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00:00All right, welcome to the deep dive. We're all about taking those topics you're curious about

00:04and, you know, really digging in to find the good stuff. And today we're diving into something

00:09pretty interesting. It's actually a specific video from a Vietnamese dating show called

00:15Ban Môn Hòn Hò.

00:17Yeah. Episode hashtag Tone97A. The title, if you translate it, it's kind of funny. It's

00:23basically saying matchmaker's brains tangled by the girl's love life.

00:30Yeah, and I can totally see why you flagged this one. I mean, it seems like a really good

00:48way to get a glimpse into Vietnamese dating culture, right?

00:51Exactly. And that's our mission here. We're going to watch Nguyen Thu Lạc and Nguyen Thi Đan

00:56on meet for the first time and try to figure out, you know, what's going on, what are their

01:01backgrounds, what are they looking for, and what does this whole matchmaking process tell

01:05us about Vietnamese culture?

01:06Sounds like a plan.

01:07Hmm.

01:08Let's start with getting to know our potential couple here. So first up, we've got Nguyen Thu

01:12Lạc.

01:13Right. So he was born in 1990, comes from Le Mung.

01:16Okay.

01:16And he's a bag and backpack designer. Yeah. He's got his own manufacturing facility down in

01:21Ho Chi Minh City, and he's working with clients overseas. So that's pretty cool.

01:24Wow. That's impressive. I mean, that says a lot right there.

01:27Yeah, definitely ambitious. And it's interesting, you know, when he's introducing himself, he

01:31really highlights his personal qualities. He's like, I'm gentle, honest, hardworking, straightforward,

01:38truthful, and ambitious.

01:40Hmm. Yeah. It seems like there's a real emphasis on those kind of foundational values, more so

01:47than maybe, you know, saying like, hey, I'm rich or I have a fancy car.

01:51Right. Right. That like character and diligence. Those are the things that really matter in

01:55this context.

01:56Makes sense.

01:57And he was also pretty upfront about some things, you know, that maybe some people would try

02:01to hide. Like, he admitted that he sometimes neglects his personal well-being because of

02:05work stress.

02:06Oh, wow.

02:07And he mentioned that he smokes.

02:08Hmm. I mean, it's good that he's being honest, right?

02:11Absolutely. Transparency is always a good thing. So what about his past relationships?

02:16He mentioned one, Ryan.

02:17Yeah, he did. It sounds like it was a pretty short relationship just a few months after

02:22the pandemic with someone from his hometown. They were about the same age, but it ended

02:27because, well, she wasn't exactly honest with him.

02:30Yeah, she had another boyfriend. And he specifically used the words stubborn and dishonest to describe

02:38the same age.

02:48So yeah, you can definitely see why honesty is a huge priority for him. Makes sense. And you can see that reflected in what he's looking for in a partner, too.

02:53He wants someone who is gentle, honest, family-oriented, filial, meaning respectful to their parents, and, you know, someone with some career ambitions as well.

03:01Yeah. So someone who shares his values both personally and in terms of family. That's really important to him.

03:06Okay. So we've got a good sense of liquor. Let's move on to Nyondi Danan.

03:09Okay. So Danan. She was born in 1991, lives and works in Long Ann.

03:13And that's her hometown too, right?

03:15Yeah. So we've got a good sense of liquor. Let's move on to Nyondi Danan.

03:17Okay. So Danan. She was born in 1991, lives and works in Long Ann.

03:20Yeah. And that's her hometown too, right?

03:22Yeah. Same place. She works in an office.

03:24Cool.

03:25And she described herself as caring and good at sharing. So it seems like a warm, giving person. But she also mentioned something, well, let's just say memorable.

03:30Oh, yeah. What's that?

03:31Her cooking skills or I guess lack thereof.

03:33Oh, no.

03:34She actually has a good family. She has a good family. That's really important to her.

03:36That's really important to her.

03:37Okay. So we've got a good sense of liquor. Let's move on to Nyondi Danan.

03:39Okay. So Danan. She was born in 1991, lives and works in Long Ann.

03:42And that's her hometown too, right?

03:44Yeah. Same place. She works in an office.

03:45Cool.

03:46Or, I guess, lack thereof.

03:48Oh, no.

03:49She actually said that nobody at home will eat her cooking and she has to, like, beg them to try it.

03:54Wow. I mean, that's pretty brave to admit on a dating show. I guess she's got a good sense of humor about it.

03:59Yeah, I think so.

04:00Yeah.

04:00She even joked, you know, that she's a little short-tempered if people don't like her cooking.

04:05Although she did quickly say she'd plead, not get angry.

04:08So she can laugh at herself, which is a good sign.

04:10Definitely.

04:11But her past relationships, those sound, well, a little more complicated.

04:17Oh.

04:17She mentioned that her previous relationships have only lasted, like, three or four months.

04:21Hmm.

04:22And one of them ended because of, well, it's a bit of a confusing story.

04:27It involved her best friend, her best friend's boyfriend, and that boyfriend's friend.

04:32Wait, so she was dating the friend of her best friend's boyfriend?

04:35Yeah, something like that. And even the hosts on the show had a hard time following the story.

04:40I bet. It sounds pretty tangled.

04:42It's an impact to tụi em.

04:43Dạ, tụi em.

04:43Hai người, có hai người.

04:44Nói lại nè. Nói lại, xì lô ô xanh coi.

04:48Bạn gì?

04:49Dạ.

04:49Bạn.

04:50Cuộc bạn.

04:51Bạn trai.

04:52Dạ, bạn thân của em là quen với lại có bạn trai thì cái bạn đó là bạn của bạn trai.

05:00Thôi, thôi, thôi, thôi. Khỏi kể luôn đi, không có hiểu.

05:03Là anh A, anh B, anh binh anh A.

05:06Mà anh không có chịu binh cái cô, kêu cái cô bạn.

05:09Thôi, thôi, thôi, thôi, không hiểu. Khỏi kể luôn đi.

05:12Chào anh.

05:13Tui trong lần ngoài cổ, tui nghe tui còn mệt luôn.

05:15Hiểu, hiểu, hiểu. Hiểu chưa?

05:17Hiểu chưa?

05:19Hiểu chưa?

05:20Thà, cũng hơi rùi ạ.

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05:31Yeah, you'd think so.

05:33It's interesting, though, what she said she's looking for in a partner.

05:36She wants someone who knows how to care for the family and share responsibilities.

05:40Right. And open communication. That was really important to her.

05:43Makes sense, especially after those past relationships.

05:46Yeah, definitely.

05:47And physically, she just wants someone around her height, which is 1 m, 65 cm.

05:52Or taller.

05:54Oh, and we can't forget about the matchmakers.

05:57Right, Chu Kwanin and Kothinyok Lan.

06:00They're definitely invested in this whole process.

06:03You can see how excited they get when a couple hits it off

06:05and, you know, a little disappointed if they don't.

06:08Yeah, they're really rooting for these couples to find love.

06:11They do a good job of, you know, guiding the conversation

06:14and making everyone feel comfortable.

06:16And remember that part when Dan Ann was trying to explain her past relationship?

06:20Oh, yeah. The male host was so confused.

06:23He was like, wait, who was dating who?

06:25I know, it was hilarious.

06:27But it just goes to show, you know,

06:28sometimes our relationship histories are complicated and hard to explain.

06:33It's interesting to think about how those past experiences,

06:37even the messy ones, shape what we look for in the future.

06:40So before they actually meet, there's one more thing I noticed.

06:42Luke brought his sister-in-law with him.

06:44Oh, yeah, I do.

06:45And she was so sweet, talking about how kind he is.

06:49But she also mentioned that he was a little thin.

06:52And she kind of jokingly hoped that Dan Ann could fatten him up.

06:54He was cute.

06:55And Dan Ann, she came to the show alone.

06:57Now, that whole family involvement thing,

06:59that's a pretty significant cultural difference.

07:02Yeah.

07:02You know, in Vietnamese culture, family input is a really big deal.

07:05Makes sense.

07:06Like, getting the family's approval early on is important.

07:09Yeah, it can be a deal breaker sometimes.

07:10Yeah.

07:11So the fact that Luke brought his sister-in-law,

07:14you know, that shows how much he values her opinion.

07:16And Dan Ann coming alone, well, that could mean a lot of things.

07:20Maybe her family is less involved.

07:21Or maybe she just wanted to handle this on her own.

07:24Yeah, there could be all sorts of reasons.

07:26So moving on, they do the whole gift exchange thing,

07:28which is pretty standard on these shows.

07:30Right.

07:31And Luke, being a bag designer, gave Dan Ann a handbag.

07:35I love that.

07:36It's so fitting.

07:37And she seemed to really like it.

07:39Yeah, it was a thoughtful gift.

07:40And it also kind of subtly showcased his skills, you know?

07:43Like, hey, this is what I do.

07:45I make beautiful things.

07:46Totally.

07:47So then they start talking,

07:48and they get into some pretty important stuff.

07:50Right, right.

07:51They talked about where they lived.

07:52Which is practical.

07:53You've got to think about logistics in a relationship.

07:56Yeah.

07:56I mean, you can't have a relationship if you live, like, hours apart.

07:59Well, it makes it difficult.

08:01So she lives in Akoa, and he lives near Beanshan.

08:04Yeah.

08:04And then they talked about their work.

08:06And importantly, they discussed their expectations for, you know, responsibilities in a relationship.

08:12Which is huge.

08:13You've got to be on the same page about that stuff.

08:15Absolutely.

08:15And Luke was very clear that he's willing to share household chores.

08:20It's always a good sign.

08:21Right.

08:22And Dan Ann, while she was up front about her less-than-stellar cooking skills,

08:28she emphasized that she enjoys taking care of people.

08:31Oh, and that open communication is really important to her.

08:35Yeah, so she's definitely thinking about what makes a relationship work.

08:38It's give and take, you know?

08:39Totally.

08:40But then they had this really sweet moment where they sang a duet together.

08:43Oh, I love that.

08:44A Vietnamese love song called Tien Mung Tiena Kho.

08:48What does that mean?

08:49It translates to something like accidental love on the canal path.

08:51Oh, that's so romantic.

08:54It was a really nice way for them to, you know, connect on a different level

08:57and see if their personality is meshed, you know, outside of just answering questions.

09:01Yeah, it's more spontaneous.

09:03You can really see their chemistry or lack of chemistry in those moments.

09:07Exactly.

09:08So they had to make their decision.

09:10And the way they did it was kind of cute.

09:12Oh, yeah.

09:12How did they do it?

09:13They both closed their eyes, you know,

09:15like they were really trying to feel their heartbeats or something.

09:17Oh, it's like they were trying to tune out all the noise

09:20and just focus on their intuition.

09:22Yeah, it adds a bit of romance to the whole thing.

09:24It's not just a logical decision, you know.

09:26Right.

09:27It's about feelings, too.

09:29So what happened?

09:29Did they both press the button?

09:31Mọc.

09:36Hai.

09:39Ba.

09:41Khó thời gian.

09:44Rồi.

09:46Chính đức chúng ta đã hàn hòa với nhau.

09:47Bánh tay nhau đi nào.

09:50Và mọc nụ hôn.

09:53They did.

09:54It was a match.

09:54Oh, I love it when it works out like that.

09:57It's always nice to see people connect,

09:58even in this kind of, you know, artificial setting.

10:01Totally.

10:02And they held hands and even gave each other a little kiss on the cheek.

10:05So sweet.

10:06A good start.

10:08So being the new couple,

10:10they got a bunch of gifts, which is awesome.

10:12Oh, I love the gifts.

10:13What did they get?

10:14They got some fuquacked fish sauce.

10:17Nice.

10:17Some Lululin Japanese skincare products.

10:19Ooh, fancy.

10:20And some specialty foods from a company called Tan Mien.

10:24What kind of food?

10:25Ban Trang, which is rice paper.

10:27And Salmon Gok Ling Tea, which is a type of ginseng tea.

10:31Oh, wow.

10:32That sounds delicious.

10:33And to top it all off,

10:34they got a discount voucher for a dating skills course.

10:37Huh.

10:37That's amazing.

10:39I love that they give them that.

10:40You know, just a little extra help.

10:42Yeah, it's like the show is really invested in their success, which is nice.

10:46And then to wrap it all up, the hosts gave them their well wishes.

10:50And they use this really beautiful analogy.

10:52They compared their new relationship to a plant that needs care and attention to grow.

10:57Oh, that's so sweet.

10:58And it's so true.

11:00You know, relationships take effort.

11:02Yeah, you got to nurture them.

11:04Okay, so we've reached the end of our deep dive into this episode of Ban Mun Hun Ho.

11:11What do you think our listeners should take away from this?

11:14Well, I think it really highlights the importance of those core values that we talked about.

11:18Kindness, honesty, family.

11:21Right.

11:21Those are the things that both Luke and Dan Ann were really looking for.

11:25Exactly.

11:26But we also saw them being honest about their flaws, you know?

11:29Yeah, like Luke with his work stress and Dan Ann with her cooking.

11:32And they were open about their past relationship baggage, too.

11:36It makes them relatable.

11:37Yeah.

11:37You know, like they're not perfect, but they're looking for love just like everyone else.

11:42I think that's something we can all relate to.

11:44Absolutely.

11:44And we also saw some interesting cultural elements at play.

11:48Yeah, like the whole family involvement thing.

11:50Right.

11:50And the way they talked about practicalities, you know, like location and shared responsibilities.

11:56That was pretty interesting.

11:57It gives you a different perspective on dating in another culture.

12:00Right.

12:01And I think despite all the cultural differences, there's something universal about the desire for connection.

12:07Absolutely.

12:08The awkwardness, the hope, the search for common ground.

12:12We've all been there.

12:13Totally.

12:13So I guess the question for our listeners is, how do your own cultural norms and your own personal experiences shape your approach to dating?

12:22Yeah, that's a good one.

12:24What are the things that are most important to you in a partner?

12:27And how do you go about finding that person?

12:30It's something to think about.

12:31And maybe, you know, after watching this episode, you might even try something new.

12:34Exactly.

12:35You never know where you'll find love.

12:37All right.

12:37That's it for this week's Deep Dive.

12:39Thanks for joining us.

12:40See you next time.

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