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Mama June_ From Not to Hot Season 7 Episode 3 - Family Crisis_ The D-Word - Part 2 #MamaJune #MamaJuneFromNottoHot
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00:00Grace, she's perfect.
00:03Look what we did.
00:05You did good, sugar.
00:07Oh, my boy.
00:10That is the best.
00:12I love you.
00:13I love you.
00:17Josh, how are you feeling right now?
00:26It's hard to say.
00:28Yeah.
00:30What's coming up for you?
00:39I don't have a time machine, so I can't go back, you know?
00:42But I wish I could.
00:44Yeah, I feel you.
00:45And do what?
00:49Change for the betterment of my marriage.
00:52Instead of being so angry.
00:54I hear you.
00:55You know, I do hate to see Josh cry, and I do hate that I've broken his heart and I've hurt him.
01:05But for so long, like, I've begged for communication.
01:09I've begged to go on dates and all the things that normal people do in a marriage that we haven't been doing for years.
01:16And now I'm at my wits end with it.
01:19Like, I'm tired of begging, I'm tired of asking.
01:21So for the first time in my life, I feel like I'm making myself happy, and I just hope that Josh understands that.
01:28What would you say you've learned, Hopkins?
01:31I would say that, like, I've learned that it's okay to put yourself first.
01:37I think that's my biggest thing.
01:39We've put everybody ahead of ourselves.
01:42Yeah.
01:42Every time.
01:44I guess it's another problem I need to fix.
01:48Alana's already pissed off at me because Jessica questioned her about the whole Colorado thing, which obviously is my fault.
01:54Then you turn around, and Jalen's just not doing s***.
01:58I'm so sick and tired of hearing about June this, June that, June s*** up here.
02:02It would not bother me one bit if I never ever seen June again.
02:06Well, I can't really do that.
02:08I commend you for being, you know, communicable right now.
02:14Like, you're amicable in this space.
02:17And so with that being the case, where do we go from here, right?
02:21Like, what are their next steps, or is there a next step for you now?
02:27I think probably, like, our next step is just, like, trying to figure out, like, come to an agreement.
02:31Like, the things that we do have, like, the kids, the, you know, the house.
02:38Like, we do have things together.
02:41But, like, I think we figure those things out.
02:44And then we, like, file.
02:47Mm-hmm.
02:48Okay.
02:49Where are you with that, Josh?
02:50How are you?
02:51I want to be on the same page.
02:53Okay.
02:54You know, me and Pumpkin said we would never do this to the kids.
02:56The whole broken home thing.
02:59And I think that's what really hits home.
03:03I went through a divorce as a child also.
03:06And watching the bickering and the arguing, it sucked.
03:10I mean, I don't want my kids to go through it.
03:13But at this particular point, we have no choice.
03:14So, what I can do is to be more cordial than my parents were at times.
03:22Make sure that everybody knows that I'm always here, no matter what.
03:26And just to be completely honest the whole time.
03:30At this point, my children's mental health means more to me than anything.
03:34Yeah, I commend you for that.
03:37So, how do you talk to your children?
03:40And is this what you're going to say?
03:43Like, are you going to let them know?
03:45I think we're probably just, like, the only one that I feel like I can really, like, comprehend right now.
03:50Is Ella.
03:50Is Ella.
03:51Okay.
03:52So, I do think, like, us sitting down and talking to her and just, like, letting her know, like, things are going to be different.
03:58But, like, the love that both of me and your daddy have, that isn't changing.
04:03Right.
04:03Right.
04:04Telling her, like, regardless, even though we're splitting up, it doesn't mean that I stop loving you any less.
04:09Or your daddy stops loving you any less.
04:11Like, we're still going to be there to take care of you.
04:13We're still going to be there to, you know, school events or sporting events or whatever the case may be.
04:19Like, none of that changes.
04:21Just the way that we live is going to change, you know.
04:26Children not only see what you do.
04:28Mm-hmm.
04:29They feel what you do.
04:30Right.
04:31And so, I think it will be very beneficial to the children how you show up.
04:37Right.
04:37Let me give you a few minutes to just chat a little bit.
04:40I mean, I do thank you for, like, actually, like, communicating with me and, like, like, wanting really to do what's best for the kids.
04:55You're welcome.
04:56You know, I do still love you, and I'll always love you.
05:00And I'll love you.
05:04And if you want to, you can go home with the kids, and then I'll just figure out somewhere to go, you know?
05:11I love you, Daddy.
05:36I'm going to make you a picture.
05:38Thank you, babe.
05:41I don't think painting is going to help your stress.
05:48Stress?
05:49Do I look stressed to you?
05:52What does stress look like?
05:55It's when your face crinkles up like that.
06:00Am I okay?
06:02Definitely not.
06:05I mean, I never thought that it would end this way.
06:08Like, I want the things to be different.
06:13We fought to work it out, but sometimes things don't work out.
06:20Dad!
06:21Go get her.
06:21Come upstairs.
06:23Come on, Nene.
06:24Come on.
06:25It's okay.
06:26See you think.
06:27Come on.
06:27Coming up on Mama June Family Crisis.
06:43What you going to do now?
06:44Probably why I'm going to stay here, you know, think it over.
06:46Well, see, look at you.
06:47Always come back home to Mama.
06:49Feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel.
06:51We could walk out of this courtroom today and never see Caitlyn again.
06:57Are you ready for this, Caitlyn?
06:59I've got out what I felt the court needed to hear.
07:02What happened?
07:03With this whole divorce thing, like, as much as I didn't really want to do it, I know that
07:20it had to be done, and I know that it hurts both of us in the long run, but I do care a
07:26lot about Josh, and I care about his mental state, and that's where Justin comes in.
07:29Who was knocking?
07:34I don't know.
07:37It's the police running.
07:39Bitch, why are you knocking?
07:41Because?
07:44What are you doing?
07:45Vibrating, working out.
07:46I'm just trying to figure out, like, how this is working out.
07:49Because when I started this five weeks ago, I weighed 255.
07:52This morning when I woke up, I weighed 232.
07:55So in five weeks, I have lost 23 pounds.
08:00I don't even go to the gym.
08:01This is my gym.
08:02I mean, you gotta wait a minute.
08:03I'll be done working out, and...
08:05I didn't come to talk to you.
08:05I come to talk to Justin.
08:07So what are you over here for?
08:08Well, Josh was going back to the house, because we, like, today went to the therapy shop.
08:14How'd that go?
08:15Today was really, like, us sitting down with a therapist and, like, me asking him for a divorce.
08:21What?
08:21You thought he got through with it?
08:23Yeah.
08:23How did he take it today?
08:26I mean, of course he's, like, sad and stuff.
08:28Like, I don't think that he's, like, shot.
08:30Like, I think he knew that was coming.
08:32Like, I think he knew that, like, we haven't been doing good.
08:34I'm not gonna wait around forever for us to be able to communicate with each other and put our kids through that.
08:39I'm not...
08:40Yeah, don't stay...
08:40I don't want to do that.
08:41Like, I told him at the end of the conversation today, he was like, I still want to be best friends with you.
08:45I still want to be cordial for the kids.
08:46I still want us to be able to do things with the kids together.
08:49Which is hard.
08:50Right.
08:50Because it is hard when people are together for a long period of time and then break up.
08:53Yeah.
08:54Sometimes you can be friends, sometimes you can't.
08:56Right.
08:57I mean, so, you know, I was kind of, like, thinking, you know, like, maybe you could, you know, like, talk to him.
09:04Like, man to man.
09:05I just know that, like, he does respect you a lot.
09:08Maybe he'll talk to you.
09:10Counselor Justin.
09:11I can go talk to him.
09:13Stop by and check on him, see what he's up to.
09:15I mean, this would be a good time for you to bond with your mama, though.
09:18You can get her on the squatter machine.
09:20So, yeah, look, you go in there, sit on the squatter, and she can be on the plate, and y'all can work out together.
09:25Y'all do that?
09:26No.
09:26All right, well, I'm going to go check on Joshie's boot.
09:29I'll let you know how it goes.
09:33What you doing?
09:34I'm not going to have a conversation with you to get off that ridiculous-ass thing.
09:40Well, I mean, you need to go work on that thing.
09:41You know, you're at 206, that squatter machine will take your name.
09:47So what you going to do now?
09:49What do you mean, what am I going to do?
09:51I mean, you're getting a divorce.
09:52Like, what are you going to do?
09:53Like, I don't know.
09:56There's a lot of things that I have to figure out.
09:58I mean, that's probably why I'm going to stay here, you know, think it over.
10:00You stay here.
10:02Well, see, look at you.
10:03Always come back home to mama.
10:05I just want to really try to figure my stuff out.
10:08Like, you just need to work on yourself and do pumpkin.
10:11Like, this bitch.
10:23Knock, knock.
10:34Come on in.
10:36Yeah.
10:36What are you doing?
10:38Put it on the paper.
10:39Sister, girl, you painting over there?
10:42Where's everybody at?
10:43They follow the love upstairs.
10:45You know, pumpkin stopped by the house, so I wanted to come by and check on you.
10:49She said y'all went to therapy.
10:51See how he was holding up?
10:53Something I didn't want to go through in life at all.
10:56And, you know, divorce is hard.
10:58You know, I've been through it.
11:00It sucks, bro.
11:02You know, there's some kind of love there.
11:04Like, you know, that was one of the things she stopped by for,
11:07because she said she was worried about you, wanted somebody to come check on you.
11:10So, I know it's rough, too.
11:15I know it feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel.
11:19That's probably the hardest part.
11:21You just feel stuck.
11:23Stuck.
11:23You know, it really sucks seeing Josh this tore up.
11:27I mean, I understand what he's going through.
11:29You know, I've been through divorce, and there's no easy way to say it or to sugarcoat it.
11:34It's rough, and it's going to be hard for a while.
11:36You know, he's going to have moments where he feels down and out,
11:40and the best thing I can do for him is just be there and support him.
11:44Bye-bye.
11:46She's such a daddy's girl.
11:47I thank God for the kids, because there's the only thing keeping me wholesome.
11:54Yeah, how could they not?
11:57Kids is what hurt the most, just because they don't deserve this.
12:00But as long as y'all put the kids first, you know,
12:03and understand that that's what's important.
12:06That's what's most important to me at this moment.
12:10I love being around them.
12:11Anytime you need a babysitter, just call.
12:13I appreciate it.
12:14I mean, within a divorce, you kind of divorce the family.
12:21I'm super glad Justin gives enough to come and check on me.
12:29Divorce in June won't be so bad.
12:32Could care less, but Justin, on the other hand, has been a decent dude to me,
12:38so at least I've got him on my side in some of this.
12:42I mean, there's always been bumps along the way.
12:47Figure those out.
12:51I guess just this time, couldn't figure this bump out.
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