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Transcript

00:00oops all right oh no we're not on yet going on now

00:06all right looks like we are live now with bonnie marshall and we um our sessions have been going

00:18a little faster than planned which is good normally we're running out of time and we're

00:25running around trying to figure out who can do a little less time so i'm fine with this this is

00:30awesome but we have bonnie marshall with us and many of you know especially if you're a part of

00:36our unveiled ministries page you see her often on her we use her often she's brilliant she's a

00:43psychologist she's also a powerful woman of god and a minister and there's many other things that

00:49she's involved in but i appreciate her giving herself away for the kingdom of god really and

00:55helping women and men but today we're speaking primarily to women although we have had some men

01:02come on today to help us move forward to help us face our inward issues and things that are

01:09exasperating them and tonight or i should say today she's going to be speaking about anxiety

01:15and the root causes and how to overcome how to battle through them and she's just going to bring

01:21incredible just take lots of notes you're going to want to take lots of notes but bonnie i'm just

01:28going to go ahead and push you in here let the lord use you and pour out what he has been pouring

01:35into you for us today we love you so much thank you bonnie well i love you and i love our facebook

01:44audience and audience on zoom and other platforms i just want to thank uh i want to thank god for

01:52stephanie haney montez for the vision that she's always had for emotional health uh of our of women

02:03and and all women any women anywhere stephanie is on it when it comes to emotional health i appreciate

02:11her passion and her focus for emotional health and spiritual health because it ties in you know if

02:20you're not emotionally healthy you're not going to be spiritually healthy or vice versa so um and uh

02:26you know and stephanie has this great vision and passion i'm grateful for unveiled ministries i believe in

02:33it i believe in my friend stephanie i want to thank her for again giving me an opportunity to speak

02:39uh last night was great and this morning i have a specific direction here so yes take notes and uh

02:48and you know just just do whatever you can to retain the information i want to go straight away

02:55into a scripture here and many of you probably know the scripture but this scripture really resonates

03:04with the topic that i'm going to be talking about which is anxiety the cause of anxiety and how to battle

03:13through it hebrews chapter 2 verse 14 and 15 so if you have your bibles with you or if you you have your

03:20ipad your phone you've got your you know electronic bible with you just pull it up hebrews chapter 2

03:2714 and 15 if you don't have any of that at least take notes on it so you can refer to it later

03:34for as much then as the children are the partakers of flesh and blood he also talking about jesus he also

03:45himself likewise took part of the same that through death that's jesus's death through death of course he's

03:56now he's been made alive but through death he might destroy him him the devil that had the power of death

04:05that is the devil and deliver them deliver the children you and me who through fear of death were all

04:14their lifetime subject to bondage listen closely to this part of the scripture

04:20the writer of hebrews under the anointing of the holy ghost is saying jesus came to deliver people

04:30who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage if you fear loss if you fear death

04:43if you fear loss if you fear the unknown then you will struggle with this issue and it is it is a

04:54emotional it's a psychological issue it's called anxiety the the root of it and anxiety is not the root by the

05:03way anxiety is a symptom anxiety is a symptom a lot of people think anxiety is the root the root of

05:11anxiety is the fear of death the root of all anxiety is the fear of death which produces the fear of loss

05:23i'm not just talking about biological death meaning well i'm going to die of sickness or i'm going to die

05:29of a heart i'm not talking about just biological physiological death i am referring to any kind of death

05:35death of death death of a marriage death of a death of a loved one death of someone else that you care

05:43about death of a job death of a chapter in your life loss grief today uh stephanie talked about grief

05:53and how that causes fear and that causes certain uh struggles in individuals when you are fearful

06:03of losing anything in your life you will struggle with anxiety not fun now why is this relevant for me to

06:17uh build a platform here on what causes anxiety because as human beings we get attached don't we

06:27we get attached to people we get attached to our children we get attached to our spouse nothing

06:34wrong with godly attachments nothing wrong you need to be attached to your children and your husband that

06:41those are godly attachments provided it is godly and it doesn't go above and beyond godly you know

06:46sometimes you can be so over attached to someone that you are no longer attached to god now that becomes

06:54ungodly at that moment it becomes ungodly so you got to balance your attachment and we get attached to

07:00our cars i'm not sure that's godly even though i like my car i like my car but if it if god decides to

07:09take it away well okay that's okay uh you know and uh i'm i'm i'm deeply attached to my husband

07:17he's a great guy he's easy to be attached to but am i attached to him more than i am connected to god

07:25that's the question i'm attached to my dogs oh they rule me i'm telling you i pay them i pay my dogs

07:34rent to stay in their house no i'm just kidding that's what they think but i'm attached to them i'm

07:40attached to certain friends i really am i have an attachment to certain people in my life that i

07:47value it and and i value that input in my attachment but my i'm attached and you know i'm attached to

07:54my career my job as not only a a minister um but but i i'm a counselor i'm a therapist i'm attached to

08:03that job my question is is your attachment causing you

08:08to be over focused on something and under focused on your relationship with god because when you do

08:22that when you have a wrong focus when your focus is uh has just gone off the bed

08:31then you will struggle with anxiety because you know why then you will begin to fear the loss of

08:40that attachment if you are overly attached to your job you're going to fear losing the job if you're

08:48overly attached to your car your property your home your family member including your family members

08:55and children you're overly attached you are going to fear losing them and you're thinking well isn't

09:01that normal to fear losing your child yeah it is very human to fear losing your child but then if that

09:09fear drowns you and the fear destroys you that's no longer normal that's not what god wants god wants

09:17is to be able to release these attachments to him and to have healthy attachments and not unhealthy

09:25attachments healthy connections and not unhealthy connections and that is why at some point this

09:32morning i would like for us to to do an exercise like i did last night i did i did a physical exercise

09:40to give you that uh to identify and to be able to have a visual of what's going on in the spiritual

09:49so i would like to do an exercise on attachment and disattachment okay or or or unattaching if you like

09:59that's such a word fear of death now let's talk about the three main elements

10:10of this word fear now i am not including fear of god fear of god fear of god is important you need to

10:18we we need to fear god that's the only fear that god allows fear him in holiness and in uh you know in

10:27reverence you fear god i'm talking about a carnal fear the fear of death the fear of loss

10:35the fear that comes out of over attachment the first element of fear is insecurity if you're taking

10:45notes take this take this word down insecurity the first element of fear is insecurity what is

10:54insecurity something bad is going to happen that is the first element of fear where people i have

11:02counseled many people that literally live in this in this place something bad is going to happen

11:09something bad is going to happen to my kids something bad is going to happen about you know why

11:13because some of them have actually gone through something bad in the past some of them have gone

11:18through some severe trauma in the past accident fire uh injury sickness uh loss a death of somebody

11:27so that trauma that trauma leaves people paralyzed in this place where they're thinking something bad

11:35is going to happen because something bad happened before so something bad is going to happen tomorrow

11:40that is number one element of fear that has to be conquered that has to be conquered

11:47number two okay so number one was what insecurity something bad is going to happen insecurity

11:53number two is helplessness helplessness what is helplessness is there is nothing i can do

12:02okay so something bad is going to happen number two there is nothing i can do about it i mean both of this is

12:11actually a lot it is a lot you cannot see the future i cannot see the future we don't have some kind

12:18crystal ball i mean we we cannot see the future but yet we begin to believe that something is bad is

12:24going to happen this afternoon or tomorrow next week or next year

12:27and even if that were true the second element of fear then comes into play helplessness well if something

12:39bad does happen and it has happened well there's nothing i can do about it that's not true that's another

12:46why see fear is based on a series of lies a series of lies number three isolation okay isolation there is

13:00no one to help me that's the third element of fear isolation there's no one to help me so

13:07the first element is something bad's gonna happen the second element there's nothing i can do about it

13:13the third element there's no one to help me

13:16and that's another line if you're a christian you know that there's someone there to help you

13:21these causes may operate individually or in various combinations these are the

13:28the uh the three elements can either work together okay to keep you paralyzed or they can operate

13:35individually

13:36in order to enough going into i've already defined anxiety for you now okay so if you

13:45need a clear definition of anxiety that was the first 10 minutes of of this particular uh session

13:53here how do we overcome it how do we battle through it

13:59we first of all disconnect from stress

14:03what in any order in order in order to disconnect from stress okay why am i using this why am i stressing on stress

14:14i am using that word stress it is it is it is a medical term it is a medical term it's a psychological term but it's become very

14:24it's used very often in in in the world of the late the late blame it uh stress is the real power source

14:34of anxiety fear is the root of anxiety but stress is the power stress is what feeds anxiety and

14:45this is even worse anxiety feeds stress so they feed each other

14:52stress feeds anxiety anxiety feeds stress you're stuck and you're losing your mind and you just want to end it all

15:01and we don't have to because we have a plan of action spiritually through the word and and uh

15:10professionally through tools of counseling that we can beat this we can beat this

15:16how do you disconnect from stress well first of all you have to ask yourself a question this is how you start

15:25what is my focus right now that's the question you ask what is your focus right now is it your health

15:32is it your job is it your marriage is it your relationship is it your business your spouse

15:40is it the kids is it the in-laws is it is it you know the situation that's going around us is it is it

15:48the political atmosphere in the in the country is it the government is it whatever what is your focus

15:55right now what is your focus right now let me tell you if you are focusing on any one of the above that

16:06i've listed health job marriage relationship business government spouse kids in-laws outlaws whatever

16:16if you're focusing on any one of these more than you are on god you will

16:25suffer a high level of stress because you will then begin to fear the unknown you will begin to fear

16:39the loss of an attachment you will begin to fear what these other things can

16:46what what other uh unknown factors can occur in your life you will begin to fear you will worry

16:54now i'm going to introduce a new word worry you will worry if you are focusing more if you are putting

17:02more energy and more time on any of this more than you are on god you will worry you will fear

17:09you will stress out and that is what gives rise to anxiety and even worse torment

17:21the bible says fear brings torment i don't want any of us to be tormented i don't want to be tormented

17:31you don't want to be tormented that worry and torment will stress you out it will suck out

17:37every drop of juice that you have it doesn't matter how how much uh you are filled with god or how how

17:49closely you walk with god i mean of course that does matter but what i'm saying is that that stress will

17:55if you allow stress in your life you are not going to walk in peace with god you can't do both

18:01there's no way if there's stress in your life you are going to struggle with your walk your spiritual

18:09walk you're going to struggle with your with with your relationship every relationship marriage

18:15children there is no way you will not struggle if you uh if you have that much of stress in your life

18:23that worry will stress you out that fear of death the fear of the loss of that attachment the loss

18:31of the job the loss of the business the loss of the spouse the loss of your kids the the worry that

18:37one day your kids will you know my kids will you know one lady in counseling said i'm stressed out

18:43all the time i'm thinking my kids will never be saved i said that's it right there that is your power

18:48source of that's feeding your stress you are so over focused on the future of your it's okay for

18:57you to pay some attention to the future of your kids and the future of your relationships or the

19:03future of your marriage your spouse or whatever if you're over five children you are so over focused

19:10on a given result you want to see your children do exactly that but god may have a different plan

19:17god may want to take them around the wilderness a few times god may want to take around take your

19:24children or your spouse or yourself take you to a wilderness walk a few times so that we learn some

19:33things they learn some things and they are instructed and they change it but but but we don't want that

19:39we know no god no you you do whatever you want to me but my kids you know leave them alone

19:46sometimes we do that we want god to leave our children alone can you believe that

19:54and so if you if you are committed if you are over committed to a specific result a specific given

20:02result okay my kids must turn out this way my marriage must turn out this way or else i will lose my mind

20:10or else i'm then you know what you will do you will do everything you can you will invest everything

20:18you have you will even invest your time that you need to invest with god you will invest even that

20:23time and that energy on trying to protect on trying to to to protect some things whether the relationship or

20:34whatever whatever whatever attachment trying to protect the job trying to protect the business

20:38the money the finances your health

20:42you will do all of that because you fear the loss of that attachment you fear that attachment being lost

20:51you fear that your your your spouse may never uh be the kind of spouse that you would prefer god may have

21:01a different plan not a bad plan it's god's plan can't be bad but but he may have a different plan to bring

21:08you your bring your spouse your children your family your friends to a to a place where they have more

21:14revelation more relationship but you are you're stuck you're bent on your plan you're bent on uh you know

21:23making sure your plan survives you know if you're not interested in god's way of doing things and but

21:33you're stuck on your way you're going to fear you're going to fear you're going to suffer anxiety and

21:39stress it'll suck out the juice and you will be left hydrant and the only way out is to disconnect

21:47from the power source of your stress whatever you are worriedly focusing on whatever you are worriedly

21:58focusing on

22:01i mean jesus said

22:04he said the treasures of this world that includes relationships he was including relationships

22:10he was including the car the job the house everything the money whatever he said the treasures of

22:17this world are subject to decay they're all going to pass away he was saying look

22:22they're not going to last long only your relationship with god only god lasts that's it

22:29they're subject to decay and can be taken away but heavenly treasures are secure prayer

22:36can never be taken up prayer is a heavenly treasure your relationship your walk with god is a heavenly

22:42treasure your your promise of separation from worldly things is a heavenly treasure

22:52the holy ghost is a heavenly that will never be taken away from you

22:55unless you sever all ties with god

23:01the promise of salvation the promise of salvation within the gospel that is you know holy ghost and

23:07baptism in the name of jesus you know living a life of repentance will never be the power of that

23:12will never be taken away that is forever that's forever

23:17no that's forever

23:21my question is are you focused on god and his kingdom is that your real priority or are you

23:27focused on stuff that is subject to decay that was what jesus was he was challenging us to re-examine

23:34re-evaluate our priorities what are you focused on or should i say what are you over focused on

23:43love your children love that give them the best life you can and the best education support them be

23:51there for them love your spouse support your spouse and be there for them love them

24:02but if you're over focused then the loss of that relationship that loss of that whatever that whatever

24:09you're focused on money job whatever business help you some people are so over focused on their youth

24:17that they will do anything to remain young i'm not i i am not at all critiquing anyone

24:23that wants to look presentable and look nice and look look uh you know uh attractive

24:30you know and and that it glorifies god but but if if you're over focused on your youth

24:37you're gonna end up spending thousands of dollars trying to catch up on time

24:46and you're going to worry you're gonna stress out oh no i look like you're gonna stress out

24:58martha remember martha mary okay martha was busy in the kitchen

25:06martha was not wrong to be preparing a meal for jesus she was not wrong

25:12in her in her determination to serve god she wasn't wrong she just had her priorities mixed up

25:22serve god do you know how many people i know that they will be so over focused on even their

25:27ministry that they will forget their relationship with god you cannot set up your relationship with god

25:35because somebody's put a microphone in your hand and you're to you're involved in ministry whether

25:41you're singing solo or you're singing in the praise team or the choir or you are a usher or you are a

25:48pastor or you're a pastor's wife you are a whatever ministry you're doing in the church you cannot

25:56set out your walk with god because of the ministry the ministry cannot take precedent over god himself

26:06how many ministerial couples i personally counsel so many ministerial couples have have just you know

26:13decided to go their separate ways they left the truth they walked away from the gospel they've

26:20they've been burned out you know why they've been burned out because they have put god second and

26:25their ministry first and then they fear whatever you put first remember whatever you put first whatever

26:32you are over focused on you are going to fear the loss of that so these people in ministry begin to fear

26:40losing their ministry they begin to fear losing the church or losing their place in the kingdom not in

26:47the kingdom but in the church they begin to fear losing their position as uh this leader or that they even

26:54fear beginning to lose their department and if you try to if you try to you know uh take that ministry

27:02many pastors after you know they you try to take that ministry away from them or you say you know what

27:07you need to you need to serve in this area you need to give this up to this person they get mad

27:12they get mad they walk away why because they've been overly attached to something that is not permanent

27:18nothing on this earth is permanent you don't have a permanent spot on this earth i'm sorry

27:26you don't have a permanent spot you there is no permanent spot in your church or in your department

27:32or in your ministry for you it's not permanent god can move you around anytime any which way he wants

27:38he can move you around god gave you that ministry he can take you out of that ministry and he can move

27:45you around he can say you know what i don't want you to sing anymore i want you to go do this instead

27:50i don't want you to be a youth leader anymore i want you to go serve here instead i don't want you

27:55to be a pastor anymore i want you to move to this instead and you're going to get offended you're going

28:01to get mad at god and at people and leadership because god is moving you around then you have become

28:08over attached to your ministry more so than your attachment with god and that is the source of your

28:15stress that is deathly it is the fear of death death the loss the ending death is ending the end of your

28:25ministry the end of so you fear the end of something that you've invested so much in

28:32yeah it's normal to be sad if you lose a particular ministry and you're moved on to something else

28:40it's normal to be a little sad or even grieve about it but if you can if you're paralyzed by

28:45resentment and bitterness and anger then you're not then that's over and above

28:52what you need to be doing that will eat you up that will destroy you

28:57and and in this whole teaching i am trying to let the the you know my my friends here on facebook

29:08and zoom for you to know that

29:14this is not the way god wants you to live

29:19this is not the way god wants you to live to walk with him

29:24the next thing that i want to talk to you about and i'm going to finish in five minutes

29:43one of the things that causes great stress and anxiety is that when we are we try to be fixers and

29:52rescuers stop trying to be a rescuer and fixer of other people you can't you can't fix even your own

30:00children if they don't want to change you cannot fix the spouse that doesn't want to change you cannot

30:06fix the co-worker or the boss or the neighbor or your friends or even your best friends or family

30:12member cousin and stepfather whoever you cannot fix them or rescue you cannot even rescue people if

30:19they don't want to be rescued you can't so you need to stop trying to be a fixer and a rescuer

30:26you and let me tell you let me tell you who are those individuals who tend to be rescuers and fix

30:32they want to fix everybody so that you know they think that if i fix them then they're going to be

30:37fine if i fix them if i rescue that boy if i rescue that that girl that family member or whatever

30:43they're going to be fine let me tell you these are people who really believe that they can control

30:48other people's lives no you can't the only thing you can do you cannot change somebody else but the

30:55only thing you can do is change your response to someone else if someone is living the life that they

31:01ought not live and they're destructive you can warn them you can advise them that's what i do five days a

31:09week and you can advise them you can warn them you can give them a a map a gps you know you that's what

31:17you are you're a gps you can tell them hey hey hang a left hey hang a right hey take a u-turn you've just

31:27missed you've missed your you've missed that exit take a u-turn you are a gps that's it you can give

31:34them advice on what to do but you cannot do it for them the only thing that you can do is change your

31:42response to someone who doesn't want to live a godly life you got to change your response you got to

31:51take your hands off that situation and release them to a wise god a good god a god that loves them

31:59more than even you love them a lot of people don't like me to say this in counseling i've told

32:06i've told wives god loves your husband more than you do they're like what god loves your kids more

32:12than you do believe it or not god actually loves your children more than even you do and some mothers

32:18don't want to hear it but he does it depends on how much you trust god if you trust god you have faith

32:26in god you will release your loved ones to god you don't have to be in control of everything or

32:35everyone you don't have to fix everything in everyone's life first of all you can't but you

32:41don't even have to try you know why because that was that is going to stress you out more than any

32:46it's trying to fix somebody trying to rescue someone that don't want to be fixed or rescued

32:51even if they want to be fixed or rescued don't do it stop release them to god

32:58see peace your peace of mind does not depend on solving all of the problems of everybody that's

33:06your peace of mind does not depend on that your peace of mind does not depend on writing all the

33:12wrongs or removing all the imperfections in your in your circle in your world in your family removing all

33:19the imperfections and all the stuff that worries that's not how you achieve the peace of mind you

33:26achieve peace of mind and there's a scripture that goes with it and the scripture says

33:34thou will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on thee because he trusts in thee oh lord

33:41that's isaiah 26 isaiah 26 and 3 that i will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on thee

33:51because he trusted in thee oh lord that's the way to find peace is your mind stayed on god or is it

33:59stayed on everything else all of the other chaos that's going there's a lot of chaos in our country right

34:05now there's a lot of chaos in our country there are factions and divisions and hatred and and everybody

34:12is vying for their own whatever there's all kinds of stuff happening i don't like it i love my country

34:19i don't like what's happening in the united states but my mind i've got to make up my mind my mind is

34:25stay on god is it stayed on god is it stayed on god dear viewers is it stayed on god

34:37the heart of being wise is the heart of knowing what to overlook are you overlooking certain things

34:45and releasing it to god or are you involved in everybody everybody else's problems are you taking

34:51on everybody else's problems are you taking on your children's problems or releasing it to god

35:00fear leads to torment there is no fear in love you know if you are really filled with god's spirit

35:07you should not fear because god's spirit is perfect love there is no fear in love because perfect love

35:14cast out fear that's first john and four first john 4 18 says perfect love casts out fear because fear

35:23fear hath torment and he he that fears is not made perfect in love wow wow that means love and fear cannot

35:34co-exist they cannot co-mingle love and fear cannot exist together if i fear then i don't have the love of god

35:42if i have the love of god i i must not fear i i cannot fear so i need to be filled with his spirit i need

35:51to be filled with this perfect love so much that it casts out fear only when you are filled with his spirit

35:59it will cast out that fear and when fear is working that fear torments the soul fear pushes the soul out of

36:07peace and causes men and women to forget about god and then that person begins to work his own works

36:14in the flesh to attempt to solve his own problems to get rid of that fear that never works that never works

36:23that never works i have so much to say about anxiety and i suppose we need another session or two to finish

36:30anxiety i want to talk about approval addiction that causes and how to overcome approval addiction

36:38how to overcome achievement addiction people people want approval from their kids from their

36:44from their boss from their friends and because of that they sell out on the basic tenets of godliness

36:51and i want to talk about that if stephanie gives me an opportunity another time we will talk about that

36:56we're running out of time but i want to talk about how to stop seeking that approval how to overcome and

37:02beat the battle of approval addiction i want to talk about that another time but i want to do i want us

37:09to do something right now just two more minutes and i'm done i want you to find a place in your living

37:16room your car your office wherever you're listening uh to this um to this particular session here on unveil

37:29i would like you to imagine that you are you are plugged into your source of stress

37:37whatever that is you're over focused in you are plugged into that source of stress

37:42okay that's an ungodly plug i want you to get a hold of that plug right now stephanie you'll do it

37:50with me get a hold of that plug right now all right now i want you to think about what you're plugged

37:58into are you over focused on the kids on the spouse the marriage the money the finances are you

38:04over focused on your ministry are you over i'm talking about over focus meaning more so than you're

38:10focused on god are you over focused on sickness and disease and the the loss of your youth and health

38:18business are you over focused on the job the the fear of the losing the job the fear of losing your

38:24kids to satan the fear of losing your husband to whatever alcohol or drugs or are you fear i do you

38:33fear that do you fear that you yourself will be lost are you over focused on any one of them

38:41if you are i want you to do this little physical exercise i want you to pull out the plug from that

38:48source of your stress your source of your stress is whatever you are over focused on and whatever you

38:54fear the loss of if you feel the loss of your job your marriage your husband your kids whatever money

39:01that is your source of your stress are you ready on the count of three i want you to pull that plug out

39:06and immediately after pulling it out i want you to plug it in to god you're gonna unplug you're gonna

39:14divinely disconnect from the source of your stress and fear and reconnect with god are you ready one

39:22two in jesus name pull it out right now pull it out and immediately

39:31reconnect with god plug into god you pulled out that stress source you've pulled out your your

39:40attachment to the source of stress the source of your fear whatever you fear the loss of and you're

39:47plugged into god you're plugged into god you're putting god first i want you to lift up your hands right now

39:54and begin to worship and begin to thank god that he once again will take first row in your life he once

40:02again will not be on the back burner but right up in front prioritize god prioritize your relationship with

40:10god prioritize your walk with god prioritize all of that god will take care of the rest heavenly

40:17treasures are permanent earthly treasures will die will rot and will be stolen but heavenly treasures are

40:25permanent you have plugged into things that are heavenly right now go for the permanent invest in the

40:32permanent jesus is permanent the gospel is permanent your walk with god is permanent it's not temporary

40:39invest in that stop investing in things that will die or rot or leave or be stolen stop that that is the

40:48source that is the answer to anxiety spiritually and emotionally there's a lot more i have on practical

40:56advice on uh achievement approval addiction and all of that we will get to that on another session um

41:04on on facebook as soon as uh stephanie decides when we can do that but hang in there keep keep um keep

41:13checking out the unveiled postings on facebook keep closely to that so that you will know what's

41:19coming in the future and what unveiled has planned okay stephanie back to you

41:26that was just again you always been a powerful word and i'm always interested in what you're going to

41:35say about anxiety because so many people struggle with it and i i how you had us unplug symbolically

41:45from the things that are stressing us out i think that was a powerful we need to do that more often

41:52because everybody is plugged into something nowadays that's not really healthy and it messes with our

41:59thoughts yes and that was just remarkable and you said something else that um goes like this you're stuck

42:09on your plan but basically you were saying you need to get in sync with god's plan yes yes and and i love

42:17that because we we all do that we're all stuck with our goals our plan and god cannot fruit you

42:24you can be loving where you are and god cannot root you and move you to another place so that can cause

42:31anxiety when you're so addicted maybe is the right word or so um i'm trying to think of the right word there

42:38but that is awesome like you're right stephanie it is an addiction is it okay you know what an addiction

42:46is addiction is a habit that is uncontrollable a habit you know some habits are controllable some

42:53habits you can control somewhat but when a habit becomes beyond your control and beyond your you know

43:00it becomes a compulsion then it's an addiction that that's how addictions begin you know and and i'm

43:07looking forward we're definitely going to do a segment on that affirmation the affirmation what

43:14is that called um i i want to do a segment on approval addiction yes approval addiction achievement

43:24addiction and the practical steps on how to protect yourself from approval and achievement addiction and

43:32to move on in life to to greater peace i would like to do a segment on that that would be another

43:3735 minute segment is more than enough we could do that if you want it on unveiled or you know

43:43promise uh promised land yeah we can do anything like that anytime but the sooner the better because

43:51it's still fresh on people's minds you know um we will plan on i will text you in the next week i i want

43:59you to do the segment i think the approval addiction is huge yeah people need approval and they feel like they

44:06can't function almost or they get depressed exactly right and then it helps you to compare well there

44:14are reasons why people get stuck into approval addiction and achievement addiction the reasons are

44:20usually uh sudden trauma or start the way that you know the family sometimes not all the time but in fact many

44:28times it's the way uh their family atmosphere the atmosphere at home the lack of affirmation a lot of

44:36trauma uh in fact even the family might be great the family might might have been awesome but they have entered

44:43into another relationship where there was trauma so they get into approval and achievement addiction you

44:48know i that's powerful and i i also think that social media comparing ourselves on social media we think

44:57someone has more friends than us or someone's more popular or someone gives a word or someone looks like

45:02they have a perfect life that can cause us to scramble to want to oh i want approval i i want to do

45:08this someone i think that is another thing right absolutely and that's actually in my notes on how social

45:15media reinforces approval addiction it reinforces i'm not against social media i think social media is great

45:23facebook and other platforms are great to get the word out to get encouragement out and especially

45:30like unveiled on zoom and whatever but but but yes social media has played a very big role in

45:37reinforcing approval addiction because it gives us a bubble world you know where we create a bubble world

45:44where we think that the 5 000 people that are following us on facebook are all they all love us and they'll come

45:50to our funeral and i don't think any of them will come to our funeral you know i know what you mean

45:56that yes okay we're definitely going to get a date and i will post it in the next week because i think this

46:02is so needed you're onto something it's like part two it's like a segment that is a segue you know a part

46:09of this particular thing i understand yeah we'll do it awesome awesome awesome well it was awesome i keep

46:15saying awesome awesome awesome but it was you you did phenomenal last night for those of you who

46:21haven't watched it or didn't realize it but bonnie spoke to us last night on breaking the yoke and if

46:28you're struggling with feeling heavy in your heart dealing with things and you're carrying the weight you

46:34want to watch a message from last night it was amazing and then we did a worship segment with

46:40annie daigle which was amazing and then the one earlier before bonnie came on with debbie angela as

46:46well myself and they're all there's a lot of good tools in all of them um everyone ministered in their

46:52own way and we want you all to watch it throughout the week and let it feed your soul and help you

46:59throughout the day but bonnie is there anything else you want to add in here no i'm just thrilled uh

47:05about again the vision and passion of unveiled and your ministry uh i look forward to the anxiety

47:11segment uh part two so to speak i look forward to that i want to greet everyone on facebook live and

47:18on zoom i think that you all are wonderful to take time out on saturday to watch this follow unveiled

47:25and and uh stephanie if you would close in prayer that would be great sure father god we come to you

47:32today first off lord we are thankful for another day we are thankful lord for life that we are able to

47:41walk talk see hear we are so blessed you have blessed us abundantly please do not let us take these

47:50things for granted and father i pray for every person who has been watching this segment and the one

47:57before bonnie that you will minister to them there are so many broken people so many battling depression

48:05anxiety and sorrow a lot of sorrow a lot of grief is going on in our world today i pray father that you

48:12will minister to them that you will bring peace of mind to them and also bring a calming to the soul

48:21because sometimes we struggle internally with the anxiety that bonnie talked about and lastly lord i

48:28pray that you will go with everyone today and that you will bless them and continue to draw people to

48:34you and to draw your people to you to get more into the word to study the holy bible the scriptures and to

48:41pray more and to reach out and help people who are in need and to be kind to people in the grocery stores

48:49to be kind to people in the coffee places the hospitals and to show your love to the world for

48:56the world needs you desperately and lord i pray that you will bless bonnie's ministry and that you will

49:02use her more incredibly around the world that you will raise her up and give her favor may the favor of

49:09the lord be upon her in your name jesus we thank you amen amen amen amen all right i love you bonnie and

49:21i love everyone who has taken time during this segment and who will be coming on later we love

49:25all of you that's the one thing good about being online it's on there for the next however long you can

49:31watch it whatever you want and go back and take notes go back and be renewed whatever you want to do

49:36all right love you all have a great saturday love you bye

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