How Siddharth gets under Vidya Balan’s skin

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“If something irritates me, I can’t keep it within me.” When Vidya Balan spilled the beans on her playful squabbles with hubby Siddharth Roy Kapur.  : Raj Shamani

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00:00he walked in the rain went and picked up that cup of coffee

00:03as he was walking away from me i said i'm home

00:07i must have been needy and clingy that day and but he was i think just thrown

00:12by he said the sunset was beautiful that triggered me

00:16even more i said what do you mean

00:20he took a picture of the sunset and he didn't take my picture

00:36do you guys fight? of course. on what? what are your fights about? i have to say

00:43that we fight much less now. what do you used to fight about? it could

00:47be about anything. tell me the raw real

00:53immature fights that you had not like the mature version of both of you. you

00:57guys are super successful super mature like you

01:01know backbones of each other you guys have become an example in front

01:04of the world in terms of having like a rock solid

01:07relationship between two really ambitious people

01:10i don't want to know about that. tell us about like in the beginning when

01:16you were kiddish and immature when you were our age

01:20and we could relate with that. you know i have to tell you

01:25once we had a stupid fight okay yeah okay i picked up

01:29i picked the fight. see now we're talking. but

01:34he took a picture of the sunset and he didn't take my picture

01:41so he's someone who doesn't take pictures

01:44at all okay but he chose to take a picture of the sunset so i said

01:49what are you telling me that you've never felt the urge to take my picture

01:52but you're taking a picture of the goddamn sunset

01:58and that actually i must have been needy and clingy that day

02:02and but he was i think just thrown by he said

02:06the sunset was beautiful that triggered me even more i said what do you mean

02:13so that you know that's one of the stupid fights we've had but of course

02:18we've had all kinds of very fair fight what's stupid

02:21i like that so it could be like at a party

02:25he just kept hanging with a certain set of people

02:29with it could be with anyone and didn't come and check on me

02:36and he's like but you could have come to where i was standing and i was just in

02:42the middle of conversation and i'll be like no

02:44but now i do all of that less also i'll tell you he's far more social

02:48than i am okay i'm not great with people as in i'm not great at parties

02:55on a one-on-one i love interacting with people even if i

02:59don't know you i'll sit and chat with you and i'll have

03:01a great conversation but at a party i never know what to do with myself i

03:05think i'm almost asocial or antisocial not antisocial but asocial for sure

03:11so um i think therefore then most often i'm like okay i've said

03:17hi to everyone now what do i do and he's busy chatting with someone

03:21right so i think those are the times when i feel like

03:24but now i've calmed down i have to say he's quite calm so

03:28a lot of times even when he feels the anger he just goes for a walk

03:33but i'm very reactive okay he processes things before he

03:39brings it up if at all he does um though we've gotten better in that

03:44regard but i think aren't you like that solve it right now

03:47yeah also i'm reactive if something irritates me now i can't

03:50keep it within me especially with him i have to just get it out of my system

03:54at what point do you know that this is it for me

03:57with regard to a partner partner like this

04:01he's the one she's the one i'll tell you what happened with me

04:05it was raining cats and dogs one night i had just come back from out of town

04:11Siddharth had come to pick me up at the airport and we drove away from the

04:15airport and i kept telling him you know i'm

04:17really i could do with a coffee and no coffee shop was open at that point

04:21and then he said no but there's one hotel at the airport that's still open

04:25at three in the morning we went to Balaji yeah and Balaji was

04:29shutting but he walked in the rain we didn't have

04:33an umbrella he walked in the rain went and picked up that cup of coffee

04:37as he was walking away from me i said i'm home

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