Fatherhood after divorce ft. Badshah

Brut India

“I always prayed for a girl.” Badshah revealed how he maintained a friendly relationship with his daughter post-divorce.

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00:00We separated because it wasn't healthy for our child.

00:03Love is a beautiful thing.

00:04Relationship is a duty.

00:06It's a job.

00:06She's not a fan.

00:07She listens to Blackpink.

00:09As a musician, buying another musician's merchandise for your own child is a little painful.

00:27What is your view on love?

00:29Are you the romantic kind or are you the easy-going kind on that?

00:39Love is a beautiful thing.

00:42I think for me, love is taking care of someone without any judgment.

00:49I think the biggest form of love is taking care.

00:54But relationship is different.

00:57Relationship is a duty.

00:58It's a job.

01:00It's a full-time job.

01:01It's a full-time job.

01:02It's very complicated.

01:03It is extremely complicated.

01:11To spend life with someone with an opinion is a job.

01:18Especially when you want to stay in a zone where you want to be happy, not be disturbed.

01:24So when you get into a relationship, it's a job of balancing those opinions.

01:29Yeah, and that's why I consider my parents to be heroes.

01:36They did it well.

01:37I can't do it.

01:40How do you look back at your separation?

01:43Is there regret, guilt?

01:44No.

01:45You've made peace with it?

01:46Because we, I know for a fact, we both tried everything.

01:50Okay.

01:52We tried our best.

01:55We gave everything that we had.

01:56And we separated because it wasn't healthy for our child.

02:01Okay.

02:01Yeah.

02:02You get to meet her?

02:04Yeah.

02:04Because you said that at one place...

02:06Yeah, but not that often.

02:08Not that often, yeah.

02:10But she lives in London.

02:12Oh, okay.

02:12Yeah.

02:13Your daughter's in London.

02:13Yeah.

02:14Okay.

02:15And how's your relationship with her?

02:19Extremely friendly.

02:20And does she know, because she lives in London, she has an idea.

02:24Yeah.

02:25Because she lives in London, she has an idea.

02:27She's aware.

02:28Yeah.

02:28She was at my concert.

02:30And what does she think?

02:31My daddy's cool.

02:32Yeah.

02:33Nice.

02:34He's very cool.

02:36I'm sure.

02:36Like, that's a flex.

02:38But she's not a fan.

02:39No?

02:39She listens to Blackpink.

02:41Oh, man.

02:44That's...

02:45Bro, what a feeling, huh?

02:46That's so novel.

02:48Like, for me to...

02:50As a musician, buying another musician's merchandise for your own child is a little painful.

02:56Yeah, no!

02:57He must be like, what did I do wrong, man?

03:00That's so interesting.

03:01When a child is born, your life revolves around your child, you know?

03:07Right from waking up, sleeping, everything.

03:09You become a robot.

03:09Right.

03:10Which he's operating, unknowingly.

03:11Yeah.

03:13Which is a little painful.

03:14Right.

03:14You know, your own dreams...

03:17So, in that matter, I think, it can be a little complicated.

03:21But other than that, if you want to make her your friend, she's not a good friend.

03:26Right.

03:27You know, a lot of people forget that you get a...

03:30You get a fan, you get a friend for your life.

03:34Yeah.

03:34Especially with girls.

03:36Right.

03:36And I always prayed for a girl.

03:38Wow!

03:38Always.

03:40But I think, it's a good thing.

03:44Wow!

03:44Always.

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