Good Morning Pakistan | 20 May 2025 | ARY Digital - video Dailymotion

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Host: Nida Yasir   Special Guests: Rubina Ashraf, Ghazal Siddique, Dr Bilquis   Good Morning Pakistan is your first source of entertainment as soon as you wake up in the morning, keeping you energized for the rest of the day.   Timing: Every Monday – Friday at 9:00 AM on ARY Digital.   #goodmorningpakistan #nidayasir #arydigitalshow #arydigital #toppakistanishow   #rubinaashraf #ghazalsiddique

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00:00:00Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu

00:00:04Yeh subhah jo aayi hai, teri bhalke chhumke

00:00:09Haan maat saar chhumke, haan gol gol ghumke

00:00:18Yon aise muskuraayi hai, yeh subhah jo aayi hai

00:00:23Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu

00:00:28Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu

00:00:33Yon gun guna rahi hai woh, sabko jaga rahi hai woh

00:00:38Haan phool leke choch mein, jo chidiya chah chahayi hai

00:00:47Dhuli dhuli, khuli khuli, hai usme dhuli dhuli

00:00:52Zara zara chil puli, sharaar toh mein hai ghuli

00:00:56Subhah jo aayi hai

00:01:03Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu, Ritu

00:01:08Good morning Pakistan

00:01:11Assalam-o-Alaikum, good morning, good morning Pakistan

00:01:15Kya haal hai, kaise hai aap?

00:01:17Cheek chaak kaisi guzar rahi hai zindagi

00:01:19Haan zindagi toh achi guzar hi jaati hai

00:01:21Kyuki logon ke paas bahot time hai

00:01:24Bahot time hai bhai, aapko achi zindagi guzarne ke mashfare dene ka

00:01:28Waise toh logon ke paas milne ka time hai nahi, phone karne ka time hai nahi

00:01:32Bahot busy hai, bahot busy hai, bade din ho gaye mili nahi

00:01:35Haan bhai, bahot kaam chal rahe hain

00:01:37Khandaan mein shadiya hai, ya phir Eid ki tayyariya hai

00:01:40Bahot saari aur cheezein karne ko

00:01:42Lekin, mufth mashfaro ka time, aaha

00:01:46Kabhi bhi maangna hai, for ran mil jaate hai

00:01:49Aur in mufth mashfaro ke chakkar mein, raid lag jaate hai doosron ki

00:01:53Bhai, agar aap unmein se hain, jo aapko duniya ka kuch nahi pata

00:01:57Aur aap sirf logon ke bataye hua mashfaro par amal karke zindagi guzarte hai

00:02:01Toh aap, aap phir pata nahi kya karne wale hain aapke zindagi ke saath

00:02:05Kyunki, logon ke upar jo cheezein suit karte hai, zaroori nahi, aapke upar bhi suit kare

00:02:11Toh isliye, aapko saari mashfaro ko filter karna padta hai

00:02:14Aisa nahi hai ki saari mashfare ghalat hote

00:02:16Kabhi kabhar koi mashfare bohot achi hote

00:02:18Aur aapko badi, bohot hi mushkil waqt se nikaal bhi lete

00:02:22Lekin bohot saari mashfare aise bhi hote hain, jo aapko mushkil waqt me daal dete hain

00:02:28Toh aaj ka hamara show, un logon ke liye hai khaas taur pe

00:02:32Jo hameesha, har kisi ke mashfaro par amal karke, apni zindagi ko barbaat karte hain

00:02:38Kabhi, apni uz behen ki, jisne apni zindagi khud barbaat kar di

00:02:42Uske mashfaro pe amal karke, aap apna ghar barbaat karte hain

00:02:45Kabhi, us dost ke mashfaro par amal karke, jisne zindagi mein koi dhanga kaam nahi kiya

00:02:51Apni shohar pe shakt karte hain

00:02:53Kabhi aap, kabhi apne kisi colleague ke mashfaro par amal karke, job ko switch kar lete hain

00:03:00Isi tarah ki bohot chote chote mashfaro, bade bade mashfaro

00:03:03Kabhi apne bachon ko ghalat cheez khila dete hain

00:03:06Kisi aisi, aapa, phuppi, dadi, chachi ke mashfaro par

00:03:10Jinone bohot hi phodpane se apne bachon paale ho, aapko kya pata

00:03:14Lekin, aapko toh bas mashfaro par amal karna hai

00:03:18Yeh nahi sochti ki mere ghar, mere bache, mere miya, mere susraal

00:03:23Mujh par yeh mashfaro amal karega bhi ki nahi

00:03:26Yeh duble hone ki tip mere upar karamat sabit hogi bhi ki nahi

00:03:30Ya main aur beemaar hoke bistar pe lag jaungi

00:03:33So, aaj ka yeh show sirf unhi logon ke liye hai

00:03:37Jo hamesha, jin ko kacche kaano ka bhi kehte hain

00:03:40Jin ko pata nahi kya aur bohot sare naam diye jaate hain

00:03:45Main unko sirf ek yeh naam doongi

00:03:47Bewaqoof, bewaqoof insaan, jo apni zindagi khud barbaat karta hai

00:03:52Maazrat ke saath, aap mere maike wale hain, aap mere apne

00:03:55Lekin, main iss waqt un logon ko bewaqoof kehne se kaasir nahi raungi

00:03:59Jo apni zindagiyon ko barbaat kare hain, muft mashfaro ki wajah se

00:04:03To aayiye, dekhte hain aamare celebrities, kaun kaunse mashfaro jo unko mile hain

00:04:07Idhar aur udhar se, jinnone unko bachaya aur phasaya

00:04:10Dono tariqon, hawale se aap baat karenge aaj aapke show

00:04:13Good morning Pakistan

00:04:21Welcome, welcome back, good morning Pakistan

00:04:24To jaise ke aaj ka topic hai, wo mashfaro jo aapke kaam aaye

00:04:28Aur wo mashfaro, jinnone barbadiyon machaye hain aapki zindagi mein

00:04:31Wo hamare celebrities, aaj humse share karenge

00:04:33Mere ektaraf hain, Rubina Ashraf, Assalam-o-Alaikum

00:04:36Walaikum-assalam, kaise hain?

00:04:37Bilkul theek, thank you

00:04:39To aapko log, mashfare maangne ke liye

00:04:41Actually

00:04:42Haan, to aap

00:04:44Mujhe dene ka bahut

00:04:45Aaj hum yeh chal

00:04:46Of course

00:04:47Dosta taraf hain, Ghazal Siddique, Assalam-o-Alaikum

00:04:50Kum, kaise hain Munita?

00:04:51Bilkul theek, yeh bhi shakal se lagti na, yeh mashfare dene wali hain

00:04:54Shakal se nahi lagti, wo actually dene wali hain

00:04:57Unka, ek vlog hai, jisme wo mashfare dene wali

00:05:00Actually, bathe kya hota hai, hum jab umar mein kam hote hain na

00:05:03Toh phir hum mashfare lete hain

00:05:04Aur phir baad mein, apni experiences se phir dete hain

00:05:07Aur main position bata hai

00:05:08Sexy guest hain, Dr. Bilqees, Assalam-o-Alaikum

00:05:10Walaikum-assalam

00:05:11Inke mashfaron ke hum fan hain

00:05:12Exactly

00:05:14Dr. Bilqees, aisa na ho, koi call aaja hai

00:05:17Main Dr. Bilqees ke mashfare pe amal kiya

00:05:20Aur mujhe constipation ho gayi

00:05:22Wo bhi sakta hai

00:05:23Aisa na ho jaye

00:05:25Aisa na ho jaye, ke show jo hai, wo usme

00:05:28Main sirf Dr. Bilqees se mashfare puchti raho

00:05:31Because in person, I wanted to

00:05:33Ghusta hi jaise, hum make-up mein mile the

00:05:36Please bata de, skin ke liye koi achi thi

00:05:38Hair ke liye kuch acha

00:05:40And jo unhone batayin, wo samajh aati hain

00:05:43Because she always makes a lot of sense

00:05:45Acha, ek toh thank you so much

00:05:47Aapki wajah se, Rubina se meri bahot time ke baad mulaqat hui

00:05:52Inse meri last mulaqat kab hui thi?

00:05:54Jab mein Canada jaari thi, migrate karke

00:05:56Aur usse pehle mein ek Hum TV ke liye play likha tha

00:05:58Aur direct kiya tha usme

00:05:59Exactly

00:06:00Amma in Action

00:06:01I acted

00:06:02And you did so well

00:06:03Yeah, I know

00:06:04Usme Rubina chahiye

00:06:05Talent toh chhup chhup ke likal, nikal nikal kiya

00:06:07Lika aur direct bhi kiya

00:06:09Aur inka main role tha usme

00:06:10Amma in Action

00:06:11Aur bada mazay ka wo role tha

00:06:13Aur Mother's Day ka play tha wo

00:06:14Bilkul aise

00:06:15Wow, zabardar

00:06:16Aur usse pehle, mera khaira, mene

00:06:18Aapke show mein, I mean as a guest

00:06:20Wo toh morning show mein toh aati rahi ho

00:06:22Which was again, a lovely experience

00:06:24Aur ab itne saalon baad aaj, yaha humare platform mein

00:06:27Hum dono ko bada mazaya hai, jab hum mile hain

00:06:30Accha

00:06:31Really enjoyed

00:06:32So jee, toh mashwar-e-zindagi ke har stage pe

00:06:36Insaan ko milte hain

00:06:37Bilkul

00:06:38Specially khawateen ko

00:06:39Bilkul

00:06:40Mard bohot kam amal karte hain, gharelu mashwaron pe

00:06:42Unko gaadi kharidni hain

00:06:43Ya property kharidni hain

00:06:45Ya job ke hawale se

00:06:47Wo mashwar-e idhar udhar kar rahe hote hain

00:06:49Aur unbe badi galatiyan karte hain, aise nahi ke wo saare theek kar rahe hote hain

00:06:52Wo toh badi galatiyan karte hain bhai, wo toh duba bhi dete hain

00:06:55Ya wo utha dete hain bilkul aapke zindagi ko

00:06:57Ya wo bilkul gira dete hain

00:06:59Haan, zyadatar gira dete hain

00:07:01Bilkul

00:07:02So, aaj hum shuru karte hain

00:07:04Galat aur sahi mashwaron ki fawahid

00:07:06Aaye jee, pehla card

00:07:09Where's the card?

00:07:10Win the battle, lose the war

00:07:12Oh wow

00:07:13Dekhe yeh kya hota hai zindagi mein

00:07:15Hum sab ke saath aesa hota hai

00:07:16Ki hum choti choti cheezon mein itna ulaj jaate hain

00:07:18Ki hum usme apne aapko prove karne ke chakar mein

00:07:21Hum wo battle toh jeet jaate hain

00:07:23Lekin aakhar kaar hume wo war haar nahi padti hain

00:07:27Yani ki badi jo zindagi ki jung hoti hain na

00:07:29Usme hum haar jaate hain

00:07:31For instance, agar hum choti choti cheezon mein

00:07:35Kisi ne keh diya ki, nahi apne shaur ke saath iss tara se karna

00:07:38Wo ghar mein aaye na, poora din tum ittazaar kar rahi hoti ho

00:07:41Aur jaise wo ghar mein aaye toh usko bataya karo

00:07:43Ki tumhaar saath kya guzri, kya hua

00:07:45Lekin agar jo samajdaar ladki hoti hain

00:07:47Jo samajdaar biwi ya samajdaar maa hoti hain

00:07:49Wo hamesha larger picture mein apni zindagi ko dekhti hain

00:07:52Ke agar iss waqt maine yeh mauka nahi hai kehne ka

00:07:55Agar iss waqt maine yeh koi ghalat baat kar li

00:07:57Toh iss waqt toh ho sakta hai ki main yeh choti si cheez avail kar loo

00:08:00Ya achieve kar loo, ya meri baat jo hai

00:08:02Attention mil jaye mujhe

00:08:04Lekin uske baat, choti choti cheezon mein

00:08:06Main apne aapko itna ulajha dungi

00:08:08Apne energy ko itna kharab kar dungi

00:08:09Ki usse mere bache bhi neglect honge

00:08:11Mere bachon ke

00:08:13Agar bache ka kisi ka exam hai

00:08:15Toh aap sochein kya aap apni devrani se uljhenge

00:08:17Ya aap usko padhayenge

00:08:19Obviously aap uski padhayi pe dhyan denge

00:08:21Dafa karo jo bhi ulti sidhi baate ho rahein

00:08:23Rehne do yeh hoti rahenge

00:08:25Lekin agar main abhi iss baat me ulaj gayi

00:08:27Toh main apni bachi ki padhayi pe dhyan nahi de paungi

00:08:29Toh issi tarah se zindagi humari itni

00:08:31Achhi bhi hai

00:08:33Nazak bhi hai

00:08:35Samajdaari se kaam lene ki bhi zarur the

00:08:37Usme yeh dekhna chahiye hameshe ki

00:08:39Aapne bachon karne jaa rahi hun

00:08:41Kya iska mujhe short term fayda hoga

00:08:43Waqti taur par fayda hoga

00:08:45Ya main agar bade fayda ki taraf jaa rahi hun

00:08:47Uske yeh toh bhi samajdaari

00:08:49Jo ekdum nahi milti

00:08:51Jab aap chote bachon ki maa hoti hain

00:08:53Jab aap kuch young age mein hoti hain

00:08:55Uswaq toh samajdaari nahi hoti

00:08:57Jaise hum kisi daawat me jaa rahe hoti hain

00:08:59Mere saath aisa hota tha

00:09:01Jab meri naini shaadi hoi thi

00:09:03Toh koi aisi baat hoti thi

00:09:05Aur kisi ne agar mera mood kharab karna hota tha

00:09:07Toh main us trap mein aaj aati thi

00:09:09Aur main apna mood kharab karke

00:09:11Apne wo ache se moment jo hai

00:09:13Usko enjoy nahi kar paati thi kabhi kabhi

00:09:15Toh yeh cheezein waqt ke saath hain

00:09:17Yeh mujhe bhi regrets hai apni zindagi mein

00:09:19Ke apni nadani mein

00:09:21Maine apne bahut important moments zaya ki

00:09:23Chahe wo koi bhi cheezein hu

00:09:25Ab humein akal bhi aati hai

00:09:27Samajh bhi aati hai ki yaar

00:09:29Ek toh main ignore karti hun bahut saari cheezein ko

00:09:31Ab mujhe bajay kisi ki

00:09:33Negativity pe hussa aane ke

00:09:35Allah ne usko abhi tak negative hi banaya hua hai

00:09:37Woh ussi tarah se soch rahi hai

00:09:39Woh ussi tarah se soch rahi hai

00:09:41Aur woh ussi mein phase hain

00:09:43Aur aap jaise woh ek hoti hai na

00:09:45Khargosh aur turtle ki battle

00:09:47Race jo thi

00:09:49Usmein aapne kya dekha

00:09:51Ke woh wahin pe rahe gaya

00:09:53Khargosh jo hai

00:09:55Shed ke aur tan karke

00:09:57Toh aisi bahut saari khargosh

00:09:59Humari zindagi mein aate rahenge

00:10:01Humein apni line pe focus karna hai

00:10:03Larger picture mein zindagi ko dekhna hai

00:10:05Yeh wohi problem hai na

00:10:07Insta dekh ke bhi toh logon ko ho rahi hai na

00:10:09Instagram dekh rahe ho

00:10:11Aur aap se logon ki zindagiyan

00:10:13Dekh rahe ho

00:10:15Facebook, social media

00:10:17Ke yeh dekho

00:10:19Yeh hai zindagi

00:10:21Yeh travelling kar rahe hai

00:10:23Rubina that is not the reality

00:10:25That is somebody

00:10:27Showing the best of their lives

00:10:29The best moments of their life

00:10:31It is not the whole life

00:10:33Sometimes woh illusion create karte hain

00:10:35Yeh bhi hota ho

00:10:37Jaise mein aur aap agar travel karte hain

00:10:39Toh hum sirf aapse share karte hain

00:10:41Wo moments jo humare best moments hai

00:10:43Uske peechhe kitni struggle hai

00:10:45Uske peechhe kitni mehnat hai

00:10:47Uske peechhe funds raise karna hai

00:10:49Uske peechhe logon ko manana hai

00:10:51Ghar ko organize karna hai

00:10:53Agar koi peechhe rah gaya hai

00:10:55Uske liye kya kuch sochna hai

00:10:57Uske liye saari zindagi mehnat ki hai

00:10:59Woh cheeze humne khud earn ki hai

00:11:01Hum kisi ke paiso pe

00:11:03Aur phir baat bhi bana dete hain

00:11:05Yeh toh har waqat travel ke

00:11:07Inke paas kaab

00:11:09Jaise abhi hum baat kar rahe the

00:11:11Hum zehwar nahi banate

00:11:13Dubaara kaho

00:11:15Hum zehwar nahi banate

00:11:17Para bara sone ki churiyan

00:11:19Chaar paanch dafa bana ke

00:11:21Locker mein nahi taba ke rakhi

00:11:23Hum zindagi ke moments me jeete hain

00:11:25Hum log gharib log me

00:11:27Toh kamaate hain khaate hain

00:11:29Humne apne deewaron ke peechhe paise

00:11:31Fasa ke chhupa ke nahi rakhe hoi

00:11:33Haan because hum exactly pata hai

00:11:35Humne zindagi se kya chahiye

00:11:37Sona yaha ke ghoomna

00:11:39Bahut simple

00:11:41Toh yeh kya hai

00:11:43Pauran doosra bachcha

00:11:45Yeh kya mashwara

00:11:47Yeh ek mashwara hota hai

00:11:49Jab bhi aapki shaadi hoti ho

00:11:51Toh sab aapko batate hain

00:11:53Ke kya karna hai

00:11:55Chaldi chaldi karlo

00:11:57Saath pal jayenge

00:11:59Yeh toh achha ho gaya

00:12:01Ke pehla hi beta ho gaya

00:12:03Toh bahut yeh aapki zindagi sorted ho gaya

00:12:05Ab lagta hai mujhe kitni lagat baat hai

00:12:07Bekaar baat hai

00:12:09Nahi aata agar pehla beta

00:12:11Ya doosra ya teesra nahi bhi aata

00:12:13Beta na aata toh bhi

00:12:15Now you are safe

00:12:17Yeh kaha gaya

00:12:19Now you are safe

00:12:21Ab kuch bhi agla aa jaye

00:12:23Problem kyun ho jaata hai?

00:12:25Everybody

00:12:27But this was one mashwara that I liked

00:12:31That you liked?

00:12:33I liked

00:12:35Ke jaldi

00:12:37Mere saath kaam kari thi

00:12:39Zeenat Yasmin

00:12:41You'd remember

00:12:43Iraj's mom

00:12:45Toh main aur woh kathe kare the

00:12:47Koi play

00:12:49I think it was Kasak

00:12:51Toh she said

00:12:53Toh she said

00:12:55Ab saath hi doosra kar dena

00:12:57Kathe pal jaate hain

00:12:59Aur ek kathe bade ho jaayenge

00:13:01Aur tum farek ho jaoge

00:13:03Saath saath

00:13:05So that is why it made sense to me

00:13:07Ke chalo ek karke aur agar aapne

00:13:09Lamba gap le liya toh aapko lagega

00:13:11But you want family jisme do bachi

00:13:13Atleast hon toh then just

00:13:15Get it over and done with it

00:13:17Once and for all

00:13:19Aur pata tha ke

00:13:21Iske saath

00:13:23Kaam

00:13:25Ek hardship

00:13:27So that was one mashwara I took

00:13:29And not regret it

00:13:31Waise you're right

00:13:33Matlab us waqt jab mere

00:13:35Ek ke baad ek bacha hua toh mujhe lag raha tha

00:13:37Main kahaan phas gayi, main kaise handle karoon

00:13:39Magar jab log saath pal gaye

00:13:41Aur uske beech mein gap aa gaya

00:13:43So aap apni zindagi bhi bhi toh focus kar paya

00:13:45Dono saath school jaa rahe hain

00:13:47Dono tuitions

00:13:49Dono ki company hain, khelna, kudna saath

00:13:51Kuch mashwari bilkul sahi

00:13:53Yeh theek tha

00:13:55Yeh achha mashwara

00:13:57Kuch logon ko, kuch khawatin ko

00:13:59Ho sakta hai ke bacha na ho para ho

00:14:01Koi medical problem ho

00:14:03Ya wo isni jaldi jaldi

00:14:05Afford na kar par rahi ho

00:14:07Unko jo mashwari thobe jaate hain na uske upar

00:14:09Wo phir bichari parishan ho jaate hain

00:14:11Dusri dekhe

00:14:13Har kisi ki nature hoti hai, fitrat hoti hai

00:14:15Kuch log fitratin

00:14:17Bohot perfectionist hote hain

00:14:19Unhone apne bacche ke liye har cheez sab kuch khud karni hai

00:14:21Toh agar uswaq ek saath

00:14:23Do bacche aa jaate hain na, phir wo bohot problems ka shikar hoti hain

00:14:25Unhone bacche ke liye khana bhi khud pakana hai

00:14:27Har cheez khud karni hoti hain

00:14:29Toh wo chahti hain

00:14:31Ke wo ek bacche ko proper time deyen

00:14:33Usko ek proper age tak lekar hain

00:14:35Aur aur ki body bhi toh hoti hain

00:14:37Body bhi hoti hain, jaazat bhi deyen

00:14:39So har kisi par yeh mashwara

00:14:41Suit nahi karta

00:14:43Mujh pe suit kar gaya

00:14:45Foreign ka yeh matlab nahi tha

00:14:47Foreign ka matlab yeh hi tha ki

00:14:492-2.5 saal

00:14:51Jab tak ke aapka pehla baccha independent

00:14:53In so many ways na ho jaye

00:14:55Aur aap bhi sambhal jao

00:14:57Us sari kehte hain na

00:14:59Yeh hi hota pehle jab pehla baccha aata

00:15:01Aapko lagta hai never again

00:15:032-2.5 saal baad aapko lagta hai

00:15:05Accha yeh toh accha tha

00:15:07Yeh bada hi ho gaya baccha

00:15:09Aur hume toh bohot chota baccha pyara laga tha

00:15:11So that's when you start thinking

00:15:13Aapko sochte hain ki

00:15:15Us waqt toh laga tha ki never again

00:15:17Aur aap hum soch rahe hain

00:15:19So I have a difference of about 2.5 years

00:15:21Between my two children

00:15:23But I think

00:15:25Yeh koi aisa kam bhi nahi tha

00:15:27Aur dusri baat hai ki

00:15:29Abhi pehle baccha ke liye toh kehte hain ki

00:15:31Aapne foreign kar lena chahiye

00:15:33Ke kuch aaj kal ke generation kehte hain

00:15:35Nahi hum 2 saal baad, abhi hum ready nahi hain

00:15:373 saal baad, phir contraceptive pills pe chali jaate hain

00:15:39Yeh behtar nahi hain

00:15:41Toh yeh wala mashwara bilkul sahi hai

00:15:43Ke pehle 1 ya 2 bachay pehda kar lein

00:15:45Accha lekin

00:15:47Dr. Bilquis

00:15:49Jaise aaj ki

00:15:51Aaj ki jo generation hai na

00:15:53Agar yeh log shaadi karte hain

00:15:55Yeh log na humari wali generation ki tarah nahi hain

00:15:57Yeh log pehle parakhna hota hai

00:15:59Ki kya hum ek saath, ek dusri ke saath

00:16:01Rahe bhi sakte hain ki nahi

00:16:03Kyunki phir hum bachay pehda kar lein

00:16:05Aur humari understanding wo develop na ho sake

00:16:07Humari yeh soch

00:16:09Aur humare andar awareness nahi thi

00:16:11Humne toh bhai

00:16:13Humne toh marke hi nikalna hai

00:16:15Humne toh nibhana hai

00:16:17So isliye hum wo alag sochte the

00:16:19Toh aaj kal ke generation hai

00:16:21Wo yeh sochte the pehle humari understanding ho

00:16:23Phir hum kisi aur ko duniya mein lekar aay

00:16:25Sabki apni alag soch

00:16:27Yeh bhi ek baat hai

00:16:29Yeh bahut hi badi bahas hai

00:16:31Kuch kehte hain ki aap bachay pehda kar lein

00:16:33Toh bonding hoti hain

00:16:35Kuch kehte hain ki aap bachay pehda kar lein

00:16:37Toh yeh different school of thought

00:16:39Sabki alag alag soch hai

00:16:41Toh yeh kya hai chup raho

00:16:43Toh yeh kya hai chup raho

00:16:45Drama tha na

00:16:47Drama ka naam toh mere miya ka drama tha

00:16:49Acha dekhe hota hi ki

00:16:51Pehle ki zamani mein toh kaafi tha

00:16:53Jab hum jaate the toh kehte the

00:16:55Beta aap jaa rahi hai na

00:16:57Aap doli mein jaa rahi hai

00:16:59Aapka janaza uthe

00:17:01Yeh humare mazab ho gaya tha

00:17:03Yeh humare mazab ho gaya tha

00:17:05Mere kahein jogon pe ho raha ho

00:17:07Prabhina jee humare mazab ka hista hi nahi tha

00:17:09Yeh toh India se pick kia tha

00:17:11Haamne sahi filmon me dekh dekha

00:17:13Yeh reality hai ki yeh bola jaata hai

00:17:15Yeh bhai nibhau

00:17:17Kuch bhi karo

00:17:19Jab aapki shaadi hoti hai

00:17:21Toh aapne doh saal tak chup rahen

00:17:23Toh Tha ke bachay bacteria hojein

00:17:25Uske baat aap adjustment hoti hai

00:17:27Yeh bahut galat hai

00:17:29Mere isaab se yeh mashwara chup rahen

00:17:31Compromise can be made on certain things, but not on certain things.

00:17:36Because if you stay quiet, you say,

00:17:39I just got married, how can I tell this to my family?

00:17:43How can I do this?

00:17:45So, it happens that you keep moving forward

00:17:49and then you take a huge loss.

00:17:52Look, there are some sadists, husbands.

00:17:54You don't know in a relationship,

00:17:56he is torturing you, but because he has taught you to stay quiet,

00:18:01they tolerate it.

00:18:03Many women go through this, they tolerate it.

00:18:06In the end, what happens?

00:18:07The family finds out.

00:18:09The same thing, if it had happened earlier, it would have been better.

00:18:12It happens after 8 years, after 10 years, after 2-3 children.

00:18:16If you are already trusting your parents,

00:18:20when you are being treated unjustly,

00:18:24or when you are not being treated well,

00:18:26you are being treated unjustly,

00:18:28then you must tell them,

00:18:31you should not stay quiet.

00:18:33This thing does not go in your favor.

00:18:37Because such people,

00:18:38there are some who are like, I am a man.

00:18:41There are some who are like, if their wives speak a little loudly,

00:18:46then they start hitting and beating.

00:18:48And this,

00:18:49see, I am a practicing doctor,

00:18:51so everyone comes to me and tells me.

00:18:54So, with the same experiences, I am telling you,

00:18:57that if something like this happens to you,

00:18:59then don't stay quiet.

00:19:01Speak up, tell them,

00:19:03so that your life can be saved,

00:19:05and the lives of the future generations can also be saved.

00:19:08Because you have tolerated the torture,

00:19:10and you put your children in that hell.

00:19:13So, staying quiet, according to me, is not the right advice.

00:19:16Because it is always said that you are getting married,

00:19:20you have to bear it,

00:19:21you have to try to understand.

00:19:23It has been 2 years,

00:19:24that you have to understand each other.

00:19:26You have to understand your family, your in-laws.

00:19:29But in these 2 years, if you bear this torture,

00:19:33then what will happen to you in the future?

00:19:34So, stay quiet.

00:19:36Sometimes, negativity will come.

00:19:37The advice to stay quiet,

00:19:38is not for everyone.

00:19:41If you have any problem,

00:19:43do tell your parents.

00:19:46Absolutely.

00:19:47Agreed.

00:19:48I got this advice very late.

00:19:52And I felt that it was a very good advice,

00:19:55whoever gave it.

00:19:56Someone gave me this advice,

00:19:59when I had 2 kids.

00:20:01There was a writer,

00:20:03she told me this,

00:20:05that the small fights that we have at home,

00:20:08we often call and tell our mother and sisters,

00:20:11that they did this today.

00:20:12It happens, right?

00:20:13We used to go to school and college,

00:20:16we used to tell our mother and sisters everything.

00:20:19So, this happens even after marriage.

00:20:20We used to tell our mother and sisters everything.

00:20:23It's like a daily routine.

00:20:25It seems like a big deal at that time,

00:20:27but it's not.

00:20:28Yes, this is a different thing.

00:20:30So, to get rid of this,

00:20:33you told your mother and sister on the phone.

00:20:35Now, you told them.

00:20:37You fought with your in-laws.

00:20:40They started hating you.

00:20:42This happens with my daughter.

00:20:44When they meet,

00:20:46their vibes,

00:20:47they don't get rid of it.

00:20:49This is also a small mistake.

00:20:51No, let me complete.

00:20:54So, they told me,

00:20:56that girls should do this,

00:20:57if they want to exhaust somewhere,

00:21:00they should tell their friends.

00:21:02Because friends are harmless.

00:21:04They won't have that interaction with in-laws.

00:21:07Instead of telling your sister, mother, father,

00:21:10or sharing,

00:21:11if it's a small thing,

00:21:13you tell your friends.

00:21:15I really liked what they said.

00:21:19They said, wow, this is right.

00:21:21It's a small thing to hurt parents.

00:21:23We'll fight and get together again.

00:21:25And parents will be angry.

00:21:27We won't invite them.

00:21:28We won't go to their house on Eid.

00:21:30Because they won't talk about it.

00:21:32Now, you continue.

00:21:32No, I wanted to say,

00:21:34the thing about friends,

00:21:35before that,

00:21:37sometimes, we say,

00:21:39specifically for you,

00:21:41my husband was saying this.

00:21:42Yes, let's tell him.

00:21:44Okay, let's tell him.

00:21:45It's not that we're the only ones being mistreated.

00:21:47Yes.

00:21:47Nida, even for you,

00:21:48my husband was saying this.

00:21:49Don't make it bad.

00:21:51Because Nida feels bad too.

00:21:52I have to vent out my anger.

00:21:54Yes, you're right.

00:21:54Don't say, no, it's not that bad.

00:21:56It's not bad.

00:21:57No, he says this about you too.

00:21:58When we discuss with friends,

00:22:01we should also be careful

00:22:02that we don't have friends who shake hands with us.

00:22:04We don't have friends.

00:22:04They give you wrong advice.

00:22:07Sometimes out of jealousy,

00:22:08sometimes out of lack of wisdom.

00:22:10We understand this later.

00:22:12We understand it later.

00:22:13Okay, I...

00:22:14Come back after a break.

00:22:16We'll come back after a break and continue.

00:22:17Good morning.

00:22:18Good morning, Pakistan.

00:22:24Welcome, welcome back.

00:22:26Good morning, Pakistan.

00:22:27Today, we're sharing with you

00:22:29which advice suited us

00:22:31and which advice ruined our lives.

00:22:34But now, we're telling you

00:22:36so that you don't have to go through the same.

00:22:39Which we did by mistake.

00:22:41So, next is being thankful.

00:22:44Hmm.

00:22:45Okay, behind being thankful,

00:22:47I had another caption which was very long.

00:22:50It was that my mother has always taught us

00:22:53that you shouldn't burn your hut

00:22:56by looking at someone's palace.

00:22:57Absolutely.

00:22:58Okay, so this thankfulness is in the sense

00:23:01that when we see people

00:23:03who are more important than us,

00:23:05people who are more privileged than us,

00:23:09and we keep rushing them

00:23:11or we keep being jealous of them,

00:23:13then we'll never be happy.

00:23:14If we look at how many people are more important than us,

00:23:20who don't even have the facilities

00:23:22that God has given us.

00:23:23We weren't entitled, right?

00:23:25Sometimes, I think about my maid

00:23:27or my domestic help.

00:23:29If I were in their place,

00:23:32then I would always...

00:23:34When I change my role in everything,

00:23:36I'm very thankful to God.

00:23:38That's why big palaces, big houses,

00:23:41like we were talking about social media,

00:23:43create an illusion and we get trapped in it.

00:23:47If we stay like this,

00:23:49then we'll never be happy.

00:23:52And if we...

00:23:52We won't be able to enjoy what we have.

00:23:55That was a very lovely advice

00:23:57that almost every adult has given to their children.

00:24:01To look down on yourself.

00:24:03That's the thing.

00:24:04That's so helpful for my mother.

00:24:06When God has given me something,

00:24:08I always think that I'm not worthy of it.

00:24:12I'm not entitled to what you've given me.

00:24:16But you've given me something,

00:24:17I'm very thankful for it.

00:24:19And when you look down on yourself,

00:24:21then you think about helping others.

00:24:24When you look at your elders,

00:24:25then you'll just be jealous.

00:24:27Absolutely.

00:24:28You won't enjoy life.

00:24:29And this is a very good advice.

00:24:31I think everyone should follow this advice.

00:24:34Absolutely.

00:24:35This is the advice to make a home.

00:24:38Yes, everyone gives one advice.

00:24:40As soon as you start your own home,

00:24:42you should make a home.

00:24:43Yes.

00:24:43Which is a fine advice.

00:24:45It's a good advice.

00:24:46If it suits someone,

00:24:48and if someone...

00:24:50If you're interested in it.

00:24:52Because this is a personal thing.

00:24:54So if you're interested in it,

00:24:55and he's interested in it,

00:24:57I don't know about the two of you.

00:24:59So we made a home.

00:25:00But later I thought,

00:25:03what was the need?

00:25:04I mean, it's okay for those who can't afford it.

00:25:07Those who live in a rented house,

00:25:09they rent it out.

00:25:10And after a year, two years,

00:25:12if the house starts looking bad,

00:25:14they move to a better place.

00:25:16So this is the advice

00:25:18that it's not necessary for everyone to listen.

00:25:20Absolutely.

00:25:22You're absolutely right.

00:25:23Those who think it's okay,

00:25:24should definitely do it.

00:25:24Those who don't think it's okay,

00:25:26should live their own life.

00:25:28It's more important to make a home somewhere else.

00:25:31Yes.

00:25:32Instead of making it in this world.

00:25:33This is a trade-off.

00:25:35Because...

00:25:35What's your objective?

00:25:37Some people do this,

00:25:38I'm not talking about you.

00:25:39I've seen some people

00:25:41who have invested their whole life

00:25:44to make a home.

00:25:45They didn't enjoy the moments of life.

00:25:47Absolutely right.

00:25:48They didn't enjoy the upbringing of their children.

00:25:50They didn't enjoy the relationship

00:25:52between their husband and wife.

00:25:54And they kept working hard.

00:25:56They made a home when they got old.

00:25:58And it was just a home.

00:25:59And they wasted their whole life.

00:26:01They didn't enjoy the journey.

00:26:02And just because of the destination,

00:26:04they wasted the whole journey.

00:26:06It shouldn't be done like this.

00:26:07Yes, exactly.

00:26:08Absolutely.

00:26:08And today's generation,

00:26:10Gen Z,

00:26:11they think like this.

00:26:12Like we were told,

00:26:14we were advised,

00:26:16make a home and then do it.

00:26:18Make a home and then buy a car.

00:26:19Make a home and then travel.

00:26:21Make a home and then do this.

00:26:22It means that your whole life's journey,

00:26:26you suppressed it.

00:26:28Just like they did.

00:26:30So our generation was fed a lot.

00:26:34That's why we were focused.

00:26:37We wanted to do this and that.

00:26:39Today's Gen Z,

00:26:41who I'm reading and observing,

00:26:44I'm getting help in raising my children.

00:26:48If I meet all the other Gen Z's,

00:26:51I talk to them,

00:26:53they don't think like this.

00:26:55They think like this.

00:26:57Live in the moment.

00:26:59Live in the moment.

00:27:00Live in today's life.

00:27:02Who has seen tomorrow?

00:27:03God forbid,

00:27:04young kids are dying.

00:27:07Your life is so long.

00:27:09Live in the moment.

00:27:10Today's kids are like this.

00:27:12When I talk to my kids,

00:27:14I think about their dreams.

00:27:18They don't have a home.

00:27:20We'll save some money and travel.

00:27:22We'll do this, we'll do that.

00:27:23That's why they're happy.

00:27:24Because they live in the present.

00:27:26If you start living in the past,

00:27:28you'll have depression.

00:27:30If you start living in the future,

00:27:32you'll live in anxiety.

00:27:33But if you live in the present,

00:27:34you'll be happy.

00:27:35Live in the moment.

00:27:36It's not like you don't have money

00:27:39to do anything.

00:27:41You'll live in the present.

00:27:43It's so little,

00:27:44that you have to be smart about it.

00:27:47Today's generation thinks differently.

00:27:48They don't think like us.

00:27:50Which is fine.

00:27:53Don't let your husband change.

00:27:56Don't let your husband change?

00:27:58Don't let your husband change?

00:28:00I don't know.

00:28:01What's written here?

00:28:02She's saying two things.

00:28:03Don't let your husband change.

00:28:06The sentence was...

00:28:08Understand your husband.

00:28:10Yes, understand him.

00:28:12Don't let him change.

00:28:13Don't use your terms.

00:28:15I said, don't let your husband change.

00:28:17Don't let your husband change.

00:28:19This is also fine.

00:28:21Nida will add her mischiefs in it.

00:28:25I was like, oh, this is such a straight advice.

00:28:29Don't let your husband change.

00:28:32No...

00:28:34Yes, this is also fine.

00:28:38You can change everything.

00:28:40No, it happens.

00:28:42Or change the setting.

00:28:44You can't change the setting.

00:28:46She's saying, don't change the setting.

00:28:48Look,

00:28:50if you want to live,

00:28:52don't change the setting.

00:28:54Don't tell him, sit if I say,

00:28:56get up if I say.

00:28:58These things,

00:29:01Start with the advice.

00:29:03My elders gave me this advice.

00:29:07Instead of changing him,

00:29:09understand him.

00:29:11Understand why he is like this.

00:29:13Don't force him.

00:29:15It's an example.

00:29:17We haven't gone to raise him to understand him.

00:29:19No, no, understand.

00:29:21I'll tell you.

00:29:23What does understand mean?

00:29:25If he has some habits,

00:29:27like he smokes,

00:29:30tell him, no, you won't smoke.

00:29:32If you love me,

00:29:34you won't smoke.

00:29:36Why?

00:29:38One day he will quit smoking.

00:29:40He has some bad habits.

00:29:42If you want him to quit,

00:29:44it will happen slowly.

00:29:46You can't pressurize him

00:29:48and do anything.

00:29:50Men never change.

00:29:52They get worse.

00:29:54If you impose things on him,

00:29:56he gets worse than before.

00:30:02This is psychology.

00:30:04I was told,

00:30:06instead of changing him,

00:30:08don't force him.

00:30:10Understand him.

00:30:12Make him understand.

00:30:14If he understands,

00:30:16silence is better.

00:30:18We were talking about

00:30:20communication in our society.

00:30:22One thing that is lacking

00:30:25between husband and wife mostly,

00:30:27between parents and children also,

00:30:29between any and every

00:30:31relationship, even between friends,

00:30:33we lack communication.

00:30:35Especially between husband and wife.

00:30:37Even our parents

00:30:39used to say

00:30:41if we wanted to say something,

00:30:43they used to say, no, no,

00:30:45you don't have to talk much.

00:30:47You don't have to interfere.

00:30:49If there is a problem,

00:30:51go home and tell him.

00:30:54If there is a problem,

00:30:56go home and share it.

00:30:58He said, it's your life.

00:31:00It's your life, you deal with it.

00:31:02It was fair also,

00:31:04but if you had listened,

00:31:06you would have got a good advice.

00:31:08You would have said,

00:31:10this is your mistake,

00:31:12understand the next one also.

00:31:14Communication is important.

00:31:16We need to bring it

00:31:18in every relationship.

00:31:20If we look at the root cause,

00:31:22there are many flaws in parenting

00:31:24because we don't teach

00:31:26children to communicate properly

00:31:28from childhood.

00:31:30I will give you an example.

00:31:32My mother-in-law

00:31:34used to iron my handkerchief

00:31:36and give it to me.

00:31:38I used to get so angry

00:31:40that I used to say,

00:31:42I can't do this.

00:31:44I used to get so angry

00:31:46that I used to get so angry

00:31:48that I used to get so angry

00:31:51I will tell you the truth.

00:31:53I told her,

00:31:55I won't give you my handkerchief.

00:31:57It's simple.

00:31:59Her husband's name is Tariq.

00:32:01They are very stubborn.

00:32:05They get what they wish for.

00:32:07I told her,

00:32:09I won't give you my handkerchief.

00:32:11I won't give it.

00:32:13Just give up.

00:32:15I can't keep it,

00:32:17it will fly away.

00:32:19I asked him to do it for the rest of my life.

00:32:22He said, you can do two, but I won't do it.

00:32:25I'll give you an example.

00:32:26You're doing one, and he's doing the other.

00:32:28I asked him to tell me what to do.

00:32:30He said, I'll make breakfast.

00:32:31I asked him to tell me what to do.

00:32:34He said, I'll make tea for my father.

00:32:36I'll make breakfast for him.

00:32:38But for God's sake, I don't want a handkerchief.

00:32:41I'll do the ironing.

00:32:42Think about it.

00:32:43Since when have we been doing handkerchiefs and ironing?

00:32:47I mean, seriously.

00:32:48Yes, see, I'm still in the store.

00:32:50If a kid hears this,

00:32:52that wives should not do handkerchiefs and ironing.

00:32:55It happens every day.

00:32:56Yes, actually.

00:32:58I didn't ask you to do it.

00:32:59Keep the tissue.

00:33:00You can do it in love.

00:33:01There are husbands who wake up their wives at night

00:33:04and ask them to lower the fan.

00:33:06Absolutely.

00:33:07Oh my God.

00:33:08I'm sure there are.

00:33:09Yes.

00:33:10There are such husbands.

00:33:11So, what's next?

00:33:13Responsibility.

00:33:14Yes.

00:33:15Because I have to go back home,

00:33:18I'm not taking the name of my in-laws

00:33:20who gave me this advice.

00:33:22But I didn't understand this advice at all.

00:33:27They said, don't drive at all.

00:33:31Because the more you show your skills,

00:33:34the more responsibilities will be put on you.

00:33:37Okay?

00:33:38I totally disagree with this.

00:33:40Did you agree till then?

00:33:42No.

00:33:43I've been driving since I was very young.

00:33:45As soon as I got my license,

00:33:47I started driving my car.

00:33:50My driving was very good when I got married.

00:33:53But they gave me this advice,

00:33:55that now you do it in such a way

00:33:56that you get confused while driving.

00:33:58You have a problem parking.

00:34:00Because if you do it,

00:34:01tomorrow the driver will run away.

00:34:03Something will happen.

00:34:04You know how to drive, right?

00:34:05She can handle everything.

00:34:06Yes.

00:34:07And after that,

00:34:08the responsibility of the child will be put on you.

00:34:09That you drop her,

00:34:10do this,

00:34:11do that,

00:34:12buy these things.

00:34:13So what happens is

00:34:14the husband moves away from his responsibilities.

00:34:16Which I didn't understand at that time.

00:34:18And especially when I went to Canada,

00:34:20then I came to know that

00:34:22the skills my mother taught me,

00:34:24cooking, sewing,

00:34:26working as a small electrician,

00:34:28carpentry,

00:34:29doing this and that,

00:34:30I got all the things there.

00:34:31And I was so empowered.

00:34:33My son once said something very good.

00:34:35He said that,

00:34:36I was sharing it with him one day.

00:34:38I said, look,

00:34:39there was so much help in Pakistan.

00:34:40She used to come home.

00:34:41The food was cooked.

00:34:42Cleaning was done.

00:34:43So he was such a small child.

00:34:45And he said,

00:34:46Mama, don't you feel that

00:34:47you are more powerful now?

00:34:48You are self-sufficient now.

00:34:50You can do everything.

00:34:52And earlier you were dependent.

00:34:53You tell me,

00:34:54is a dependent person powerful

00:34:56or a self-sufficient person is powerful?

00:34:59So I really liked these things.

00:35:01The things I carried from my parents

00:35:04in my upbringing,

00:35:05I think they helped my son

00:35:07to reach there.

00:35:09He thinks in the same way.

00:35:10So responsibilities,

00:35:11no,

00:35:12it's not like that.

00:35:13All the skills you have,

00:35:15you have so many responsibilities.

00:35:17If you know how to cook,

00:35:18will your husband tell you to cook everyday?

00:35:20Or if you say,

00:35:21I don't know how to cook,

00:35:22will he cook for you?

00:35:23It's not like that,

00:35:24in life.

00:35:25Okay,

00:35:26so this advice is for you.

00:35:27But I feel

00:35:28this advice is very good.

00:35:30Okay.

00:35:31Everyone is different.

00:35:32Because,

00:35:33I read different books.

00:35:35It's a man's psychology.

00:35:37Until you don't put pressure on him,

00:35:39the responsibility,

00:35:40the woman will take it herself.

00:35:42This is a built-in problem of a woman.

00:35:44That she will do it herself.

00:35:46But until you don't push the man,

00:35:48he doesn't do it.

00:35:49So what does the wife do?

00:35:51She takes all the responsibility herself.

00:35:53Carpenter,

00:35:54plumber,

00:35:55housekeeping,

00:35:56deal,

00:35:57car,

00:35:58children,

00:35:59their institution.

00:36:00So the man says,

00:36:01I will live a simple life,

00:36:02go to office,

00:36:03come home,

00:36:04watch TV,

00:36:05read newspaper.

00:36:06He used to do the laundry,

00:36:07put the dishes in the dishwasher.

00:36:09But the men here,

00:36:11majority,

00:36:12I agree.

00:36:14I also agree,

00:36:16that if you keep taking the responsibility,

00:36:18he will keep giving it to you.

00:36:20He will keep giving,

00:36:21do whatever you want.

00:36:22He must be watching TV,

00:36:24doing remote,

00:36:25he will be busy in that.

00:36:27It varies person to person.

00:36:29Because my personality is like this from the beginning,

00:36:31that I like to be very independent.

00:36:33Even if there is someone at home,

00:36:35like there is a cook in my house,

00:36:37I cook myself.

00:36:39He tells me,

00:36:40you are crazy,

00:36:41you cook yourself.

00:36:42In our life,

00:36:43if there is a feast at home,

00:36:45everything,

00:36:46it is my responsibility.

00:36:48This time I had gone to America,

00:36:49to celebrate Eid with my son.

00:36:51So in the house,

00:36:52Yasir Nawaz arranged the whole feast,

00:36:54better than me.

00:36:56And the whole family,

00:36:57it was my family,

00:36:58it was his family on Eid,

00:37:00and the whole family was surprised.

00:37:02So when I put it on my head,

00:37:04it was not that he did not have the skill.

00:37:06More people were happy,

00:37:07the food was cooked better.

00:37:09Let me give you a small example.

00:37:11My sister does not know how to drive.

00:37:13Okay.

00:37:14She got sick,

00:37:15in someone's house.

00:37:16Now no one is going to take her.

00:37:18You know,

00:37:19how long does the ambulance come here,

00:37:20until the person is fixed.

00:37:22So she was so worried,

00:37:24and at that time she realized,

00:37:25that it is very important to know how to drive.

00:37:27You know everything.

00:37:29You know everything,

00:37:30but show it.

00:37:31We used to say,

00:37:32show the elephant's teeth,

00:37:33and eat it.

00:37:35I think,

00:37:36do not take everything,

00:37:38and do not do this,

00:37:40that I will not do it,

00:37:42because,

00:37:43assess it.

00:37:44Yes.

00:37:45Because it is the same thing,

00:37:47that this marriage is a partnership.

00:37:49Yes.

00:37:50And the partners have to share equally.

00:37:53Responsibility.

00:37:54Responsibility,

00:37:55that you are making a house,

00:37:56driving it.

00:37:57So wherever,

00:37:58and fixing all this,

00:38:00is a woman's job.

00:38:01Deciding,

00:38:02fixing all this.

00:38:03So do not take more burden,

00:38:05than is necessary.

00:38:06Yes.

00:38:07Do not take so much,

00:38:08that one day you yourself,

00:38:09get irritated,

00:38:10and you say,

00:38:11what,

00:38:12I said I will do it,

00:38:13so now I will do everything.

00:38:14So decide,

00:38:15when to give up,

00:38:17and when to take on,

00:38:18responsibility.

00:38:19True, very true.

00:38:20Because I,

00:38:21I was helpless,

00:38:22when I used to live in Canada,

00:38:24I spent 12 years there,

00:38:25so I was helpless.

00:38:26There,

00:38:27labor,

00:38:28for everything,

00:38:29I could not do it.

00:38:30The life there is different.

00:38:31The life there is different.

00:38:32And secondly,

00:38:33there is a culture,

00:38:34that husband and wife,

00:38:35work together,

00:38:36like a partnership.

00:38:37Here,

00:38:38there is no such culture.

00:38:39For example,

00:38:40if it was snowing,

00:38:41my husband used to do difficult work,

00:38:42but I used to help him.

00:38:43Now,

00:38:44I did not have the experience,

00:38:45of picking up snow,

00:38:46or shoveling,

00:38:47but I had the experience.

00:38:48But now,

00:38:49you learn so many things there,

00:38:50and the women who do not know,

00:38:51I have seen them too,

00:38:52they are very worried.

00:38:53I have seen here,

00:38:54I have seen here,

00:38:55women are pregnant,

00:38:56they are working so hard,

00:38:57with their stomachs,

00:38:58they are working so hard.

00:38:59Husband does not get up,

00:39:00because when his mother-in-law sees,

00:39:01she will say,

00:39:02oh my son,

00:39:03look at his wife's stomach.

00:39:04Such things,

00:39:05do not happen anywhere.

00:39:06Some men,

00:39:07do not even get up,

00:39:08and give water to their pregnant wife.

00:39:10From morning to night,

00:39:11in a common house,

00:39:12there is only one woman.

00:39:14Here,

00:39:15the culture is very different.

00:39:16Here,

00:39:17the culture is different.

00:39:18So,

00:39:19I am talking according to this.

00:39:20Absolutely.

00:39:21After a short break,

00:39:22let us watch,

00:39:23Good Morning Pakistan.

00:39:29Welcome,

00:39:30welcome back,

00:39:31Good Morning Pakistan.

00:39:32So,

00:39:33today,

00:39:34we are discussing,

00:39:35which suggestions,

00:39:36are beneficial for us,

00:39:38and which suggestions,

00:39:40we have asked for.

00:39:41Fine.

00:39:42Direction.

00:39:43That was,

00:39:44probably,

00:39:45someone must have given a suggestion,

00:39:46and my own attitude,

00:39:47was also there.

00:39:48From acting.

00:39:49You must have also been given,

00:39:50because when we used to act,

00:39:51our era was,

00:39:52we started our journey,

00:39:53with a lot of wonderful people,

00:39:57and learned a lot from them.

00:40:01So,

00:40:02that was a good suggestion.

00:40:05Who gave you the suggestion,

00:40:06to direct?

00:40:07I don't particularly know,

00:40:09but all the people,

00:40:10who were around me at that time,

00:40:11when the era of PTV was over,

00:40:13and we came in private,

00:40:15and our frustrations,

00:40:16had increased a lot.

00:40:17Because,

00:40:18their work,

00:40:19our directors,

00:40:20had left us.

00:40:21Yes.

00:40:22Except,

00:40:23your father.

00:40:24Yes.

00:40:25He came,

00:40:26Zaheer Khan came,

00:40:27in private production.

00:40:28So,

00:40:29none of the SS,

00:40:30really came.

00:40:31They kept on and off,

00:40:32but the two people,

00:40:33who came from the firm,

00:40:34were these two.

00:40:35Yes.

00:40:36So,

00:40:37there were no people,

00:40:38we didn't get directors,

00:40:39so we thought,

00:40:40the ones we got,

00:40:41we thought,

00:40:42we get more.

00:40:43So,

00:40:44we all,

00:40:45tried our hand,

00:40:46and it was fun.

00:40:47Yes.

00:40:48So, I think,

00:40:49that was a thing,

00:40:50which was beneficial.

00:40:51Yes.

00:40:52Because,

00:40:53you enjoy doing it,

00:40:54a lot.

00:40:55But,

00:40:56it's a very difficult work.

00:40:57Yes.

00:40:58Even now,

00:40:59if someone gives me a suggestion,

00:41:00to direct,

00:41:01I say,

00:41:02no.

00:41:03Now,

00:41:04I have rejected that suggestion.

00:41:05Yes.

00:41:06Like,

00:41:07I am sure,

00:41:08you also didn't think ahead.

00:41:09Because,

00:41:10now,

00:41:11you want to enjoy life.

00:41:12Yes.

00:41:13But,

00:41:14as you said,

00:41:15it's a very difficult work.

00:41:16It's a very difficult work.

00:41:17It's not easy.

00:41:18And,

00:41:19for a perfectionist,

00:41:20it's even more difficult.

00:41:21The one,

00:41:22who says,

00:41:23now,

00:41:24the team,

00:41:25has to get along together.

00:41:26And,

00:41:27production also.

00:41:28That is very difficult.

00:41:29That's true.

00:41:30And,

00:41:31the next one is,

00:41:32to be independent.

00:41:33This,

00:41:34all of us girls,

00:41:35say this.

00:41:36Yes.

00:41:37This is a good suggestion,

00:41:38isn't it?

00:41:39It's a very good suggestion.

00:41:40Yes.

00:41:41See,

00:41:42there is something,

00:41:43in homes,

00:41:44like,

00:41:45women's politics,

00:41:46so,

00:41:47in that,

00:41:48you feel very weak.

00:41:49So,

00:41:50my very bestest friend,

00:41:51said to me,

00:41:52that,

00:41:53your skills,

00:41:54should be,

00:41:55polished.

00:41:56Polished.

00:41:57You,

00:41:58are already,

00:41:59half a doctor,

00:42:00half a threat.

00:42:01You are also educated.

00:42:02So,

00:42:03your good things,

00:42:04you should,

00:42:05make them,

00:42:06and,

00:42:07take them to people.

00:42:08Okay,

00:42:09my,

00:42:10Mashallah,

00:42:11marriage,

00:42:12in the family,

00:42:13there were,

00:42:14very good people.

00:42:15Well off.

00:42:16Well off.

00:42:17So,

00:42:18there,

00:42:19it was very difficult for me,

00:42:20to do this.

00:42:21Because,

00:42:22if you see,

00:42:23I am making oil,

00:42:24so,

00:42:25I used to feel,

00:42:26that,

00:42:27why should,

00:42:28my daughter-in-law,

00:42:29make oil.

00:42:30Okay,

00:42:31then,

00:42:32there were a lot of talks,

00:42:33about that.

00:42:34But,

00:42:35if you,

00:42:36do any work,

00:42:37no work is small,

00:42:38I would like to tell people,

00:42:39that,

00:42:40to build an empire,

00:42:41or to build a house,

00:42:42first,

00:42:43you have to,

00:42:44have a foundation.

00:42:45And,

00:42:46from the foundation,

00:42:47you take out,

00:42:48water,

00:42:49you take out,

00:42:50soil,

00:42:51you take out,

00:42:52stones,

00:42:53after that,

00:42:54the foundation,

00:42:55is laid.

00:42:56So,

00:42:57I,

00:42:58the advice of being independent,

00:42:59was given to me.

00:43:00Alhamdulillah,

00:43:01today,

00:43:02I am in front of you.

00:43:03I will tell all my women,

00:43:04that,

00:43:05instead of,

00:43:06domestic fights,

00:43:07you are like this,

00:43:08you are like this,

00:43:09you are like this,

00:43:10your skills,

00:43:11even if you know,

00:43:12how to cook good food.

00:43:13Because,

00:43:14the era,

00:43:15we are living in,

00:43:16a lot of people,

00:43:17don't want to cook.

00:43:18Because,

00:43:19the four,

00:43:20five women,

00:43:21the combined family system,

00:43:22our culture,

00:43:23everyone lives in it,

00:43:24everyone has their own food,

00:43:25cooking food,

00:43:26is not such a difficult thing.

00:43:27Not at all.

00:43:28In the kitchen,

00:43:29it is done,

00:43:30it is done,

00:43:31after that,

00:43:32what are you?

00:43:33Your kids have gone to school,

00:43:34you have a lot of time,

00:43:35to think nonsense,

00:43:36to think about things,

00:43:37and politics,

00:43:38not only in the country,

00:43:39there is politics,

00:43:40even inside the house,

00:43:41there is politics.

00:43:42There is a lot of it.

00:43:43So,

00:43:44the politics inside the house,

00:43:45that happens,

00:43:46because,

00:43:47inside the house,

00:43:48the people,

00:43:49are completely free.

00:43:50And,

00:43:51they have nothing to do,

00:43:52except,

00:43:53cooking food.

00:43:54And,

00:43:55in some houses,

00:43:56there is no one else,

00:43:57cooking food.

00:43:58You know,

00:43:59cleaning is done,

00:44:00there is no problem,

00:44:01dusting is done.

00:44:02So,

00:44:03those people,

00:44:04don't know,

00:44:05what to do with time.

00:44:06So,

00:44:07to create adventure in life,

00:44:08they do this.

00:44:09But,

00:44:10in that,

00:44:11not everyone,

00:44:12gets the opportunity,

00:44:13to do business.

00:44:14So,

00:44:15you do your hobbies,

00:44:16you read a book,

00:44:17you do some art work,

00:44:19you do whatever,

00:44:20you feel like doing.

00:44:21Now,

00:44:22we are talking about,

00:44:23being independent.

00:44:24Being independent,

00:44:25means,

00:44:26standing on your own two feet.

00:44:27Yes,

00:44:28one thing,

00:44:29you can read something,

00:44:30if you can't do a job,

00:44:31you can read something.

00:44:32But,

00:44:33instead of putting someone's life,

00:44:34in trouble,

00:44:35if you do a hobby,

00:44:36that is also a good deed.

00:44:37I say,

00:44:38one thing,

00:44:39should always be kept in mind.

00:44:40You said,

00:44:41the family you went to,

00:44:42in that,

00:44:43financially,

00:44:44everything was okay.

00:44:45But,

00:44:46do you know about tomorrow?

00:44:47Yes.

00:44:48In any house,

00:44:49in any set up,

00:44:50you don't know about tomorrow.

00:44:51You should always keep in mind,

00:44:52that,

00:44:53God forbid,

00:44:54today,

00:44:55our source of income,

00:44:56or the person,

00:44:57who is earning for us,

00:44:58should not be there.

00:44:59Inflation,

00:45:00has already increased.

00:45:01So,

00:45:02everyone should have,

00:45:03this skill,

00:45:04or this plan,

00:45:05that,

00:45:06if tomorrow,

00:45:07I am there,

00:45:08to support this house,

00:45:09then how will it be?

00:45:10So,

00:45:11standing on your own two feet,

00:45:12is very important.

00:45:13Very important.

00:45:14For women,

00:45:15and,

00:45:16for us,

00:45:17this is the problem.

00:45:18You have come from,

00:45:19a beautiful world,

00:45:20in this sense.

00:45:21Otherwise,

00:45:22we have a very beautiful world.

00:45:23Yes.

00:45:24But,

00:45:25Our world is more beautiful than theirs.

00:45:26Of course it is.

00:45:27That's impossible.

00:45:28We have relations,

00:45:29we have people,

00:45:30we don't have one house,

00:45:31we have,

00:45:32many houses.

00:45:33But,

00:45:34here,

00:45:35when,

00:45:36someone,

00:45:37doesn't work,

00:45:38then,

00:45:39that badness,

00:45:40and,

00:45:41becomes a burden,

00:45:42for sure.

00:45:43Because,

00:45:44people,

00:45:45who work,

00:45:46they have a problem.

00:45:47Absolutely.

00:45:48Those,

00:45:49who,

00:45:50are living a happy life,

00:45:51they also have a problem.

00:45:52Yes.

00:45:53They,

00:45:54themselves,

00:45:55I remember,

00:45:56on this show,

00:45:57someone said,

00:45:58that you,

00:45:59people ask,

00:46:00that how are you,

00:46:01at this age,

00:46:02how are you?

00:46:03Because,

00:46:04we are working,

00:46:05even now,

00:46:06people keep asking me,

00:46:07that you look fine.

00:46:08People call Bushra,

00:46:09they call me,

00:46:10many people,

00:46:11who are of our age group,

00:46:12the answer is,

00:46:13because,

00:46:14we are working.

00:46:15When,

00:46:16we are working,

00:46:17then,

00:46:18we are not relevant,

00:46:19to the world.

00:46:20Everyday,

00:46:21we look at ourselves,

00:46:22from the world's point of view.

00:46:23Yes.

00:46:24That,

00:46:25how should we look?

00:46:26What should we wear?

00:46:27What should we wear,

00:46:28while travelling?

00:46:29In the surrounding,

00:46:30of our house.

00:46:31And,

00:46:32if our weight is increasing,

00:46:33then,

00:46:34we should become conscious.

00:46:35So,

00:46:36if our skin is getting bad,

00:46:37then,

00:46:38we should become conscious.

00:46:39Now,

00:46:40you are sitting at home,

00:46:41you have left yourself,

00:46:42and,

00:46:43you are feeling bad.

00:46:44Then,

00:46:45you are getting angry at others.

00:46:46Absolutely.

00:46:47It was not anyone's fault,

00:46:48you did it yourself.

00:46:49Your physical appearance,

00:46:50is affected,

00:46:51but,

00:46:52your mental health,

00:46:53is also affected.

00:46:54Exactly.

00:46:55Mental health,

00:46:56is more.

00:46:57Work,

00:46:58work.

00:46:59Sense of achievement.

00:47:00No one can,

00:47:01give such good advice.

00:47:02What is this?

00:47:03Never,

00:47:04involve third person.

00:47:05We have basically,

00:47:06talked about this,

00:47:07that,

00:47:08in small things,

00:47:09instead of involving,

00:47:10the third person,

00:47:11we should involve,

00:47:12the husband and wife.

00:47:13Such a beautiful relationship,

00:47:14is like siblings.

00:47:15For me,

00:47:16the most beautiful relationship,

00:47:17after mother and child,

00:47:18is between,

00:47:19husband and wife.

00:47:20That,

00:47:21we fight like siblings,

00:47:22we share everything,

00:47:23and,

00:47:24while living together,

00:47:25there comes a certain time,

00:47:26that,

00:47:27you get used to each other,

00:47:28that,

00:47:29you feel that,

00:47:30without her,

00:47:31if I drink tea,

00:47:32then,

00:47:33I will not enjoy it.

00:47:34Without her,

00:47:35if I watch a movie,

00:47:36then,

00:47:37I will not enjoy it.

00:47:38So,

00:47:39to this extent,

00:47:40the understanding develops,

00:47:41if there is compatibility.

00:47:42You are so right.

00:47:43So,

00:47:44in that,

00:47:45small things,

00:47:46come like a bubble,

00:47:47and then,

00:47:48it settles.

00:47:49It settles.

00:47:50But,

00:47:51in that bubble,

00:47:52You are trying to say,

00:47:53that third person,

00:47:54should not be,

00:47:55involved.

00:47:56Absolutely.

00:47:57Basically,

00:47:58my mother,

00:47:59and I,

00:48:00got this advice,

00:48:01from her,

00:48:02that,

00:48:03for some time,

00:48:04if there is a problem,

00:48:05at home,

00:48:06give her some time,

00:48:07with a little patience.

00:48:08And,

00:48:09one more thing,

00:48:10I would like to add,

00:48:11that,

00:48:12my mother had told me,

00:48:13that,

00:48:14when husband comes home,

00:48:15or,

00:48:16if there is a working lady,

00:48:17then,

00:48:18it also applies,

00:48:19that,

00:48:20as soon as he comes home,

00:48:21immediately,

00:48:22the many things,

00:48:23that you have taken care of,

00:48:24anger,

00:48:25storm,

00:48:26should not erupt,

00:48:27suddenly.

00:48:28In some time,

00:48:29the next person,

00:48:30should settle,

00:48:31a little,

00:48:32and,

00:48:33should come out,

00:48:34of that mood.

00:48:35Because,

00:48:36you do not know,

00:48:37that whole day,

00:48:38how much time,

00:48:39has passed,

00:48:40or,

00:48:41has come to you.

00:48:42So,

00:48:43that was very useful to me,

00:48:44my mother's advice,

00:48:45that,

00:48:46give a little time,

00:48:47in your relationship,

00:48:48whatever it is,

00:48:49leave it for a day,

00:48:50next day,

00:48:51you will see,

00:48:52your way of thinking,

00:48:53will be completely different.

00:48:54So,

00:48:55it is like this,

00:48:56and,

00:48:57this applies to me a lot,

00:48:58when I am angry,

00:48:59at that time,

00:49:00I should be left,

00:49:01or,

00:49:02if there is,

00:49:03what is it,

00:49:04difference,

00:49:05difference of opinion,

00:49:06if there is,

00:49:07difference of opinion,

00:49:08between husband and wife,

00:49:09so,

00:49:10if at that time,

00:49:11a little,

00:49:12is left,

00:49:13then the next day,

00:49:14you will feel,

00:49:15that there was no problem.

00:49:16Yes.

00:49:17This is the thing,

00:49:18that in anger,

00:49:19never talk to children,

00:49:20because,

00:49:21somewhere,

00:49:22somewhere,

00:49:23you will get carried away,

00:49:24and,

00:49:25later,

00:49:26you will regret,

00:49:27that this thing,

00:49:28I mean,

00:49:29the matter was something else,

00:49:30and I went somewhere else.

00:49:31Yes.

00:49:32And,

00:49:33when husband and wife,

00:49:34will talk in anger,

00:49:35third person,

00:49:36I will say something,

00:49:37to my brothers,

00:49:38that go,

00:49:39you people talk,

00:49:40my brother says,

00:49:41to younger brother,

00:49:42leave it,

00:49:43don't interfere with them,

00:49:44they will sit in the car,

00:49:45and will spit on us.

00:49:46Okay,

00:49:47now next is,

00:49:48nationality.

00:49:49Yes,

00:49:50this is a completely new,

00:49:51new angle,

00:49:52a suggestion,

00:49:53which people were giving,

00:49:54since many years,

00:49:55and we are still,

00:49:56for the children,

00:49:57who are studying,

00:49:58outside,

00:49:59for them also,

00:50:00we were talking to each other,

00:50:01that take,

00:50:02from somewhere else,

00:50:03you know,

00:50:04nationality,

00:50:05you should take nationality,

00:50:06because,

00:50:07as soon as,

00:50:08the situation gets bad,

00:50:09then everyone says,

00:50:10why didn't you take,

00:50:11nationality,

00:50:12you should have,

00:50:13it was easy,

00:50:14what is your problem,

00:50:15and I have always,

00:50:16given it a thought,

00:50:17thought a lot,

00:50:18understood,

00:50:19put it in my mind,

00:50:20that okay,

00:50:21it is a very beautiful place,

00:50:22the friends who are there,

00:50:23they also,

00:50:24tried to convince a lot,

00:50:25that come,

00:50:26but after thinking,

00:50:27no,

00:50:28we won't be able to stay.

00:50:29I will tell you,

00:50:30that,

00:50:31when I was,

00:50:32when I was,

00:50:33when I was,

00:50:34I will tell you,

00:50:35nothing is found,

00:50:36in a plate,

00:50:37this nationality,

00:50:38this ghost,

00:50:39I will call it a ghost,

00:50:40yes,

00:50:41you have been through it,

00:50:42I have been through it,

00:50:43because,

00:50:44see,

00:50:45there are pros and cons,

00:50:46everywhere,

00:50:47and this is a trade off,

00:50:48I had gone for a,

00:50:49completely different purpose,

00:50:50I had told you,

00:50:51my son was small,

00:50:52I didn't want to leave him alone,

00:50:53I wanted to raise him,

00:50:54as a mother,

00:50:55when he became independent,

00:50:56we both came back,

00:50:57to our country,

00:50:58but,

00:50:59it is not easy there,

00:51:00you know,

00:51:01to migrate,

00:51:02the world,

00:51:03there have been studies,

00:51:04that,

00:51:05the most stressful thing,

00:51:06is the work,

00:51:07that you are going through,

00:51:08the first six months,

00:51:09or the first year,

00:51:10that you go to any country,

00:51:11it is so painful,

00:51:12it feels like,

00:51:13you have left your relatives,

00:51:14you have left your friends,

00:51:15since childhood,

00:51:16the nostalgia,

00:51:17of every single thing,

00:51:18you yearn for it,

00:51:19there,

00:51:20it is not easy,

00:51:21whoever gives advice,

00:51:22they say,

00:51:23take this nationality,

00:51:24take this,

00:51:25you go and see,

00:51:26what you have gone through,

00:51:27and,

00:51:28what you have done,

00:51:29and,

00:51:30what you have done,

00:51:31and,

00:51:32what you have gone through,

00:51:33and,

00:51:34after you go through all that,

00:51:35and a lot of people,

00:51:36burn their boats,

00:51:37and go there,

00:51:38and they could not,

00:51:39settle there,

00:51:40then they come back again,

00:51:41and make it from zero,

00:51:42see,

00:51:43because it was my intention,

00:51:44so I spent a lot of time there,

00:51:45for this purpose,

00:51:46because in front of me,

00:51:47there was a larger picture,

00:51:48my child's study,

00:51:49future,

00:51:50whatever it was,

00:51:51so,

00:51:52I did that and,

00:51:53started my motive as a mother,

00:51:54and came back here,

00:51:55the time has passed,

00:51:56a time is there,

00:51:57after the time,

00:51:58all this has winded up,

00:51:59it is not like,

00:52:00that a lot of people,

00:52:01A friend of mine who is living in Canada now, she told me that the cold, which is very dangerous in all these countries,

00:52:12and the snowfall and the removal of snow, we are very blessed that we live in such a country where there are four beautiful seasons.

00:52:24Cold is not a big deal, and summer is not a big deal either.

00:52:28So she said, once I fell on the ice, and you know how the snow freezes, and you are trying to remove it.

00:52:37And I fell on it, and probably broke her arm also.

00:52:41But when she fell, there was no one beside her.

00:52:46Now how will you get up from that slippery ice?

00:52:50Think about it, there is no support.

00:52:52Because it was a porch, she probably wanted to reach her car.

00:52:56And you see how helpless and how difficult the time is.

00:53:00There was a very good dialogue in one of our dramas.

00:53:04I think it was my favorite drama, I forgot the name.

00:53:10Anyway, it was a play on 23rd March on Hum TV.

00:53:13So in that, the writer said, and in the words of the poet,

00:53:17that when you make your own country, you just have to go to other countries to travel.

00:53:22You can't help it.

00:53:25I have seen many such incidents.

00:53:27When I used to get sick, and my nose used to be picked up here.

00:53:30My mother used to get up.

00:53:32Of course, at that time, everyone remembers like this.

00:53:34And there I used to get sick, and I used to get up myself.

00:53:36I used to make soup for myself.

00:53:38Then I used to get a little better, then I used to go to work.

00:53:40Exactly.

00:53:41Then I used to do laundry.

00:53:42So I used to remember that time so much.

00:53:44Only weather and all these things become very superficial.

00:53:48When you don't have your own to support you there.

00:53:51There is no one to support your emotions.

00:53:55Because I have also seen that time when my mother died there.

00:53:58So I was absolutely alone.

00:54:00So I remembered a lot.

00:54:02I remembered all my siblings a lot.

00:54:03The one who is alone is in a lot of pain.

00:54:05The rest are here with us, so that everyone can sit together.

00:54:08Everyone keeps coming for so many days.

00:54:10They keep giving time.

00:54:11I mean, you get so much relief from that.

00:54:14Your relatives come to your house.

00:54:16They work.

00:54:17They sit and listen to you.

00:54:19When Eid comes, there used to be Eid there.

00:54:22So my brother, who is a few years older than me, lives there.

00:54:26So he used to say to me, Ghazal, when do you have to do Eid?

00:54:28Because on working days, Eid used to come.

00:54:30So there was no holiday.

00:54:31There was no Eid holiday here.

00:54:32So I used to say, suppose if Eid is coming on Monday.

00:54:36Eid is coming on Monday.

00:54:37What do you have to do?

00:54:38So I used to say, brother, the day you celebrate Eid, my Eid will be on that day.

00:54:41So think about it, the day you want to celebrate Eid, I will celebrate it on that day.

00:54:45I mean, for me, celebrating Eid with my brother was a value.

00:54:51So you had a brother.

00:54:53I had a brother.

00:54:54Alhamdulillah.

00:54:55Otherwise, Eid is celebrated with friends.

00:54:57Eid is celebrated there too.

00:54:59But often on weekends.

00:55:01Then that day passes.

00:55:02Obviously, you can do a little on that day.

00:55:04Because everyone has to go to work.

00:55:06Absolutely.

00:55:07We are taking a short break from our topic.

00:55:10We are taking a short break.

00:55:11We will continue after the break.

00:55:12Good morning Pakistan.

00:55:19Welcome.

00:55:20Welcome back.

00:55:21Good morning Pakistan.

00:55:22Today we are talking about advice.

00:55:25Which suits us and which does not suit us.

00:55:28And this should be done.

00:55:30You should filter in your life.

00:55:3210,000 people will tell you 10 things.

00:55:34But it is not necessary that they are made for you.

00:55:37Now the next thing is patience.

00:55:39Okay, sometimes, like Ghazal also said.

00:55:42You were all saying that if there is a sudden fight, then you should remain silent.

00:55:48Right?

00:55:49If you remain silent at that time, then you will win.

00:55:52Because if two people start fighting, then where will the matter reach?

00:55:57So you should have patience and also have the courage to listen.

00:56:01That you listen and remain silent.

00:56:05After that, it is wise that when that time passes, then there should be a discussion.

00:56:11Because see, often in the family, not just husband and wife, but many people.

00:56:15Everyone at home gets involved.

00:56:17You must have often seen that they are putting allegations.

00:56:21This and that.

00:56:22You can also find nandas.

00:56:23You can also find saas.

00:56:25All together.

00:56:26At that time, it is wise to be a little patient.

00:56:33Because often in the house, when your husband comes.

00:56:37Then this whole pot is broken in the middle.

00:56:41That your wife did this.

00:56:43Today your wife did this.

00:56:45So the Turkish-on-Turkish fight.

00:56:47In that, you can get hurt somewhere.

00:56:51In that, it is better that you remain silent at that time.

00:56:55After that, you handle this situation.

00:56:59Isn't it?

00:57:00We were also talking about this.

00:57:03This wisdom comes in maturity.

00:57:06This wisdom does not come when you are going through this situation.

00:57:12You are emotional at that time.

00:57:15However, if you give a little time to such a situation.

00:57:21Then you yourself will not find it so big.

00:57:24You are right.

00:57:25For which you are worried.

00:57:27And it comes out of your system.

00:57:29There are a lot of good things.

00:57:31Patience basically.

00:57:32Patience.

00:57:33Patience is your nature.

00:57:37You are right.

00:57:38You can acquire it.

00:57:40Because life is a difficult ordeal.

00:57:44You need patience at every step.

00:57:49You need patience at work.

00:57:51We have three or four children.

00:57:54We know that out of all four children,

00:57:56this child has more patience.

00:57:59We know this.

00:58:00Naturally, this happens in your children.

00:58:04Some have more patience.

00:58:05Some do not have patience at all.

00:58:07But it can be acquired.

00:58:08Yes.

00:58:09It can be learned.

00:58:10It can be practiced.

00:58:11And it is necessary to practice.

00:58:14When we are mature,

00:58:16we say that we understand these shortcomings.

00:58:18Then we work on it.

00:58:20That we do it.

00:58:21But for that, you need maturity.

00:58:24When you are emotional, you do not understand.

00:58:26You do not even know in the beginning.

00:58:27Yes.

00:58:28This is my advice to newly couples.

00:58:32If you do not understand something in each other,

00:58:36then publicly,

00:58:38Often it happens that

00:58:40when husband and wife go out to eat,

00:58:42they start fighting.

00:58:44And nowadays, like you are saying,

00:58:46they have less patience.

00:58:49So, I will tell the girls

00:58:51to be patient.

00:58:53Can I tell you something?

00:58:54I am doing a lot of research on Gen Z.

00:58:57We used to say that

00:58:59fat people should be called fat,

00:59:00black people should be called black.

00:59:01They do not say that.

00:59:02They do not say that.

00:59:03That is why,

00:59:04the well-educated couples of Gen Z,

00:59:06they do not insult each other like this.

00:59:09Because there is a lot inside them

00:59:11that they should not be called small or black.

00:59:13They are a little particular.

00:59:15Sometimes, even we say that

00:59:17they have become so fat.

00:59:19Racism.

00:59:21They start scolding us.

00:59:23That is why, they are a little better.

00:59:25In the olden days,

00:59:27it used to happen that

00:59:29your elders used to speak in front of each other.

00:59:33They used to tell their wives

00:59:35that what has happened?

00:59:36You have put on weight.

00:59:38Slowly, this thing got better.

00:59:40They do not speak so much on the face.

00:59:42See, this is a different thing.

00:59:44But, if we go to a family wedding,

00:59:48someone says something about your wife,

00:59:51or says something about your husband to your wife,

00:59:54or he is talking to someone,

00:59:56you go and start fighting with him right away.

00:59:59So, I am not saying this.

01:00:00Patience.

01:00:01This should happen.

01:00:02And you are absolutely right.

01:00:04This generation,

01:00:05this fat, long, thin, black,

01:00:07they do not ask for anything.

01:00:08This is just peace of mind.

01:00:10Your relationship should be good.

01:00:13And I would like to give a piece of advice to women.

01:00:16Please do not ruin other people's lives.

01:00:18Because, we are women who

01:00:20give direct advice

01:00:22to fill up the son.

01:00:24If there is a mother,

01:00:25fill up the daughter.

01:00:27And all these things go and

01:00:29separate two families,

01:00:31or two good partners.

01:00:34Absolutely.

01:00:35Yes, I mean,

01:00:37the thing to say is,

01:00:39when your daughter gets married,

01:00:41and we tell our daughters from childhood,

01:00:44that now,

01:00:46you will get married,

01:00:47you will go,

01:00:48there is a reference in everything.

01:00:50So, we are telling her,

01:00:51that you will get married.

01:00:53We are wanting that to happen.

01:00:57We,

01:00:58our focus,

01:00:59we focus on the fact that

01:01:01marriage is kind of

01:01:03the ultimate goal of your life.

01:01:06But we do not tell that

01:01:08marriage is a job.

01:01:10It is a work,

01:01:12which will stay in progress

01:01:14the rest of your life.

01:01:16The house where you are living now,

01:01:18in this house,

01:01:19even if you go back and forth,

01:01:21because,

01:01:22the people,

01:01:23who have a house,

01:01:24the parents,

01:01:25with whom you are living,

01:01:26because the parents,

01:01:27they support you.

01:01:29But,

01:01:30because you are a part of their life,

01:01:32you are their responsibility,

01:01:34they will take care of you.

01:01:36They will tell your good and bad.

01:01:38If you go to another house,

01:01:40for that, you need a prep.

01:01:41And that prep is not just

01:01:43clothes and shoes.

01:01:45That prep is,

01:01:46that you go there,

01:01:48and do not think that,

01:01:49if you have a six-month engagement,

01:01:53or a courtship,

01:01:55or a liking,

01:01:56or a marriage,

01:01:58after that,

01:02:00six months,

01:02:01or six years,

01:02:02or sixty years,

01:02:03there will be a difference.

01:02:05Every day,

01:02:06every year,

01:02:07there will be a difference.

01:02:08A lot of girls,

01:02:09go with this mindset,

01:02:10that,

01:02:11today,

01:02:12this boy is like this,

01:02:13he will be like this,

01:02:14even after marriage.

01:02:15Fantasy world,

01:02:16that is when,

01:02:17the more they think,

01:02:18and go into this relationship,

01:02:20it breaks so fast.

01:02:24Their dreams are shattered.

01:02:26And then there are fights,

01:02:27and then there is nagging.

01:02:28If someone feels,

01:02:30that me,

01:02:31or my husband,

01:02:32or my wife,

01:02:33there is something,

01:02:34that is not getting resolved,

01:02:35then,

01:02:36in that,

01:02:37I think,

01:02:38there is a professional help,

01:02:39there are marriage counsellors,

01:02:40therapies,

01:02:41there is nothing wrong in taking that.

01:02:43Absolutely.

01:02:44A lot of things get better.

01:02:45Absolutely.

01:02:46A lot.

01:02:47Mothers need to take therapy,

01:02:48children need to take therapy.

01:02:50How much do you invest in clothes?

01:02:51Couples,

01:02:52definitely.

01:02:53In every couple,

01:02:54we invest twenty-five,

01:02:55twenty-five thousand,

01:02:56and that only,

01:02:57if we have five,

01:02:58five thousand therapy sessions,

01:02:59we do not give.

01:03:00With that,

01:03:01you will enjoy those clothes,

01:03:02if you give.

01:03:03Yes,

01:03:04absolutely.

01:03:05Keep an eye on people,

01:03:06who have less status.

01:03:07You have told us.

01:03:08You have told us.

01:03:09Next.

01:03:10You have told us,

01:03:11and then you are going there.

01:03:12You have told us everything.

01:03:13Next.

01:03:14Take out time for yourself.

01:03:15Take out time for yourself.

01:03:16This is a very good advice.

01:03:17This is the same thing,

01:03:18basically,

01:03:19that we,

01:03:20all day,

01:03:21because in our culture,

01:03:22marriage is not only with a boy,

01:03:23marriage is with the whole family.

01:03:24And you become such a people pleaser,

01:03:28that in order to please everyone,

01:03:30because there is a new family,

01:03:32you have to prove yourself.

01:03:34It is the same,

01:03:35just like we take immigration

01:03:36of a new country,

01:03:37just like that,

01:03:38in in-laws,

01:03:39there is a new immigration,

01:03:40where you have to prove

01:03:41from zero meters.

01:03:42So, while proving,

01:03:43while proving,

01:03:44while proving,

01:03:45there you are given

01:03:46all your rights,

01:03:47in in-laws,

01:03:48it is possible that

01:03:49you do not get all the rights,

01:03:50you have to fulfill

01:03:51your responsibilities only.

01:03:52In such a situation,

01:03:53women get so tired,

01:03:54that they,

01:03:55mentally,

01:03:56mentally,

01:03:57they get demoralized,

01:03:58they lose their confidence,

01:03:59I have seen it,

01:04:00there are news,

01:04:01girls get married,

01:04:02they are so confident,

01:04:03their personality shines,

01:04:04but because they are

01:04:05suppressed,

01:04:06while doing their work,

01:04:07while doing their work,

01:04:08while doing their work,

01:04:09they lose themselves,

01:04:10their personality.

01:04:11So,

01:04:12definitely,

01:04:13take time for yourself,

01:04:14if you get this opportunity,

01:04:15your spouse is so cooperative,

01:04:16that he is letting you study,

01:04:17he is letting you fulfill

01:04:18his goals,

01:04:19then it is okay.

01:04:20You can go,

01:04:21you can go,

01:04:22you can go.

01:04:23So,

01:04:24if your spouse is

01:04:25letting you fulfill

01:04:26his goals,

01:04:27then well and good,

01:04:28nothing like it,

01:04:29otherwise,

01:04:30you should definitely

01:04:31upgrade yourself a little.

01:04:32Social media is full,

01:04:33it is misused,

01:04:34it is misused.

01:04:35You can give

01:04:36as much time

01:04:37as you want for entertainment,

01:04:38rest of the time,

01:04:39you should upgrade yourself.

01:04:40You should polish yourself.

01:04:41Your communication

01:04:42with your children

01:04:43will be better,

01:04:44what we do,

01:04:45we go so far

01:04:46in technology,

01:04:47our children keep

01:04:48moving ahead,

01:04:49there comes a time,

01:04:50son,

01:04:51this is full,

01:04:52how to empty this,

01:04:53we don't even know this much.

01:04:54So,

01:04:55this communication

01:04:56you will get

01:04:57by upgrading

01:04:58yourself.

01:04:59Absolutely.

01:05:00You completely

01:05:01give up

01:05:02your life,

01:05:03you leave it.

01:05:04Yes,

01:05:05you think

01:05:06that maybe

01:05:07I just have to

01:05:08keep them happy.

01:05:09To keep them happy,

01:05:10many times

01:05:11you do so much

01:05:12for them

01:05:13that

01:05:14even if you

01:05:15say no

01:05:16to anything

01:05:17once,

01:05:18then there

01:05:19it will feel

01:05:20like a disaster.

01:05:21So,

01:05:22you should

01:05:23understand it

01:05:24and say

01:05:25what is

01:05:26wrong

01:05:27and what is right.

01:05:28Even if

01:05:29you are not

01:05:30working,

01:05:31you should

01:05:32not give up

01:05:33your personality.

01:05:34Rabina ji,

01:05:35we are

01:05:36taking our

01:05:37mothers for

01:05:38granted.

01:05:39Mothers

01:05:40are doing

01:05:41for everyone,

01:05:42wives are

01:05:43doing for everyone.

01:05:44So,

01:05:45we should not

01:05:46take any

01:05:47person for

01:05:48granted.

01:05:49They have

01:05:50their work,

01:05:51but

01:05:52we have

01:05:53our own

01:05:54fault.

01:05:55If we

01:05:56allow someone

01:05:57to

01:05:58completely

01:05:59control us,

01:06:00then he

01:06:01will

01:06:02control us

01:06:03because

01:06:04it is

01:06:05people's

01:06:06nature.

01:06:07Like

01:06:08you said,

01:06:09if I am

01:06:10doing it

01:06:11willingly

01:06:12and

01:06:13my husband

01:06:14is a

01:06:15good

01:06:16partner

01:06:17who

01:06:18is helping

01:06:19me to

01:06:20achieve

01:06:21my

01:06:22goals,

01:06:23then

01:06:24I feel

01:06:25bad.

01:06:26I have

01:06:27to do it.

01:06:28So,

01:06:29it is

01:06:30our

01:06:31nature.

01:06:32So,

01:06:33if you

01:06:34allow

01:06:35someone

01:06:36to

01:06:37control

01:06:38you,

01:06:39then

01:06:40he

01:06:41will

01:06:42control

01:06:43you.

01:06:44You

01:06:45should

01:06:46not

01:06:47suffocate

01:06:48others.

01:06:49If

01:06:50you

01:06:51allow

01:06:52someone

01:06:53to

01:06:54control

01:06:55you,

01:06:56then

01:06:57he

01:06:58will

01:06:59control

01:07:00you.

01:07:01If

01:07:02you

01:07:03allow

01:07:04someone

01:07:05to

01:07:06control

01:07:07you,

01:07:08then

01:07:09he

01:07:10will

01:07:11control

01:07:12you.

01:07:13If

01:07:14you

01:07:15allow

01:07:16someone

01:07:17to

01:07:18control

01:07:19you,

01:07:20then

01:07:21he

01:07:22will

01:07:23control

01:07:24you.

01:07:25If

01:07:26you

01:07:27allow

01:07:28someone

01:07:29to

01:07:30control

01:07:31you,

01:07:32then

01:07:33he

01:07:34will

01:07:35control

01:07:36you.

01:07:37If

01:07:38you

01:07:39allow

01:07:40someone

01:07:41to

01:07:42control

01:07:43you,

01:07:44then

01:07:45he

01:07:46will

01:07:47control

01:07:48you.

01:07:49If

01:07:50you

01:07:51allow

01:07:52someone

01:07:53to

01:07:54control

01:07:55you,

01:07:56then

01:07:57he

01:07:58will

01:07:59control

01:08:00you.

01:08:01If

01:08:02you

01:08:03allow

01:08:04someone

01:08:05to

01:08:06control

01:08:07you,

01:08:08then

01:08:09he

01:08:10will

01:08:11control

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01:08:13If

01:08:14you

01:08:15allow

01:08:16someone

01:08:17to

01:08:18control

01:08:19you,

01:08:20then

01:08:21he

01:08:22will

01:08:23control

01:08:24you.

01:08:25If

01:08:26you

01:08:27allow

01:08:28someone

01:08:29to

01:08:30control

01:08:31you,

01:08:32then

01:08:33he

01:08:34will

01:08:35control

01:08:36you.

01:08:37If

01:08:38you

01:08:39allow

01:08:40someone

01:08:41to

01:08:42control

01:08:43you,

01:08:44then

01:08:45he

01:08:46will

01:08:47control

01:08:48you.

01:08:49If

01:08:50you

01:08:51allow

01:08:52someone

01:08:53to

01:08:54control

01:08:55you,

01:08:56then

01:08:57he

01:08:58will

01:08:59control

01:09:00you.

01:09:01If

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01:09:03allow

01:09:04someone

01:09:05to

01:09:06control

01:09:07you,

01:09:08then

01:09:09he

01:09:10will

01:09:11control

01:09:12you.

01:09:13If

01:09:14you

01:09:15allow

01:09:16someone

01:09:17to

01:09:18control

01:09:19you,

01:09:20then

01:09:21he

01:09:22will

01:09:23control

01:09:24you.

01:09:25If

01:09:26you

01:09:27allow

01:09:28someone

01:09:29to

01:09:30control

01:09:31you,

01:09:32then

01:09:33he

01:09:34will

01:09:35control

01:09:36you.

01:09:37If

01:09:38you

01:09:39allow

01:09:40someone

01:09:41to

01:09:42control

01:09:43you,

01:09:44then

01:09:45he

01:09:46will

01:09:47control

01:09:48you.

01:09:49If

01:09:50you

01:09:51allow

01:09:52someone

01:09:53to

01:09:54control

01:09:55you,

01:09:56then

01:09:57he

01:09:58will

01:09:59control

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01:10:03allow

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01:10:05to

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01:10:08then

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01:10:10will

01:10:11control

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01:10:13If

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01:10:15allow

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01:10:17to

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01:10:20then

01:10:21he

01:10:22will

01:10:23control

01:10:24you.

01:10:25If

01:10:26you

01:10:27allow

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01:10:29to

01:10:30control

01:10:31you,

01:10:32then

01:10:33he

01:10:34will

01:10:35control

01:10:36you.

01:10:37If

01:10:38you

01:10:39allow

01:10:40someone

01:10:41to

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01:10:43you,

01:10:44then

01:10:45he

01:10:46will

01:10:47control

01:10:48you.

01:10:49If

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01:10:51allow

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01:10:53to

01:10:54control

01:10:55you,

01:10:56then

01:10:57he

01:10:58will

01:10:59control

01:11:00you.

01:11:01If

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01:11:08then

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01:11:10will

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01:11:17to

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01:11:20then

01:11:21he

01:11:22will

01:11:23control

01:11:24you.

01:11:25If

01:11:26you

01:11:27allow

01:11:28someone

01:11:29to

01:11:30control

01:11:31you,

01:11:32then

01:11:33he

01:11:34will

01:11:35control

01:11:36you.

01:11:37If

01:11:38you

01:11:40allow

01:11:41someone

01:11:42to

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01:11:44you,

01:11:45then

01:11:46he

01:11:47will

01:11:48control

01:11:49you.

01:11:50If

01:11:51you

01:11:52allow

01:11:53someone

01:11:54to

01:11:55control

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01:11:57then

01:11:58he

01:11:59will

01:12:00control

01:12:01you.

01:12:02If

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01:12:04allow

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01:12:06to

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01:12:09then

01:12:10he

01:12:11will

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01:12:14If

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01:12:16allow

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01:12:18to

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01:12:21then

01:12:22he

01:12:23will

01:12:24control

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01:12:26If

01:12:27you

01:12:28allow

01:12:29someone

01:12:30to

01:12:31control

01:12:32you,

01:12:33then

01:12:34he

01:12:35will

01:12:36control

01:12:37you.

01:12:38If

01:12:39you

01:12:40allow

01:12:41someone

01:12:42to

01:12:43control

01:12:44you,

01:12:45then

01:12:46he

01:12:47will

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01:12:50If

01:12:51you

01:12:52allow

01:12:53someone

01:12:54to

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01:12:57then

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01:12:59will

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01:13:11will

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01:13:21then

01:13:22he

01:13:23will

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01:13:26If

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01:13:28allow

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01:13:30to

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01:13:33then

01:13:34he

01:13:35will

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01:13:38If

01:13:39you

01:13:40allow

01:13:41someone

01:13:42to

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01:13:45then

01:13:46he

01:13:47will

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01:13:49you.

01:13:50If

01:13:51you

01:13:52allow

01:13:53someone

01:13:54to

01:13:55control

01:13:56you,

01:13:57then

01:13:58he

01:13:59will

01:14:00control

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01:14:02If

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01:14:10then

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01:14:12will

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01:14:15If

01:14:16you

01:14:17allow

01:14:18someone

01:14:19to

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01:14:22then

01:14:23he

01:14:24will

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01:14:27If

01:14:28you

01:14:29allow

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01:14:31to

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01:14:34then

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01:14:36will

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01:14:46then

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01:14:58then

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