Disadvantages of married women not having sex

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00:00What complications and problems can be caused by not having sex with married women?

00:06In today's video, we will talk about this topic.

00:08Assalam-o-Alaikum, I am Dr. Tahira Rubab. I am a psychotherapist and relationship therapist.

00:13Many of my female clients and male clients visit the clinic and report that

00:19females are very reluctant or often refuse to be intimate with their husbands

00:29or their desire is very less or sexual activity is very painful for them.

00:34Those women who are very less in sexual activity, especially when they have a baby

00:43or something like that, then the gap with the husband starts to increase

00:48because of course, there is a lot of change in the woman's routine.

00:50But when married women start to give very long gaps,

00:55there are a lot of complications on their body, on their health, on their mood,

01:02and even on their hormones.

01:04What are those effects?

01:07Today's video is especially for our sisters and women who watch our channel

01:14and who cannot consult at home and cannot go anywhere.

01:18This is our video for them.

01:21Research has shown that sexual activity, whether it is in men or women,

01:28sexual activity is a very normal and positive activity that helps your body,

01:35your mood and many other things to get regular.

01:40It regulates your mood and improves your physical system.

01:46In a previous video, I told you that sexual activity has a very deep relationship

01:53with the health of your heart.

01:56That is, the health of your heart is very closely associated with your sexual activity

02:05and dysfunction.

02:07So, females who do not go into sexual activity for a very long time,

02:11let's say you have started dieting and you have taken yourself from two meals a day to one meal.

02:20So, if you practice the habit of skipping food for a month or two,

02:27then slowly the switch in your brain of hunger goes off

02:31and then you start wanting to eat only once and your hunger starts to decrease.

02:37Similarly, when you have sex or intimacy, you may not use it as frequently,

02:43but at least you are talking, because when you talk,

02:46some signals go into your body and your brain gets activated.

02:51But in our country, normally women do not want to talk about it,

02:54do not even talk about it and then their sexual activity decreases.

02:58The more your sexual activity decreases, the switch in your brain,

03:04which is very important to be on and off,

03:06the stimulation of your eyes decreases permanently and it goes off.

03:13Just like I gave you an example of eating and dieting,

03:17then your desire also starts to decrease,

03:21your interest does not go and you do not even like to do it.

03:26When you have sexual inactivity,

03:29that is, you become sexually inactive,

03:33you do not remain active, then of course your sexual health starts to affect.

03:39How does your sexual health affect?

03:41It is very important for women to go into sexual activity,

03:44especially for married women to go into sexual activity with their husband

03:49once or twice a week, whatever is appropriate for you,

03:53it is very important because

03:55first of all, their hormones are dependent,

03:58it has a very deep relationship with the marital relationship you are using,

04:04that your hormones start to get regulated,

04:07they remain balanced and their balance remains and it happens with sexual activity.

04:13The second bad thing that comes in women,

04:19especially their mood, their irritability, sadness and anger starts to remain a lot.

04:28Why? Because sexual activity activates the happy hormone in your brain and body

04:34and if your happy hormone is activated once a year, once a month,

04:39or once every six months, then it may not be activated

04:43because when you go into sexual activity after such a long time,

04:46it is not necessary that you have orgasm or you can reach the full peak of pleasure.

04:53As a result, it is also not necessary that your required hormones in your body are activated

05:00to improve your mood and your mood improves or there are changes in it.

05:07So, to improve your mood frequently,

05:12you need to use your marital relationship from time to time.

05:20You don't have to use it to satisfy your husband.

05:24Of course, it is a requirement of a relationship,

05:27but you also have to do it because your mental health,

05:32your mental health, your hormones are dependent on it.

05:37The next harm that comes in women after using less sexual activity or marital relationship

05:44is the vaginal dryness of women,

05:47that is, in their private part, there is a lot of dryness,

05:52which can also cause rashes

05:57and their vaginal friction,

05:59that is, their elasticity,

06:02which is naturally from the side of Allah,

06:05there is elasticity in it,

06:07there is friction in it,

06:08it starts to decrease,

06:09there is a lot of dryness,

06:11and friction can occur.

06:14So, the reason for this is that whenever you use sexual intercourse with your husband,

06:19it can be painful for you,

06:21you can get a lot of cuts,

06:23you can get wounds,

06:24and then it will be registered in your brain as a painful activity for you,

06:29and you will never want to go that way.

06:32This is a major reason for vaginal dryness,

06:35which is the absence of sexual activity.

06:40The fourth major reason that has been seen in women

06:44is that their desire decreases,

06:47their desire decreases.

06:48The more you eat, the more you pay attention to eating,

06:54the less you eat, the less you pay attention to eating.

06:58In the same way, the more you use intercourse,

07:01the more you need your body and your body,

07:07and when you go towards it,

07:09normally your desire also increases.

07:14But if you go towards sexual activity once in a blue moon,

07:19then your desire is not equal,

07:22but then you have to use your intercourse with compulsion,

07:27which is an unpleasant event for women at many times,

07:32and it can also be painful,

07:35which is why women often refuse to use sexual activity or intercourse.

07:41So, to all my sisters who are listening to me,

07:45who are watching me,

07:47I request them that when your husband comes to you,

07:51and expresses his need to you,

07:53then instead of denying him,

07:55do this activity because it is not just your husband's need,

07:59it is more than your need,

08:01because the whole system of your body is dependent on it,

08:05and you are not doing it for him,

08:07you are doing it for yourself.

08:09Yes, if you don't want to do painful intercourse,

08:13if you feel pain during pregnancy,

08:15if you feel pain during PDS,

08:17if there is a decrease in your desire,

08:19if you are facing all these issues,

08:21then I treat all these issues.

08:23If you want, you can visit my clinic.

08:25For this, we tell women some exercises,

08:28we help them,

08:29you can become a part of that group,

08:31and you can get treatment from us.

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