It's Showtime: Matchmate Sam, inamin na isa siyang ghoster! (Step In The Name Of Love)

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Aired (April 11, 2025): Pagdating sa purposive communication ay magaling si Matchmate Sam, pero kapag sa totoong komunikasyon, isa raw siyang ghoster. Alamin ang kanyang rason.

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00:00Your best friend has been flexing to the people here that you are very good in English.

00:06In fact, you're a dean's lister and you got a perfect score in a purposive communication.

00:12Yes.

00:13Right?

00:13Right.

00:14What do you think is the essence of communication in the advancement of the society nowadays?

00:18Oh.

00:19Wow.

00:21Oral exams.

00:23That's a very good question.

00:24Okay, I think communication is something that can build relationships and also solve problems.

00:35But the problem is when it comes to real communication in real life, I ghost people.

00:43Oh, okay.

00:44I want to deal with that.

00:46Okay.

00:47Let's talk about that.

00:48Let's talk about that.

00:49The last thing that she told us.

00:51About a ghost thing?

00:51It's very good communication in school.

00:53Yeah.

00:53Specifically, purpose of communication.

00:55She got the highest score there.

00:56She got perfect four, right?

00:57Four, yeah.

00:58But when it comes to relationships and dealing with real people, she ghosts people.

01:05What does that mean?

01:07Thank you very much.

01:08I don't have to say that.

01:10I don't have to say that.

01:11What did she mean when she said, she ghosts people?

01:15I think, iniiwasan niya lang po yung drama.

01:20Like, if meron guys siya nakausap and...

01:25I don't know.

01:26I don't know.

01:27I don't know.

01:28I don't know.

01:29I don't know.

01:30Actually, ganun talaga sila.

01:31Diba?

01:32Si Sam, medyo ano rin eh.

01:34Yeah.

01:34So, magaling siya.

01:35Kasi magaling siya sa communication na subject.

01:38Mm-mm.

01:39Pero sa totoong komunikasyon sa kapwa, hindi siya ganun kahusay sa komunikasyon.

01:44Kasi, nangiiwan siya sa area.

01:46Diba ganun yun ang go-ghost?

01:47Ah, o.

01:47Yung iniwan ka sa area, nang walang pakikausap, pakikipag-usap, at pagpapaalam.

01:51Yes.

01:52Biglang naglalaho.

01:52Diba?

01:53Eh, kasama sa komunikasyon, ang sapat na pakikipag-usap at pagpapaalam sa sandaling ikaw ay lilisan.

01:59Ay, yeah.

02:00Diba?

02:00Baka-importante nun.

02:02Oo, oo.

02:02Diba?

02:03Kailangan mong makapagbigay ng sapat na mensahe at kapaliwanagan sa sandaling ikaw ay lilisan.

02:08Banda lang, iyong paglisan ay maaaring magdulot ng sugat, sakit, hapdi, at pilat sa puso at kaluluwa ng sino mang maiiwan ng kanyang minamahal.

02:19Ah, kaluluwa.

02:20Oo, oo, tama.

02:22Oh my God.

02:23Ano? Wala?

02:23Kasi nga ayaw mag-confront.

02:25Kaya hindi niya masabi.

02:27Oh.

02:28But as a friend, do you think that's...

02:31Right?

02:32Yeah.

02:32I don't think it's right.

02:33Pero, um, I know na she can improve it naman.

02:37She can change it.

02:38Kapag, I think yung mga nakausap lang niya in the past, kasi never pa rin po kasi siya naligawan.

02:45So, wala siya excuse.

02:47Kasi yung mga ginaghost niya.

02:47Ay, sabi, kahit mga friends, pwede mong ighost na.

02:49Oh, yeah.

02:50When you think you're, I'm over and done with this friendship, with this chat group, with this, you know, I gotta go.

02:58Bye.

02:59Gotta go.

03:00Yeah.

03:00She gotta go.

03:01Ikaw ba, ganun ka din?

03:02No.

03:03So, napag-uusapan niyo ba yan?

03:05Gusto mo yung may sandala na upo?

03:07Sorry.

03:07Hindi, actually, hindi ako komportable din dito.

03:10Ako din.

03:10Kaya, ang gata ng suit niya, pero unti-unti, kasi walang sandala.

03:14Ganito talaga sa bar, di ba yung mga bar schools?

03:16Wala talagang backrest.

03:18It's a struggle.

03:19It's okay.

03:19Later we go to the library, it's more comfortable there.

03:24Ganito sa bar, walang tatakim.

03:26Oo, ganyan talaga.

03:27Hindi pwede.

03:27So, sino mga gina-ghost niya?

03:30Yung mga nakausap niya lang po, na hindi naman po dumating sa port na niligawan siya,

03:35pero di niya po kasi alam paano i-deal, parang paano umalis dun sa situation.

03:41Pag hindi na siya komportable?

03:42Opo, parang gano'n.

03:43Parang ayaw niya na, hindi niya lang masabi?

03:45Yes.

03:46O, bakit hindi mo gamitin ang mga napag-aralan mo sa purpose of communication?

03:50Sa pagbibigay ng damdamin mo sa mga tao, kung nangyari hindi ka na komportable,

03:54ayaw ko na, pakipakiwari ko'y wala nang kinabukasan naman ng usapan na ito.

03:58Itigil na natin, hindi naman tayo nagkiklik.

04:00Why is that so sad?

04:03Ako po kasi, pagka kunwari may kausap ako na guy,

04:07tapos, kunwari, nag-uusap kami,

04:10tapos, three days pa lang, ha, magsasabi siya,

04:14oh, ba't di ka kumakain? Nagagalit ako.

04:17Ayaw ko, so na, may ick, parang ayaw-ayaw ko to.

04:20May ano? May ick.

04:22May ick.

04:23So, ayun po, igungkos.

04:25Oo, sabi kasi tik-tik ang tawag siya.

04:27Bakit?

04:28Ick, ick, ick, ick, ick.

04:30So, ginagalit yung mga yero.

04:31Ick, ick.

04:33Oo.

04:34Masyado ng feeling close, three days pa lang.

04:37Cringy, kung baga.

04:39Oo, nakakadiri.

04:41Pero yung may iba kasi, di ba,

04:43hindi naman talaga nila minimin, nagpapakute lang.

04:46Oo, di ko nagsabi sa akin, ha.

04:49Ba't rin ba kung di ako nakatulog?

04:50Oo, mayroon ganun naman.

04:52Di ba, nagpapakit, nagpapakit lang.

04:54Pero mayroon din naman talaga ang aggressive, wow, jowa.

04:57Oo.

04:58Ganun.

04:59Yes, ko ba.

04:59So, pag ikaw yung girl now,

05:02pag na-turn off ka,

05:05you turn your back.

05:06Opo.

05:06Di mo na sinasabi na,

05:07ay, iyo ko na.

05:09Hindi ka nagpapaano.

05:10Hindi na po.

05:11Kunwari, chat yun sa Instagram or Messenger,

05:13hindi ko na po i-review.

05:15Tapos, pag nag-double chat,

05:16hindi ko na din po i-review.

05:19So, doon na, nag-end.

05:20Tapos, i-unfollow ko na mga next week.

05:23Oo.

05:24Oo, nang walang sabi-sabi.

05:25Wala po.

05:26Okay ka sa ganung ano,

05:28sa ganung ganap?

05:31Busy po kasi ako.

05:33Kunwari, may school, finals,

05:34wala na po akong time mag-explain.

05:37So, kunwari, pag nakita na kami,

05:38Pero may time ka bakit pag-chikahan pag-bet mo.

05:40Pero pa kaya mo na,

05:41wala akong time mag-explain.

05:43Yes, feelin mo mo yung feelings nila.

05:47Ayaw niya siguro mo naman masyadong aggressive.

05:50Nagay.

05:51Ayaw niya masyadong?

05:53Aggressive.

05:53Yung parang,

05:55parang feeling agad na ganun.

05:56Pati una.

05:57Kasi po, never pa po talaga siya nagka-boyfriend and ligaw.

06:01So, parang, kapag nakaka-experience siya ng,

06:04nag-uusap pa lang,

06:05ganyan na umas na parang.

06:06Hmm, yun.

06:07Hmm.

06:13women.

06:15Hmm.

06:33Hmm.

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