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00:00Your poverty stems from your friends, Finance Hacked warmly greets you and our dear friends.

00:07Recently, I met someone who asked me about issues within his circle of friends.

00:13He said that there is a friend he has known for many years, yet this friend always brings

00:19negative energy. He was unsure whether he should sever the relationship.

00:24He recounted that a few years ago he had many entrepreneurial ideas, but each time this

00:31friend would dash his hopes, causing him to give up on all of them. Now, looking back,

00:38similar projects carried out by others have yielded great profits, leaving him deeply regretful.

00:46I told him that of course he should cut ties, as friends like that must be avoided.

00:51The fact that many people remain trapped in poverty is actually related to the friends

00:57they choose to associate with. The reason I speak so bluntly is because I want everyone

01:03to understand one thing, whether online or in society, if you say you like the poor,

01:10people will love you, but if you say you like the rich, they will scold you as a money grabber

01:15who despises the poor. Everyone talks about wanting to help the poor, and entrepreneurs often preach

01:23this too, but the truth is that only when you help the rich, the people with money, will your life

01:29improve, giving you the opportunity to advance and become wealthy. After all, only those with money

01:36have the capability to pay for your intellect and labour. Therefore, this is not me being pragmatic,

01:43it is simply the reality. If you want to escape poverty, first you must change the value system

01:51that has brainwashed you for so many years. Today, I want to speak about a topic that can affect

01:57everyone's life, making friends. This applies not only to finding a boyfriend or girlfriend,

02:05but also to choosing close friends and even your clients. If you are single and looking for love,

02:11you must watch this entire video. If you are just beginning to learn how to make money or are

02:18venturing into entrepreneurship without much success, you should definitely watch till the end,

02:25because the latter half of this video might change your destiny. But before we get into the main content,

02:33I want to emphasise that this channel specialises in sharing the wealth-building mindset for entrepreneurs,

02:38investors, investors, and those aspiring for wealth. If you want to receive this knowledge for free,

02:46please subscribe to my channel and turn on notifications. I sincerely wish that anyone

02:53who likes this video will soon achieve financial freedom. If this video is useful, I hope you will not

03:01hesitate to share it so that many others can benefit. Without further ado, let's get straight to the main

03:08issue. First of all, you must understand the importance of your environment. Everyone wants

03:15to become a millionaire or billionaire. Everyone desires financial freedom, but that is just the

03:22result. Many people hope that their income will increase three to five times, but that too is merely the

03:30result. So, where do results come from? Results come from behavior. Behavior creates results. My behavior

03:42creates my life. Jack Ma's behavior produced his results. So, where does behavior come from?

03:52Behavior originates from mindset. Mindset determines behavior and behavior determines results.

04:02A person is poor because they possess a poor mindset. Robert Kiyosaki used the images of the rich dad

04:10and the poor dad to illustrate this point. Within each of us, there exist two types of mindsets,

04:17one is that of the rich and the other is that of the poor. If you follow the poor dad's mindset,

04:24you will remain poor, but if you follow the rich dad's mindset, you will become wealthy.

04:31For example, when you are doing something and face a major challenge, the poor mindset will say,

04:38you can't do it, you don't have the capability. If you listen to that, you'll give up and live a

04:44negative life. Yet, inside you there is another voice, a positive one, that says, believe in yourself,

04:53you can do it. Ultimately, whichever voice you choose to heed is the person you will become.

05:01How do the poor mindset and the rich mindset differ? A poor person sees a designer bag and says,

05:08I can't afford it, while a rich person sees it and thinks, how can I buy it? When the poor say I can't

05:17afford it, they immediately fall into a negative mindset, become insecure, and remain poor because

05:24they dare not act. Meanwhile, when a rich person wants something, they think positively, what do I

05:31need to do to buy it? And then find ways to earn money through selling, entrepreneurship, and investing.

05:40They take action to earn money and achieve their goals. The poor often say, I don't have money to

05:48start a business. What if I lose money? That is the poor mindset. So what about the rich?

05:57Ask Jack Ma before he started his business, did he have money? He said he did not.

06:06So what should he do? He said, then start a business. If you ask, what if you lose money?

06:15He replied, what if you don't earn any money? Do you see what I mean? The mindsets of the poor and

06:24the rich are completely opposite because mindset is formed by the environment. Remember this,

06:31the environment determines your mindset, the mindset determines your behavior, and behavior

06:37determines the outcome. For example, in Asia many people study English for a long time without

06:43becoming proficient, but what if you were taken to England? Without needing to study. You would

06:51naturally know how to speak from a young age. I believe that anyone can immediately understand

06:58this because the environment has changed. So, do you know why you are still poor? Because

07:06all the friends around you are poor, all possessing the poor mindset. Being around them only makes

07:13you poorer. Only when you step into a new environment can you change your destiny.

07:20That year, I spent a lot of money to attend courses on making money. In one class, I heard a saying that

07:28miraculously changed my life. It's better to be poor in a group of rich people than to be rich in a group

07:36of poor people. Because if you are rich among the poor, you will gradually become poorer,

07:42but if you are poor among the rich, you will gradually become wealthier. In other words,

07:49whoever you keep company with, you will become like them. So, what kind of people should we associate

07:55with? You must definitely stay with people who possess a rich mindset. Firstly, they have tangible

08:04results, they are truly wealthy, without dispute. If they started from nothing and earned millions or

08:11tens of millions of dollars, they are certainly worth learning from. Secondly, even if they do not

08:19currently have money, they have a positive mindset. Are full of energy, have dreams, the ambition to start

08:27a business, and a pioneering spirit. These are exactly the people who possess a rich mindset.

08:34So, which kind of people should you not associate with? Firstly, those who are poor, heavily indebted,

08:44and always carry negative energy. When you say you have dreams, they claim you're being deceived,

08:51when you say you're studying, they say you're being brainwashed. This type of person must be avoided at all

08:59costs. If you stay near them, your energy will only be dragged down. Whenever you have a dream,

09:07they will join forces to douse your enthusiasm. Remember this, those who always douse your dreams

09:15are the ones who have no dreams. If you befriend them and constantly interact, you will surely be

09:23affected, and if you choose someone like that as your life partner, then congratulations, your life

09:29is essentially over, and you should never dream of becoming rich. I am not threatening you, this is the

09:37truth, not a joke. In life, the choices we make are far more important than mere effort. If effort alone

09:47was enough for success, then construction workers, who work the hardest, would be the richest people

09:53in the world, but that is not the case. Remember, in life there are for most important choices.

10:02The first choice is selecting the right life partner. If a woman chooses the wrong man, her life is

10:09essentially ruined. If a man chooses the wrong wife, not only is his life ruined, but it also affects

10:16three generations of his ancestors. Many people, before finding the right partner, had nothing.

10:25History is full of examples of emperors who started from nothing, Liu Bang, Liu Bei, and Zhu Yuanjong.

10:34Anyone who understands history surely knows that Liu Bang, before marrying Liu Shi, was nothing more than

10:41an unknown wanderer, but after marrying her he immediately became the founding emperor of the

10:47Han dynasty. Liu Bei fought for over 30 years without securing a fixed territory, but after marrying

10:55Lady Sun he captured Jingju and established the Shu Han state. Zhu Yu Anjong married Ma Xiuying and rose

11:03from a humble background to establish the Ming dynasty. Secondly, choose the right environment.

11:09Who you are doesn't matter as much as the environment you're in because that environment will determine

11:16the future you become. People should associate with others who have similar intelligence and

11:22capabilities. If the disparity is too great, they will feel slighted by anything you do, and you will

11:30feel disadvantaged. The poorer one is, the more sensitive and easily hurt they become, even before anything

11:38begins, you already have to expend effort to console them. Whether in daily communication or in marriage,

11:47never choose someone who is too far removed from you. The rich should not love the poor, that is a natural

11:54law. Anyone who violates this law will face misfortune. A beautiful but poor girl, if she marries a rich man,

12:04is essentially having her genes bought, not her mindset. But the poor's mindset is like spiritual

12:12pollution, potentially negatively affecting the rich's mindset. Between them, there is always a

12:20difference as stark as water and fire, making it very difficult to harmonize. Both sides find each other

12:28extremely unpleasant. Mutual compatibility is not only about economic conditions but more importantly about

12:36similarity in spirit and mindset. If not, life will become extremely miserable. If a rich person

12:45socializes with a poor person, in most cases, they will be taken advantage of. Furthermore, poor people

12:54often have a strong sense of pride, they are prone to look down on the rich due to their wounded self-esteem.

13:02Therefore, rich people generally do not want to associate with the poor because most of them only

13:07bring loss. Rich people should associate with those who have similar intelligence and mindsets,

13:14with a relatively balanced level of wealth, so that the relationship is worthwhile.

13:19Additionally, there is another case, both parties must understand the principle of equivalent exchange.

13:28Meaning that you receive as much as you put in. But only the wise truly understand this mindset,

13:36most do not grasp this principle. I have met many people on social media and interacted with thousands.

13:42There are those whom, no matter how much I help, cannot change, but there are also individuals who

13:51quietly follow guidance and succeed spectacularly without needing support, earning billions a year.

13:59Gradually, I understood one thing, it is all destiny, one must acknowledge fate rather than force it with

14:05human strength. Truly talented individuals always act in accordance with the times.

14:14Deoist philosophy does not emphasize human effort, while Confucian philosophy emphasizes human endeavor.

14:22Taoism represents the wisdom of nature, Confucianism the wisdom of the secular world,

14:28while Buddhism merely smiles and says,

14:30Do whatever you want, success or failure is just a trivial matter.

14:37Thirdly, choose the right mentor.

14:40The caliber of a teacher will determine the achievements of their students.

14:46Everyone needs a mentor to guide them.

14:49You learn to walk because someone teaches you, no one is born knowing how to walk.

14:54You learn to speak because someone instructs you, no one is born knowing how to talk.

15:02You learn to read thanks to someone teaching you, no one is born knowing how to read.

15:09So, what about making money?

15:12Did anyone teach you that?

15:15No, because from the start your parents did not know how to make money, so how could they teach you?

15:21All the teachers in school are employees, they can only teach you how to become a good employee.

15:29Therefore, you must find someone who can teach you how to start a business,

15:34how to invest, and how to become rich starting from nothing.

15:38Why do I always share these things?

15:41Because I have benefited from them.

15:44I want to share this knowledge to help more people.

15:48It's truly that simple.

15:49Fourth, choose the right customers.

15:53This is the key factor that determines whether you can become wealthy or not.

15:59Running a business without filtering your customers is like running with your eyes closed,

16:04extremely dangerous.

16:07The ability to protect assets is always many times greater than the ability to earn money.

16:12Most people only realise that asset protection is far more important after experiencing bankruptcy several times.

16:22It is easy to start a business, but hard to sustain it.

16:26People at a higher level do not do business with newcomers.

16:31They only work with those who already have a solid career because these people are already rich,

16:37possess many assets, and have strong networks, making business with them more profitable.

16:43Different environments and positions yield completely different values and assets.

16:49The choice is a hundred times more important than effort.

16:55If you still do not believe this, it proves that your vision is too narrow.

17:01Doing business without filtering customers is like running blindfolded, very dangerous.

17:06If you cannot understand the differences among customer groups,

17:11you will continually face difficulties in your business journey.

17:16Serve only the deserving customers.

17:20Don't take on every customer, some only waste your time or even cause trouble,

17:25so you don't need to serve them.

17:28A novice entrepreneur often accepts any customer.

17:32This is a rudimentary level and a foolish choice.

17:36Every customer has a completely different value, with significant disparities in quality.

17:44You must focus on quality customers and build a filtering system to attract only premium clients.

17:52Not only must our services be excellent,

17:54but the customers must also meet certain standards in order for a partnership to be viable.

18:00Not everyone who pays is a good customer, some only bring major inconveniences.

18:08If you serve them, they will cause trouble, complain, and even slander you, such is their nature.

18:16What you need to do is identify such people and keep them at a distance.

18:20Remember, not everyone's money is worth earning.

18:25Just as in love and marriage.

18:28It's not only necessary to become outstanding yourself, but also to choose a worthy partner,

18:35otherwise, your life will fall into tragedy.

18:38For example, you know that starting on YouTube is an inevitable trend of our times,

18:45just like those who were pioneers in real estate or e-commerce.

18:50You want to switch to learning about YouTube,

18:53but your girlfriend says that YouTube is merely an experimental field and very difficult to succeed in.

18:59That remark extinguished the flame of enthusiasm within you.

19:05A few years later, you break up with her because you realize the two of you are not compatible.

19:11At that moment, you look back and see that all those who ventured into YouTube became wealthy

19:17while you are filled with regret.

19:20This is the power of choice.

19:23There are many such stories.

19:25Now, you need to understand that the gap between people is not only about differences in mindset,

19:33personality, or intelligence, but also about boundaries that cannot be crossed.

19:40Don't try to make everyone understand you, you only need to find those who share your vision.

19:46An intelligent person must first learn to distinguish who is worth befriending and who should be avoided,

19:52because the relationships you build will determine your fate.

19:57Not everyone is qualified to be your customer.

20:00Customers are the connectors.

20:03If the connection is wrong, you will encounter trouble.

20:07On the contrary, the right connection will elevate you.

20:11Do not interact with unsuitable people, and do not serve those who are not worthy.

20:16If you do not set standards for filtering customers, you will be surrounded by poor quality,

20:24low-level customers, causing inconvenience and depleting both your spirit and finances.

20:31Even so, you might encounter fools, it's best not to mind them, nor to admonish them to avoid

20:37pointless debates, don't argue with fools, as it really isn't worth it.

20:43Let them think as they please.

20:45If you work with high-end customers, you will grow wealthier and enjoy a more favourable life.

20:53Focus on major deals that yield high profits.

20:58Remember that how you price your product is also a way to segment your customers.

21:04If you choose the wrong group, your life will hit a dead end.

21:08There is always a clear difference between people, don't let those who are unworthy cling to you.

21:13If you don't know how to filter customers and cannot do business with high-quality clients,

21:20your life will be full of difficulties.

21:23Don't waste time serving low-quality customers, because not only will you fail to make money,

21:29you'll also incur high risks, ethical issues, disputes, and even lawsuits may arise.

21:36Meanwhile, high-quality customers not only help you earn more money but also bring comfort to your work.

21:45So, what do you choose?

21:47A person of virtue will associate with others of virtue.

21:53Befriending the right people will help you minimise energy drain.

21:58Some people will deplete your life, but there are those who will help you grow.

22:03Effort is not as important as choice.

22:07Serve those who are of a higher calibre and don't try to teach those who are unwilling to learn.

22:12We only collaborate with and lead those who have the right worldview.

22:19Such people are few.

22:21Choose carefully and do not hastily include someone with a distorted mindset in your team.

22:26It will be a disaster.

22:29Don't think you can get close to mud without smelling it.

22:33Or assume you won't be affected by those with misguided thoughts.

22:37I'm sorry, but you will definitely be influenced.

22:43Conversely, if you surround yourself with good people, they will have a positive impact on you.

22:50Therefore, we should only associate with those who have sound values and immediately block out those who are unsuitable.

22:59The art of working is not as important as the art of choosing the right people.

23:03A leader initially has to learn how to work, but with experience, they move into the phase of choosing people, including selecting partners and customers.

23:16Anyone who lets emotions overwhelm them in choosing people will face misfortune throughout life.

23:23A good leader must always remain rational and proactive.

23:26People certainly have desires, but lust is the greatest barrier to an organization's development.

23:35When some people have overly strong desires, the overall balance is affected.

23:42If you continually indulge someone, they will become arrogant until they turn conceited, foolish, and their greed overshadows their rationality,

23:51leaving them to indulge while forgetting themselves.

23:54When there are too many people, everything becomes a game of envy.

24:01Everyone tries to play the roles they desire, everyone sings their own tale of tragic melodrama,

24:07everyone lets emotions take over, and everyone identifies with sorrow.

24:13Many people believe that their lack of success is due to insufficient capability or intellect.

24:19But in reality, the issue lies in their value system.

24:25A correct value system brings happiness, whereas a flawed one only brings disaster.

24:32First, discuss your value system and then move on to business.

24:38If there is agreement, we can continue to discuss further, if not, then there is no need to debate.

24:44Not everyone who gives you money is a customer you should serve.

24:50Only do business with those who are courteous and understanding.

24:54Those who are unworthy, you need not earn money from them.

24:58Many might ask, doesn't that mean you'll earn less money?

25:02Not at all, on the contrary, you will have customers who are rational, easy to work with,

25:09require low service costs, and communicate effectively.

25:13Alignment is very important.

25:15The distance between people is not as simple as the distance between a monkey and a human.

25:20It is a huge difference in psychology and perception.

25:24Each person lives in a different world, with only superficial similarities.

25:31Do not befriend fools, nor respond to their insults.

25:35Doing so is not only meaningless but may also invite disaster upon you.

25:41The natural world is inherently very harsh.

25:45Humans cannot live without affection, and neither can society.

25:49This warmth is the thread that connects us and also the beauty of life.

25:55But overall, we must respect the laws of nature, where only those who adapt can survive.

26:02Stay away from those with narrow mindsets, for they do not even recognize their own mistakes

26:08and will drag you down with them.

26:11You must definitely keep your distance from petty people, the unlucky, and the evil.

26:17Don't think you can control them, instead, cultivate yourself.

26:23You cannot subdue them, just like jumping into lava only to seek a path to death.

26:30A noble person never risks associating with petty individuals.

26:35Friendship is not a joke, and I am not joking with you.

26:40Always be cautious and give your utmost effort.

26:43Choose friends who either have achievements or dreams, and most importantly,

26:50those with a financial mindset.

26:53That is the standard for choosing friends.

26:57Befriend wealthy people, choose those who have achieved results in life,

27:02and accompany those with dreams, passionate ideals, and relentless progress.

27:07Frankly speaking, choose positive people to be your friends,

27:13avoid negative ones, for with them you will be dragged down.

27:18Conversely, if you surround yourself with righteous people,

27:22they will lift you to a new level.

27:25This is the truth.

27:27I hope today's insights will help everyone.

27:30Whether it's choosing a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, or simply a friend.

27:39Selecting the right person is extremely important.

27:43Remember that no one can become rich without changing their circle of relationships.

27:48If you don't want to miss any free information on how to become wealthy,

27:53an entrepreneur, an investor, and achieve financial freedom,

27:58subscribe to my channel, turn on notifications, and share this video.

28:04I sincerely wish all those who liked this video to soon achieve financial freedom.

28:09As long as you find one or two useful sayings in today's content that you can apply to improve your life,

28:17I will consider it fulfilling.

28:20Goodbye and see you next time.

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