00:02He says, I don't know how I could screw up a date in an hour because I just went on a coffee date.
00:07Yeah, I know.
00:07That would be very tough to do.
00:09Yeah.
00:10I'm surprised.
00:11Yeah.
00:11We asked, like, subject matters.
00:14Did that come up?
00:15They would have offended her.
00:16And he goes, no, I'm telling you.
00:16It was just, like, right down the middle.
00:18Like, there wasn't anything crazy that we talked about.
00:19It was more of a kind of an introduction type thing.
00:22I'm thinking it has to be, like, an appearance or something, you know, with a look or maybe dress or smell.
00:28It's got to be, because in an hour, yeah.
00:30Let's see if we can call Trisha right now and get her on the phone.
00:45Hello?
00:46Hi, is this Trisha?
00:48This is Trisha, yeah.
00:49Hey, Trisha.
00:50This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
00:53How are you doing?
00:55Um, great.
00:57Okay.
00:58Well, the fact that you laughed, I think you've heard our show before, maybe?
01:02Uh, like, every day.
01:03All right.
01:04Well, I appreciate that.
01:05So, you know, we do something called 7.15 Second Date Update, and it is about that time right now.
01:11We want to see if we can actually talk to you about a date you went on.
01:14Oh, what did I do to deserve this?
01:16Okay.
01:18Sure.
01:19Well, we wanted to talk to you about Danny.
01:22We heard you guys met on Hinge.
01:24You guys went on a little lunchtime coffee date.
01:26I guess you guys worked kind of similar, uh, in close proximity to each other.
01:30And he really liked you and thought that nothing really went wrong in the hour or whatever that you guys hung out.
01:37And I think he wants to set up a more formal date with you.
01:40And he's been trying, but you have not been responding, uh, to his text.
01:44So, he's just trying to figure out what's going on.
01:45Yeah, well, um, just to put it out there and be blunt about it, I think Danny needs some, like, date etiquette.
01:54Because the last time I looked into how to have a great date, you don't, like, hit up your date for money on the first date.
02:01Money?
02:01How much?
02:02Boy.
02:03What is that?
02:03Does that matter?
02:04It matter?
02:05Yeah, it does.
02:05Yeah, 20 bucks versus a couple hundred.
02:08I don't think you borrow anything, but okay.
02:10No.
02:10Not on the first date.
02:12How much?
02:12Yeah.
02:13Uh, $400.
02:14Yay!
02:15That's too much money to be asking.
02:17He asked you for 400 bucks?
02:19Girl, yes.
02:21He wasn't like, hey, can I borrow this money?
02:23It was like, he was like, uh, you know how people, like, start talking about something and insinuating, like, they're having an issue and then they don't shut up about it?
02:31And then they just keep talking, like, he just kept talking about how he was having an issue with his car and, like, how he was, like, didn't really have the money to cover the repairs.
02:39And it's just, like, one thing after another.
02:42And I'm just, like, over here just trying to, like, get to know this guy and, like, decide, like, do I like the way he smells?
02:47Do I like the way he looks?
02:48Do I like watching him talk?
02:50Like, the basic things you need to, like, get through to decide if you're attracted to somebody.
02:54And he's just, like, negative Nelly going on about his car issues.
02:58And then, yeah, like, it just kind of, kind of ended up with him kind of, like, asking me for $400.
03:05Well, who paid for the date?
03:07Well, that's probably why it was coffee.
03:08He paid for the date, but I think it was, like, $12 or something, you know, for a sip.
03:13I mean, it was, like, not anything.
03:15It was a quick little, like, yeah, it was a quick little touch-up, like, let's just meet kind of thing.
03:20But he said you guys were texting after the date, though.
03:23Yeah, we texted a little bit.
03:25And then he did bring up, again, like, how he was just, like, so bummed out about his car issues.
03:31And he wished he had the money to fix it.
03:32Do you think he's dating on websites to try to get money?
03:37I don't know.
03:38My gut said, like, bye.
03:39And so I just stopped texting him.
03:41But now that you say that, I saw the Tinder swindler on Netflix.
03:45That was wild.
03:48Well, here's the deal, Trisha.
03:50We actually have Danny on the phone.
03:51I want to bring him back on because he did not tell us that, obviously.
03:55Danny.
03:55Did you get your car fixed?
03:56I didn't ask you for money specifically.
04:01I just had, all I told you was that I had some car problems.
04:04You know, there's, like, just a lot of stuff that needed to get done.
04:06And I just had to do it.
04:08I never asked you for money.
04:10I don't know what you're...
04:11Danny, hold on.
04:12Step back a second.
04:13Just the way you verbalized that, like, that's not how you come at me.
04:17You asked me about my life, and that's what's going on in my life right now.
04:19Listen, like, I know you didn't straight up ask me for money, but, like, you were hinting at it.
04:26I don't know.
04:26Like, I just know people like you that just won't stop talking about it and hinting that you need it.
04:31And I think you just expected me to offer to help pay for your car problems.
04:35And that's just not me.
04:36Like, I'm not that girl.
04:38Like, not that girl at all.
04:39I mean, Danny, all seriousness, were you looking at her to maybe help you out?
04:44No.
04:44She just, again, like, she just asked me what's going on.
04:48And I told her I was having trouble with my car.
04:51It's not an easy fix.
04:52I mean, it's kind of a lot.
04:54Like, there's, you know, there's a couple issues, like, with the engine.
04:56And it's like, you know, I got to change the tires and all that.
04:59But, like, that's, you know, that's it.
05:02What if she did offer you the money?
05:03Would you have taken it?
05:06No.
05:08I mean, no.
05:09Yeah?
05:09Look, it's not that.
05:11It's just that it's a lot right now.
05:13And that's just...
05:14I'm sorry that it, like, consumed the date.
05:16It's just been on my mind.
05:17You know, it's just, like, you go to the car and then it's, you know, it's rent and it's, you know, credit cards.
05:22And, you know, things are tight right now.
05:24Welcome to life.
05:25Yeah.
05:26Oh, jeez.
05:27Lana.
05:27Wow.
05:29Sorry.
05:30Well, Trisha, he's saying that he was not looking for money from you.
05:34And if you believe that, would you be willing to go on another date with him?
05:38Really?
05:38I mean, and, like, pay for the date?
05:40Like, credit cards and tie.
05:43It doesn't have a car.
05:44It needs tires now.
05:45He didn't even mention it.
05:45Pick it up on his bike.
05:46Like, if you may not even have a car to get to a date, why are you, like, trying to rush to, like, go on a date?
05:51Like, just...
05:52I feel like people need to just...
05:53Sorry, but no.
05:54Like, he just needs to, like, handle his, like, life stuff.
05:56Okay.
05:57And maybe hit me up when, like, he's in a better place.
06:00All right.
06:00Well, that's fair.
06:01Well, listen, Danny, I'm sorry that you are having these problems with your bills.
06:04It sounds like Trisha's going to pass on another date, but I wish you luck with everything, and hopefully everything gets worked out.
06:14All right.
06:15I mean, I guess I'll just...
06:17All right.
06:18Thanks, Danny.
06:19Thank you, Trisha.
06:20Yeah, thank you, guys.
06:22I hope next time we can talk about something more fun.
06:24All right.
06:25You guys have a great day.
06:26You too.
06:27Take care.
06:28All right.
06:29What do you think, Lana?
06:29Was she...
06:30Was he asking for money?
06:31I think he would have totally taken it had she said, hey, I could borrow you.
06:36I could lend you some money.
06:37Yeah, I think he would have taken it.
06:39One thing she said that stuck out to me is when she was all, listen, I know people that hint at that, and they're waiting for you to be like, oh, let me help you out, you know?
06:47Because you know people like that.
06:48Yeah, I mean, you almost feel obligated to...
06:51To lay it on you like that, yeah.
06:53Help somebody out.
06:54I mean, sometimes you can, sometimes you can't.
