Thinking a lot about somebody? || Acharya Prashant

Full video: How to deal with memories of loss and death? || Acharya Prashant (2019)

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00:00We often feel that if we love someone, we must think of him or her.

00:06In fact, if someone tells us that we stay put in his memories, then we feel assured

00:14that the fellow loves us.

00:16Isn't that which is taken often as a mark of love?

00:20Oh, I think of you so much.

00:22Oh, you have occupied my memories and mental space.

00:25That is not love.

00:28That is separation.

00:30Only that which is away from you needs to be arrested in memory.

00:37Real lovers have no need of remembering each other.

00:41They just are with each other without distinction.

00:45One without a boundary.

00:48And that obviously cannot happen with two bodies.

00:53Between two bodies, there would always exist a boundary.