Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Lexi Gonzales at Gil Cuerva, payag bang may guy o girl best friend? (Episode 531)

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Aired (February 11, 2025): Sa panahon ngayon na issue ang cheating sa isang relasyon, papayag ba sina Lexi at Gil na magkaroon sila ng guy o girl best friend?

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00:00The things we learned from them, boundaries for example.

00:09You two, having been together for like over 3 years, do you have clear boundaries?

00:15Yes.

00:16Go ahead.

00:18I think me too, I don't ask so much of his time.

00:22If he needs his own personal space, I give that.

00:26I don't...

00:27But does he ask for personal space?

00:29Not really.

00:30I'm going out with my friends.

00:31No, no, no.

00:32Not really.

00:33Because I guess, I don't ask for his time.

00:35So it all just happens naturally.

00:37And we're not jealous of whoever we interact with.

00:42We have our own group of friends, circle of friends.

00:45That separates.

00:46Yes.

00:47Isn't it dangerous that you're not jealous?

00:49In a good way, because jealous is good.

00:51As long as it is managed properly.

00:54Isn't it dangerous that you're free and I'm free?

00:57I trust you.

00:58It's not like that, Uncle Boy.

01:00Because I think trust in a relationship is very important.

01:03And you built that from the very beginning.

01:05Yes.

01:06If there's no trust, then I think we should be gone because there's no trust.

01:09Boundaries.

01:10For me, I don't think, at least for her, she hasn't given me anything that I would be really worried about.

01:16She has guy friends who I'm cool with.

01:19I've also met some of them.

01:20For me, I also have female friends.

01:24I was about to ask that.

01:25Do you agree that you have a best guy friend and you have a best girl friend?

01:31That we don't have.

01:33I don't have a best guy friend.

01:34But hypothetically, do you agree that Gil has one?

01:37It's okay, I guess.

01:39I think it depends on the dynamics of it.

01:41Yeah.

01:42As long as they're in their friendship, they have boundaries.

01:45And I think they talk about it.

01:46Yes.

01:47There are no assumptions.

01:48None.

01:49I don't think it's just this.

01:51None.

01:53If ever he has a girlfriend, and Gil also has girlfriends,

01:58they also have respect with me.

02:00They take that boundary.

02:02Not to be too close.

02:03With my friends, I'm also like that.

02:05A respect that you do not demand for.

02:07Yes.

02:08That's important.

02:09Because earlier, when you said that he has his own friends,

02:12I have my own set of friends,

02:14I saw that there's delineation.

02:17And it can be dangerous in a relationship.

02:19Yes.

02:20It can be embarrassing sometimes.

02:23What happens?

02:24Who's that?

02:25Right?

02:26Shouldn't you have at least access to your different sets of friends?

02:33Well, we do.

02:34You have?

02:35Yeah, we do.

02:36I actually really make it a point to let her hang out with my friends.

02:39Actually, the thing to say with me is,

02:41my closest friends are my high school friends.

02:44I studied in Ateneo, so we're all boys.

02:47So the girls there are also girlfriends of my friends.

02:52So I also include them.

02:53So my female friends are also girlfriends of my actual close guy friends.

02:58Yes.

02:59And she's also a part of it.

03:00While you, your circle of friends is?

03:03He also knows my friends.

03:05High school then?

03:07From different...

03:08Well, when it comes to girls, we gossip a lot.

03:13Different industries.

03:14Yes.

03:15When it comes to girls, this is what we talk about.

03:18You almost sell that.

03:19You guys, as friends, do you talk about your girlfriends?

03:23Oh yeah.

03:24I mean, because we're guys.

03:25So yeah.

03:26We've been to talk about our girlfriends every now and then.

03:27We share experiences.

03:28In this day and age of social media,

03:31where it's really hard because everything is public.

03:35Yeah.

03:36For example, Andy and Philmar, their relationship.

03:39Andy is the baby of the industry and Philmar is the baby of social media.

03:44Okay.

03:45You two, how public would you go?

03:49Or how much do you keep to yourselves?

03:56Actually, in light of all of these relationship problems,

04:02not just what you mentioned,

04:04but even like the ones, the bigger issues mentioned last year,

04:07in light of those, we've actually realized.

04:09Although when we signed up for this job,

04:12we fully understood that our personal lives would be scrutinized by the public.

04:16But if we can do our part to minimize some of that, we would.

04:21And part of it is, I guess, selecting what we share to the public or what we post about.

04:29We've been a little more low-key.

04:32It's not like we're hiding anything.

04:36It's just more private.

04:38Because with all the relationship problems,

04:41and people like to air out dirty laundry, Tito Boy.

04:44They really like to air out dirty laundry on social media

04:47and really share all of their relationship problems.

04:50In light of that, we've decided, let's maybe take a step back.

04:54You're not going to go there, Gil.

04:56Yeah, no.

04:57You're not going to go there.

04:58We don't have to share it.

04:59We won't share it.

05:00And we discuss it.

05:01Because you're right, the word there is an oxymoron.

05:05We're all public.

05:06But we try to be as private as we can.

05:09But if there's anything we can be private about, that's private.

05:13Because the nature of being public is you're public.

05:15The moment you decide to be public, you're public.

05:17Exactly.

05:18When you sign up.

05:19Yeah, when you sign up for the job,

05:21when people see you, you're public.

05:23You can't be like,

05:24not now, I'm going to the bathroom.

05:26Not now, I'm in the grocery.

05:27No, you're public.

05:29So, this is a thing that you talk about.

05:32Let's just stick to this.

05:33Yes.

05:34We have actually discussed it.

05:35And it has worked.

05:36Yes.

05:37It has.

05:38Actually, it has.

05:39Well, sometimes people are asking,

05:40are you still going to do it?

05:41But I guess that's better than actually them throwing rocks at us.

05:45Okay.

05:59Okay.

06:59Hey!

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