It's Showtime: Lalake, pilit lang ang pagjo-jowa?! (EXpecially For You)

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Aired (December 28, 2024): Inamin ni Ivan na pinilit niya na lamang ang kanyang sarili na magkaroon ng kasintahan upang maiwasan ang bullying.

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00:00Okay, so how about you?

00:02Did you bet on him right away?

00:04Or you didn't bet on him right away?

00:06To be honest, I didn't bet on him right away.

00:08I was there because I wanted to sing.

00:10And I didn't deny that I wanted to have a relationship within the organization.

00:16So how did you like him?

00:18He's really lively when he's rehearsing.

00:26He's happy to be with us.

00:28I was attracted to him because...

00:34Who's laughing at me?

00:36I think there's a fight going on.

00:38Our people are getting excited.

00:42This is what you call a clickability issue.

00:46And then?

00:48I didn't share him with anyone, just me.

00:52You were attracted to him because you had feelings for him.

00:58But you had feelings for someone else.

01:02For example, you have a new member.

01:04You don't have a lot of feelings for him.

01:06You don't have a lot of feelings for him.

01:08But you have feelings for him.

01:10You have feelings for him.

01:12But you still have feelings for him.

01:14I bet on him.

01:16Did you court him?

01:18We didn't court him.

01:20He's your boyfriend?

01:22No, because we were so dependent on each other.

01:26And I fell for him.

01:30But at that time, I didn't know what it means to love someone.

01:36Was he your first girlfriend?

01:40No, he was my second.

01:42Oh, he was your second?

01:44Yes.

01:46I had a girlfriend in high school.

01:48It was the same scenario.

01:52But you weren't in love with him.

01:54I didn't understand.

01:56How long were you together?

01:583 months.

02:00In 3 months, you didn't fall in love with him?

02:04No.

02:06You just had a title.

02:08You had a relationship.

02:10In a way.

02:12At that time, it was very important to have a girlfriend.

02:16Why?

02:18To be a man, you need to have a girlfriend.

02:20Because you have a lot of girlfriends.

02:24Gender roles.

02:26That's what you call a gender role.

02:28And there's pressure from your peers.

02:30If you're a man, you need to have a girlfriend.

02:34If you're a woman, you need to give birth to your child.

02:38Those are the gender roles that society dictates.

02:44There's a lot of pressure.

02:48So why do you need to prove that you're a man?

02:50Why do you need to have a girlfriend to prove that you're a man?

02:54Maybe because when I was in high school, I wasn't very masculine.

03:00So I was always like,

03:02Sir, like that.

03:04The typical bully in high school.

03:06From what I read in your story,

03:08you had a girlfriend

03:10so that they wouldn't think of you as a bully.

03:16Yes.

03:18That was your reason at first.

03:22The second time, was it the same?

03:24No.

03:26My reason was when I was given a chance.

03:30Because I was really interested in her at that time.

03:32In college.

03:40For more information, visit www.FEMA.gov

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