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Are "abstinence-only" programs scaring young people from having sex?
Brut America
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3/25/2025
"Its goals are to shame young people out of having sex."
Teaching students not to have sex before marriage is allowed in 37 U.S. states. Here's how abstinence-only education works ...
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Don't have sex because you will get pregnant and die.
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Abstinence-only until marriage programs, sometimes called sexual risk avoidance programs,
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teach that abstinence is the only morally correct option for sexual expression for young people.
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Its goals are to shame young people out of having sex
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and trick them by giving them false, judgmental, and harmful information.
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Don't have sex in the missionary position. Don't have sex standing up.
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Just don't do it. Promise.
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What else is happening? Losing its ability to bond.
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This is what happens when we have multiple partners before we get married.
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We give up our ability to bond.
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Some folks experience watching really shamey videos.
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Some folks have their facilitator, you know, have a chewed up piece of gum
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and share that that's what girls mostly, because it's very sexist, experience.
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You know, it's a metaphor, like, oh, if you're a chewed up piece of gum,
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no one's going to want you, and that's what happens to you
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when you have sex and when you're not a virgin anymore.
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Um, it is very based in religion and in maintaining virginity.
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The first federal abstinence only program was enacted via the Adolescent Family Life Act
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in the Reagan administration, and that program really tried to prevent pregnancy
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through promoting chastity and self-discipline.
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Wise policies such as welfare reform, drug education, and support for abstinence and
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adoption have made a difference in the character of our country.
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Because only 18 states require sex ed to be medically accurate,
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some facilitators and teachers flat out share lies about sex ed because it's not illegal not to.
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So,
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young people who pledge abstinence are less likely to use contraceptives when they do have sex.
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Abstinence only education does not delay young people having sex.
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And states that have abstinence only curriculum
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have higher rates of unintended pregnancy and STIs.
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So, research has repeatedly shown, time and time again,
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that abstinence only curriculum does not work.
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So,
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according to the Guttmacher Institute, abstinence only programs typically are heteronormative and
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frame LGBTQ folks as deviant, or that something's wrong with them.
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Stigma and discrimination against LGBTQ plus students increase their risk of STIs,
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substance use disorder, suicide, and experiencing violence.
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Comprehensive sex education should be medically accurate,
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positive, evidence-based, non-judgmental, and age-appropriate.
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Comprehensive sex ed includes so much.
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It includes pleasure, healthy relationships and communication,
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consent, online safety, porn literacy, mental health, condoms, contraception, birth control,
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gender expression, gender identity, sexual orientation, abortion, sex and disability,
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and so much more.
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Comprehensive sex ed has been shown to increase young people's knowledge of STIs
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and lead to safer sex practices.
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Sex education should not be a one-and-done class.
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It should begin in early childhood and continue throughout a person's lifespan.
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