How Ashish Chanchlani dealt with breakup

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“I was in massive, massive turmoil of life.” Ashish Chanchlani revealed how things went wrong in his relationship.

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00:00I dated someone and it did not turn out to be as I expected.

00:05My feet slipped off the ground.

00:07I was away from my parents.

00:09Where were you missing?

00:13So, a lot to unpack.

00:16In 2022, when I made Sasta Shark Tank, one of my most successful videos of my life.

00:23And I didn't expect it at all. I thought it would be a controversy.

00:27That was a time when the video did well.

00:29I was like, okay, now, you know what, Ashu?

00:32Now it's time to settle.

00:34You should find a new home. You should move out.

00:36So, we came to Bandra.

00:38You were living in Ulhasnagar?

00:40Yes, Ulhasnagar.

00:41So, we came to Bandra. We bought a house here.

00:43And as soon as I came here, now,

00:45I had a basic dream.

00:47My dream was that I should settle down.

00:49I should get married now.

00:51What I was.

00:53It's 2024 now. I was 28.

00:55Now I want to get married.

00:57Because this is the right time to get married, have kids.

00:59So, obviously, I also wanted to have a family.

01:02But then,

01:04I dated someone.

01:06And it did not turn out to be as I expected.

01:11If you want to get into the nitty gritties,

01:13not getting into the nitty gritties of it,

01:15how was it?

01:17Was it mentally taxing? Was it toxic?

01:19How did the relationship go?

01:21I'll tell you.

01:23I was expecting something else.

01:25It turned out to be completely different.

01:27My feet slipped.

01:29And I don't want to get

01:31much into it.

01:33I don't want anybody

01:35to disrespect that person.

01:37Because this is my side of the story.

01:39And Shahan, it put me into

01:41a very bad place.

01:43I didn't say anything for 1-1.5 years.

01:45From 2022 to 2023,

01:47mid, I would say,

01:49April 2022,

01:52June 2023,

01:54I was in massive, massive turmoil

01:56of life.

01:58I mean,

02:00I had gotten into a lot of bad things.

02:02I got away from my parents.

02:06Muskaan, my sister,

02:08we didn't meet

02:10after living in the same house.

02:12My friends, Kunal, Jadu,

02:14all my childhood friends,

02:16all got away from me.

02:18And everyone used to say the same thing.

02:20Bhuvan used to tell me,

02:22where have you disappeared?

02:24Everyone, every single person

02:26from my personal life,

02:28from my professional life,

02:30I got lost from everyone's life.

02:34But then,

02:36as I kept moving forward,

02:38I realized, I started seeing the truth.

02:40And then I decided,

02:42okay, it's now time to take a stand.

02:44Now it's time to move away from this toxicity.

02:46My eyes opened.

02:48Bhuvan came to my house.

02:50It was in 2023.

02:52I talked to him.

02:54He explained to me very nicely

02:56that leave everything.

02:58Stay with your parents first.

03:00Pay attention.

03:02My friends, my siblings,

03:04my sister, my parents

03:06got me out of this.

03:08And there is a line

03:10of Guardians of the Galaxy,

03:12sometimes the things

03:14that you search the most

03:16you don't realize that.

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