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  • 4/24/2025
Thembi emerged from the shantytowns of South Africa on a mission to take on HIV. She travelled the world, met Barack Oba | dG1feE9zMWFZQVhzT00
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00:00I was doing grade 12 and you know I was healthy, pretty, you know, yeah I was hot, I can say
00:16that.
00:17I was very, very, very, very hot, 2002 and you know, when I think about that year that's
00:22where, at first I used to think that year almost really ruined my life.
00:30I'm gonna tell you how I was infected.
00:38I had this boyfriend and then we broke up, a year later I heard that he had died.
00:45When I went to his house, his family was gathered there, I said what happened, was he shot or
00:50was he stabbed?
00:51No, he was sick, that's when I started to get very worried.
00:58I went to the clinic, they bring all the equipment in front of me and just break me
01:03on my finger.
01:04He said you know when your blood looks like this, it means you have the virus, you are HIV positive.
01:12He called me, you know, Melkai, where are you?
01:16I met my house, you know me man, and she said no, can you please meet me between Joslov
01:23and Kailica Stadium.
01:24I said to him no, I'm coming baby.
01:26I just asked her what's wrong, you must come please, just come.
01:32I met her in there and then she was, she didn't wear any shoes, no, her shoes was, she was carrying
01:44her shoes, no, like she said to me, like someone was running or maybe she was running, I don't
01:51know.
01:52And she told me that I have to tell you something, I said what, what's going on with you?
01:57From the love love centre, I came straight and I met him by the school, by the school.
02:03I met him there and I told him that I just come from love life and they said I'm HIV positive,
02:08just like that.
02:09I told her that it's okay, yeah, just like that, yeah, and then she, she went back,
02:15you know, I just hugged her, you know, ah baby, ah, it's okay, but I was, on my mind,
02:21I just, I was, I was thinking about how long I'm going to live, man, how long I'm going
02:26to live.
02:27I went to hell, you know, I disclosed to him and he came home, he didn't know what was
02:33HIV, what was AIDS, what did I tell him, he just told his mother and now everything was
02:37like a mess.
02:38In that time, man, I was, I was, I was, I was so, I was so crazy, you know, and then
02:43scared, you know.
02:44Sometimes I just, just look to myself that, hey, I'm, I think I'm getting things, you
02:47know, but it's my board, you know.
02:50They locked me in this room, they called everyone to come, everyone was like shouting at me,
02:54you know, all those things were happening and that made me stronger and I said okay, if this
02:59is the way that an HIV person has to live, I'm not going to take this route anymore.
03:04I'm going to fight for my battles and I'm going to fight for my life, I'm not ashamed,
03:07you know.
03:08Everyone, everyone can just get HIV without knowing.
03:12We separated for, for, for a, I think a week or two weeks, you know.
03:17I just go back to the team again and say, hey baby, no man, I, I can understand now, I
03:25can go with you to the support group and let me be supportive to you just because like,
03:29okay, there's nothing's going to change, you know, I'm also going to get tested now.
03:42I'm going to fight for you.

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