Skip to playerSkip to main contentSkip to footer
  • 5/23/2025
Mom RUINS Son's Relationship On VALENTINE'S DAY, What Happens Is Shocking | Illumeably
Transcript
00:00Relax, relax. You know, I can promise we can go out to dinner after, okay?
00:04Okay, fine. But I just don't understand why we have to spend every Valentine's Day at your mom's house.
00:12You know how she feels? And she loves all of us hanging out every year.
00:16Yeah, but that was before we were dating. I mean, we've been together for four years,
00:21and we still have to come here every Valentine's Day, every anniversary, Carlos.
00:27I just want to do something with you.
00:31I promise you, I'll make it up to you, okay? We'll be out before you know it, and we'll go celebrate.
00:38Just you and me. And I may have gotten you a little something.
00:46I couldn't order it on my account because we share a credit card, but luckily, you know, my mom ordered it for you.
00:52Well, that's sweet. You know I love surprises.
01:00I am happy to be spending Valentine's Day with you, regardless of where we are or with what we're doing.
01:11Oh, sweetie!
01:13Mama!
01:13Oh, my gushy, mushy donut! It's been so long!
01:19Oh, I know. I missed you. You look so good.
01:22Happy Valentine's Day!
01:24Happy Valentine's Day, Mama!
01:27Oh, I forgot. I've got to go grab something from the car. I'll be right back, okay?
01:31Oh, my God.
01:35Oh, my God.
01:35Hi, happy Valentine's Day!
01:37Huh. Hi, I didn't even see you.
01:42I must be, um...
01:43I must be getting old.
01:45I mean, I definitely don't remember inviting anyone that wasn't a family member.
01:50Oh, Carlos actually invited me. I thought he mentioned it to you.
01:54No, he didn't.
01:56Actually, he never mentions anything about you at all.
01:59Oh, well, that's strange.
02:01I got you some flowers.
02:06Oh, roses!
02:08Oh, no!
02:11They're so lovely.
02:13What kind of flowers did you get, Rosa?
02:15Oh, I actually got sunflowers this morning.
02:19One of my favorites.
02:21Thank God.
02:22Sunflowers compared to roses.
02:25Roses are so much better.
02:27You obviously love me more.
02:30Hey, um, babe.
02:33Uh, yeah, maybe we should all go inside and, um, you know, all hang out.
02:36That would be great.
02:38Yeah.
02:39Definitely.
02:40Except for the we.
02:44Come on.
02:54Here, sweetie, I made you some coffee.
02:56Thanks so much, Mama.
02:57Oh, Rosa, do you want any?
02:59I would love some coffee, sure.
03:02Actually, I'm a huge coffee lover, and Carlos was telling me that you make the world's best
03:07cup of coffee, so I've been dying to try it.
03:10Well, I'm really sorry, sweetie.
03:12We just ran out of milk.
03:14I didn't know that you were a real coffee lover.
03:17I mean, Carlos hardly tells me anything about you.
03:21Well, I mean...
03:23Oh, are you two actually really serious?
03:28Um...
03:29Well, um, I know I'm...
03:33He's my first boyfriend, and, uh, might seem new to you, but, um, we've actually really enjoyed
03:42the last few years together.
03:44It's been great.
03:44Right, babe?
03:45Uh, sweetie, I want you to remember that I was actually Carlos' first girlfriend.
03:51I am his mom.
03:53Mom, you really are funny, but I'm really happy Rosa is in my life now.
04:02Okay, did you happen to get that thing I asked you to get?
04:11Oh, yes, I did.
04:18It is so gorgeous.
04:20I cannot believe you got this for me.
04:23You really didn't have to.
04:25It's so expensive.
04:28That was kind of for Rosa.
04:30Rosa, that's her Valentine's Day surprise.
04:33What?
04:35What?
04:36Babe, you got me Louis Vuitton?
04:39What?
04:39Wait, wait, what about your mom?
04:42Uh, did, didn't you get me anything?
04:44I, I mean...
04:45I didn't know you wanted something like this, Mom.
04:46Of course I, I did.
04:47Aren't I important?
04:49I am your mom.
04:50Yeah, but I am kind of his girlfriend.
04:52Okay, everyone just needs to relax a little bit.
04:58Mom, if you like that so much, why don't you keep it?
05:01And Rosa, I will.
05:03Really?
05:04She's something better.
05:06Oh, thank you, honey.
05:08You are the best son ever.
05:10I'm so lucky to have you.
05:12So beautiful.
05:14So, Mom, what are your plans for the rest of today?
05:18Um, well, actually, honey, I'm just, I'm so lonely without you.
05:24My, really nothing.
05:26My whole world has been built around you, and then, then you move.
05:30Look, I know it's been hard, but maybe you gotta, maybe you gotta branch out, you know?
05:38Kind of like, take yourself on a few dates, you know?
05:41Maybe take yourself on a nice spa date, maybe one day go to dinner, maybe go to the movies afterward.
05:47That sounds great.
05:48I have an idea.
05:48How about we go out to dinner tonight and celebrate Valentine's Day?
05:53Or, I can make you a dinner here.
05:55That would be great.
05:58You're wonderful, huh?
05:59I would love that, but, you know, I already, I already made plans with Rosa.
06:03Yeah, I, um, I actually got us a reservation at this really nice restaurant up here.
06:08Well, can't you just cancel it?
06:11I mean, it is Valentine's Day, and I hardly ever get to see my son.
06:17And, you have more time to spend with him, and I want to be with you today.
06:22For this special day.
06:24Just cancel it.
06:26What do you think, Carlos?
06:29Should I cancel it?
06:32Well, I think it's whatever you think, baby.
06:40I, my mom cooks a really, really good meatloaf, and I know...
06:45That would be great.
06:47That would be wonderful.
06:48I could do that.
06:49And, um, you know what, if you have some friends you want to go hang out with and celebrate Valentine's night tonight, that would be great, too.
06:59Oh, thank you for that idea, but I will actually pass.
07:03I would so much rather stay here with Carlos.
07:07Wonderful.
07:07Hey, uh, could I please talk to you in the other room?
07:13Okay.
07:14Go.
07:14Yes.
07:14So, do you think with the meatloaf, since we're staying, we can have the scalloped potatoes like we used to?
07:18I have all of that to make for you.
07:21Now?
07:22Yeah.
07:22Yeah, now.
07:23Okay.
07:25Thanks, babe.
07:25Yeah.
07:27Can we have the chives, too?
07:28Get over.
07:29Hey, what's the matter?
07:37Was it the meatloaf?
07:39I mean, we can always do macaroni and cheese.
07:41It's not about the meatloaf.
07:43What's wrong, Rosa?
07:45What's wrong?
07:47Are you kidding me?
07:48Is this about dinner?
07:49Yeah!
07:50Of course it's about dinner.
07:52I'm mad about this entire situation.
07:55Every year for Valentine's Day, we have to come spend it with your mom.
07:58All I wanted was to have one day alone with you,
08:02and I went and made this reservation for us at the most amazing restaurant on the pier.
08:09Rosa, look, it's just dinner.
08:13Okay?
08:13It can be rescheduled.
08:14You're making a big deal out of all of this.
08:16Like, aren't you having fun here?
08:18No.
08:19No, I actually am not.
08:21It makes me so uncomfortable when your mom makes those strange comments about how she
08:30was your first girlfriend right in front of me.
08:33It's so weird.
08:36And how you have to do everything for her exactly the way that you do it for me with the flowers
08:41and the gift.
08:42Do you not realize that that's strange?
08:45Look, I don't think she meant the comments like that.
08:49And she just wants the same love and affection I give to you.
08:52Right.
08:53And that's not normal.
08:55I just, I feel like I'm competing with your mom for your love.
09:01And I just don't get how you don't understand.
09:04Look, it's not a competition.
09:06Like, a lot of the stuff that sounds like it's stuff in your own head that you need to
09:11fix on your own, don't bring it out to my mom and ruin her Valentine's Day.
09:15Oh, fine.
09:18Forget it.
09:20Forget our dinner.
09:22Forget our Valentine's Day.
09:24I clearly was the person who cared about this more anyway.
09:29You know what?
09:30This whole situation is really draining me.
09:33I need you to go ahead and fix this on your own before you come out, okay?
09:38I'll see you out there in a loop.
09:39Mama!
09:39Mama!
09:50Mama!
09:51Is everything all right, sweetie?
09:55You seem a little tense.
09:58Well, Rosa and I got into a little argument.
10:02She feels like she's competing with you for my love or something.
10:04Well, obviously, it's not a competition.
10:08I would win.
10:09I mean, I'm the mom.
10:12I don't know.
10:13It's just...
10:14She needs to know where I'm coming from.
10:16It's just really frustrating that...
10:18Oh, you know what?
10:19I think you both need a break.
10:22Why don't you move back in here with me for a bit?
10:26Thanks, Mom.
10:26But I think we really need to work this out.
10:28Like, I really want to make her my wife one day.
10:31And I even plan on taking her to this fancy resort and...
10:33Whoa, wait.
10:35Your wife?
10:37That's just...
10:38No, isn't it a little too soon?
10:40I mean, that sounds crazy.
10:42I mean, she doesn't even fit in with this family.
10:45A resort?
10:47I mean, you never even take me anywhere.
10:49And I'm home alone all the time while you're out having fun with her.
10:52We've been dating for so long.
10:54Not long enough.
10:55She's obviously jealous of our relationship.
10:58You know what?
10:59Hmm?
10:59I think I've got an idea.
11:02Yeah.
11:03Good.
11:04Break up with her and move back home with me.
11:06Or maybe you go ahead and talk to her.
11:09You know, take some time.
11:11I'll go ahead and cook dinner.
11:12I'm pretty sure I've got the recipe down at this point.
11:15So you guys go ahead and hang out.
11:17Get to know each other.
11:18Okay, okay.
11:19That's a good idea.
11:19Yeah.
11:20I have something I want to talk to her about anyway.
11:21Yeah, Mom.
11:29Oh, Rosa.
11:36Rosa?
11:38Do you want to come help me with gardening?
11:41Hi.
11:42Maybe we can spend some time and get to know each other a little better.
11:45Oh, yeah.
11:46Actually, sure.
11:47That sounds great.
11:48I'll be out in a minute.
11:49Okay.
11:50Great.
11:55Hi, Jessica.
11:57I know it's been a long time.
12:01Yeah, Carlos is in town.
12:03And I just thought maybe you might want to come over for an early dinner.
12:10That would be great.
12:12Okay, wear something nice.
12:15I'll see you at six.
12:17Hi, Maria.
12:24So, what can I help you with?
12:28You can start by staying out of my son's life.
12:33I'm sorry, what?
12:38You've done nothing but bring him down.
12:41Clearly, you don't know your place here.
12:43He used to do everything with me.
12:50And he would give me all kinds of attention.
12:53And now he does everything for you.
12:55Excuse me.
13:00I honestly don't know why you have so many issues with me.
13:04I mean, all I want is to take care of your son.
13:09And that's all I've done for him.
13:11And I thought you wanted him to be happy.
13:14I did.
13:15But not with you.
13:16I am my son's favorite.
13:19Not you.
13:20So stop thinking that this is a competition because...
13:24I already won, sweetheart.
13:26I literally can't believe this.
13:46Hi, sweetheart.
13:47Do you like my dress?
13:48Ooh, Mom.
13:50It looks nice.
13:51How'd it go?
13:52It was interesting.
13:54You know, I tried to start a conversation.
13:57But she is just too troubled about our relationship.
14:01Yeah, I just don't know what to say when she gets that way.
14:05It's...
14:06I don't know.
14:08Hey, babe.
14:10It was definitely hot out there.
14:12Could you get me some water, please?
14:13Yeah, sure.
14:14Oh, me too, sweetheart.
14:16I'm dying of thirst.
14:18Yeah, here, Mom.
14:22Here, babe.
14:25So I went ahead and made us some dinner.
14:28I went ahead and set the table as well.
14:29So if, you know, we can go ahead and sit down, eat,
14:32and then, babe, afterwards, we can head out.
14:34That sounds great.
14:34Actually, I've invited someone to join us for dinner.
14:40I'll get the door.
14:42I didn't know you invited someone for dinner.
14:46Anyways, so I made your favorite.
14:48No meatloaf.
14:49I couldn't find anything but a mac and cheese.
14:53Wow.
14:54Yeah, I remembered it was your favorite.
14:55It smells amazing.
14:59Alrighty, so let's go ahead and get everything set.
15:01Who she's bringing over, but...
15:02Do you want me to grab anything?
15:04No, I think this is the last of it.
15:09Surprise!
15:11Jessica?
15:12Hi, Carlos.
15:15Wow.
15:15You look better than when I remembered.
15:20Oh, um, I'm sorry.
15:22Jessica, as in your ex?
15:26Jessica?
15:27What's she doing here?
15:28I don't know.
15:30What are you even doing here?
15:31I invited her.
15:36Yes, your mom told me that you missed me, and I missed you too.
15:42And, you know, I know that we broke up or whatever, but, you know, thankfully your mom said you're single and ready to mingle.
15:50And I think, come on, Carlos, look at me.
15:52Hmm?
15:54What?
15:55I have a girlfriend.
15:58I'm not single.
15:59I mean, look at her.
15:59Hello!
16:00Well, I know, but, um, she doesn't really count.
16:04And besides, I mean, don't you remember the good times we would have?
16:08And you and Jessica are meant to be together.
16:11I mean, don't take any offense, Rosa.
16:15Actually, go ahead.
16:16Take the offense.
16:17Okay!
16:18That's it!
16:19I can't take this!
16:23I, I am, I'm leaving.
16:25I genuinely cannot do this anymore!
16:29First of all, your mom basically told me outside that I'm not any good for you,
16:34and that your life was way better before I was even in it,
16:38that she's always going to win this stupid competition we're in.
16:42Wait, I thought you guys had a good time gardening.
16:44Yeah!
16:45Yeah, that's, that's what I thought the plan was, but apparently not.
16:49Look, I don't want to be caught up between you and your mom, Carlos, and now your ex.
16:56Look, you are an adult, and the fact that your mom has crossed so many boundaries today,
17:05and you refused to stand up for me or even listen to how I felt is extremely hurtful.
17:10Look, I just wanted to have a Valentine's Day that was special between the two of us,
17:21where we could celebrate almost five years of dating,
17:25and instead we have to spend every Valentine's Day at your mom's house.
17:30And you just blamed me for wanting it to be different.
17:34Do you see this behavior, Carlos?
17:37This is ridiculous.
17:40Just ridiculous.
17:41She is doing everything literally she can to break up this family and come between the both of us.
17:46Just really stupid.
17:48But listen, I am his mom, and I will always come first.
17:55I am his priority, and if we can't see eye to eye on that,
17:59then you will just have to leave this house.
18:04Okay, what?
18:04No, Rosa, please don't go.
18:09And mom, you need to stop.
18:14First of all, inviting my ex to this Valentine's Day dinner was wrong.
18:22It's not okay when you put everyone in such an uncomfortable situation.
18:30I love Rosa.
18:32I love you too.
18:34I love you differently.
18:38You can't keep comparing me and putting me in the middle anymore.
18:41Rosa's going to be my wife one day,
18:43and there needs to be priorities and boundaries reset.
18:48You need to start being happy for us instead of being jealous whenever I get something for Rosa or take her out.
18:56She's a priority too.
18:59I know it was you and me when we were growing up,
19:02but that's not how it is anymore.
19:07And you need to realize that you can't always be that person for me.
19:15I love Rosa.
19:18I want her to be a part of this family,
19:21and I want you to start treating her like she's part of that family.
19:26And I don't want her to feel like she has to compete for my love.
19:32Because she doesn't.
19:38For finally standing up for me.
19:42I never meant to mess anything up or come between you guys.
19:50But I am part of his life.
19:53And we're going to have to figure out how to work this out so we can all be happy.
19:59Well, this is a little bit awkward.
20:06So I'm just going to leave and let you two lovebirds figure it out.
20:12Mama, it was nice to see you.
20:14I'm out of here.
20:15Thank you for that observation, Jessica.
20:18Um, I guess I am really sorry.
20:25I, um, it's going to take me some time to get used to having another woman
20:32in my son's life that share the kind of importance that he's always giving me with someone else.
20:40But, um, you really are an amazing young lady.
20:48And my son is really lucky to have you.
20:53So, um, I'm really sorry that I wasn't more supportive.
20:58And haven't been welcoming.
21:00I'm really, really going to try to work on that.
21:04Um, why don't, why don't the two of you go out to a really nice place?
21:10Nice restaurant and have dessert and there's still some wonderful hours left tonight.
21:18So, go celebrate Valentine's Day.
21:21Um, go have a good time.
21:24Sounds good.
21:24Okay.
21:25Yeah.
21:25I'll give you a call later.
21:26Yeah, for sure.
21:28Okay.
21:29Oh, I'm so sorry.
21:31I know you care about Carlos so much and I do too.
21:35So I'm glad we can all work together and spend time without the fighting.
21:40Okay, okay.
21:41Welcome to the family.
21:45All right.
21:46Let's go.
21:46Happy Valentine's Day.
21:47Happy Valentine's Day.
21:49I'm welcome.
21:55I love you, Mom.
21:56Hey, Illumably fam.
22:01Thank you for watching that video.
22:03At Illumably, our mission is to bring light back into the world.
22:06And with you, there's nothing we can do.
22:08Thank you for watching everyone.
22:10And we'll see you guys in the next video.
22:12Wait, I'm supposed to say that.
22:13Oops.
22:14See you next time.
22:15Bye.
22:16Bye.
22:17Bye.
22:18Bye.
22:19Bye.
22:20Bye.
22:21Bye.
22:22Bye.
22:23Bye.
22:24Bye.
22:25Bye.
22:26Bye.
22:27Bye.
22:28Bye.
22:29Bye.
22:30Bye.
22:31Bye.
22:32Bye.
22:33Bye.
22:34Bye.
22:35Bye.
22:36Bye.
22:37Bye.
22:38Bye.
22:39Bye.
22:40Bye.
22:41Bye.
22:42Bye.

Recommended