How Vicky Kaushal deals with disagreements with Katrina Kaif

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“We have different perspectives.” Vicky Kaushal shared the secrets of his married life with Katrina Kaif.  📹:

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00:00I am the more rational guy, and she is the most sensitive person.

00:05When it comes to me being angry or sad, I need isolation.

00:09How do you win by blaming?

00:11You win as a couple when you're playing around, right?

00:21How did you guys meet first?

00:23We met at an award function.

00:25I was hosting that award show, and

00:28she obviously was the guest on the show, and we met backstage

00:31when we had to go on stage from the same wing.

00:35That's when we spoke.

00:36First time I introduced myself, and she introduced us.

00:39How did it start?

00:40How did you guys start your conversation and dating period and stuff like that?

00:46First few times, nothing was planned.

00:48Like we were planning to meet, or we had spoken.

00:51The first time we ever spoke to each other was part of an interview.

00:55That's the first time we ever spoke to each other

00:57while the cameras were on, and it was a film companion interview.

01:00And after that, of course, we had each other's numbers, but then

01:05it was just like, randomly, we would just bump into each other, and

01:08there was nothing like that, but I think some things were just meant to happen.

01:12You know, after a point, you just realize that, like, you know, it's just

01:17happening against all odds.

01:19Do you think that your life changed before and after?

01:21Evolved is what I'll say.

01:22Nice word.

01:23You know, the first time you're living with someone, like, you know,

01:29where everything you feel, everything you go through, physically, mentally,

01:35emotionally, that person is with you.

01:39You know, that person is sharing that emotion with you.

01:41It's never just like, I can't be individually happy,

01:45and I can't be individually sad.

01:46It's going to affect the both of us.

01:48You know, so that is, for me, I felt that for the first time.

01:52Are you a pursuer or a distancer?

01:54More so, I would say, when it comes to me being angry or sad, I need isolation.

02:00Distancer?

02:01Yes, 100%.

02:02I genuinely process in that isolation.

02:05And I will come back to you, and probably 9 out of 10 times, I will be like,

02:09I am wrong.

02:11But if I keep engaging in it, with time, my rationality will just go away.

02:17Because I will become more emotional about that thing.

02:19And is it same for your wife?

02:21No.

02:22No, she wants to, like, solve it or engage in it.

02:28We will sleep only when this thing is solved.

02:31We both agree to that.

02:32I don't get sleepy.

02:34Neither does she.

02:35We both agree to that.

02:38But her style is more like, no, I want to engage.

02:43Because, you know, I don't know.

02:48It's just naturally, that's her style.

02:51And mine is the complete opposite.

02:52In general, also, I feel like, and that's how we, I feel,

02:55we beautifully kind of fill each other's gaps.

02:58Because I am the more rational guy.

03:01And she is the more sensitive person, in terms of,

03:04her emotional intelligence is amazing.

03:07She is very dangerous.

03:09And I always trust her on that.

03:10Our perspectives are different.

03:12In that, it's just like, I will always have my logic based.

03:16And this will be their emotion based.

03:18But whatever it is, it's not about right or wrong.

03:21It's just two perspectives.

03:22Who do you blame?

03:23What did I win by blaming?

03:26You were right.

03:27I was wrong.

03:28What did I win?

03:30I would have won as a couple, if you were playing cards.

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