An Ode To Hypocrisy Of Husbands

Brut India

Why should husbands decide what’s best for wives?  Thanks to Batto Ki Bakwaas and The Sahitya Project for the footage!

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00:00If you don't say no, it doesn't mean you agree to it.

00:05If you don't say no, it doesn't mean you agree to it.

00:09When you let him wear a suit instead of a sari,

00:11and you say, dear, we are big-hearted,

00:14if you don't take off your veil, it's fine.

00:16Just put on a mang, put on a bangle,

00:19what harm will it do to you?

00:21If you listen to your elders,

00:23will the mountain break?

00:26And then you show your love in such a way

00:30that you make me understand the boundaries of my rights.

00:33You let me go out, you let me work,

00:36you give me the right to speak at the dinner table,

00:38you let me make my name

00:40and sometimes you let me get up late.

00:42And you just keep giving.

00:45And because you have been with me all my life,

00:47then I also adjust

00:49and keep adjusting.

00:52So that's where we all lose.

00:55So that's where we all lose.

00:57Because who is going to ask you

00:59who you are to give?

01:02Who is going to ask you

01:04who you are to give?

01:06Who are you who should take permission by default?

01:08Who are you who has given yourself the right

01:10that what I am giving is yours?

01:13So what I am, was and can be,

01:16its pages should be torn.

01:19Because when I look back,

01:21I am not who I am,

01:23I am what you let me be.

01:26Because when I look back,

01:28I am not who I am,

01:30I am what you let me be.

01:32I am the one who doesn't like suits, skirts,

01:34who considers bangles to be chains,

01:36who denies rituals,

01:38who doesn't have the habit of singing aarti,

01:40but knows the meaning of respect.

01:42You will teach her the lesson of your world,

01:44who can give in two columns every day

01:46and who can't,

01:49and you will become a big hearted person.

01:53And you will become a big hearted person,

01:55because you gave me what

01:57big fortunate people get.

01:59You gave me what

02:01big fortunate people get.

02:03Like you, who once in a week

02:05make breakfast and come here,

02:07you call my family and tell me,

02:09and if someday you clean the house,

02:11then you accept that

02:13you should get the trophy of best husband.

02:16You accept that

02:18you should get the trophy of best husband,

02:20but you are that avatar,

02:22which no one can get even after 16th November.

02:26You are that avatar,

02:28which no one can get even after 16th November.

02:30But I must have done some good deeds,

02:32which I got you.

02:34And I will also remain in this illusion,

02:36that I got someone who gave me so much.

02:38I will forget that

02:40I never gave this right to anyone.

02:42I will forget that

02:44I never gave this right to anyone.

02:46You are the one,

02:48who made me strong.

02:50I was myself.

02:52And there was no line around me,

02:54which you are going to make now.

02:56There was no line around me,

02:58which you are going to make now.

03:00The size and altitude of my wings

03:02does not come in your direction.

03:04The size and altitude of my wings

03:06does not come in your direction.

03:08Similarly, if yours and mine comes,

03:10then it is with each other.

03:12Similarly, if yours and mine comes,

03:14then it is with each other.

03:18Similarly, if yours and mine comes,

03:20then it is with each other.

03:22And forgive me,

03:24I am still a kid in the book of calculations.

03:26And forgive me,

03:28I am still a kid in the book of calculations.

03:30I am still a kid in the book of calculations.

03:32My flight is my identity.

03:34Should I fill this with a skirt or a sari?

03:36How did your respect get attached to this?

03:42Do not tie it with a string

03:44that you are holding.

03:46Tie it with a string

03:48that we are flying together.

03:50Tie it with a string that we are flying together.

03:52I am not talking about one-sided things.

03:54This is a two-way road.

03:56Do not connect the meaning of my respect

03:58to my clothes, rituals, and decoration.

04:00Do not connect the meaning of my respect

04:02to my clothes, rituals, and decoration.

04:04And do not devalue my cooking skills

04:06with my values.

04:08This can also be my hobby.

04:10Do not make it a compulsory subject.

04:12This can also be my hobby.

04:14Do not make it a compulsory subject.

04:16I will handle the rest.

04:18Do not worry too much.

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