Benny Blanco: The green flag every girl deserves

In a world where emotional availability is rare, Benny Blanco is redefining what it means to be a supportive partner.

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00:00In today's world, finding a partner who ticks all the boxes is rare,

00:03but Benny Blanco is showing us what it truly means to be a green flag boyfriend.

00:10As a record producer, songwriter and most importantly Selena Gomez's fiancé,

00:15Benny's emotional intelligence is what sets him apart in the world of relationships.

00:21It's easy to admire someone for their charm,

00:24but it's Benny's emotional availability that has made him an ideal partner for Selena.

00:28He knows that being emotionally present isn't just about being there,

00:31it's about showing up consistently.

00:35In a podcast on March 24, 2025, Benny shared how he makes small but intentional gestures,

00:41like texting Selena in between events just to let her know he's thinking about her.

00:47He's not just there in body, he's emotionally tuned into what she needs, he said.

00:52And it's not about grand gestures, it's the little things like texting to say I love you before bed.

00:58But what really stands out is Benny's deep understanding of the emotional work relationships require, Benny said.

01:04He knows that dating someone means also dating their past,

01:07and he actively works to build trust, without being overbearing.

01:13He's not just reactive, Benny listens, reflects and supports without trying to fix or change his partner, said Benny.

01:18This emotional maturity is what makes Benny a true green flag, said the internet users.

01:25His ability to build emotional safety offers strength, honouring support and be fully present makes him the partner everyone deserves.

01:35As internet users point out, in a world where emotional availability in men can feel like a rare find,

01:41Benny is a shining example of how emotional intelligence can redefine masculinity,

01:45no longer about detachment, but relational maturity.

01:51And that's why Benny Blanco isn't just a boyfriend, he's a partner,

01:54who's emotionally intelligent, supportive and undeniably present.

01:57If that's not a green flag, we don't know what is.