Sino kina Zeinab Harake, Donnalyn Bartolome, at Jelai Andres ang REYNA ng MARTYR? | Mars Pa More - video Dailymotion

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Ikinuwento nina Zeinab Harake, Donnalyn Bartolome, and Jelai Andres ang mga experience nila bilang isang martyr sa relationship. Sino kaya sa kanila ang reyna nito?

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00:00I'll hack out one friend that even if you hit it a few times, it's made of steel.

00:05It's her helmet.

00:06She's our friend who eats hard-eggs for breakfast.

00:10But she's still smiling.

00:12It's okay.

00:13Your friend is gone.

00:15You're the Martyr of the Year.

00:22Why, girls?

00:23I like how they're reacting here.

00:27Do you have experiences?

00:29Do I need to ask?

00:30Because it's like you know who this friend is.

00:34Who is this friend?

00:35Who is that?

00:36Is the corona still around?

00:37Where's the corona?

00:38I don't feel it anymore.

00:40She has a broken helmet.

00:42This is my helmet.

00:44I just experienced being a Martyr.

00:46You know that now, right?

00:47Correct.

00:48But now, I'm okay.

00:50Experience, experience.

00:53It's okay to be a Martyr once in a while.

00:56But you really need to learn.

00:58You learned something from being a Martyr.

01:01What did you learn?

01:03I learned that I became stronger.

01:06I got closer to God and my family.

01:10I also learned how to forgive.

01:12Yes.

01:13That's nice.

01:14Because when you're a Martyr,

01:17it means you forgave.

01:19That's why you're a Martyr.

01:20Yes, correct.

01:21You accepted everything.

01:23What I learned is,

01:25I thought of myself in those times,

01:27that I'm not perfect.

01:28Why do I need to be higher?

01:30I also did something wrong.

01:31Yes.

01:32Something like that.

01:33It humbles you.

01:34Your experience.

01:35But it's different when you're a Martyr.

01:39Oh, I know.

01:40It's not right.

01:41But it's like, okay, I'll just drown it.

01:43Because you love it.

01:44Even if you get hurt, you accept it.

01:47Don't separate.

01:48I think that's the exchange of happiness.

01:53When you're a Martyr?

01:55Yes.

01:56Because you can still accept it.

01:57It depends on the situation.

01:59Yes, it depends on the situation.

02:01I'm like that.

02:03It's okay if I get hurt.

02:06As long as I'm happy.

02:07Yes, you love it.

02:09So it means that you get hurt, but you're happy?

02:13I'm not happy because I get hurt.

02:16But I'll just accept it.

02:18Because if I don't accept it, I won't be happy.

02:20I know that I did something wrong.

02:22You'd rather take it when you get hurt,

02:24than when you lose it.

02:26Yes.

02:27Because it's better for her if you lose it.

02:29Yes.

02:30This is wrong.

02:32For me, she's the one who hurts you,

02:35but she's also the one who can fix your heart.

02:37That's right.

02:38She's also the one who can heal it.

02:39This is my question.

02:40Until when?

02:41Have you reached the point where you're like,

02:43enough, I don't want this anymore.

02:45I'm moving on to a new relationship.

02:47That's, you know, a lot better,

02:49that I don't have to get hurt.

02:51Have you ever realized that?

02:52I realized that it's self-love.

02:54I never thought that I'd move on to another relationship.

02:57More of, you don't want to be in that relationship anymore.

03:00I need to heal first,

03:02then I'll decide.

03:03Something like that.

03:04Okay.

03:05How about you, Donnalyn?

03:06It's the same.

03:07For me, it's like, you just let it be.

03:10Until you get tired of it.

03:12You don't chase it anymore.

03:13You don't love it anymore.

03:15Until you can't take it anymore.

03:17You can do it.

03:18At least you gave it your best.

03:19Because you can't stop yourself.

03:22I think I've been through that before.

03:24When I was younger,

03:25I had the same mentality.

03:27It's okay for me to have a girl.

03:29For example, I have a girl, a girl, a girl.

03:31Me the other.

03:32Me the other woman.

03:33Then I'm like,

03:34shucks, what else can I choose?

03:36If I break up,

03:37it'll be sadder, right?

03:39So I just let it be.

03:40I'll share it.

03:42What I did,

03:43I prayed for her.

03:44I said, I know that this is,

03:46it's such a wrong relationship, right?

03:48And I was young,

03:49so I realized,

03:50why would I get locked up

03:52in a relationship

03:54where the setup is like this.

03:56And I feel like I'm too young

03:57to be dealing with things like that.

03:59It should be a happy relationship.

04:00It should be,

04:01we should both be happy, right?

04:04Not just her.

04:05Then I really prayed.

04:07You know, I woke up one day,

04:09and I looked at him,

04:10and I saw that,

04:12and I was like,

04:13why am I in a relationship

04:14with this person?

04:15All the good things I saw before,

04:17all of a sudden,

04:18it's gone.

04:19It's like,

04:20I don't want it anymore.

04:21It's like,

04:22the positive things

04:23that I see in him,

04:24his looks,

04:25this and that,

04:26it's gone.

04:27So I think this is the sign.

04:29It's the prayer.

04:30It's the prayer.

04:31I hope it's the same.

04:32I hope it's the same.

04:33I hope it's the same.

04:34I hope it's the same.

04:35No, it's really the first time.

04:36Because I really thought,

04:37I'm gonna be stuck in this

04:38for a very long time.

04:40Because I couldn't imagine

04:41my life without him.

04:43It was so bad.

04:44I couldn't text him.

04:46I couldn't talk to him on the phone.

04:48Because that's what

04:49girls do, right?

04:51Sad life.

04:52Then I realized,

04:53one day,

04:54I don't want to be

04:55in that place anymore.

04:57That's it.

04:58I took advantage of it.

04:59Right away.

05:00I moved.

05:02So hopefully,

05:03prayers too.

05:04Actually,

05:05Zainab is thinking.

05:07Let's pray together.

05:11Actually, you can pray,

05:12Lord, help me unlove this person.

05:14Where are you?

05:15Can you do that?

05:16Yes.

05:17I did that,

05:18but I don't know if it's right.

05:20I'm asking for him to stop loving me.

05:22Because you need to,

05:23if you can't do it yourself,

05:25then maybe he has a way of helping you.

05:26Before, I was still young.

Sino kina Zeinab Harake, Donnalyn Bartolome, at Jelai Andres ang REYNA ng MARTYR? | Mars Pa More

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