syempre, ng health reasons, nasa sa tao na kasi yun.
01:40Diba?
01:41Parang somehow, andyan naman lahat ng information about a lot of things about our body.
01:46How we want to take care of them.
01:48How we can still, you know, be healthy.
01:51Kung gusto mong kumain ang tama or gusto mong i-enjoy ito.
01:54Lahat naman ng options na yan, nasa harap mo na eh.
01:56Ikaw na lang yung pipili kung ano yung gusto mong gawin para sa sarili mong katawan.
02:01But I really believe na dapat, dapat ikaw talaga ang may say don.
02:07If you wanna, if you wanna have a tattoo that's your form of self-expression, then yes Mars?
02:13Ba't ka na tatawa?
02:14Yes, mother?
02:15Oo, okay.
02:16Parang piling ko, it's your choice.
02:18Whatever you wanna do with yourself is your choice.
02:21Yeah.
02:24Yes na yes!
02:24You're right?
02:25Parang medyo na hinabot ako tito ha.
02:27No, no, no, no.
02:28Okay, hindi, hindi na hinabot ako natin.
02:30Okay, bakit nana no?
02:33Bakit hindi dapat nangyayalam ng katawan ng ibang Mars?
02:36I think importante talaga na pakinggan natin kung ano nga sasabihin ng mga ibang tao tungkol sa mga katawan natin.
02:43Because I feel that they're just looking out for us.
02:47And sometimes what they see is what we refuse to believe.
02:51Actually, that's true.
02:53That's very true, yeah.
02:54So if they can see na you're not looking healthy, then maybe you're not seeing that.
03:04Yeah.
03:04So maybe you should, you know, take a step back, look at what you're doing, is what you're doing right?
03:10Ah, okay, so baka nga, baka nga I should be, maybe I should make a few adjustments, maybe I should be making a few adjustments in how I eat, maybe I should be making a few adjustments in my workout.
03:21Yeah.
03:22So that's why I think it's important that we listen to what other people have to say.
03:25Because sometimes hindi naman natin nakikita yung pagkakamali natin.
03:29Or yung sarili mo.
03:30And it's easier for other people to just tell us what to do.
03:33Yeah, because they're the outside people looking in.
03:35Yeah, so basically, for example, let's say, there was a time that I was very anorexic at one time.
03:40And then they told me na parang, oh, why are you doing this to yourself?
03:44And I'm like, oh, because I think that it looks pretty and things like that.
03:47And happy ka naman nung time na yun, di ba?
03:48Nung time na yun, I was very happy.
03:50It was my choice.
03:52Pero sinabi nila sa akin na, you have to stop this.
03:55And then when I actually stopped it, I felt better na parang I was comfortable with my own skin, with my own body.
04:02So sa akin, importante na, may, hindi naman may makikialam, no?
04:07But they will comment.
04:08Someone has to say something, kung may nakikita na silang mali.
04:13Oo, oo, oo.
04:14And parang somehow napapahamak mo na yung sarili mo, pero hindi ka aware of that.
04:19Yeah.
04:19And especially if it's coming from people that love us.
04:22That's true.
04:23And who are really just looking out for us.
04:25That's why I think it's important.
04:26This is why we believe that.
04:29No.
04:30No.
04:30Kailangan, pakailaman pa rin ng tao, yun.
04:33That's yes.
04:34We should listen to what other people have to say, Mars.
04:37Okay, very good kayo, Jay.
04:38And fairness.
04:39Nice one, guys.
04:40It's a challenge, guys, huh?
04:42I love it.
04:43Nice one, guys.
04:44Guys, first time namin ginawa yung Deba Mars.
04:47And what I really loved about it is that we get to express our opinions on both sides.
04:52Yes.
04:53You may not agree with it, but you made a lot of sins.
04:55Yeah.
04:56And we're forced to look at it from a different perspective.
05:01Yes.
05:02Even if it's not our view, our personal view.
05:05At ang ending Mars, samang balanse pa rin.
05:07Zit na ka pa rin.
05:08Pwedeng a little bit of this and a little bit of that.