It's Showtime: Ang pagod ng isang OFW nurse na breadwinner (And The Breadwinner Is)

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Aired (December 7, 2024): Ikinuwento ng OFW nurse na si Mark ang mga pagsubok na kanyang kinakaharap bilang breadwinner ng kanilang pamilya.

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00:00Is that why you went to nursing school to go abroad?

00:03I went to nursing school because I didn't want to repeat what happened to my father.

00:08In case of emergency, I hope that somehow...

00:11You have a medical knowledge.

00:13There was a little struggle. I hope that even if we did CPR,

00:17you wouldn't think twice to run him to the hospital because you have an emergency fund.

00:25You have a connection.

00:27When you went abroad, was your family struggling?

00:32Little by little, it got better.

00:35Because my second brother went abroad first before me.

00:40Then, in 2015, I went abroad in 2014.

00:45In 2015, we were just talking.

00:50He said to me,

00:52Am I going to be like this for the rest of my life?

00:54He was one of the D.H.s in other countries.

00:57D.H.?

00:58Dating Holdaper?

00:59No, Domestic Helper.

01:01Ah, Domestic Helper.

01:02Because our neighbor was a D.H.

01:04Dating Holdaper.

01:05But now, he has a factory.

01:07He has a new house.

01:08Yes. He stole everything.

01:12He asked himself,

01:13Am I going to be a Domestic Helper for the rest of my life?

01:15Yes.

01:16Because he's also struggling.

01:17Yes.

01:18That's why you decided to help him.

01:19That's why you went abroad to be a nurse.

01:21Yes.

01:22Because it's a better opportunity.

01:23Yes.

01:24So, my question earlier was,

01:26Your current state of life,

01:28you said, is different from 10 years ago

01:30because your life is now better?

01:33It reached a point where it was better.

01:36But the trials didn't end.

01:40In 2019, my second brother had an accident.

01:44My second brother and the one who followed me have already graduated.

01:49So, I felt at that time,

01:51I felt at that time,

01:54Hey, it's almost time.

01:56He's almost a graduate.

01:57He could help you.

01:59Yes.

02:00That's why he had an accident.

02:01Yes.

02:02So, your brother's ascension was delayed.

02:05Because if everyone would ascend,

02:07it would be easier to help.

02:08Yes.

02:09And he could also rest.

02:10He was already paralyzed.

02:12He could also save money.

02:13That's why the money would go to your brother's medical needs.

02:18So, it was like,

02:20I really ran out of money.

02:21You ran out of money.

02:22I ran out of money.

02:23But,

02:24that's why I did it.

02:26Because I didn't want it to happen.

02:27I didn't want to run out of money.

02:29Yes.

02:30My brother was alive. Thank you.

02:31I said, I'll just earn the money.

02:33Yes.

02:34But in my first years,

02:36as of W,

02:37I suddenly thought,

02:38When will I graduate?

02:43Where?

02:44As a breadwinner.

02:47Why did you want to graduate as a breadwinner?

02:51Ah,

02:53I was just asking myself.

02:57In my first months abroad,

03:00Ah.

03:01Now, do you want to graduate?

03:03Sorry.

03:04Of course.

03:05Okay.

03:06Now, my question is,

03:07when will I graduate?

03:09Why?

03:10We want to understand.

03:11What is he good at?

03:12Because there are a lot of breadwinners already.

03:14They are okay.

03:15Like me now, right?

03:16Yes.

03:17Even though I didn't graduate as a breadwinner,

03:20it's okay because

03:21I have a lot of blessings that I can share with my family.

03:25You can still do it.

03:26For others,

03:27they are really tired and it's really hard.

03:29You,

03:30that's why you want to graduate.

03:31I want to graduate because

03:33I started 10 years ago.

03:36I'm old.

03:39I don't remember what happened to me

03:42because I was trapped in the

03:45responsibility that I was promised

03:48to be a breadwinner.

03:50Now, I want to,

03:52maybe I can,

03:54You, yourself.

03:55I want to do

03:57what I want to do in life.

03:59What do you want to do?

04:02The,

04:03ah,

04:04I want to be responsible for my siblings

04:09so that my mom won't think of them anymore.

04:12Because if it's just me and my mom,

04:14I will promise her.

04:17If my dad dies,

04:18it's up to you until you feel it.

04:20Can they be responsible now?

04:22For now,

04:23not yet.

04:26But I can see that they are trying.

04:29That's why recently,

04:30I've been venting to them.

04:31I'm telling them,

04:33if you need support,

04:35as much as I can,

04:37just say what I want from you.

04:42From you,

04:44because if I'm tired of directing your life,

04:50maybe by this time,

04:54you can direct your own life.

04:57That's the problem.

04:59That's why I'm tired.

05:01Because you were trying to direct their lives.

05:04You didn't have to do that.

05:06Don't...

05:09That's the hard part.

05:12We have to fix other people's lives.

05:15Right?

05:16No.

05:17We don't have to fix other people's lives

05:20because they own it.

05:22They should fix it.

05:24You can help.

05:25You can help.

05:26But you have to do it yourself.

05:29That's the hard part.

05:30That's why you can't direct your life.

05:33Because you're busy directing other people's lives.

05:36But you have a direction.

05:37You can't push it.

05:39Because you're pushing the life

05:41that they should be doing.

05:43Their life.

05:44Right?

05:45There are people who are not able.

05:47That's why you need to be there for them.

05:50For example,

05:51they had an accident,

05:53they were really disgraced.

05:54They had feelings.

05:55Even if they want to, they can't.

05:56That's why you need to be there

05:58almost all the time.

06:00That's okay, right?

06:01You can say,

06:02I'll take care of it.

06:03But it's hard because

06:08it's hard

06:10to take the responsibility

06:15that you're the one

06:16who's responsible for the life of a lazy person.

06:20Right?

06:21And you shouldn't be the one

06:23who's responsible.

06:25You're not responsible

06:28for the life of a lazy person.

06:32I'm not saying that your siblings are lazy,

06:34right?

06:35Give them a chance

06:37to be afraid

06:39to stand up,

06:40to be hurt,

06:42to move.

06:46It's hard

06:47to start.

06:49Just like you,

06:50you went to other countries.

06:52You went through a lot.

06:54You went through a lot.

06:55Actually,

06:57they're slowly

06:59changing.

07:00My TWD siblings

07:01have a small business.

07:03They're starting.

07:05But as a sibling,

07:07why don't you

07:09give them a chance?

07:11Why?

07:12That's my question.

07:13Why are you so unfair

07:15to my siblings?

07:17Because if I feel like I'm going to give up,

07:20why don't you just say

07:22good luck?

07:23Why don't you go to them?

07:25Life is not unfair

07:27to your siblings

07:28because they have you.

07:30They're so lucky.

07:35But,

07:36you can only do so much,

07:38right?

07:39It's right to support

07:41your siblings

07:42because you said

07:43they didn't want to

07:44because

07:45they're lazy.

07:46You got into an accident.

07:47They don't want to rely on you

07:49but we can't do anything about it.

07:52Life is really hard.

07:53Life is hard.

07:54That's why they rely on you.

07:57But you can only do so much,

07:59right?

08:00You can really think about

08:01the happiness of your loved ones

08:02but it doesn't mean

08:03you're going to forget

08:04your happiness

08:05just like what's happening to you.

08:07It's like,

08:08I want this

08:09but I don't want it anymore.

08:13Right?

08:14It's like,

08:15are you really happy?

08:16Or not?

08:17Because in the end,

08:18I hope you're happy.

08:19That's important.

08:20Right?

08:21I hope you're happy.

08:22I hope you find

08:23what makes you happy.

08:24Go there

08:25and get it

08:26because that's what's for you.

08:27That's what makes you happy.

08:33Because I feel like

08:34it's already full.

08:35And you deserve it.

08:36A lot of people are taking care of you.

08:39How's your mental health?

08:44I have a friend

08:45who doesn't know my family.

08:46I have a friend

08:47who sometimes says,

08:50I plan to go home this year.

08:52Really?

08:53I plan to go home.

08:57When I go home,

09:00I'll ask for a consultation.

09:02You'll ask for a consultation?

09:03I'll ask for a consultation.

09:06Are you saving up for that?

09:08Actually,

09:09there should be some money.

09:10But...

09:11Don't worry about that.

09:12We'll take care

09:13of where you're going.

09:14Yes.

09:15We'll give you

09:16a consultation.

09:18A psychiatrist

09:19or psychologist

09:20will tell you

09:21where you want to go.

09:23Right?

09:24Because if

09:25you have someone

09:26by your side

09:27and you're worried

09:28that you might get infected,

09:29it's like

09:30it hurts your teeth.

09:31Right?

09:32If you keep it for a long time,

09:33it'll get worse.

09:34It'll get worse.

09:35That's why you need

09:36to go to the dentist

09:37as soon as possible.

09:38So now,

09:39you need a consultation.

09:40If you think

09:41you really need it,

09:42let's do it.

09:43We'll help you.

09:44That's a good therapy.

09:46That's how I am.

09:48Yes.

09:49That's a good therapy.

09:51It'll help.

09:52It'll help you

09:54to process

09:55what you're feeling.

09:56Because it's like

09:57it's so heavy.

09:58It's so tight.

10:00There are so many bars.

10:02Even if you cry,

10:03it won't come out.

10:05Right?

10:06That's important.

10:07We'll help you

10:08to process it.

10:09Okay?

10:10Look at her words.

10:11It's not coming out

10:12completely.

10:13She's stopping it.

10:15So you can tell a story.

10:16Because I'm sure

10:17you have things

10:18you want to say

10:19but you can't say

10:20to a lot of people.

10:21Yes.

10:22What else

10:23will make you feel better?

10:27When she asked me that,

10:29there's only one thing

10:30I remember.

10:31I want her

10:33to watch movies.

10:37Movies.

10:38Perfect.

10:39Right?

10:40Sometimes,

10:41it's like that.

10:42Yes.

10:43Because she can't

10:44watch movies anymore.

10:45You want it now.

10:46When do you want

10:47to watch movies?

10:48Of course,

10:49I want to watch your show.

10:51Your movie.

10:53I might cry.

10:54Open your Bluetooth.

10:55I'll send it to you.

10:56Don't do that.

10:57Don't do that.

10:58You're ahead of me.

10:59Don't do that.

11:00Oh my.

11:01Some people

11:02make fun of me.

11:04It's a simple scene.

11:06But I don't remember

11:08being with my family

11:10watching it

11:12on a big screen.

11:15Nothing.

11:16I don't remember that.

11:18It's simple for others.

11:20But for me,

11:21it's a gift from my mom

11:23for us to watch it together.

11:27We'll do that.

11:28You know,

11:29my movie is on December 25.

11:32But I want you

11:33to watch it now.

11:36After this,

11:37there will be

11:38a lot of good shows.

11:39Yes.

11:40Watch it now.

11:41I don't want you

11:42to delay your deserves.

11:44Then,

11:45watch it again on Christmas.

11:46Join us

11:47in our black screenings.

11:48Bring your whole family.

11:49We'll invite you.

11:51Okay?

11:53So you can watch

11:54the story of your life.

11:57Because on December 25,

11:59you'll watch the story

12:00of your life.

12:02And we're all hoping

12:04that after watching

12:05that movie,

12:06all the hugs

12:07and kisses

12:08you'll give to yourself,

12:09all the kisses you'll give,

12:11the gratitude

12:12you'll hear,

12:13that's what we expect

12:15to have an effect

12:16on the audience.

12:17So,

12:18watch my movie.

12:19I promise.

12:20That's a promise.

12:21But before that,

12:22I'll watch your movie.

12:23Then,

12:24eat something delicious.

12:25And then,

12:26you're fond of...

12:27She's fond of

12:28remembering

12:29the beautiful moments

12:30in her life.

12:31You said that,

12:32right?

12:33We'll give you a camera.

12:34There.

12:35Wow.

12:37She's fond of

12:38taking pictures

12:39but she doesn't have

12:40a camera.

12:41That's why we bought

12:42a new digital camera.

12:45Wow.

12:46One terabyte hard drive

12:48is included.

12:49So that you can

12:50store a lot of

12:51happy memories.

12:53So that when you're

12:54feeling down,

12:55you can go back

12:56and your happiness

12:57will come back.

12:59Take a picture

13:00when you watch the movie

13:01later.

13:02And when you eat

13:03outside, okay?

13:05Then,

13:06we'll make sure

13:07that you have

13:08a delicious night.

13:09Good

13:10and midnight.

13:13Take a picture of that

13:14while you're eating.

13:15Do you want that?

13:16So that you don't

13:17think about

13:18what I'm going to prepare

13:19for you.

13:20Because it's also

13:21my mom's birthday.

13:22When?

13:23On the 24th.

13:24Your mom's birthday.

13:25It's my brother's

13:26birthday today.

13:28Happy birthday

13:29to both of you.

13:31Happy birthday

13:32to both of you.

13:33I'll give you

13:34something to eat

13:35with the whole family

13:36outside.

13:37Buy what you want

13:38to buy.

13:39Clothes.

13:40Both of you

13:41have a birthday.

13:42I'll give you

13:43one pipe.

13:44Share it.

13:46Happy birthday

13:47to both of you.

13:48Happy birthday.

13:50Mommy.

13:52What do you want

13:53as a gift, mommy?

13:55What do you want

13:56as a gift for your mommy?

13:58I'll give it to you.

14:02I don't have

14:03more than 10,000.

14:05Okay.

14:07What do you want

14:08as a gift for your mommy?

14:09I'll give it to you.

14:11Don't give me the O.A.

14:12That's enough.

14:13Okay.

14:14What do you want

14:15as a gift for your mommy?

14:16You heard that

14:17you're going to get a hole.

14:18I want her to

14:20buy a TV.

14:22Because...

14:23I'll give you a TV.

14:24Our neighbor

14:25has a huge TV.

14:26No, no, no.

14:27I'll give it to you.

14:28It's delicious.

14:29You should watch TV.

14:30TV.

14:31It's not painful.

14:33Do you want a TV

14:34for your mommy?

14:35Yes.

14:36We'll make your dream

14:37a TV.

14:38You'll have a TV

14:39later.

14:51I want to make your life

14:52easier

14:53even if it's just for a day.

14:54You don't have to think about the TV.

14:55What do you want

14:56as a gift for your brother?

14:59He's saying

15:00that he hasn't experienced

15:02having a birthday

15:03in...

15:04I don't know.

15:07If you want to go to McDonald's,

15:09I'll answer that.

15:11All of your friends,

15:12bring them to McDonald's.

15:14I'll feed you there.

15:15Do you want a mascot?

15:18Okay?

15:19Are you happy there?

15:21I love seeing you smile.

15:23I love to see you smile.

15:24And I want you to be happy

15:26eventually again.

15:28But you have to go to therapy.

15:30I promise.

15:32We love you.

15:33We see you.

15:34We honor you.

15:35And we will be praying for you.

15:38Group hug.

15:40Group hug.

15:41Group hug.

15:42Group hug.

15:43Group hug.

15:44Group hug.

15:45Group hug.

15:47Group hug.

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