Married at First Sight Australia season 12 episode 11 #MAFSAU

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00:00:01Impacted.

00:00:02I'm gone.

00:00:03Previously...

00:00:04I don't know where we're going today.

00:00:05Jake broke the rules of the experiment...

00:00:08It's really good then.

00:00:09...when he made a sudden and dramatic exit.

00:00:12I tried so bloody hard to make it work with him.

00:00:14Ashley and Jake's marriage was officially over.

00:00:18And...

00:00:19Welcome!

00:00:20Hi!

00:00:21Intimacy Week began with a bang.

00:00:24Back it up, boys!

00:00:26Alessandra empowered the women to create their ultimate fantasy night.

00:00:31This is your chance to take control.

00:00:33Tonight is all about showing my dominance.

00:00:36Hello.

00:00:38It was an incredible breakthrough for Morena and Tony.

00:00:42There's other sides to romance.

00:00:44I was happy, I was happy, laughing.

00:00:46That's what it's about.

00:00:47Eyes are sad eyes because I let you down.

00:00:49And the smile is where you're coming back.

00:00:52That's actually really lovely.

00:00:54And Rhi's ultimate fantasy night...

00:00:56Oh!

00:00:57They're good.

00:00:58...further deepened her bond with Jeff.

00:01:01What I'm feeling now...

00:01:02I could probably see myself falling for Jeff.

00:01:05Yummy.

00:01:07Jackie asked Ryan for words of affirmation.

00:01:10Mm-mm.

00:01:11I think Ryan struggles with words on how to compliment a woman.

00:01:16Tonight...

00:01:17Welcome!

00:01:19It's the husband's turn to open up to Alessandra.

00:01:22Do you feel it brought you guys together?

00:01:24The painting.

00:01:25That really felt nice to just have that connection with her there.

00:01:29It was one of the best things I've ever done.

00:01:31Hmm.

00:01:32And then...

00:01:33I was gonna say, like, that's...

00:01:35What?

00:01:36Ryan's...

00:01:37Absolutely, like...

00:01:40...unfiltered...

00:01:43...comments.

00:01:44And you know what? It was like...

00:01:45...sending shockwaves through the experiment.

00:01:49Stop!

00:01:50What is wrong with some people?

00:01:51I'm just gobsmacked hearing that type of comment.

00:02:04Intimacy Week is well underway.

00:02:07And already paying dividends after Alessandra challenged the brides to create their ultimate fantasy night.

00:02:13As part of Intimacy Week, I've set a brand new task.

00:02:18The ultimate fantasy night.

00:02:21Helping the brides of the experiment feel empowered and show their partner what it is they desire in a relationship.

00:02:28In order to form a stronger connection.

00:02:32Today, I'm holding a men's workshop so I can hear if the husbands rose to the occasion.

00:02:37This morning, the couples are enjoying the fruits of their fantasy nights.

00:02:45Before the grooms depart for their turn at Alessandra's workshop.

00:02:52Did you enjoy your night last night?

00:02:55Mm-hmm.

00:02:56Oh, yeah.

00:02:57Oh, yeah, I did.

00:02:58What happened after we left?

00:03:00Oh, okay.

00:03:01Well, I was definitely rushing everyone out.

00:03:06I was like, you guys got to go.

00:03:07Hurry up.

00:03:10The last thing I expected today was me to lie down here with some Nutella on my nipples.

00:03:17I can't believe you poured some wine on my chest.

00:03:19I know.

00:03:21It's all over the bed.

00:03:23Oh, I have to do the washing now.

00:03:25Mm-hmm.

00:03:27Alessandra set us the task and I'm doing things that I wouldn't normally do.

00:03:32Honestly, like, I feel so great about it.

00:03:36I was definitely a little timid, like, a little shy.

00:03:39I can see it.

00:03:40And I was like, oh.

00:03:42Bless you.

00:03:44I could see it last night that, yeah, that you were a little, you were being a little bit shy about it.

00:03:49A little bit of exotic Karina came out to play, but also the romance was definitely still there.

00:03:54And I kept him on his toes and he loved it.

00:03:58So, actually, to see you the winner, that was actually a big turn on, eh?

00:04:01Yeah, that was it.

00:04:06I woke up this morning feeling different, but in a good way.

00:04:12I feel like Karina's and I relationship has gone another level again after last night.

00:04:17I swear I did not expect that from Karina.

00:04:21And she was able to really step out of her comfort zone.

00:04:23That's all I was asking for, so, yeah, it's great.

00:04:28Over at Ree and Geoff's apartment, the couple are finding their rhythm after the revival of their wedding dance.

00:04:35How did you sleep?

00:04:36I got such a good night last night.

00:04:38Yeah, it was really fun.

00:04:39It did awesome.

00:04:41Thanks.

00:04:42I know it was your fantasy night, but I'm pretty happy because that's what, like, I would have chosen the same thing.

00:04:47Yeah.

00:04:48We'll go that way.

00:04:49All right, ready?

00:04:50Ready, set, go.

00:04:56I don't even know what I'm doing.

00:05:01It was a cute little touch, the wedding dance redo.

00:05:04Yeah, thank you.

00:05:06A little bit fun.

00:05:07A little bit corny.

00:05:08A little bit corny, but...

00:05:09We like a bit of corn.

00:05:10Yeah.

00:05:11Yeah, I'm feeling really good.

00:05:12I'm feeling really confident in our relationship.

00:05:14And I'm really excited for progression with the intimacy.

00:05:17I think Geoff also wants that too.

00:05:19That's the vibe I'm getting from him.

00:05:21I actually can't wait to hear about what the other, um, couples did now.

00:05:24Would have been some crazy, uh, crazy things happened up here.

00:05:27I think there would definitely be some crazy stuff.

00:05:32Am I walking funny?

00:05:34We were set the task by Alessandra to create the ultimate fantasy night.

00:05:39I feel like I got exactly that indeed.

00:05:43I didn't realise that the bed's split in two.

00:05:46Until us.

00:05:48They separate.

00:05:49There's two.

00:05:50I forgot about that.

00:05:51Dave and I had a lot of fun.

00:05:53A lot of fun.

00:05:55I'm already feeling, like, a lot more connected.

00:05:58And I think it'll be good for him to hear from Alessandra at the workshop.

00:06:04Oh boy.

00:06:05Are you getting nervous or something?

00:06:06Yeah.

00:06:07Maybe just a little bit.

00:06:08Because you can't even focus.

00:06:09Obviously she's, like, the pro in this area.

00:06:11I think it'll be really informative for everyone.

00:06:13But also, he should leave feeling pretty good about himself and where we're at.

00:06:17Because intimacy week has literally started off with a bang, hasn't it?

00:06:24Don't get, like, don't get too nervous.

00:06:26It's like a fun day.

00:06:28Plus, you'll be sitting in a really nice seat when you hear no one else is really having sex.

00:06:33We don't know what happened yesterday.

00:06:34I'm hoping some people got laid.

00:06:37While Jamie and Dave left little to the imagination,

00:06:41one bride's ultimate fantasy night left a lot to be desired.

00:06:46Morning, darling.

00:06:48Morning.

00:06:50My ultimate fantasy night was, um, slightly sexy.

00:06:54Not sexy enough.

00:06:58Can you do it nicely?

00:06:59I am, I am.

00:07:01This is supposed to be sensual.

00:07:03Yes, last night.

00:07:06Didn't expect anything like that, that's for sure.

00:07:09I think both Billy and I are a little bit awkward when it comes to talking about intimacy.

00:07:13I think we kind of resort to humour most of the time.

00:07:19So, it was kind of hard to take it seriously, I think.

00:07:23Do you like giving it to me?

00:07:26Like, the massage.

00:07:28Get your mind out the gutter.

00:07:30Yeah, nah, it was, um, it was nice.

00:07:33It didn't lead to any intimacy last night, unfortunately.

00:07:37I don't have to ask for you to do that.

00:07:40Just letting you know you can just do it whenever you want.

00:07:41We didn't knock boots, but hopefully tonight after Billy gets some advice from Alessandra at the sex workshop today.

00:07:50As in, hopefully we can have sex.

00:07:52Because I'm human, with human needs, and he's hot, and I would like to have him on top of me.

00:07:58Sometimes less is more.

00:08:02Going into an intimacy week, I just feel like we don't need to be having sex on the first night.

00:08:08People take intimacy week as in, you have to have sex.

00:08:11Yeah.

00:08:12Like, they don't actually know what the whole intimacy part is about.

00:08:16Of course I'm attracted to Ciara, but I want an emotional connection.

00:08:20You know, it would be nice to just let that build and just get closer naturally through the activities or whatever workshops that Alessandra's kind of giving out.

00:08:30And, you know, we just let that flow, and then when it happens, it happens.

00:08:41Across the hall, Tony's masterpiece has led to a breakthrough.

00:08:45You sleep well?

00:08:47I slept like a baby.

00:08:49Well, he did drink a bottle of wine.

00:08:51With your help.

00:08:54You know, yesterday, I don't know, showed me the fun side of her.

00:08:58This is my little fantasy.

00:09:05All I want you to do is paint me like you see me.

00:09:11Are you ready?

00:09:13How's that?

00:09:20You know, we laughed and joked.

00:09:23She drank the bottle of wine.

00:09:24I had a little bit.

00:09:25Mm-hmm.

00:09:27We're, yeah, we're actually enjoying our time together.

00:09:31I mean, this experiment's not easy.

00:09:34How do you get through it?

00:09:35Have fun at it.

00:09:38You know, there's something that stood out to me in that painting.

00:09:41What do you think that was?

00:09:43What I said to you had sad eyes because it was because of me.

00:09:47That was my way of saying, you know, everything will be all right.

00:09:53Was the painting an apology?

00:09:56I kind of...

00:09:58I explained it through that painting.

00:10:01Sometimes, you know, my words don't come out right, but, you know,

00:10:04in the moment of time, you know, the eyes.

00:10:06I mean, that's a big step for me.

00:10:11I love it.

00:10:13And you gave it a 10 out of 10.

00:10:15Like the night.

00:10:17That's good.

00:10:19We had a really nice night last night.

00:10:21But I need more.

00:10:23I need that connection.

00:10:26So, I'm excited for Tony entering the workshop with Alessandra.

00:10:32So, yeah, so today's your turn, mister.

00:10:35Get what you can out of it.

00:10:38Ask her questions.

00:10:39Ask away.

00:10:41Ask whatever.

00:10:43Don't hold back.

00:10:44You're going to walk away and go, I should've, I should've, I should've.

00:10:46It's too late then.

00:10:49You won't get this day back.

00:10:51Ever.

00:10:52That's what you've got to remember.

00:10:53Today, well, every day, right?

00:10:54I say this every day.

00:10:55I'm not getting today back.

00:10:57I know.

00:10:58So, however I take it, however I behave,

00:11:01whatever my attitude is, my reaction, I'm not getting it back.

00:11:06So, just go for it.

00:11:09Don't, don't be afraid.

00:11:11Anyway, it's time for me to head out and hit the workshop.

00:11:15Okay. Have you finished your coffee?

00:11:16No.

00:11:17I have another sip.

00:11:18That's all right. I don't want to drink too much.

00:11:21While most brides had a night to remember.

00:11:24It seems Jackie had a night she'd rather forget.

00:11:30Last night, I gave Ryan my ultimate fantasy challenge.

00:11:35And he started an argument about it and just wouldn't do what I needed,

00:11:41which was to make me feel like the most beautiful girl.

00:11:44Um, and so we ended up getting in a fight about it.

00:11:47How hard is it to just be like,

00:11:49Hey, I made a mistake. You're f***ing gorgeous.

00:11:52Like...

00:11:53Because that would be a lie.

00:11:54Yeah, it was just an unproductive fight.

00:12:00I don't even know why Ryan fights about it or what the problem is.

00:12:04I think he's missing the point. Like, I'm here trying to help him.

00:12:06I think he's just failing to be grateful, um, for the fact that I'm actually spending the time trying to train him.

00:12:13Like, he's going to be a better man if he realises that, like, this is what I want.

00:12:18This is what a lot of women would want.

00:12:20They want respect. They want to be treated well.

00:12:23Um, so I just, I don't know why he's so upset, really.

00:12:26Do you remember what the challenge for you last night was?

00:12:30I don't know, like, I consider it was more like, you know, fun and then, um, fulfilling, fulfilling a fantasy type thing.

00:12:40Yeah. Fulfilling my fantasy.

00:12:43I just needed you to swallow your pride, swallow your ego.

00:12:47So I gave you a lot of compliments, not only about your appearance, about your intellect, your skills, your past, all that kind of stuff.

00:12:52And how did I feel at the end of the night and why?

00:12:53And then we got to the point where I came back to the photo challenge again.

00:12:59All right, last one.

00:13:04Okay, I'll put you third.

00:13:09You were like, okay, so do you want to go back and change your reply?

00:13:12Do you want to go back and own up to your mistake? Do you want to da-da-da?

00:13:15No. No, all right? That was not part of the task.

00:13:18When she was sort of bringing it back to what I can't change, which is the line-up challenge again, and like, honestly, I'm sick of talking about that thing.

00:13:28I'm so sick of it. I'm not changing my answer. It wasn't a mistake.

00:13:31I believe she made a mistake by putting me first because consistently she's shown that I'm not the most attractive.

00:13:38I gave you a task last night and you didn't show up for me.

00:13:42No, I showed up for you.

00:13:43No, you didn't.

00:13:44I showed up for you.

00:13:45You didn't.

00:13:46Okay, how do you think I felt at the end of that task?

00:13:48See, Jackie, if you don't get 100% your way all the time, you are unhappy, right?

00:13:56That was the challenge, that was the task.

00:13:57You don't compromise.

00:13:58Stop changing the topic.

00:13:59Because the task itself...

00:14:00How do you think I felt at the end of that task?

00:14:02Neither of us felt fantastic, all right?

00:14:04And whose task was it?

00:14:07Yeah, the crux is that Ryan doesn't listen and doesn't understand.

00:14:11Ryan is almost a waste of breath and I can't say much to change his mind.

00:14:16What do they say? A man convinced against as well is of the same opinion still.

00:14:20It's Ryan.

00:14:21Bring it on.

00:14:22This conversation is done, all right?

00:14:24And I'm looking forward to getting to this workshop to just get away from your energy for a moment, all right?

00:14:28Seriously.

00:14:29Like, you are so impossible.

00:14:32What you wanted yesterday was constant validation every day.

00:14:35What is wrong with that, Ryan?

00:14:36What is wrong with a woman wanting constant validation?

00:14:39Because...

00:14:42I'm not here to fix you.

00:14:43I'm not needing you to fix me.

00:14:45I'm needing compliments.

00:14:46Well, why would you need me to say that constantly, right?

00:14:48I'm going to give you compliments if I feel they're going to be productive.

00:14:53So your job as a partner is to make your other partner feel good about themselves.

00:14:58And you've made me feel terrible almost since we got into this apartment.

00:15:01It's not about you. It's about me.

00:15:02You just had to do the task.

00:15:04What you told me to do, that was exactly what I was doing in that moment.

00:15:07Okay?

00:15:08At the same time...

00:15:09You're all talk, no walk.

00:15:13Cut me off twice. This is over.

00:15:14All right? I'm going to go see what this shirt looks like.

00:15:16Intimacy Week is designed to bring couples closer.

00:15:33But for one couple, a crisis is unravelling in their apartment.

00:15:39A crisis that threatens to tear their marriage apart.

00:15:45There was like three dishes in the sink when I left.

00:15:47Those exact three dishes were still there.

00:15:49No, they weren't. Absolutely not.

00:15:50I made lunch.

00:15:51Yeah, I literally did them when I walked in.

00:15:53I made lunch and I did it.

00:15:54You cleaned your dishes with lunch.

00:15:56Anyways, that's irrelevant.

00:15:57But you left my three.

00:15:58I'm not getting falling down to your level right now.

00:16:01I'm just going to put in as much effort as you put in from now on.

00:16:04Okay, cool.

00:16:05Cool.

00:16:06Effort.

00:16:07You should feel in the type of way so you're just trying to project it on me.

00:16:09No, I'm not.

00:16:10I just don't feel like I'm getting much from you at this point.

00:16:13Would you want me to do backflips off the balcony for you?

00:16:15Make you feel better?

00:16:16I don't know.

00:16:17What do you want me to do?

00:16:18What more could I have done for you?

00:16:20What did you do for me?

00:16:22I asked, did you need anything?

00:16:24I asked, did you want a coffee this morning?

00:16:25Have I emptied the bin?

00:16:27This is so dumb we've been having this conversation.

00:16:29And I've literally done everything I could.

00:16:31It's not dumb when I'm not feeling good.

00:16:33I'm going to end the conversation.

00:16:34I'm not even going into this.

00:16:35Okay.

00:16:36That's Adrian's only job in this place is to empty the bin.

00:16:38And I think I've emptied it more than he has.

00:16:41So, I really don't feel like I ask for a lot from a partner.

00:16:45I don't care if you think it's dumb.

00:16:47It is stupid.

00:16:48It ends up for you to sort it out.

00:16:49Obviously, she's in a bit of a mood.

00:16:51I don't know exactly why.

00:16:53It was such a big deal.

00:16:54She keeps talking about taking out the bins, blah, blah, blah.

00:16:57She must be feeling top away.

00:16:58I don't know.

00:16:59It's nothing to do with me.

00:17:01She's having a moment.

00:17:03And I'm giving her that moment.

00:17:05I don't feel like you do anything.

00:17:06I don't feel like you do anything.

00:17:08I made you.

00:17:09I don't feel like you do anything.

00:17:10Of course you say that, because you're in a bad mood.

00:17:11But it's true.

00:17:12I don't feel like you do.

00:17:13I hope you have a minute to reflect on it.

00:17:15I don't need a minute to reflect on it.

00:17:16for us to work at any time that i make things of course you need to be 100 for you asked to work

00:17:19i need to be 100 for us to work our relationship i don't feel like i get 100 from you adrian

00:17:29you're just wishing you were getting a bit more from adrian yeah i wish i just got a little bit

00:17:32more for us to work like for us to truly work i have to keep giving so much adrian do you think

00:17:40you actually do more than me around here that's not a competition it does more i do what i can

00:17:44and you do what you can but adrian's very selfish in a relationship if i'm not getting anything

00:17:50return i am worried because like i do have very real concerns about whether or not we're compatible

00:17:58outside of this experiment i'm a mum and i have a son to think about and i came in here for a

00:18:03partnership i'm not i didn't come here to be adrian's mom this is the dumbest conversation i've

00:18:08ever had talking about dishes don't laugh at me yeah i'm going to get caught up in that stupid

00:18:15conversation get me out of you adrian i'm you're not hearing i'm in a bad mood and you can't handle

00:18:21it and you can be in a bad mood and i said you're not to be in a bad mood just don't project it on

00:18:24other people bring me out of it instead you're encouraging that bad mood because you're just

00:18:28and once again he leaves and the bin needs emptying i want a new husband

00:18:43i'm out off to the workshop for me have fun ciao the grooms are off to alessandra's intimacy workshop

00:18:50i'm gonna go grab billy's hand and hopefully you can comfort me don't get too excited because billy's

00:18:56there where they will have the chance to open up about their relationships don't cuddle dave too

00:19:00much i will i mean i won't hi welcome alessandra welcome grab a seat after my intimacy workshop with

00:19:20the ladies i asked them to create their ultimate fantasy night and share that with their husbands

00:19:27how are you today i'm well how are you

00:19:32i'm good grab a chair i designed this exercise to help empower the women of this experiment

00:19:39and it was my hope that their husbands would be enthusiastic about fulfilling their partner's desires

00:19:43how are you guys doing today nervous as you very well know intimacy week is well underway your wives

00:19:56were all here yesterday right did you reap the benefits of that yep

00:20:03tough work for intimacy week really the most important part of it is not sexuality

00:20:08it's all about generating a safe space and comfort and real trust so throughout the week you're

00:20:17going to be exposed to a variety of tasks one of them was yesterday directed to your wives and that

00:20:25is i guess all the smiles on them seeing giving back at me today i want to hear all about it so who

00:20:33are we going to start with

00:20:39paul

00:20:42here we go mr frenchman lover boy

00:20:46how was it now when it comes to sex like i'm i'm very dominant now the thing is last night the roles

00:20:54were reversed yes so she took full charge and i was there it was electric in there electric

00:21:01oh greased lightning that's a beautiful hot and heavy description of the bonfire that seems to have

00:21:11ensued honestly it was great and the thing is because i know this is something that she's not used to

00:21:16and i could see she was being a little bit shy and then you know a little bit hesitant but i could see

00:21:21she was you know she did her best and she and she went all in and that was really yeah that was awesome

00:21:26so was this your absolute favorite task you had to do since you began the experiment the ultimate

00:21:32fantasy of kareena it was paul's ultimate fantasy yeah kareena rapport you might as well cupid stick

00:21:39an arrow through them they're just well you don't need to say anything on them they're just like in

00:21:44love aren't they really and i can see it so fair play to them really happy for them

00:21:50donnie yeah hello hello let me tell you what happened to me what did morena come up with for

00:22:01you guys she had something something set up and i walk into the room you know when artists paint

00:22:07she had that set up of a canvas there she was sitting there wearing lingerie

00:22:13and she told me to paint her tell you what guys it was one of the most beautiful things i've ever done in

00:22:19my life man so there i was painting i love that titanic vibes titanic vibes hate me like one of your

00:22:27french girls why was it good for you what was it about the experience because i was comfortable doing

00:22:33that you are comfortable i'm not the most romantic guy in the world you can be really felt nice to just

00:22:40have that connection with her there and i like to laugh and joke as you all know and but it was uh really

00:22:48cool man for her showing that vulnerability too like coming out in lingerie like that takes huge

00:22:53courage for her to do that like was that the first time you like saw her like that well pretty much

00:22:58yeah and it's something brings out something different of you when you're actually looking

00:23:01at someone you think so she's actually looks beautiful there man and she really put her effort

00:23:05and time into it and i'm thinking so tanya you're a guy man just you know paint it man it's quite the

00:23:12intimate experience because you really have to look at her you know and i and i drew something on that

00:23:17picture when i kind of said to her these eyes are sorry like sad eyes and she goes what do you mean

00:23:22by that i said because of me that's why you're sad and i said and that was my way of apologizing to her

00:23:27and saying you know this is oh i'm sure that meant a lot to her to hear that that's really sweet oh the

00:23:33painting i know that was my way of saying sorry i let her down at the beginning she wanted to find

00:23:40romance and i didn't give her that being in here you know you're doing a lot of different things out of

00:23:45your comfort zone you know you're telling me vulnerable and this and that and it's hard it's

00:23:51hard so it's you know it's my fault not hers but you know she's a good lady mate she's you know she's

00:23:59i don't want to let her down because i do care about her man

00:24:02you know it was a beautiful night and we enjoyed it she drank all the wine i had one glass and

00:24:11ehm do you feel it brought you guys together well i said you want to say things i get it now

00:24:17i tell you what man it was good it was fun it was one of the best things i've ever done

00:24:22i've learned intimacy can come in different ways and yeah you know there's a that's what i know i like

00:24:27the one that's laughing with me and joking with me and having a good time with me and it was let's

00:24:32see it was really really nice excellent i'm really happy i think it's a that was a great task for you

00:24:37guys and i'm really glad that more than i thought of it i called the picture but i know this so you

00:24:41are a romantic that's pretty romantic but in my special way you know what i mean like tony i'm happy

00:24:47we're all happy so i'm really glad that tony's taking this big step um you can see it in his eyes and the

00:24:53way you know spoke about it he was pretty bashful and i think he was a bit excited so it was cool to

00:24:58see really really happy look at his face though he's smiling excellent i'm really happy

00:25:07coming up ryan's jaw-dropping comments at the workshop

00:25:14some things i just wouldn't say send shock waves through the experiment

00:25:19oh my goodness i know i'm just gobsmacked by hearing that type of comment

00:25:34jeff tell me how you went last night

00:25:39yeah last night was great um reorganized a nice intimate dinner for us and

00:25:43it uh it worked out pretty well i know it was her fantasy night but um it was basically my fantasy

00:25:49night so i couldn't have been happier obviously our situation is so different because we've like

00:25:55basically done everything you could do everything no no no let's go yeah oh please do tell

00:26:05as you guys know we obviously dated and we've been there and done all that stuff so it's it's a

00:26:10friendship now and then we're trying to turn it back into a romantic relationship and i i think

00:26:15we're moving in the right direction yeah like it's like at the start on our wedding day i was in my

00:26:20head thinking i don't know if this is ever going to happen because it was your friends because we're

00:26:26dead set friends yeah yeah it is a hard situation for jeff i think it's if not harder than what we have

00:26:32yeah it's a situation we were not expecting because we had no idea that they had ever met before

00:26:38we matched them on compatibility which by the way the level of compatibility that you guys have

00:26:43is really off the charts yeah i've got everything i wanted that's just we dated before yes i've

00:26:49seen it happen in the experiment and in life a variety of times in my life where you know things

00:26:54that you think are not gonna turn up the heat the heat suddenly appears there's a little spark and

00:27:00it can grow i'm willing to do the work she's willing to do the work and that's all i can ask for

00:27:06that sounds really really good jeff billy

00:27:13that's a long kind of where do i start where do you start i think i feel like this was a snippet

00:27:22of sierra's fantasy oh yeah as in there's a lot more to come sierra was facing out on the balcony

00:27:29with her legs spread on a chair um she dropped the gown and let's just say there wasn't too much on

00:27:39every part of her body was touched i'm really glad that she had the courage to do that yeah it was really

00:27:46really nice it was um um but we didn't like have sex or anything last night

00:27:58my sense the other night is that maybe you're in different levels of being ready for that intimacy

00:28:03so i i'm wondering how you gauge it or how you view it i know that we we can have sex now like we've

00:28:09done it and i know that can then happen but for me this is where i've gone wrong in the past before

00:28:14where it's just been all about that and well look where i am now i do want to have sex with sierra i

00:28:20just want to want to know that the emotions are coming with it still it's about building our connection

00:28:26and we are i don't just want us to be all over each other and be about sex yes you don't want to be

00:28:31you don't want to be good friends either because you can absolutely maintain physical contact while

00:28:38also getting deep you just have to not stop having the chats yeah if you're having the chats if you're

00:28:43being curious if you're spending time if you're laughing with each other opening up those are all

00:28:47things that are going to help you be connected yeah but you can also have a little yeah yeah of course

00:28:55so it's about now finding that balance that balance oh look i i think it will happen in the

00:29:01very near future i really do we're taking each challenge as it comes each task as it comes

00:29:08and it is helping us build closer together so look i won't be surprised within a few days if i do say

00:29:13that we have good yeah i didn't know but it was it was a nice night and sierra looked great yay sierra

00:29:18sexy sierra thank you and ryan hi hi jackie jackie wants to feel adored tell me about that

00:29:28okay well her task for me was i want you to make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world

00:29:34okay yes yeah like she wanted to get uh like a lot of compliments a lot of reassurance so i'm like yeah

00:29:41sure like complimented on her um appearance she looks amazing you're career driven you're intelligent i find

00:29:47intelligence very sexy so i was like lavishing all this praise and compliments on her and i could

00:29:52see it was making a difference towards the end though she said one line which like made me sort of

00:29:58pull back a little bit she said i want to give you a chance to atone for your mistake

00:30:03was she referring to something in particular i came back at the photo challenge again

00:30:11okay i'll put you third

00:30:12but i was just telling her look i'm not going to take the answer back all right

00:30:19and then suddenly like the crazy eyes came

00:30:23what

00:30:27try living with it

00:30:32saying crazy eyes like that like that's a comment that jake made to make it look bad

00:30:37sheesh i don't know i'm not vibing jackie maybe the the crazy eyes i don't know to bring that up

00:30:47in a group setting when we're in intimacy week like it's not great you don't say these things to

00:30:53put women down i'm sorry what do you mean crazy eyes well like when she when she wants to discuss

00:31:00something that she's kind of not happy with then like it gets quite intense and i was like it's kind

00:31:08of disrupting the whole fun mood of it

00:31:13it didn't end on an ideal note but i didn't know what else i could have done like i was telling her

00:31:18so many different beautiful things about her so genuine and whatnot and then she like brought up the

00:31:23past again i do kind of think i get it though because she was very emotional on the couch about

00:31:28you're not finding her attractive that that's her whole thing it was so clear she wants to feel

00:31:34adored by her partner she wants to feel beautiful she wants to feel like they're really into her

00:31:40well to be honest i was actually a little bit disappointed that it was purely based on beauty

00:31:45like why couldn't we play a fun game why couldn't we do something that connects on a different level

00:31:50i think i've made it pretty clear that the task is not about any of you it was simply about her

00:31:56so your opinion on whether that was the best task or you could have done something different again

00:32:01it's something that you can bring up at a different moment to let her know what is important to you

00:32:08obviously the task yesterday was for the partners to go away and it was their ultimate fantasy night

00:32:13and i think everyone understood that it was their fantasy not our fantasy

00:32:16um i don't think ryan picked up that it was jackie's fantasy not his

00:32:19it didn't go the way either of us wanted but uh we um

00:32:27okay i've got to say like she gives she gives awesome i'm just gonna say like that

00:32:35hell oh man like it was just a throwaway comment it was disrespectful and all of us guys were just a

00:32:44a bit like mate like you can't be saying that and you know what it was like it kept getting better

00:32:49every round you just want to go shake him up ryan just stop just stop like absolutely like hot you

00:32:59know like all right some things i just wouldn't say out loud so i think he's dug himself another hole and

00:33:07no doubt it's going to get back to it after finishing up at the men's workshop the grooms are

00:33:27returning to the apartments you're right darling good afternoon

00:33:37how did you go surprise do you you have to wear this i'm just going to keep this up

00:33:44why do you look are you okay i'm disheveled

00:33:49oh no how you came from seeing alessandra what a day oh the brides are eager to hear what they

00:33:59took away from alessandra's workshop how was it well um it was eventful however the grooms have been

00:34:06left reeling after an unexpected revelation ryan's conversation that what he did was um jackie

00:34:18and ryan so jackie wants to feel like she's the only one in the world long story short there was

00:34:26going all right but then this was like a pretty shocking moment um oh god it was so hard to listen

00:34:36to so he's talking about jackie and stuff and then he he was explaining um how angry she got last night

00:34:43and he sort of joked about saying yeah then the real crazy eyes came out

00:34:50so that's you know it's stop he's taken jakey boy's line yeah yeah you can't go calling you can't be

00:34:58saying your wife's got crazy eyes in front of a group of men especially when that was the comment

00:35:03old jakey boy used to you know slag her off behind the back he said the same comment that jake said oh my

00:35:10goodness i know that was a comment that hurt his wife's feelings like that really hurt her yeah

00:35:15and then he goes and repeats it especially when jackie even said on the day she's like i don't

00:35:20want to hear about it like i don't want to hear 100 i'm pretty surprised that ryan has repeated

00:35:26that again considering it upset his partner in the first place and it would upset me too it was like

00:35:32he just said it like a throwaway line and we're all just all those guys are just like mate what are

00:35:36you doing you know sort of wish i pulled him up on the spot to say it in a setting when she's not there

00:35:42just to the boys to joke about her is you know pretty pretty so knowing that's their sore spot

00:35:49knowing her whole aim of the task was to feel good about herself and get fed compliments to go to the

00:35:56workshop to then talk poorly about your wife's appearance it's just like wild to me like it's

00:36:04wild did you not get the point of the task but that's not the worst part which is still a head

00:36:12scratch for me he just goes

00:36:14yeah but she gives though stop i mean it was a lot it was it was hard to listen to he just kept

00:36:25going and like we're all just like mate like you can't do that what is wrong with some people

00:36:30how does that i have to know how he thinks that's okay these boys have got goals they wouldn't last

00:36:35a minute with me because i'd annihilate them absolutely no way yeah ryan's comments he made about

00:36:42jackie for him to say that while them two are obviously in a tough spot it sounded like ryan

00:36:49just kind of made this comment at the end like oh well at least she's you know she pleasures me at

00:36:53night kind of thing like that's not appropriate the more he talks the more he just digs

00:37:01it's a it's like well no shit he's just he just dug himself like five foot deeper tonight like

00:37:07i have no doubt that has to be brought up and i'm just sort of yeah pretty annoyed at myself

00:37:12i didn't pull him up in the spot then with everyone present and then we're going to say

00:37:16something at the dinner party yeah i think jackie should absolutely know that ryan's making comments

00:37:22about her behind her back i don't think that's acceptable and my husband ain't happy so for that

00:37:29next dinner party's gonna be interesting coming up oh this is it this is the task intimacy week

00:37:38continues surprise task bringing the couples closer before one couple takes their relationship to the

00:37:47next level we're like children we've kissed before oh no it's okay but first you told me stop talking

00:37:56so i'm not going to talk disaster strikes morena and tony sometimes just let me tell you how i feel

00:38:02you told me to stop talking you don't get to do that to a person i don't think so

00:38:09you could

00:38:24as intimacy week unfolds morena and tony find themselves closer than ever

00:38:31and after a positive session with alessandra tony is brimming with excitement

00:38:36to return and tell morena all about it marina and i are in a good place at the moment i really had

00:38:43a good time at the workshop so excited to come back here and you know tell morena about what was

00:38:50happening and have a laugh because i'm like doing that with her what's happening i'm reading the book

00:39:02yeah are you good yes welcome home when it's happier it brings the better side of out of me you

00:39:08know i'm more happier i'm more relaxed i can joke around with her and you know enjoy the time that

00:39:14we have here we're excited to tell you about my day tony this book is just like amazing

00:39:24you just open it up and and for that moment of the day gives you an affirmation and it just tells

00:39:29you a quote that you need to hear i just opened it now and it just said it's okay not to be happy

00:39:36just a second i just walked in deep breaths i'm just going to say it it's only short okay um it's

00:39:42okay not to be happy with how your story is going even if everyone else is saying it's going well it's

00:39:49amazing here she goes again and that's this is something that i that i don't like i'm excited to

00:40:01come back here and you know tell morena about what was happening and she hits me with a book

00:40:06negative photo of a book so the fact that you got that today just give me a second

00:40:10sorry sorry i'm just getting tired did i did i say something just need a break for a little bit

00:40:18man i just need to wake up a little bit okay just just just checking you know when when someone comes

00:40:26home and you've worked out a big day out working and you just want to your wife just say hey how are

00:40:31you talk to me about today because it's sometimes our turn to talk you know and their turn to listen

00:40:42let me open up a page and she just hit me straight away straight into her book

00:40:51let me talk to you man let me tell you how i feel you know as soon as that happened i lost my chain of

00:40:56thought i was like wow i've just opened the page again tony huh i've just opened the page again tony

00:41:07you can't yet see the light at the end of the tunnel because the light is in you

00:41:17that's like how could i have opened it today

00:41:20i just want to take a little break for a while man sometimes she's just got to

00:41:27just take a step back let me talk and let me enjoy myself talking to you

00:41:33and it's happened a lot it's happening it's just how marina is and she's

00:41:39it's a little bit frustrating sometimes i've been there all day and i'm coming back here and you're

00:41:44hammering me i need some time what you mean i'm hammering you chill out for a minute hey you're

00:41:52amazing i don't know why you're getting angry at me i'm not angry but no when when i come here to

00:42:01talk to you i'm talking to you about what i was doing over there and you just lose my chain of

00:42:06thought i don't know okay well then it goes here it is again so i'm gonna show again so just when

00:42:11when they're talking to me about books and things like this tony you walked away tony you walked

00:42:15away this is what the problem is marina you walked away so i'm entitled to talk to you about i was

00:42:20excited to walk in here and talk to you about my day and here you are you know hitting me with

00:42:24questions and books and stuff like man i just don't sometimes i just don't get it okay i'm not

00:42:30talking i don't have to talk sometimes you just got to stop let me have my say sometimes you just

00:42:37i'm just like some time to tony man when it gets too much like that you know i kind of feel rude that

00:42:44i walked off on it sometimes you just got to step away before you know what i mean

00:42:51nobody gets to tell me to stop talking

00:42:56nobody has the right to shut me down so no i don't think so that doesn't get to happen not on my watch

00:43:04i put up with that for 29 years i'm not doing that now

00:43:11so when someone storms off and then tells me to stop talking doesn't sit well with me

00:43:18i don't think so he can

00:43:23he he needs a break let's give tony a break

00:43:26i'm with a child you don't get to walk off tell me to stop talking

00:43:34i asked for an alpha man i didn't ask for a child

00:43:46as intimacy week continues alessandra's latest tasks are arriving at the apartments

00:43:59oh

00:44:00this is it this is the task surprise task this year i've created tailored tasks for each couple

00:44:12to focus on their specific areas for improvement oh okay there's a few things in there again

00:44:20these exercises are designed to invite them to explore outside their comfort zones

00:44:25here we go and help improve their sense of closeness

00:44:30what sort of task do you reckon it will be i don't know but i might go and brush my teeth

00:44:36it's probably a kissing task good idea

00:44:39i've got so much to learn absolutely i'm a i'm a vanilla cupcake with a bit of sprinkles

00:44:45i'm going to come here and then add all the all the chili flakes on top

00:44:48oh chili flakes oh there's four questions i'm excited about today's challenge with dave because

00:44:58he hates talking about sex hates it and i can see he gets uncomfortable but at the same time

00:45:04jave has come a long way so i think we're kind of both got some exploring to do

00:45:11where was the most public place you had sex what happened

00:45:14um i was at the zoo once

00:45:23you're kidding me that like the toilets had like a bird aviary over it so i remember like

00:45:30looking and i was like this bird is full looking at me

00:45:34oh man jamie doesn't give a shit she'll just tell you whatever she wants it's great

00:45:38it's good it's good she's leading the way for me it's um yeah it's helping

00:45:41but one was like going i think they knew what we were doing the birds because it was like

00:45:53maybe that's where you scared of birds let's go to charonga on a day trip

00:45:58over at ree and jeff's apartment the couple are hoping alessandra's tasks will help them take

00:46:12their intimacy to the next level hey are you nervous now i'm all right are you nervous a little bit

00:46:22alessandra she said she's ramping it up this year

00:46:25so it'd be safe to say that i'm a little bit nervous

00:46:28gaze into your partner's eyes for three minutes without looking away allow yourself to be vulnerable

00:46:33and be present in the moment set a timer and enjoy the intimacy

00:46:36the things that she's given us um like we are obviously intimate like we kiss

00:46:46but the yeah staring in each other's eyes and things like that added a little bit of

00:46:49difference to what we would normally do

00:47:02i was just staring at re and i was just like taking in her energy and um

00:47:06and just like looking straight in her eyes and it felt like i was sort of like looking deep into her

00:47:10it sort of feels like you're in a little bubble and nothing else matters in that moment

00:47:14yeah it was intense but uh it was nice

00:47:21i think like one thing i always said was i wanted to walk down the aisle to someone who had really

00:47:25kind eyes and obviously i knew jeff when i walked down the aisle but he has really kind eyes and he's

00:47:32a very good person so it was nice staring into his eyes yeah there it is

00:47:39well gazing does feel intimate yeah i guess it's kind of what you do before you kiss someone so

00:47:43especially when it's for three minutes you start to you see people's souls i don't know

00:47:51share a two-minute make-out session

00:47:57oh yeah the two-minute it's pissing um yeah the two-minute kissing chart i can't even speak

00:48:05uh the two-minute kissing task you know it was a bit nerve-wracking like it might not sound like a big

00:48:10step but for me personally it is we've had that first kiss last week in confessions week but um

00:48:15i guess with this task i just hope that we will see the spark between me and reed you know i'm going

00:48:20to be open because hopefully sooner rather than later maybe we progress to the next stage

00:48:25we like children we've kissed before oh no it's okay

00:48:39okay that's good um so there you are

00:48:55oh wow it's a nice kiss it's a nice kiss it's nice and passionate we're feeling it

00:49:04it's given me a bit to think about

00:49:08do you like kissing jeff i do like kissing jeff

00:49:12everything just feels really right at the moment i can tell we both like each other a lot

00:49:16the spark's definitely there now yeah it just feels like we're just taking that next step but it feels

00:49:21good he's honestly like such an amazing partner to do like to have in this experiment the more this

00:49:30experiment has gone on the more grateful i am that i i am with jeff yes nice that was nice

00:49:36i forgot what question you asked but i just went on about jeff just then but yeah it's all true

00:49:41next you told me to stop talking you don't get to do that to a person sometimes just let me tell

00:49:52you how i feel tensions rise as morena and tony butt heads you told me stop talking so i'm not going

00:50:00to talk so go ahead finish what you want to say no you said don't you're coming aggressive aggressive

00:50:05to me i apologized to you didn't i after tempers flared morena and tony have returned to their

00:50:22apartment yesterday was a really good in such a good place that i was you know excited we had a good

00:50:29day we painted we talked we chatted we drank we ate food we laughed it off i thought it was great

00:50:35i even went to the to lexandria of excitement to tell lexandria how what happened you know i thought

00:50:41my story was the best story from all of them but got back here with excitement

00:50:47to tell her and she's you know the book here just didn't wait

00:50:52take a seat hello i'm good standing thanks you are

00:50:58she doesn't mean harm it's just how she is sometimes she's just got to take a step back and listen to me

00:51:06yeah i was a bit rude to you wasn't i but wait but let me explain myself okay when i walked in here

00:51:14i was so happy to tell you about what happened at the day okay i saw you sitting there with a book in

00:51:19your hands i sat next to you and asked you what you what are you reading you didn't tell me what

00:51:23the book you were reading you told me a quote out of that book i was so excited to talk to you about

00:51:28my day that you read me a quote not one but two out of them that spun my head and i feel so i just

00:51:33spoke to someone who was so wise you know i want to learn something i didn't come here to get peppered

00:51:38by you as well but it's sometimes you just got to let me talk and tell you how i felt on the day and

00:51:43how excited i was to talk to him about how i told him what we did with you me and you on the you know

00:51:48painting and on the lounge and everything man sometimes just listen to me talk that's where i you

00:51:54know and then i just thought to myself here we go again i'm just i'm just talking riddles again i'm

00:51:58just i lost my chain of thought and i thought just i just didn't want to talk anymore like i was just

00:52:03didn't sorry about that that's how i felt so sometimes just let me tell you how i feel it was

00:52:08my day today we went to alexander today so i do apologize yes for walking up getting up and walking

00:52:15off when you're stuff like that sometimes just let me have you know a conversation with you

00:52:30you told me stop talking so i'm not going to talk so go ahead finish what you want to say no you said

00:52:35don't you're coming aggressive aggressive to me i apologized to you didn't i i did i said i'm sorry

00:52:41for my reaction you told me to stop talking you don't get to do that to a person i hope you're

00:52:49really happy this was all unnecessary i i was actually enjoying reading the book i wasn't hurting

00:52:54anyone you then got up and walked off you came to make a coffee because you got i don't want to talk

00:52:59anymore thought all right i'm just gonna read something from my book i didn't i said i'm sorry

00:53:06said that to you you know how i was feeling but i can see you actually don't mean it actions not words

00:53:16so what are my actions what do you want me to do i i'm not going to tell a grown man of 53

00:53:24what to do you should know that should be automatic you should know how to treat a woman and you should

00:53:32know how to speak to a woman and telling her again to stop talking i had that for three decades tony

00:53:39but i've worked on myself for seven years from the day i left my ex i've worked myself inside and out

00:53:45so if you're wondering why it upsets me i won't allow anyone to treat me like that anyone not my friends

00:53:56not my family nobody just calm down a little bit marina i can talk sit down i made the mistake you've

00:54:05told me not to talk so i don't want to talk to somebody i said that that tells me not to talk tony

00:54:11so i don't want to talk think about your words that you say to people people that don't deserve that

00:54:18i talk from my heart i don't talk from my rear end

00:54:32you know i tried to uh apologize i spoke about it i i explained myself she just had to have her

00:54:49say again you know and she was angry sadness in her voice all the time i'm i'm i'm core i'm causing it

00:54:57i know because if she met someone that she's happy with she wouldn't be like this but i keep you

00:55:02know i'm letting her down i'm happy not to talk because that's what you would prefer

00:55:08maybe i need some time off maybe i need to get away from you for the fruit that's fine you you do that

00:55:13if they make you feel like your love is too much then tell them it is

00:55:30it's too much for them boom are we done perfect good unlike me and we're done

00:55:50as intimacy week draws to a close

00:55:52so obviously when dave came home from the workshop with alessandra he did bring me tea

00:56:06making us a tea or a coffee what would you like obviously it seemed the most shocking part was

00:56:12ryan's comments he made about jackie i just yeah don't think that's acceptable to be doing

00:56:18behind your partner's back oh my god i love talking about tea whilst drinking tea this

00:56:23like i'm my nipples are related now i've actually formed a really good relationship with kareena

00:56:29so i want to see what she thinks going on there so i didn't tell what what what what i mean i don't

00:56:37know like so the hot topic to jackie and brian because i know dave definitely was left pissed off

00:56:45and wants to bring up things he just didn't like how he spoke about jackie

00:56:48what did ryan say ryan told the group that she has crazy eyes oh my god like

00:56:59i just don't think he thinks he doesn't like why would you use a comment someone was saying in a

00:57:04negative way about your wife and you're using that in a group of men the thing is like the crazy eyes

00:57:10it's like you could be a lot more creative because like i think life got crazy eyes at the best times

00:57:15but what like really pissed dave off is that like he made the combat physical appearance but it's just

00:57:21not on but then he said oh at least she gives really imagine saying that in front of jackie

00:57:33i'm like

00:57:34i'm just gobsmacked by hearing that type of comment if someone said that about me i would have decked

00:57:45y'all and i would have just legged it yeah like what the i think he was just like peacocking but

00:57:50now i'm like it's like the baton keeps getting passed on from like just shitty husbands and like

00:57:55he's just like yell like i'll take i'll take it yeah like because i think i was like oh it's gonna

00:58:00be quite peaceful actually now and then he's like yoink because i'm like what what's he thinking

00:58:07ryan did say a lot of disrespectful things behind jackie's back which was not on

00:58:13and like my husband ain't happy with the things ryan said is he trying to act cool is he trying to act

00:58:20superior so dave is eager to pull him up on it and honestly like i'm gonna let my husband do his thing

00:58:27but i'm really keen to hear what ryan does say

00:58:31yeah yeah this dinner party's a bit of a show already like it really is

00:58:39following a heated exchange with morena tony has left the apartments

00:58:44and gone to his home in woollongong to collect his thoughts

00:58:47oh my god he he needs a break i don't think so and morena is not happy

00:58:56at the moment right now i'm gutted i'm gutted because he doesn't even want to spend time with

00:59:03even as a friend he's got lots of friends in sydney he wants to spend time with everybody else

00:59:10even his dog but not me good night tony

00:59:18good night tony

00:59:22oh that's right tony needs a break

00:59:27i really want to try and learn how to build a connection with someone i don't know

00:59:34he's making it really difficult because he behaves like a five-year-old i just don't get it

00:59:42i just don't get it why why you would want to be with everyone else

00:59:50except for the person you've been matched up with i don't deserve to be shut out good night tony tony

00:59:57tomorrow night dinner is served emotions run high i'm not done i'm not done with you little boy

01:00:08as morena reaches breaking point does your girl go home every weekend does anyone here go home every

01:00:15weekend and no no listen listen you're delusional she came in swinging while intimacy week has worked

01:00:22it's magic for most of our couples there is a real connection here there is good deep communication

01:00:29the more that this experiment goes on the more i realize that jeff is an amazing person

01:00:34it's nice that's lovely

01:00:40the question on everyone's lips i'm so confused has he told her about that comment does she know i i don't

01:00:47know everyone at the table is fired up and want answers will ryan own up to those comments

01:00:58be honest because you never know what's going to come back to buy you

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