Deep Dive - Ep 1: Unexpected Twist on The Match Makers: Why She Said No!
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00:00All right, welcome to the deep dive. We're all about taking those topics you're curious about
00:04and, you know, really digging in to find the good stuff. And today we're diving into something
00:09pretty interesting. It's actually a specific video from a Vietnamese dating show called
00:15Ban Môn Hòn Hò.
00:17Yeah. Episode hashtag Tone97A. The title, if you translate it, it's kind of funny. It's
00:23basically saying matchmaker's brains tangled by the girl's love life.
00:30Yeah, and I can totally see why you flagged this one. I mean, it seems like a really good
00:48way to get a glimpse into Vietnamese dating culture, right?
00:51Exactly. And that's our mission here. We're going to watch Nguyen Thu Lạc and Nguyen Thi Đan
00:56on meet for the first time and try to figure out, you know, what's going on, what are their
01:01backgrounds, what are they looking for, and what does this whole matchmaking process tell
01:05us about Vietnamese culture?
01:06Sounds like a plan.
01:07Hmm.
01:08Let's start with getting to know our potential couple here. So first up, we've got Nguyen Thu
01:12Lạc.
01:13Right. So he was born in 1990, comes from Le Mung.
01:16Okay.
01:16And he's a bag and backpack designer. Yeah. He's got his own manufacturing facility down in
01:21Ho Chi Minh City, and he's working with clients overseas. So that's pretty cool.
01:24Wow. That's impressive. I mean, that says a lot right there.
01:27Yeah, definitely ambitious. And it's interesting, you know, when he's introducing himself, he
01:31really highlights his personal qualities. He's like, I'm gentle, honest, hardworking, straightforward,
01:38truthful, and ambitious.
01:40Hmm. Yeah. It seems like there's a real emphasis on those kind of foundational values, more so
01:47than maybe, you know, saying like, hey, I'm rich or I have a fancy car.
01:51Right. Right. That like character and diligence. Those are the things that really matter in
01:55this context.
01:56Makes sense.
01:57And he was also pretty upfront about some things, you know, that maybe some people would try
02:01to hide. Like, he admitted that he sometimes neglects his personal well-being because of
02:05work stress.
02:06Oh, wow.
02:07And he mentioned that he smokes.
02:08Hmm. I mean, it's good that he's being honest, right?
02:11Absolutely. Transparency is always a good thing. So what about his past relationships?
02:16He mentioned one, Ryan.
02:17Yeah, he did. It sounds like it was a pretty short relationship just a few months after
02:22the pandemic with someone from his hometown. They were about the same age, but it ended
02:27because, well, she wasn't exactly honest with him.
02:30Yeah, she had another boyfriend. And he specifically used the words stubborn and dishonest to describe
02:38So yeah, you can definitely see why honesty is a huge priority for him.
03:01Nói thấy có thể hiện hữu pháp ở một chút nữa anh nhé.
03:05Nói muốn một người phim hữu ích, là một sự có thoại, đối pháp,
03:10có một người thân, đối với một người thân, đối với một người pháp thân.
03:15Nói muốn một người hơn một người khác nhé.
03:18Đối với một người thân màu và đối với một người thân.
03:21Ok, thì chúng ta có một một tên tính của Lika.
03:22Nói muốn một người thân nhé.
03:25Nói, Đan-An.
03:26Nói was bởi vì ban trời, và bởi vì trong một người thân.
03:29Và đó là một trong tên, đối với một người thân.
03:31Yeah, same place. She works in an office.
03:33Cool.
03:33And she described herself as caring and good at sharing.
03:36So, you know, seems like a warm, giving person.
03:39But she also mentioned something, well, let's just say memorable.
03:42Oh, yeah. What's that?
03:44Her cooking skills.
03:46Or, I guess, lack thereof.
03:48Oh, no.
03:49She actually said that nobody at home will eat her cooking,
03:52and she has to, like, beg them to try it.
03:54Wow. I mean, that's pretty brave to admit on a dating show.
03:58I guess she's got a good sense of humor about it.
03:59Yeah, I think so.
04:00Yeah.
04:00She even joked, you know, that she's a little short-tempered
04:03if people don't like her cooking.
04:05Although she did quickly say she'd plead, not get angry.
04:08So she can laugh at herself, which is a good sign.
04:10Definitely.
04:11But her past relationships, those sound, well, a little more complicated.
04:17Oh.
04:17She mentioned that her previous relationships have only lasted, like, three or four months.
04:21Hmm.
04:22And one of them ended because of, well, it's a bit of a confusing story.
04:27It involved her best friend, her best friend's boyfriend,
04:30and that boyfriend's friend.
04:32Wait, so she was dating the friend of her best friend's boyfriend?
04:36Yeah, something like that.
04:37And even the hosts on the show had a hard time following the story.
04:40I bet.
04:41It sounds pretty tangled.
04:42It's been an impact to us.
04:43Yeah, so you have to be an impact.
04:43Yeah, it's been a story.
04:43It's been a story.
04:44Yeah, yeah.
04:44But, like, you said that, you know something to know.
04:47Bạn gì?
04:49Dạ
04:50Cuộc bạn
04:51Bạn trai
04:52Dạ
04:53Bạn thân của em là quen với lại có bạn trai
04:56Thì cái bạn đó là bạn của bạn trai
05:00Thôi thôi thôi khỏi kể luôn đi
05:02Không có hiểu
05:03Là anh A, anh B
05:04Anh binh anh A
05:06Mà anh không có chịu binh cái cô
05:08Cái cô bạn
05:09Thôi thôi thôi không hiểu
05:11Khỏi kể luôn đi
05:12Chào anh
05:13Tôi trong lần ngoài cuộc tôi nghe tôi còn mệt
05:15Hiểu chưa?
05:16Hiểu chưa?
05:17Hiểu chưa?
05:18Hiểu chưa?
05:19Hiểu chưa?
05:20Chà, cũng có hơi rồi ạ
05:24Tôi đã dữ dụ quá trời luôn rồi
05:26You know that kind of past experience
05:28It might make someone a little hesitant to jump into a new relationship
05:31Yeah, you'd think so
05:33It's interesting though what she said she's looking for in a partner
05:36She wants someone who knows how to care for the family and share responsibilities
05:40Right, and open communication
05:42That was really important to her
05:43Makes sense especially after those past relationships
05:46Yeah, definitely
05:47And physically she just wants someone around her height which is 1 meter 65 centimeters
05:53Or taller
05:54Oh, and we can't forget about the matchmakers
05:57Right, Chu Quinin and Kothinyok Lan
06:00They're definitely invested in this whole process
06:03You can see how excited they get when a couple hits it off and, you know, a little disappointed if they don't
06:08Yeah, they're really rooting for these couples to find love
06:11They do a good job of, you know, guiding the conversation and making everyone feel comfortable
06:16And remember that part when Dan Ann was trying to explain her past relationship?
06:21Oh yeah, the male host was so confused he was like, wait, who was dating who?
06:25I know, it was hilarious
06:27But it just goes to show, you know, sometimes our relationship histories are complicated and hard to explain
06:33It's interesting to think about how those past experiences, even the messy ones, shape what we look for in the future
06:40So before they actually meet, there's one more thing I noticed
06:42Luke brought his sister-in-law with him
06:44Oh yeah, I do
06:45And she was so sweet, talking about how kind he is
06:49But she also mentioned that he was a little thin
06:51And she kind of jokingly hoped that Dan Ann could fatten him up
06:54It was cute
06:55And Dan Ann, she came to the show alone
06:57Now that whole family involvement thing, that's a pretty significant cultural difference
07:01Yeah
07:02You know, in Vietnamese culture, family input is a really big deal
07:05Makes sense, like getting the family's approval early on is important
07:08Yeah, it can be a deal breaker sometimes
07:10Yeah
07:11So, the fact that Luke brought his sister-in-law, you know, that shows how much he values her opinion
07:16And Dan Ann coming alone, well, that could mean a lot of things
07:19Maybe her family is less involved, or maybe she just wanted to handle this on her own
07:24Yeah, there could be all sorts of reasons
07:26So moving on, they do the whole gift exchange thing, which is pretty standard on these shows
07:30Right, and Luke, being a bag designer, gave Dan Ann a handbag
07:35I love that
07:36It's so fitting, and she seemed to really like it
07:39Yeah, it was a thoughtful gift, and it also kind of subtly showcased his skills, you know
07:43Like, hey, this is what I do, I make beautiful things
07:46Totally, so then they start talking, and they get into some pretty important stuff
07:50Right, right, they talked about where they lived
07:52Which is practical, you gotta think about logistics in a relationship
07:55Yeah, I mean, you can't have a relationship if you live, like, hours apart
07:59Well, it makes it difficult
08:00So she lives in Akoa, and he lives near Beanshan
08:03Yeah, and then they talked about their work
08:05And importantly, they discussed their expectations for, you know, responsibilities in a relationship
08:11Which is huge, you gotta be on the same page about that stuff
08:14Absolutely, and Luke was very clear that he's willing to share household chores
08:19It's always a good sign
08:21Right, and Dan Ann, while she was upfront about her less than stellar cooking skills
08:28She emphasized that she enjoys taking care of people
08:31Oh, and that open communication is really important to her
08:34Yeah, so she's definitely thinking about what makes a relationship work
08:37It's give and take, you know?
08:39Totally, but then they had this really sweet moment where they sang a duet together
08:43Ah, I love that
08:44A Vietnamese love song called Tien Mung Tiena Kho
08:47What does that mean?
08:48It translates to something like accidental love on the canal path
08:51Aww, that's so romantic
08:53It was a really nice way for them to, you know, connect on a different level
08:57And see if their personalities meshed, you know, outside of just answering questions
09:01Yeah, it's more spontaneous, you can really see their chemistry or lack of chemistry in those moments
09:06Exactly
09:07Exactly
09:08So, they had to make their decision
09:10And the way they did it was kind of cute
09:12Oh yeah, how did they do it?
09:13They both closed their eyes, you know, like they were really trying to feel their heartbeats or something
09:17Ah, it's like they were trying to tune out all the noise and just focus on their intuition
09:22Yeah, it adds a bit of romance to the whole thing, it's not just a logical decision, you know?
09:26Right, it's about feelings too
09:28So what happened? Did they both press the button?
09:31Một
09:37Hai
09:39Ba
09:40Tha thời gian
09:44Rồi
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12:08The awkwardness, the hope, the search for common ground, we've all been there
12:12Totally
12:13So I guess the question for our listeners is
12:16How do your own cultural norms and your own personal experiences
12:20Shape your approach to dating?
12:23Yeah, that's a good one
12:24What are the things that are most important to you in a partner
12:26And how do you go about finding that person?
12:29It's something to think about
12:31And maybe, you know, after watching this episode
12:33You might even try something new
12:34Exactly, you never know where you'll find love
12:36Alright, that's it for this week's Deep Dive
12:39Thanks for joining us
12:40See you next time
12:59Thank you