Second Date Update - Too Emotional

Beasley Digital

4/22/2025

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00:00Second date update right now, commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK.

00:03We are trying to help out Blake this morning, and he seemed nervous with us, which I understand.

00:10Yeah, but he said they had a great date.

00:11They went downtown to Red Mesa Cantina, and he said that they got along really well.

00:16They both have been divorced, so they're both out dating and stuff again.

00:20So I kind of like that, that they're on the same page with that kind of stuff.

00:24He said he's out of practice a little bit, so he was kind of worried about what was going on.

00:28But, you know, she probably is a little bit, too.

00:30Yeah, but he said he can't figure out what happened or why she's not getting back to him.

00:35Okay, so let's call her.

00:52Hello?

00:53Hi, is this Jessica?

00:56Yes, who's this?

00:57Hey, Jessica, this is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.

01:02How are you doing?

01:02Good morning.

01:05Seriously?

01:06This is us, yeah.

01:09Okay.

01:10Well, I'll just ask you straight up.

01:12We want to see if we can talk to you on the air about a date you recently went on.

01:17And it's just a couple questions.

01:19Oh, my God.

01:22Sure.

01:22Okay, thank you so much.

01:24We're actually talking about a guy named Blake that you went on a date with.

01:27We heard you guys went to Red Mesa.

01:30Yeah.

01:31You remember Blake?

01:32Oh, yeah.

01:33Okay.

01:33So, yeah, we'll just let you know what we know.

01:36We heard you guys went to Red Mesa, and you guys seemed to have a great time.

01:40He was very into you.

01:42He did admit that he's kind of out of practice when it comes to dating, and now he wants to

01:46see you again, but can't get a hold of you.

01:48We're just trying to figure out what's up.

01:49So, is there a reason you're not reaching back out?

01:55Yeah.

01:55This is so weird, because I just...

01:58He doesn't really seem like he's in a good place to be dating right now.

02:02So, I'm just all set.

02:04Why?

02:05Why would you say that?

02:06He just doesn't really seem like he's over his ex, like, at all, and I just...

02:13I'm all set.

02:14Like, I'm just going through my own stuff.

02:16I don't need to be involved in anybody else's drama, you know?

02:21Well, why do you think he's not over his ex, and why were you guys talking about your exes?

02:26Right.

02:26You're not supposed to do that.

02:27I mean, that's a question for him.

02:29We went out.

02:31We went to this nice restaurant, and, you know, we were just kind of...

02:36talking, and, you know, and he starts, like, going off about his ex, and he was talking

02:46about all this stuff, like, that she is, like, slandering his name to his friends and his

02:55family and his co-workers and trying to take all of his money, and it was just...

03:03I mean, he was getting so heated about it that I, like, almost felt like he was yelling

03:08at me, which, obviously, I have nothing to do with it.

03:12And any time, like, I'd try to steer the conversation towards, like, a more positive and fun topic,

03:19he would just, like, find a, like, a point to, like, turn it back around, like, oh, my ex

03:26did that, or my ex liked to do that.

03:28Everything I said, he would turn it back to her.

03:31He seemed really, like, like, obsessed with it and obsessed with talking about it.

03:36So, I'm all set.

03:38Like, I don't even know why he had such a good time with me, because he was talking the whole

03:43time.

03:43And, you know, I just got out of a terrible relationship, and I don't want to be in another

03:49one, so...

03:50All right.

03:50Well, that's fair.

03:51Definitely fair, and obviously, when exes are talked about the whole time, that's not

03:56fun for either party.

03:58Jessica, here's the deal.

03:59We have Blake on the phone with us.

04:01Oh, God.

04:02Okay.

04:03And I want to bring him back on.

04:04Blake!

04:05Hey, I just got to say, right off the bat, like, how dare you, like, judge me about how

04:11I'm reacting?

04:12You know, you don't understand what I'm going through, and you have no idea what it's like

04:16to have lies, like, lies made up about you and things like that.

04:20And you asked me...

04:21Okay, well, you need to tell your therapist.

04:23How do I feel about this thing?

04:24That's somebody that you're trying to, like, date.

04:25That's...

04:26I mean, it was not an enjoyable night for me to be your punching bag.

04:33Like, this lady, your ex-wife has nothing to do with me, so I think you need to, like,

04:38head right on on a board of therapy and tell someone else about it.

04:41And not...

04:42That's really, like, offensive.

04:44Like, I can't believe you're judging me and not calling me back.

04:46I'm not judging you.

04:47I just don't think you're ready to date.

04:49See, this is the problem with women.

04:51In general, you act...

04:53Oh, God.

04:54You literally are starting to act.

04:54Here we go.

04:55You sound just like my ex.

04:57Blake, Blake, Blake, Blake, Blake.

04:59You know, I take you out, I treat you nice, and you asked me to be honest, and I opened

05:03up to you.

05:04I can't believe this is the type of person you are, that you bring me on the radio and you

05:07act like this.

05:09Well, you kind of...

05:09I didn't bring you on the radio.

05:11You called me, you idiot.

05:12Yeah, that's true.

05:15Blake, you called us first, remember?

05:17I mean, she's just really, like, she told me to tell her the truth, so I did.

05:22And I was, like, she literally sounds just like my ex right now.

05:25She's, like, just start blaming me.

05:26Why are you talking to me?

05:29I think you should find someone who enjoys hearing about someone's ex for hours upon hours.

05:36Yeah.

05:36It's not me.

05:38All right.

05:39Well, Jessica, thank you for coming on with us today.

05:41Now we know why you have not gotten back to Blake, and I appreciate your time.

05:44Yeah, I think it's pretty clear, right?

05:47Well, I appreciate you coming on.

05:50Thanks.

05:50Bye, guys.

05:51All right.

05:52Blake, it just sounds like things maybe got a little heated, or maybe some emotions got

05:56a little raw on the date, and it is what it is.

05:59Well, that's not how it was on the date, you know?

06:01I don't know.

06:02I was just being honest about how I feel.

06:04Okay.

06:05All right.

06:06Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out with Jessica, but, hey, man, I hope the next date works

06:11out better for you, and I appreciate you reaching out to us.

06:15Okay.

06:16All right.

06:16Well, thank you.

06:16Sorry, man.

06:17Now I know, I guess.

06:18All right, man.

06:18Take care.

06:20The worst thing you could ever do is tell your new girlfriend that she either sounds like

06:26or reminds you of your ex.

06:28Right.

06:29You're right.

06:30And then the other thing is, what do you tell him?

06:32Other than, like, hey, don't talk about your ex.

06:34He's like, well, I was just trying to be honest, and, like, those raw emotions can come up.

06:38I totally get that, but you got to be able to pick your spots when it comes to that, too.

06:43I mean, it's natural you're going to want to know about history and all that kind of

06:46stuff, but we always say not on the first date.

06:49Right.

06:49Would you have judged him for that?

06:51Would you have made that a deal breaker for yourself?

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