What's Cooking?

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4/22/2025

What's Cooking?

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00:00well sarah's very confused after her date with adam it's 7 15 second date update uh they went to

00:06noble crust uh she said it was great and also that he was very genuine but now has no idea why

00:13he will not return a text so we actually have on the phone uh kevin tracked him down let's bring

00:19him back on right now uh adam you there yeah hey man i know it's a little bit confusing right now

00:25uh but let me try to explain uh we heard from a girl named sarah that you went on a date with

00:30to noble crust uh she really was bragging about you what a genuine nice guy you were and she is just

00:38very confused why now that she's reached out since your guys's date um she hasn't heard anything back

00:43from you because she thought things really went well and was really excited to see you again but

00:48can't get a hold of you uh well i mean yeah look she she she was great and nice and uh very pretty

00:58and we had a good time um i don't know what to say i mean i just you know i'm kind of out here

01:04not just playing the field or anything i'm looking for somebody and i just there was kind of a deal

01:11breaker for me you know what was the deal breaker is she is she not looking for something serious or

01:16what uh no i think she is and she's she's great and i think she'll what's the deal breaker man

01:24ah well i yeah i'm afraid of like coming off shallow and and then not like that i've just

01:31you know i'm out here looking for my whatever forever person you know and rip off the bandage

01:38yeah that's here she doesn't she doesn't cook and i and i don't mean like professional chef or

01:46like she she does not cook at all at all at all and i i'm that i'm that's one of the things i'm

01:55looking forward to like i cook i was gonna ask you i mean do you cook or yeah no i do i cook you

02:01know and and i'm not looking for like someone to be my cook i'm just talking about someone who also

02:08cooks that's all you know like i think that's a it's a big thing it's a big part of like

02:13life when you get out of the scene uh in your home you know or are you gonna just keep going out

02:21all the time ordering in all the time like that's crazy that's like that's so you guys are talking on

02:28the date and she goes nah and you ask her if she cooks and she says no and then that's that was the

02:33red flag for you yeah i think it was i mean one of the dishes i said like oh this would be so easy

02:39to make and she said why you know like you just order it and like that kind of opened up that onion

02:46you know uh and yeah she she just she says she just doesn't cook at all like like has an aversion to

02:56it it's kind of you know alarming to me that her parents didn't get through her whole life without

03:01learning just like a basic life skill maybe you misunderstood did you did she say she doesn't

03:07or doesn't know how to both both things she was like i don't i don't want to like against it you

03:16know like i'm against cooking my foot down but if you know how to cook why does it matter if she knows

03:22how to cook well i'm also not just trying to be somebody's cook i want to you know i would i would

03:29love to cook for her i'd love to have her cook for me i'd like that to be a part of my life with

03:35somebody is that we cook for each other but i don't want to be somebody's cook well i understand

03:42why you're like i don't want it to sound shallow because i get what you're saying but i also get

03:45that you're like hey this is something that i want to share with somebody all right well here's

03:49the deal adam we actually have sarah on the phone and i want to bring her back on because i think

03:51this is actually pretty interesting so give me one second sarah you there i'm here so sarah real quick

03:58i just want to make sure that we're hearing it correctly you're not someone that is cooks

04:02interested in cooking nothing no i mean cooking just seems like so much work and why would you do

04:08that when you can order a meal that's delicious and i work hard and i make money so i can afford it

04:14that's fair i mean it is i mean i eat healthy it's not like i'm like ordering kfc every night

04:20you know yeah i get like healthy stuff i guess it's quality

04:26i'm not trying to change you like if that's good for you that's great and i'm all for going out

04:32dinner but um you know you sort of take the specialness away from it when you do it all the

04:37time i mean but cooking all the time is so wasteful like you have to spend so much time cooking and

04:45like chopping everything and boiling everything like you could just be spending more time together

04:50than just like cooking food and that's a great point time is money yeah i don't think that's a

04:57great point okay i take your back yeah be quiet over there kevin again i'm not trying to like

05:04shut you in the kitchen and i'll see you in two hours when a meal is ready you know hang out with

05:10you in the kitchen like you could cook and i could drink wine and hang out with you and talk to you

05:14music on like why do i have to be in there like slaving away if i don't like it you don't that's

05:19that's the whole point and and and honestly that's why i don't think this is gonna work out would you

05:25ever be interested in taking a cooking class with adam like something that you do together because

05:28i've heard of couples doing that together would you ever be interested in that no i don't like it i

05:33don't have have any desire to do that and i don't i mean that's that's the only problem that seems

05:39so silly like i can make you a sandwich i can make you whatever you want pb and j tuna sandwich

05:45i just put you know like i can do easy stuff like that my six-year-old niece is making her own peanut

05:52butter and jelly sandwiches like that's there's a certain amount of development that just hasn't

05:56happened that's kind of what i'm getting at here i just don't get it like if everything else is good

06:02and that's the only problem like why can't you negotiate like listen we've been on one date i don't

06:08know that everything else is good but i do know that this one major thing is not good and i'm

06:13wondering what other things are not good if this oh my god oh my god seriously because i don't cook

06:20like why don't you don't cook it's that you've got this like adamant opinion about it that like

06:26you're not going to be like a basic part of life adam so this is gonna be a deal breaker for you man

06:32it really is this is not what i'm looking for and i'm not out here playing well sarah you heard

06:39what he had to say it's just not gonna be for you i mean it's just different different preferences and

06:43different things you guys want in a relationship and a mate i guess i'm sorry it's not gonna work

06:48out but now you know now i know i guess i should like get my uber driver because at least he would

06:53understand all right all right well listen sarah thanks for coming on thanks for reaching out adam

07:00thank you for your time as well you guys have a great day yeah thank you all righty i mean listen

07:06i don't think it's that big of a deal but if you're already arguing about something like that

07:11that's not a good sign no and it's a deal breaker for him like it's the end of the world that she can't

07:16cook i mean they do say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach but she can order out

07:21they're just called uber eats there's uh other things i mean yeah he that was a big point of

07:27intention for him it was well all right let's see what you think 800-992-1099 800-992-1099

07:33is adam being shallow or does he have a point let's hear it

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