It's Showtime: Matchmate Duday, isang alpha female sa work at relasyon! (June 2, 2025) (Part 3/4)

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Aired (June 2, 2025): Tila parehong positive at negative daw ang dulot ng pagiging alpha female ni Matchmate Duday dahil sa pagiging natural niyang leader, ngunit may oras na siya ay nagiging bossy sa trabaho at sa relasyon.   Madlang Kapuso, join the FUNanghalian with #ItsShowtime family. Watch the latest episode of 'It's Showtime' hosted by Vice Ganda, Anne Curtis, Vhong Navarro, Karylle, Jhong Hilario, Amy Perez, Kim Chui, Jugs & Teddy, MC & Lassy, Ogie Alcasid, Darren, Jackie, Cianne, Ryan Bang, and Ion Perez.  Monday to Saturday, 12NN on GMA Network.  #ItsShowtime #MadlangKapuso #GMANetwork

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00:00But for now, Tiwi, if flex mo na sa amin ang bestie mo, go.

00:04Okay, so, um, si Duday, um, isa siyang maalaga and very understanding bilang girlfriend and as a friend.

00:13And also, she's very supportive. So, if meron kang gusto sa life na gawin, um, as in supportive siya and very positive yung mga sinasabi niya.

00:23Hindi siya yung mahigpit sa boyfriend. Yung kunyari, gusto kong ano, kasi supportive ka daw eh.

00:28Paano kong nyari, yung magiging boyfriend mo, mahilig magmotor?

00:34Maraming hindi nagkakaintindihan sa ganyan eh, yung ayaw nang nagbomotor yung partner niya kasi natatakot.

00:40Paano kong yung mahilig magmotor?

00:44Siguro kung matagal na, gano'n na siya eh, for a long time. Pero sasabihin ko siya na magingat.

00:51Biglang gusto kong magmotor, yung gano'n. Yung motor na, ano ba yung ginagawa niya dati?

00:58Yung lumilipa.

01:00Dirt biking, yeah. Dirt biking.

01:02Dirt biking, nga.

01:03Dirt biking pa yun.

01:04Cross.

01:05I'm motocross.

01:07Kasi gano'n yun, gano'n yung ginagawa niya dati hanggang sa nabasag yung balakang niya.

01:11Oh my God.

01:12Paano, parang mga burol-burol ng lupa?

01:15Correct.

01:16Oh.

01:19Parang huwag muna.

01:20Oh.

01:21Kala ko supportive.

01:22Oh, hindi.

01:23Siguro ano, kasi syempre medyo dangerous yun. So siguro, i-advise lang niya or maybe try niyang medyo ibahin yung isip siguro. For safety reasons.

01:35Or ML. Alam ba, mag-ML siya.

01:38ML.

01:39Magpapadala siya yung gano'n. ML padala.

01:41Hindi yun.

01:42Nitaro.

01:43Pwede din.

01:44ML, okay lang.

01:45Okay lang kay Duday.

01:45Wag jamak si Buwana ka.

01:48Okay lang sa kanya. Okay lang naman yun kay Duday. So far, based din sa mga nakita ko nung may in a relationship siya, okay naman siya. Very supportive. And then, ayun, kaso lang nga lang, she's an alpha female.

02:06Bossy-bossy.

02:07Yes. Siguro,

02:08Bossy-bossy gay.

02:09Oh, Bossy-bossy.

02:12Oh, Bossy-bossy.

02:13Oh, Bossy-bossy.

02:14Oh, Bossy-bossy.

02:15Oh, Bossy-bossy.

02:16Oh, Bossy-bossy.

02:17Okay.

02:18Siguro, nadadala rin niya kasi ano siya eh, sa work, she's a team leader. So, yung pagiging leader niya, nadadala niya siguro sa relationship.

02:27As an alpha, how does she react pag hindi nasusunod ang gusto niya?

02:33Matigas ulo niya, hindi pwedeng hindi...

02:36Nagtatantrums.

02:37Yeah.

02:38So, magtatalo, halimbawa.

02:39Oh, yes.

02:40Yes, yes.

02:41Okay.

02:42So, dun muna ito tayo for now.

02:43Mga Hackbangers, base sa mga unang impormasyon na nakalap natin tungkol kay Duday mula sa kanyang besting si Tiwi.

02:50Anong desisyon nyo, Hackbangers?

02:52Aki at...

02:53Ako, walang kumagalaw.

02:58Anong nangyayari?

02:59Gusto ko yan, yung nakiisip sila. Gusto ko yan. Parang ayoko na parang...

03:03Isa pa lang umakyat.

03:04Oh, dalawa.

03:04Ay, nagsunod.

03:06Ito, tanongin ko lang si CJ. Si CJ ang pinakahuli umakyat.

03:10Ano yung iniisip mo, CJ?

03:12Kung matibay yung Hackbangers, natin natin iisip mo.

03:15Matibay kaya? Tuakit ba ako? Kasi kung tatlo ka, baka mabiga.

03:18Kaya kasi parang conflicting yung supportive tapos at the same time alpha female na nagagalit pagka din susunod.

03:27Parang conflicting masyado yung dalawang description eh.

03:30Pero I decided na I would like that kind of person in my life since I want someone draining me pagka napapasobra na.

03:42Pero ba sa relasyon ba? Ikaw ba laging nasusunod? O ikaw yung taong mapagbigay?

03:48Pareho eh.

03:50Pareho. I mean, mapagbigay ako. Pero at the same time, pag may feeling ko tama ako, as much as possible, I would try to convince yung partner ko.

04:03As long as nararamdaman mo muna tama ako, dapat ako yung masunod.

04:07Not necessarily. I would try and find a compromise. Hindi siya yung lagi akong masusunod. Compromise.

04:13Paano pag gusto ni Duday, i-tease mo yung bangs mo. Pakaalis kayo.

04:18Okay lang?

04:19Oo.

04:20Oo.

04:20Wala naman nung...

04:21Ganun siya. Nakitipag-ano siya eh. Yung tag dito, yung let's meet halfway. Kung okay naman sa akin, pagbibigyan kita kahit hindi ko idea yan.

04:29May follow-up question ako.

04:30Sino mong una? Siya o ikaw?

04:33Yun hindi ko alam.

04:34Eh pag-plancha.

04:36Pag-kina-plancha.

04:37Actually, yung favorite hairstyle ko talaga yung semi-alboy. Di lang ako nakapagpag...

04:41Ay, ituturo ko sa iyo kung paano pinatawa yan.

04:44Oo!

04:44Diyos ko yung iba na pumupunta pa sa mga parlor paano magpasin.

04:47Ano mo dapat?

04:47Ano dapat?

04:48Magpa-stress ka lang.

04:50After a few months, semi-alboy.

04:53Meron na sa taas, actually.

04:56And then, okay. So ano siya?

05:00Flexible si ano?

05:01Si CJ.

05:03Si Luis, it took you time.

05:05Kung nag-de-decide ka, bakit?

05:09I was on the fence when it regarded the motorcycle.

05:15Because I actually do ride motorcycles.

05:19But I did appreciate yung care.

05:23Kasi I don't do motocross.

05:25I just ride. I like to ride.

05:26Yung motocross lang naman ang medyo hindi siya kabul.

05:29Kasi parang sabi niya nga, ano, parang cautious siya kasi baka, kasi it's a new thing.

05:38So I appreciated that.

05:40Shows that she's truly caring sa loved one niya.

05:45And also, I like that she's into leadership.

05:47Kasi I'm also into leadership.

05:50I like reading books about leadership.

05:52And I'm also a leader in the fitness industry.

05:56So, yeah.

05:59Pero alam mo, kunyari, may jowa ka nagmamotor.

06:01Minsan parang ang OA-OA namin.

06:03Pero hindi nyo alam kung gano'ng kahirap yung kapraningan.

06:07Yung takot.

06:08Nakakatakot talaga.

06:09Yung takot na baka may mangyari dun sa taong mahal na mahal mo.

06:13Saka ay mong mawala.

06:14O kahit nga yung, ano, kahit hindi pa siya, hindi pa masugatan o masaktan,

06:20yung thought lang na sumemplang, ayaw mong maisipin.

06:23Diba?

06:23Yes.

06:24Grabe.

06:25Ang hirap paglabanan nung fear out of so much concern.

06:29Pero minsan lulunukin mo yun kasi siyempre ayaw mo rin yung,

06:33ayaw mo rin namang saklawan ang isang bagay na nakapagpapasaya dun sa partner mo.

06:38Kaya kailangan mo siyang balansihin.

06:40Yes.

06:40Si Josh naman ang unang umakyat.

06:42Bakit?

06:43Um, I like yung sinabi na na she's supportive.

06:47Um, I did have a bit of reservation dun sa sinabi na she's an alpha female.

06:52Pero at the same time, as long as there's compromise and there's give and take,

06:56um, we can work around that naman.

06:59Alam mo, it's such a sign of progress talaga

07:01that males don't mind being with an alpha female.

07:05Diba?

07:05Kasi dati, grabe talaga ang mga lalaki.

07:07Kailangan, they would be the dominant one in the relationship.

07:11But I know, times are changing.

07:13Yeah.

07:14At saka, marami nang may gusto talaga dun sa mga alpha.

07:18Diba?

07:18Bet na rin nila.

07:19Kaya alphabet ang tawag.

07:27Gusto kayo?

07:27Last time pang tatler, no?

07:30Oo, yeah.

07:31Pag bet mo yung alpha, alphabet.

07:32Yeah.

07:34Okay.

07:35Huwag ganda.

07:36Lahat umakyat.

07:37Tingnan natin sa mga susunod ng flex ni Tiwi.

07:39Go.

07:39Okay, next.

07:40Si Duday, um, very workaholic.

07:43Um, ano ba?

07:44Career-oriented siya.

07:46Career-driven siya.

07:47And I can say na very established or stable na siya ngayon sa kanyang career.

07:53Um, tapos, ayun, um, achiever siya.

07:57So, um, as I mentioned earlier, na nag-de-lead siya ng isang team.

08:01So, for two consecutive years, nag-top yung team niya.

08:04So, ganun siya ka-dedicated sa work.

08:07To the point na siya yung nag-open and nag-close ng showroom.

08:11Ganun siya.

08:12As in, um, 100% siya all out sa trabaho.

08:15So, dahil doon, um, as a friend, ang hirap niyang yayain.

08:20Hindi siya ganun ka-spontaneous.

08:22Lahat ng bagay kailangan planado.

08:25Like, for example, um, tatanungin namin siya,

08:27Dude, ano, puto tayo sa ganito kasi nga mahilig kami mag-travel.

08:30So, siya ang laging, um, um, sagot niya is,

08:35May work.

08:36May work ako.

08:37Ganun.

08:37So, imbis na kasi surely ginagawa is yung ia-adjust yung work

08:41para ituloy yung, ano, sa kanya is, uunahin niya yun.

08:44Pag inaaya mo siya, kahit bet na bet mong rumapa siya, may work.

08:49Oo, ganun.

08:50Kaya tingnan mo, siya nag-stay sa trabaho, ikaw nawala.

08:53Pinalik mo na naman eh.

08:55Diba, umota siya, diba?

08:57So, ngayon,

08:59Give it like me.

09:01Sorry na, sorry na, meme, pero may priorities.

09:05Na-adapt kayo, Alph.

09:07So, feeling ko, if may makakadate siya,

09:12um, kasi if very flexible ang schedule na, lalo na sa sales.

09:16So, feeling ko kapag yung, ano, yung,

09:19ano ba, let's say nagde-date na sila nung, ano, kung anse niya naman yung makikilala.

09:23Feeling ko kapag may tumawag na client in the middle of the date.

09:26I-accommodate niya.

09:27Yes, yes, ganun.

09:29Oo, feeling ko ganun.

09:31Kasi ganun siya sa amin eh.

09:32Unfair naman yun kung hindi ganun.

09:34Tsaka meron talagang ano, yung,

09:36ang buhay nila, career.

09:37Yes.

09:38Parang ganun.

09:38Workaholic.

09:39Parang ganun ka, diba?

09:41Yes, totoo.

09:41Yung, so, paano, kunyari,

09:44nagkaroon ka ng boyfriend na alpha din,

09:46o kaya, tapos, leader din,

09:48pareho kayong successful sa work.

09:52Tapos,

09:53nagkaroon kayo ng anak.

09:55Ano lang itong hypothetical?

09:57Nagkaroon kayo ng anak.

09:59Tapos, ayaw niyong ipapaalaga sa iba.

10:02Gusto niyo hands-on

10:03ang at least one of the parents.

10:07Sinong mag-giveaway?

10:08Ako.

10:09Oo.

10:10Gusto ko din naman,

10:11actually, yung dream ko is

10:12not just to be successful in career,

10:15but to have a happy family.

10:17Gusto ko din talaga mag-aanak,

10:18and of course, eventually, husband.

10:21Tsaka yung husband na,

10:22hindi lang basta husband,

10:23basta gusto niya din maging tatay.

10:26Alam mo,

10:27kasi yun talagang, ano ha,

10:28isa sa mga,

10:29um,

10:31um,

10:32dangers,

10:32hindi naman dangers,

10:33isa sa mga,

10:35hindi masyadong mag-gandang issues

10:36sa,

10:36sa pag nag-asawa,

10:38merong isang kailangan

10:40mag-sakripisyo

10:42ng kanyang goal sa buhay.

10:48Yung personal goal,

10:49di ba lahat tayo may personal goal,

10:51meron,

10:52maraming,

10:53maraming nawawala ng choice

10:55kundi mag-sacrifice

10:56ng kanilang kakayahan

10:57at potensyal sa buhay

10:59dahil sa

11:01pagbibigay ng pangangailangan

11:04ng pamilya.

11:05And most of the time,

11:06babae ang nagsasakripisyo.

11:08Di ba?

11:08Maraming,

11:09maraming,

11:09maraming babae

11:10na magaling sumayaw,

11:11hindi na maipopreso

11:12ang husay niya sa pagsasayaw

11:14the moment siya ay maging isang ina.

11:16Di ba?

11:17Maraming

11:18modelo,

11:20di ba,

11:20na,

11:20may,

11:21na,

11:21titigil niya na

11:22ang kanyang pagmumodelo

11:23dahil sa kanyang,

11:25magbibigay ng pangangailangan

11:26ng kanyang mga anak.

11:28Most of the time,

11:29babae ang nagsasakripisyo

11:30ng kanyang full potential

11:32to be

11:33a mother

11:35and a parent

11:36and a wife.

11:38Yung ganyan.

11:38Pero siya,

11:39go,

11:40kaya mo,

11:41di ba?

11:41Mahirap yun,

11:42di ba?

11:42Kasi,

11:43ano kaya,

11:43career girl ka eh,

11:44career oriented ka eh,

11:46pero give mo.

11:47Yes.

11:47May pangarap din talaga ako.

11:49Ito yung mga,

11:49um,

11:50what I'm experiencing right now.

11:52But more so,

11:53mas,

11:53um,

11:54yung pinakapangarap ko

11:55is to have a happy family.

11:56So.

11:57Yes.

11:58But also for mothers,

11:59I just wanna add din

12:01na parang

12:01after the time

12:03na siyempre,

12:04kailangan talaga,

12:04like me,

12:05I took a break,

12:06di ba,

12:06to become a mother.

12:07But don't give up

12:08on your dreams.

12:09Yes.

12:09There's always a time

12:10for you

12:11to go back

12:12and pursue

12:12what your dreams are.

12:14And that's why

12:14napaka-importante

12:15mahanap mo yung tamang tao.

12:17Yes.

12:18Para masusupport niya.

12:20Supporting.

12:21Yung tama,

12:22yung tamang tao

12:23na mauunawaan ka

12:24yung pangangailangan

12:26ng iyong kaluluwa

12:27na ipursue yung

12:28iyong potential

12:29at pangarap,

12:30di ba?

12:30At susupportahan ka.

12:31Yeah.

12:32Di ba?

12:33Ganda.

12:35So,

12:35matapos ang mga narinig nyo

12:36itong call

12:37kay Duday.

12:38Hackbangers,

12:39akyat

12:40o baba.

12:42Apa?

12:43Bilis eh.

12:43Ang tagal nag-isip

12:52nung dalawa.

12:53Bakit ang tagal ni Josh din?

12:55Josh,

12:55ba't da akin?

12:57Um,

12:57iniisip ko lang kasi,

12:58um,

12:59I mean,

12:59I'm a freelancer naman.

13:00So,

13:01I have lots of,

13:02not necessarily lots of time,

13:04but I have flexibility.

13:05So,

13:06that's what I was

13:06thinking about,

13:08na,

13:09how's that going to work out?

13:12Oh,

13:12um,

13:12Eh,

13:14ba't umakit ka?

13:15Kung sa palagay mo,

13:15may hirapan ka.

13:16Eh,

13:16kasi I have flexibility naman.

13:18So,

13:18I can entertain myself.

13:19exactly.

13:20Flexible ka.

13:21Kung late siya natatapos sa work,

13:23okay lang sayo,

13:24mag-date kahit late na?

13:26Um,

13:26yes,

13:27and I go on late night drives din naman.

13:29So,

13:29okay lang.

13:30Tapos bigla siyang kalagitan date,

13:32kailangan niyang umalis for work

13:33kasi may tumatawag emergency.

13:36Paano yun?

13:36O,

13:36paano yun?

13:37Okay lang din.

13:38I mean,

13:38I can entertain myself.

13:39So,

13:40okay lang din talaga.

13:41Ayan.

13:42Yeah.

13:43Pero madaling sabihin niya na,

13:44ang tanong,

13:45hanggang kailan,

13:46o yan,

13:46pamangatawanan.

13:48Diba?

13:48Paano kung five years

13:49ng ganyan ng ganyan,

13:50diba?

13:50Kaya,

13:51maganda talaga yung

13:53mauunawaan niya.

13:54Ikaw ba yung

13:55tao na,

13:57kunyari,

13:58may isang magsasakripisyo,

14:00okay lang na ikaw yung piliin

14:01na magsakripisyo?

14:03Usually,

14:03ako talaga yung nagsasakripisyo.

14:06Yes.

14:07Wait lang,

14:07pagbalik akong si Duday.

14:08Sabi mo kasi ikaw,

14:09willingly gagawin mo yung

14:10yung isasakripis mo.

14:11With the right partner,

14:12yes.

14:13Paano kung yung right partner,

14:14okay siya,

14:14perfect siya,

14:15mabait siya,

14:15pero yung,

14:16in terms of finances,

14:17ha,

14:19mas malaking dihamak

14:20ang kinikita mo

14:20sa kinikita niya.

14:22We're as long as,

14:23ano,

14:23he's trying to be better.

14:25Doesn't have to be perfect,

14:27pero for as long as

14:28nararamdaman ko

14:29and we know na

14:30may drive siya

14:31to improve our lives,

14:32why not?

14:33Willing ako makipag-compromise.

14:34Galing, no?

14:36Diba?

14:37Kasi lalo na kunyari,

14:38nagpapaaral ka ng anak mo.

14:41Yeah.

14:41Tapos mas,

14:42kailangan mong

14:43malikagat sa trabaho.

14:43Diba kinukumpit ng mag-asawa yun?

14:45Magkano kailangan nating pera

14:46sa buwan na ito?

14:47Diba?

14:48At dito sa Philippines,

14:49maikli lang yata

14:50ang maternity leave.

14:51Diba?

14:51Tama ba ako?

14:53One month?

14:54Ewan ko,

14:55hindi ko na-experience kasi yan.

14:57Soon.

14:59Diba?

14:59Parang ganun.

15:00Sometimes,

15:01tapang may.

15:02Three months.

15:03Sometimes it's the woman

15:04who is the breadwinner.

15:06Diba?

15:06Yung wife.

15:06So kailangan nila

15:07bumalik agad sa trabaho.

15:09Diba?

15:09Oo.

15:10Three months pala.

15:11Three months tau.

15:12Kaya iyong mga bagay na yan,

15:13dapat yan pinag-uusapan.

15:15Yes.

15:15Sana habaan pa.

15:16Yes.

15:17Mahalaga ang, ano,

15:17mahalaga ang kakayahan ng,

15:19mahalaga ang,

15:20merong kayong sapat

15:22na kakayahang pananalapi

15:23para sa pamilya.

15:24Okay.

15:25Ganun din si Iwan.

15:26Ang tagal din ni Luis.

15:28Mag-decide kanina.

15:29Yes.

15:31Kasi I was also on the fence

15:33with the super hardworking

15:35opening the store

15:37to closing the store.

15:39I always believe that

15:41balance is very important

15:43in each and everyone's life.

15:45So pag puro work, work, work, work,

15:47then of course,

15:48may mga nakokompromise na ibang bagay.

15:51Even yung sarili, right?

15:53Minsan nakakalimutan na natin

15:54yung self-care.

15:55So, it's very important.

15:59Ba't ka umakiyat?

16:00Kung issue yun siya?

16:01Yes.

16:02Kasi po, yung sinabi niya na

16:04in the end,

16:06for the right person,

16:08she's willing to sacrifice,

16:10especially when starting

16:12to build a family.

16:14Kasi when I date,

16:15it's very important for me

16:16to look at the end goal.

16:18And that's what she said

16:19was the end goal for me.

16:20To build a family

16:21and I will be the one

16:23to provide.

16:24And as a man,

16:26I think I should be able

16:28to do that

16:29and I will do that.

16:30Ikaw ba pagtapos na yung trabaho

16:31at may tumatawag siya

16:32ng client,

16:33tasagutin mo pa rin yan?

16:35It depends kasi

16:37if it's a concern

16:39na urgent,

16:40then I will answer.

16:42But if it's not urgent,

16:44I rarely take work home.

16:47Pag nasa bahay...

16:47Hindi mo na mo malalaman

16:48kang urgent to,

16:49hindi kung di mo sasagutan

16:50yung telepon.

16:50Pag nakita lang po

16:51sa messages or...

16:53Hindi, kung call.

16:55Pag call, usually...

16:58Pero okay?

16:58No, no, no.

16:59Not really.

17:02Sanghirapan siya sa mag-decide.

17:03Si ano talagang matagal

17:04mag-decide si Luis.

17:05Pinag-iisipan niya

17:07yung mga decision niya.

17:08Hindi rin naman...

17:09Hindi na natatatanongin si CJ

17:10kasi obviously bet niya

17:12mabilis siyang umakit.

17:13Ngayon...

17:20Agurapan siya sa mag-decide siya ma-decide.

17:23Si experti siya ma-decide siya ma-dee siya ma-been.

17:26No, no, no...

17:26No, no, no.

17:27Naman siya ma-dee siya ma-dee siya ma-dee siya ma-dee siya ma-dee.

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