Sam, ipinaliwanag kung bakit siya nanggo-ghost ng lalaki | It’s Showtime - video Dailymotion

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00:00You're very, your best friend has been flexing to the people here that you are

00:06very good in English. In fact, you're a dean's lister and you got a perfect score in a

00:12purposive communication. Yes. Right? Right. What do you think is the essence of

00:17communication in the advancement of the society nowadays?

00:20Oh. Wow.

00:22That's a very good question. Okay, I think communication is something that can build

00:34relationships and also solve problems but the problem is when it comes to real

00:39communication in real life, I ghost people.

00:43Oh, okay. I want to deal with that. Okay, let's talk about that.

00:50Let's talk about that. The last thing that she told us is very good communication in school.

00:55Yeah. Specifically, purposive communication. She got the highest score there. She got perfect four, right?

01:00Four, yeah. But when it comes to relationships and dealing with real people, she ghosts people.

01:07Oh. What does that mean? Thank you very much.

01:11What did she mean when she said, she ghosts people?

01:18Um, I think, iniiwasan nyo lang po yung drama. Like, if meron gaya siya nakausap and...

01:25I was so sorry.

01:28I was so sorry.

01:29Yung taas sa energy kayo, unti-unti ko.

01:32Actually, ganun talaga sila, di ba?

01:34Yeah.

01:35Medyo ano rin eh.

01:36Yeah.

01:37Magaling siya sa communication na subject.

01:40Mm-mm.

01:41Pero sa totoong komunikasyon sa kapwa,

01:44hindi siya ganun kahusay sa komunikasyon kasi nangiiwan siya sa area.

01:48Di ba ganun yun ang go-ghost?

01:49Ah, o.

01:50Yung iniwan ka sa area nang walang pakikausap, pakikipag-usap, at pagpapaalam.

01:53Yes.

01:54Biglang naglalaho.

01:55Di ba?

01:56Eh kasama sa komunikasyon, ang sapat na pakikipag-usap at pagpapaalam sa sandaling ikaw ay nilisan.

02:01Yes.

02:02Di ba?

02:03Ang pakaimportante nun.

02:04Oo, o.

02:05Di ba?

02:06Kailangan mong makapagbigay ng sapat na mensahe at kapaliwanagan sa sandaling ikaw ay nilisan.

02:11Dahil ang iyong paglisan ay maaaring magdulot ng sugat, sakit, hapti, at pilat sa puso at kaluluwa ng sino mang maiiwan ng kanyang minamahal.

02:21Ah, kaluluwa.

02:22Ah.

02:23Oo, tama.

02:24Oh my God.

02:25Ano, wala?

02:26Kasi nga ayaw mag-confront.

02:27Kaya hindi niya masabi.

02:29Oh.

02:30As a friend, do you think that's...

02:33Right?

02:34Yeah.

02:35I don't think it's right.

02:36Pero, um, I know na she can improve it naman.

02:39She can change it.

02:40Kapag...

02:42I think yung mga nakausap lang niya in the past.

02:45Kasi never pa rin po kasi siya naligawan.

02:47So, wala sa experience.

02:48Sino yung kinu-ghost niya.

02:49Ay sabag yung kahit mga friends, pwede mong i-ghost ka.

02:51Oh yeah.

02:52When you think you're, I'm over and done with this friendship, with this chat group, with this, you know,

02:58I gotta go.

02:59You gotta go.

03:00Bye.

03:01You gotta go.

03:02Yeah.

03:03She gotta go.

03:04She gotta go.

03:05You're like that then?

03:06No.

03:07So, do you want to talk about that?

03:08Do you want to have sandals?

03:09Sorry.

03:10Actually, I'm not comfortable here.

03:12Kaya, ang gata ng suit niya.

03:13But unti-unti, kasi walang sandala.

03:15Walang.

03:16Ganito talaga sa bar, di ba yung mga bar schools?

03:19Wala talagang backrest.

03:20It's a struggle.

03:21It's okay.

03:22Later, we go to the library.

03:23It's more comfortable that.

03:24It's okay.

03:26Ganito sa bar, walang tatakib.

03:28Oo, ganyan talaga.

03:29Ganyan pwede.

03:30Sino mga gina-ghost niya?

03:32Yung mga nakausap niya lang po, na hindi naman po dumating sa point na niligawan siya.

03:37But he didn't know how to deal, how to get out of the situation.

03:42When he's not comfortable, he doesn't want to say anything.

03:48Why didn't you use the purpose of communication?

03:52In giving your mind to people, if you're not comfortable,

03:56or I don't want to, I don't want to talk about this.

04:00We're going to leave, we're going to click.

04:02Why is that so sad?

04:04Ako po kasi pagka, kunwari, may kausap ako na guy,

04:09tapos, kunwari, nag-uusap kami, tapos, three days pa lang,

04:14magsasabi siya, oh, ba't di ka kumakain? Nagagalit ako.

04:18Ayaw ko, so may ick. Parang ayaw ko to.

04:22May ano? May ick.

04:24May ick.

04:25So ayun po, igong post.

04:27Oo, sabi kasi tik-tik ang tawag siya.

04:29Bakit?

04:29Ick, ick, ick, ick, ick.

04:32Ick, ick, ick, ick.

04:32Ginaganon yung mga yerok.

04:33Ick, ick.

04:36Masyado ng feeling close three days pa lang.

04:38Cringy, kung baga.

04:41Oo, nakakadiri.

04:42Pero may iba kasi, di ba?

04:45Di naman talaga nila minimin.

04:47Nagpapakyut lang.

04:48O, di ko nagsabi sa akin, ha.

04:51Bad trip ako, hindi ako nakatulog.

04:52Meron ganun naman.

04:53Di ba? Nagpapakyut lang.

04:56Pero meron di naman talaga,

04:57agresive.

04:58Wow, jowa.

04:58Yes.

05:00I'm a mess.

05:02When you're the girl,

05:04when you turn off,

05:06you turn your back?

05:08Yes.

05:10I don't want to say,

05:12I don't want to leave.

05:14I don't want to chat on Instagram or Messenger.

05:16I don't want to review.

05:18When I double chat,

05:20I don't want to review.

05:22I unfollowed next week.

05:24Yes.

05:26I don't want to say anything.

05:28No.

05:30Are you okay with that?

05:32I'm busy.

05:34I have school finals.

05:36I don't have time to explain.

05:38So, when I see you...

05:40But you have time to check it out.

05:42But you don't have time to explain.

05:44Yes.

05:45I don't have time to explain.

05:47Yes.

05:49You don't want to be too aggressive.

05:51You don't want to be too aggressive.

05:53You don't want to be aggressive.

05:55It's not enough to go on.

05:56I have my feeling.

05:57No.

05:58You don't want to go on.

05:59Yes.

06:00Yes.

06:02Yes.

06:03Yes.

06:04I don't want to go on.

06:05I don't want to be happy.

06:07No.

06:08No.

06:09Yes.

06:10No.

06:11No, but

06:12I don't want to know the same thing.

06:15No, I don't want to know the same thing.

06:18No, it's okay.

06:19It's okay.

06:20But until then,

06:22Diba?

06:23Kahit sino naman kailangan.

06:24Diba?

06:25Iba pa din talaga yung

06:26napag-usapan nyo kung bakit.

06:28Deserve naman.

06:29Kahit nga walang dahilan eh.

06:33At least makapagpaalam ka man lang.

06:35Sa ngayon, diba?

06:36Okay, kasi wala pa naman kayong

06:37malalim na pinagsamahan.

06:38Pero in the long run,

06:40kung magiging ugali mo yan,

06:42tapos, diba?

06:43Kunyari, mapunta ka na sa relasyon.

06:44Tapos, na mabit-bit mo yan.

06:46Ang toxic na nito.

06:48Out.

06:49Out.

06:49Diba?

06:50Kasi hindi lang naman sa nagliligawan.

06:52Naging mag-jowa.

06:53Kahit sa mag-aasawa,

06:54may manganya na.

06:55Ang toxic na ito,

06:56nahihirapan ako.

06:57Out.

06:58Nagising yung mga bata,

06:59wala na silang nanay.

07:00Nagising yung tatay,

07:03wala na yung asawa niya.

07:05Nasaan na yung nanay

07:05ng mga anak ko, diba?

07:06Dahil sa nahihirapan siya,

07:08tumalikod na lang rin

07:08nang hindi nagpaalam.

07:10Diba?

07:10Kasi mayroon tayong mga ginagawa

07:12ng mga bata pa tayo

07:13na hindi natin alam

07:14na bibit-bit natin yan

07:15hanggang pagtanda.

07:16Naging ugali.

07:17Naging ugali.

07:18Dahil ayaw ko ng drama,

07:20I will just turn my back.

07:21I'm out of here.

07:22Protect my space.

07:23Yes.

07:24Protect my space.

07:25Pero hindi rin naman natin

07:26kung bakit siya ganun.

07:28Na ganun ka ba dati?

07:30Na-experience mo po yun ba?

07:31Hindi pa po ako nag-ghost eh.

07:33Ako may nag-ghost talaga.

07:35So hindi ko po alam

07:36yung feeling

07:37nung mag-ghost.

07:38Kaya po siguro

07:39ginagawa ko siya repeatedly.

07:41Pero pag naranasan ko,

07:43baka magpaalam ako next time.

07:45O, yun ang masakit.

07:46Kasi pag pinaranas sa'yo

07:47yung sakit,

07:47yung pain mo.

07:48Wag mo nang antahin

07:49na iparanas sa'yo.

07:50O, o.

07:51Kasi diba lalo na sa'yo mga Gen Z,

07:52alam nyo yung

07:53yung term na ghosting

07:54is negative.

07:56Diba?

07:58Mahirap naman talaga

07:59yung nakahang yung isang tao

08:00na nag-iisip

08:01ano nangyari.

08:03O, o.

08:03Diba?

08:04Walang closure.

08:05O, o.

08:06Okay.

08:07So,

08:08pero ang mahalaga,

08:09Dean's Lister siya.

08:10O, yun naman talaga.

08:12Tapos,

08:12Inglicera siya.

08:13Yes!

08:14Diba?

08:15Maganda siya,

08:15mapustura siya,

08:16naka-makeup,

08:17nagko-content siya

08:17ng mga make-up, make-up,

08:19ganyan.

08:19Pero kahit nagko-content siya,

08:20hindi nyo napapabayaan

08:21ang pag-aaral niya.

08:21Yeah.

08:22Bama.

08:22It's show time for the people!

08:29Everybody, everybody, put your pants on!

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