Men and women are not equal: Nora on feminism

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“Do you notice that this has similarity to religion?” Nora Fatehi’s take on feminism did not go down well with social media users. Here’s what she said...  BeerBiceps

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00:00I think feminism f*** our society.

00:03So if you're bringing to the table money, food, shelter, I need to bring to the table

00:09kids, being a mother, taking care of the house, cooking.

00:17Religion is a great thing, but when it becomes radicalized and extreme, it's dangerous.

00:23So feminism is the same thing.

00:24We are all equal in more sentimental things, but in societal things, we are not equal.

00:32Your comment section is going to be like, she's old school, she's a hypocrite, etc.

00:36I'm not.

00:54This idea of like, I don't need anybody, and feminism, and nah, I don't believe in s***

01:11at all.

01:12In fact, I think feminism f*** our society completely.

01:17And the idea of being inherently completely independent and not having to get married

01:24and have kids, and not having the male and female dynamics in the home where the man

01:30is a provider and a breadwinner and the woman is a nurturer, I don't believe in people who

01:36think that that's not true.

01:37I think women are nurturers.

01:40Yes, they should go to work and have their own life and be independent, but to a certain

01:44extent.

01:45They should also be ready to take on the role of being a mother and a wife and a nurturer,

01:52just like a man should be ready to take a role of being a provider and a breadwinner

01:56and a father and a husband.

01:57I believe totally on this.

01:59We call it old school, traditional way of thinking.

02:02I think I call it the normal way of thinking.

02:05It's just feminism f***ed up a little bit and made us really excited about this whole

02:09like freedom and liberation and everyone's equal.

02:13We are all equal in more sentimental things, but in societal things, we are not equal.

02:20I think everyone plays their role.

02:22I've dated a couple of girls who are feminists, and there was a lot of differences between

02:27the two.

02:29One of them, her career wasn't moving forward very quickly.

02:35And my experience there with her was negative.

02:38Interesting.

02:39The other one, her career was moving forward, and she was also a feminist.

02:42And both would like lecture me about where they thought I was going wrong.

02:47Sure.

02:48And I take it from both.

02:49But with the good one, she would lecture me from a place of love and nurturing.

02:54Interesting.

02:55With the one who was intense to deal with, she would compete with me a lot.

02:59So do you notice that this has similarity to religion, that religion is a great thing,

03:05but when it becomes radicalized in extreme, it's dangerous.

03:09So feminism is the same thing.

03:10Feminism inherently on the base level is great.

03:13The foundation of it is great.

03:15I also advocate for women's rights.

03:17I also want girls to go to school.

03:19I also believe in all these things.

03:21However, when feminism becomes radical, which is what has happened in the last 15 to 20

03:27years, it's dangerous for the society.

03:29And now the society and people are seeing the repercussion of this radicalization of

03:34feminism.

03:35Families are suffering.

03:37Kids are suffering.

03:38Mental health is suffering.

03:40It's almost like what is happening right now is that when you shake a Coke bottle and then

03:44you open it and it goes, so this is happening right now.

03:49And people are fed up.

03:50People are tired.

03:51People are having immense anxiety.

03:53They don't understand.

03:54It's because they've been in this dog race when they're not meant for this dog race.

03:59Now people want to be in their soft girl era.

04:02People want to be there in feminine energy.

04:04People want to find themselves.

04:07There's a lot of epiphanies happening right now.

04:10A lot of men now have also been brainwashed in the feminism era who are like, oh, all

04:16right, cool.

04:17You want equality?

04:18All right.

04:19Let's be equal in everything.

04:20Let's be equal in the protection department, in the providing department, in the home,

04:28in the emotional department.

04:30Now men want to compete with women in everything, which is wrong.

04:34I think everyone needs to play their role.

04:36If a man can work on being more of a provider and more of a protector, the woman then needs

04:42to focus on being more of the nurturers.

04:45Everyone brings something to the table.

04:47So if you're bringing to the table money, food, shelter, I need to bring to the table

04:53kids, being a mother, taking care of the house, cooking, et cetera, et cetera.

05:03If we're both bringing the same thing to the table, then who's going to bring the other

05:06stuff?

05:07Do you understand what I'm trying to say?

05:08But this is, of course, a very old school, traditional way of thinking.

05:11But I believe in this and I think it's coming back.

05:15I think every guy, at least that I know, also believes in what you're saying.

05:20Even girls.

05:21Trust me, even girls.

05:22Eventually, when girls start going out in the workforce and they struggle and they hustle

05:27and they see how crazy the world is and they get older and they become more mature and

05:32they see life experiences, they start to realize what's more important.

05:36They start to realize what role they want to play, what they're more happier doing.

05:40They start to be more in touch with their hormones, with what biology says, right?

05:45There's one thing, what the TV says, what the society says, and then what your body

05:49and what your chemicals and your system is telling you.

05:53Our system tells us to be nurturers, whether we like it or not.

05:56It's very cool that Nora Vatey is saying this.

05:58I mean, there's going to be a lot of people who are going to disagree with me.

06:00Your comment section is going to be like, oh, she's old school.

06:03She's a hypocrite, etc.

06:05I'm not.

06:06I genuinely believe what is a fact is a fact.

06:09What you decide to do with your life, that's a different story.

06:13But what is a fact is a fact.

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