Sudha Murty Gives Out Marriage Advice

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When Sudha Murty was asked the secret to her successful marriage, this was her reply. 😊   🎥: Jamnabai Narsee School & Sujay Jairaj

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00:00My husband travels 20 days in a month, abroad.

00:04I travel 22 days in a month, village.

00:07Okay?

00:08How many days are left?

00:09Six to eight days in a month.

00:11So when you are with each other for six to eight days, why fight?

00:14Let us know something about the harmonious relationship that you have with your husband.

00:19I should have a good relationship with my husband because we hardly meet.

00:27I'm one generation behind you.

00:29The value system, the marriage, the commitment was so different than what it is today.

00:34As a woman, every woman feels her husband should listen to her.

00:37Every woman feels.

00:38Man also feels my wife should listen to me.

00:40That too, don't worry.

00:43Over a period of time, I realized a person like Moorthy, who eats, breathes, drinks in

00:50forces, cannot spare any time for us, for the family.

00:55It is like a tapas.

00:56In olden days, we used to go sit in a forest and do tapas.

01:00Today, you can sit in an electronic city and do tapas.

01:02Okay?

01:03The result of that tapas is infosys.

01:05A son of a school teacher can build an empire like infosys in one's lifetime of 30 years.

01:13It's not a joke.

01:15That means a person should be dedicated his entire life for that, dreaming about it, talking

01:20about it.

01:21Then what is his wife's duty?

01:23Expecting me, you have to take me out for a movie.

01:26You take me out for a saree birthday.

01:29You take me out for this.

01:30None of them are possible in his life.

01:33So, accept a person as he is.

01:37That is what I tell women.

01:39Accept your husband what he is.

01:44What he is not, don't imagine he should be like Shah Rukh Khan.

01:48No.

01:49Please allow him the liberty or the freedom what he likes, why he likes, why he wants

01:56to spend money on A, B, C, D.

01:58Unless it is harmful for the family.

02:00Suppose he gives little more money to his mother-in-law, little more money to sister-in-law.

02:04Let us assume that way.

02:05My husband used to do lot more actually.

02:07Lot more to mother-in-law, to his wife, compared to wife.

02:10Initially, I used to get upset.

02:11Then I realized.

02:12I knew my husband at the age of 26.

02:17First 26 years, who has taken care?

02:19She.

02:20She deserves more.

02:22After all, he was her son first.

02:25Then my husband later.

02:27And this liberty gave me so much freedom not to contest with him for anything.

02:32I tell him, as a friend, I will tell this is wrong.

02:35As a family unit, I will accept it.

02:38Decision is yours.

02:40And I expect same thing from him.

02:42And he does that.

02:43As a friend Sudha, this is not correct.

02:45As a family, I accept it.

02:47Behind every successful woman, there is an understanding husband.

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