00:00There used to be one love expert in my school, class 12th, and that was the time when the hormones were raging and people were pouncing on girls left, right, center.
00:09But after just 3, 4, 5 days of meeting, talking, dating, she's gone.
00:14So this love expert would then come up with the most invaluable advice.
00:18He would say have sex as quickly as possible.
00:20Then she will go nowhere.
00:21One would feel like laughing at him.
00:23But in the context of this, you understand where he was coming from.
00:27Once there is physical intimacy, attachment grows.
00:31The fellow was not altogether a fool.
00:33Maybe he was not coming from the Gita.
00:34Wherever he was coming from, some place of heuristics or wherever, or some slimy magazine he read something from, he had a point.
00:41The more is the time you have spent with someone, even if in a forced way, even if due to sheer randomness of circumstances,
00:50the more will be the time you will now want to spend with that person.
00:53This is attachment.
00:54When we hear of it this way, it sounds so stupid.
00:57But we experience it and patronize it daily in our lives.
01:01Attachment is often what explains arranged marriage, typically.
01:05No, not that you are in love.
01:06The marriage has lasted.
01:08The marriage continues to roll on because now the two of you are attached.
