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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis, right by your side.
00:52Hit or miss, we are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:17Good morning. Yeah, really. It's a good morning.
01:24Today, we're going to talk about sisterhood. Okay.
01:29Isn't it when you're in the military? When you're sent out to war?
01:33Yes. Or like now, if you're in Mindanao, that's your destination or wherever in the Philippines.
01:40If in case something happens to you, you die or you're injured or whatever,
01:46you're called first, you're sent a letter first, right?
01:49You're sent a notice, usually mothers.
01:51Mothers, right. Also, you said earlier, I just realized that even if the soldier has a wife.
01:57The first thing they really send is mothers.
01:59Really? Just like in Private Ryan, Saving Private Ryan.
02:10I want to go home, I want to go home.
02:14Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama.
02:25Yes.
02:26That's where the movie was shot, right?
02:28It was because of that letter that they sent to the mom.
02:31Yes, the Ryan brothers died, right?
02:34There's only one left.
02:36Yes.
02:37They're looking for him.
02:38They're looking for him.
02:39To send him home.
02:40Correct.
02:41Because he's so depressive.
02:43That's why the Daza brothers.
02:46We're tasting.
02:48He's the one who's doing a taste test.
02:50We're doing a taste test.
02:51How about your dad?
02:53My dad also cooks, but he only cooks a little.
02:56In our whole family, we all cook, but I don't cook anymore. I just eat.
03:04You just appreciate the taste.
03:06I love to eat.
03:08Because usually, even if they have a husband, they're looking for their mom's cooking.
03:16Yes.
03:17The Daza brothers are lucky.
03:19Because they also know how to cook.
03:21Yes, they're not looking for their mom's cooking, they're the ones who cook.
03:24That's why their husband is luckier.
03:26Actually, he doesn't do any cooking.
03:28Melanie, Marques, and her husband.
03:31Adam said that he appreciates Melanie's cooking more.
03:37I love her Filipino cooking.
03:40Especially Kampangan, it's really good.
03:43You like Kampangan food?
03:44Yes. When she cooks it, it's very good.
03:46I also like Lechon and Crispy Patang.
03:49Very healthy.
03:50Oh yeah.
03:53Meanwhile, he's not from here.
03:55Exactly.
03:56Those were our trivial talks about moms and husbands of these men.
04:03Yes, the men who became very close to their moms,
04:09and then they got married.
04:10Of course, it's different.
04:11Are they still looking for their mom?
04:13Are they still looking for their mom's cooking?
04:17That's what we're going to talk about.
04:19Of course, here on Sis.
04:26We are sisters.
04:27We are sisters.
04:32Always be.
04:33We are sisters.
04:35We are sisters.
04:39They have been together since they were young,
04:42and they are with their mom.
04:43So, they have support.
04:44Now, of course, they have different husbands,
04:47and they are the ones who have support.
04:50They are not mom's boys,
04:52but it's rare for a boy to forget how to take care of his mom.
04:57Does a woman realize how many years her boy has been with his mom?
05:04Wow.
05:05Let's start.
05:06He misses his mom's caressing,
05:09but Honey is good at massaging.
05:12Yes, of course.
05:14Hello, good morning to all of you.
05:16We have husbands, we have wives, and we have mothers.
05:20There.
05:21Why do you have a husband and a wife?
05:26Why is that?
05:27Let's talk about that later.
05:29He misses his mom's caressing,
05:31but Honey is good at massaging.
05:34Young generation.
05:37Hello, I'm sorry.
05:38Why is Honey caressing?
05:39Of course.
05:42Dead.
05:43He is looking for his mom's qualities.
05:46Honey,
05:47Ray P.J. Abellana.
05:49Good morning.
05:51Good morning to my mom.
05:54Even though his mom is a steaksman,
05:56Honey takes care of everything.
05:58Romnick Sarmenta.
06:00Good morning, ma'am.
06:02Let's talk about that later.
06:05What are the things you look for in your house
06:08because your mom always does it for you?
06:12I'll go first because I'm the oldest here.
06:15Admit it.
06:16Admit it.
06:18You know,
06:19my mom always rubs Vicks on my butt.
06:24Even if there's no hair?
06:25Even if there's no hair, even if there's no hair.
06:27There.
06:28Really?
06:29Yes, that's why my children, my wife,
06:30when I'm with my mother,
06:32they laugh because that's what I'm always looking for.
06:35My son will say,
06:36Dad, go ahead and rub Vicks.
06:38I'm embarrassed, but that's what I'm really looking for in my mom.
06:41Where does she rub Vicks?
06:42Of course, that's how I feel.
06:46What about you?
06:47When my mom wakes up,
06:50her voice slowly enters my dreams.
06:54And later, it becomes music.
06:56Music.
06:57It used to be a dream,
06:58but now it's like music.
07:00What does your mom make you do?
07:02Anything.
07:03I guess, that's how moms are.
07:06It's still early.
07:07Hey, listen.
07:08Go to school.
07:09You're going to be late.
07:10What time is it?
07:12Go take a bath.
07:13Rub Vicks.
07:15I already took a bath.
07:17That's what I'm talking about.
07:19You're so creative.
07:20Rub Vicks.
07:22No, my mom,
07:24because,
07:25my mom is crazy.
07:27When I wake up,
07:28she's already singing on the radio.
07:30She says she's on the radio.
07:32She doesn't care how many houses
07:34around us can hear her.
07:37Sometimes,
07:38when she wants to dance,
07:40she dances.
07:41That's what I miss.
07:42My mom is crazy.
07:43She's always dancing.
07:44So, you make her dance
07:46while she's having fun?
07:48No.
07:49But,
07:50my mom,
07:51she's crazy.
07:52And,
07:54I miss her.
07:55I used to get tired.
07:56But,
07:57it's different.
07:58My mom is different from my son.
08:01Okay.
08:02Is that called Alaska?
08:03Or Sermon?
08:04It's like Sermon.
08:05Yes.
08:06No.
08:07My mom says,
08:08Hey,
08:09you haven't taken a bath yet.
08:10She's like that.
08:12Oh,
08:13she's beautiful.
08:14That's her style.
08:15So, you thought
08:16you were in Alaska.
08:17You thought you were in Alaska.
08:18You thought you were in Alaska.
08:19That's what I'm saying.
08:20That's what I'm saying.
08:21That's great.
08:22That's great.
08:23That's her style.
08:24She's beautiful.
08:25How about you, PJ?
08:27You're still white.
08:28Do you have a mom?
08:29No.
08:30I also have a mom.
08:31My mom is superb.
08:33She's a martyr.
08:34When it comes to us siblings,
08:36there are five of us men.
08:38Why?
08:39Are you all shotels?
08:40We're all shotels.
08:41Especially me,
08:42I'm the most shotel.
08:43Just like all the grandchildren,
08:45on the mother's side,
08:4621,
08:47all in all,
08:48I'm the most shotel there.
08:51So, I would say,
08:52our mom is a super martyr.
08:54What's shotel?
08:55Up to now.
08:56Naughty.
08:57Very naughty.
08:58Very naughty.
08:59You know,
09:00stop it.
09:01I was tied to a post
09:03so that I could stop
09:04my foolishness.
09:05When I was very young.
09:07When I was very young.
09:08Did your mom buy you anything
09:09before you got married?
09:10Did your mom buy you anything
09:11before you got married?
09:12Did she say,
09:13hey, son,
09:14I don't want you
09:15to wash the dishes,
09:16don't do this,
09:17don't do that to your husband.
09:18Did your mom do that?
09:19Did your mom buy you anything?
09:21No,
09:22to me,
09:23my mom,
09:24she knows that
09:25she's happy
09:26that her headache
09:27has passed to my husband.
09:28She's like,
09:29it's okay,
09:30I'll give it to you.
09:31Good riddance.
09:33What did your moms say?
09:34Of course,
09:35your moms,
09:36when it comes to
09:37gender,
09:38child,
09:39they said
09:40that the relationship
09:41between the mom
09:42and the son
09:43is closer.
09:44The dad
09:45and the daughter.
09:46True.
09:47That's true.
09:48Right?
09:49I don't know why.
09:50The girls are closer
09:51to the dad.
09:52The boys are closer
09:53to the mom.
09:54So what did your moms
09:55say to you
09:56before you got married?
09:58To me,
09:59nothing.
10:00Nothing.
10:01Nothing.
10:02Nothing.
10:03Nothing at all.
10:04In your life?
10:05Yes.
10:06Just like that?
10:07Okay.
10:08Yes.
10:09Yes,
10:10you're getting married,
10:11that's what they said.
10:12To me,
10:13that's not true.
10:14That's true.
10:15You're still strong.
10:16The first thing she said
10:17was her advice
10:18for marriage.
10:19Like?
10:20I was still a teenager.
10:21Then I asked her
10:22because I've been
10:23through a couple
10:24of relationships
10:25and that didn't
10:26end well.
10:27So I talked to her
10:28one time.
10:29Mom,
10:30what do you think
10:31I should look for
10:32in a girl?
10:33Then I can't
10:34forget what she said.
10:35She just said,
10:36you know Romnick,
10:37I don't care.
10:39Just for me,
10:40make sure
10:41you take care of her
10:42and love her.
10:43Because if
10:44you get hurt again
10:45and you get married,
10:46that's when
10:47I'll get hurt.
10:49At least it's your girlfriend.
10:51Yes,
10:52if your girlfriend
10:53hurts you,
10:54it's okay.
10:55You don't have to worry.
10:56Yes,
10:57there are other wives.
10:58When you get married,
10:59no matter what kind of woman
11:00you get,
11:01as long as you love her
11:02and respect her
11:03for the rest of your life,
11:04it's okay for me.
11:05That's all.
11:06My mom is different from us.
11:07My mom is different.
11:08Your moms
11:09didn't say anything.
11:11My mom didn't say anything.
11:12My mom didn't say anything.
11:13My mom is a woman.
11:15Our mom,
11:16among our siblings,
11:17all of us are considered
11:18to be men.
11:20But my mom
11:21doesn't like all women.
11:23She doesn't.
11:25Nobody's good enough.
11:26She doesn't like
11:27her daughter
11:28to have a girlfriend.
11:29She doesn't like
11:30her daughter
11:31to have a husband.
11:32Possessive.
11:33But not to the point
11:34that she doesn't like
11:35her daughter.
11:36She doesn't like
11:37a point,
11:38a situation
11:39that involves
11:40her daughters.
11:41Maybe she'll threaten
11:42her mothers.
11:43Because she's the one
11:44who raised her,
11:45raised her,
11:46raised her.
11:47When her daughter
11:48will be gone,
11:49you'll see in marriages,
11:50the mothers will cry.
11:51Of course,
11:52it's hard to leave
11:53what you've done,
11:54especially to your mom,
11:55when you think about
11:56what she cooks,
11:57what she does at home,
11:58the things that you
11:59really grew up with.
12:01It's part of
12:02your character,
12:03your personality,
12:04your way of life.
12:05It's like a certain
12:06seasoning of kare-kare,
12:07a certain cooking
12:08of this,
12:10that when it comes
12:11to your wife,
12:12it's not like that.
12:13You're married,
12:14the scenario is different.
12:16What are these things
12:17that are like,
12:18this is different,
12:19this is different, right?
12:20Typical perfectionist
12:21when it comes to that.
12:23Actually,
12:24this is what you grew up with,
12:25so expect that
12:26when you get married.
12:27It's not like that forever.
12:28No.
12:29In my case,
12:30we have a lot of siblings.
12:31We're all 11.
12:32So the attention
12:33that I'm given,
12:34of course,
12:35it's because
12:36you're all 11.
12:37So now,
12:38when I got married,
12:39it's like,
12:40the attention
12:41is still there
12:42because your wife
12:43is still focused on you.
12:44You're the only one
12:45who's taking care of her.
12:46So,
12:47that's it.
12:48Come to think of it,
12:49the attention
12:50that's gone
12:51from me
12:52maybe because
12:53I have a lot of siblings,
12:54my wife gave it to me.
12:56How many are you?
12:5711?
12:58I'm only 11.
12:59And your mom's
13:00the only one?
13:01I'm the only one
13:02who's 11.
13:03That's not a lot.
13:05For me,
13:06there was a period
13:07when I was alone.
13:10I was alone.
13:12So,
13:13for a few years,
13:14I got used to being alone.
13:16So,
13:17when the time came
13:18when I got married,
13:19of course,
13:20I enjoyed it.
13:21When I wake up,
13:22my breakfast is there.
13:23I have coffee.
13:25Magic.
13:26Is this magic?
13:28For me,
13:30because my mom
13:31used to cook before.
13:32Actually,
13:33she does everything.
13:34Even the bills,
13:36whatever expenses.
13:37She's the one
13:38who segregates.
13:39Of course,
13:40she went to the States.
13:41I'm the only one
13:42who knows.
13:43She gave it to me.
13:44I said,
13:45I can't do this.
13:48I'll be confused
13:49because my mom
13:50was just easy.
13:51When there's a problem,
13:52she doesn't tell me.
13:53She'll find a way.
13:54She'll find a way.
13:55I'll find a way.
13:57What style
13:58do they have
13:59in taking care
14:00of each other?
14:01In returning
14:02the sis.
14:22The things
14:23that surprised them
14:24or made it hard
14:25for them to adjust
14:26because they can't do this
14:27at home,
14:28especially with mommy.
14:29Mommy,
14:30you can't do this.
14:32I can't.
14:34Like,
14:36like what?
14:37Like,
14:39what mommy does.
14:40I'm used to
14:41when mommy wakes up in the morning,
14:43she says a lot.
14:45But my wife,
14:46she's just quiet.
14:48No, but in the case
14:49of the house,
14:50because we're a lot,
14:51when she wakes up in the morning,
14:52my mom is like,
14:53oh,
14:54she's awake.
14:56So,
14:57now,
14:58when I go home,
14:59that's what I hear.
15:00So,
15:01I'm used to that.
15:02Oh,
15:03the same thing.
15:04When I wake up,
15:05I hear that
15:06one of the kids
15:07is fighting
15:08because one of them
15:09doesn't want to wake up,
15:10the other has a problem,
15:11this and that,
15:12there are requirements.
15:13It's like a roll call
15:14in the morning.
15:15Yes,
15:16because they have to leave
15:17at a certain time
15:18because there will be traffic
15:19if they're late.
15:20So,
15:21actually,
15:22there's no no.
15:23Like,
15:24for example,
15:25my mother is also
15:26always late.
15:27When I go home,
15:28she's still awake.
15:29Blah, blah, blah.
15:30Which is,
15:31somehow,
15:32it's good because
15:33when I go home,
15:34I talk to her
15:35and we analyze the situation.
15:36The same thing
15:37with my wife.
15:38It's like an assessment.
15:39Sometimes,
15:40even if she's already
15:41sleeping,
15:42she's still
15:43waiting for me
15:44to talk to her.
15:45Because your adrenaline
15:46is still high,
15:47you want to share
15:48with her.
15:49So,
15:50she really knows
15:51that I'm the type
15:52who still listens to me
15:53and analyzes
15:54what's happening,
15:55what's good,
15:56what's bad.
15:57It's like an analysis
15:58of what happened
15:59the other day.
16:00For me,
16:01it's the same,
16:02but it's the opposite.
16:03If my wife
16:04wants to sleep,
16:05she'll tell me.
16:06Because if I tell her,
16:07she'll automatically
16:08fall asleep.
16:09I don't think
16:10she's a good person.
16:11Maybe she doesn't talk
16:12if she's a good person.
16:13Maybe I'm just
16:14that boring.
16:18What are the traits
16:19of a wife
16:20who's a little hokey
16:21with her mother?
16:22Well,
16:23the things
16:24that remind her
16:25very,
16:26very,
16:27how do you call this?
16:28Yes,
16:29don't forget.
16:30Like this.
16:31Yes,
16:32the details.
16:33Yes.
16:34Very routine.
16:35That,
16:36yes,
16:37you'll go there.
16:38The person
16:39you'll call
16:40before you leave.
16:41Very specific.
16:42Your vitamins.
16:43Yes.
16:44Right?
16:45Have you finished eating?
16:46Things like that.
16:47It reminds her.
16:48Very,
16:49it's always there.
16:50Okay,
16:51sometimes,
16:52you're not hokey,
16:53but what are the things
16:54that remind you
16:55when you're taking care
16:56of your wife
16:57that are a little,
16:58you're not a type.
17:00For me,
17:01it's hard
17:02to make her hokey.
17:03For my mom,
17:04it's easy
17:05to show her.
17:06You should show
17:07your wife
17:08when she's okay.
17:09No,
17:10because I told my mom
17:11that if there's something
17:12I need to do,
17:13I just need to show her
17:14that my head hurts,
17:15my back hurts.
17:16It's okay.
17:17It's okay.
17:18For my wife,
17:19no,
17:20I can't make her hokey.
17:21What do you need to do?
17:22What do you think
17:24Sometimes,
17:25even if I'm really sleepy,
17:27or whatever,
17:28and you know,
17:29I haven't spent time
17:30with my son
17:31or my daughter.
17:32I haven't seen them
17:33for that day.
17:34Even if I'm really tired,
17:35I'm obligated
17:36to take a bath first.
17:38But if it's my mom,
17:39I'm sleepy.
17:40It's okay.
17:41It's okay.
17:42Don't forget me.
17:44For your wife,
17:45you can't do that.
17:47For me,
17:48nothing.
17:49Not because
17:50my wife is watching.
17:51No,
17:53um,
17:54is there something
17:55I don't like?
17:57Ah,
17:58maybe it's just that
17:59when my mom
18:00has a bad feeling about me,
18:01we'll talk.
18:03Not your wife?
18:04My wife.
18:05When she's alone,
18:06she'll be quiet.
18:07Ah.
18:08So,
18:09I'm the one who's confused.
18:10Wait,
18:11maybe you want to talk
18:12so I'll know.
18:13Something like that.
18:14But,
18:15for my son,
18:16my wife is my son,
18:17so it's okay.
18:19For me,
18:20jealousy,
18:21especially,
18:22my wife.
18:24You know,
18:25when it's hard,
18:26when it's hard,
18:27our situation as an artist,
18:28when it comes to
18:29our wives
18:30who are not filmmakers,
18:31of course,
18:32they don't know
18:33much about our world.
18:34It's a good thing
18:35my wife is an artist.
18:36There's nothing wrong
18:37with jealousy.
18:38I look at it that way
18:39that's a sign of love.
18:41When there's jealousy,
18:42there's love.
18:43But,
18:44the,
18:45the beyond the limit
18:46that's happening,
18:48and it happens over and over again,
18:50That's all. But I'm tolerating it.
18:53Did you expect to see a rolling pin in the door?
18:56Not yet.
18:57It will be removed from you.
18:58Not yet.
19:01In our house, I'm the one who follows.
19:03If I say that, you should follow.
19:05If I say that I'll wash at 10, I'll really wash at 10.
19:09I don't want to hear that.
19:13You said that to us last time.
19:17Our voice is different this time.
19:21Didn't they say that your wife is usually the extension of your mother?
19:25Because whatever care that your mother gives you,
19:27your wives will do it anyway.
19:31Of course.
19:32Now, who is the one who has the loudest voice?
19:35Is it your mother or your wife?
19:38What's the difference between the tone of a mother and a wife?
19:42It's like that.
19:44They just base it on your mother or your wife.
19:47That's the point in our married life.
19:51My wife always puts me in a defensive stance.
19:57When we talk about issues,
19:59although I'm jealous and guilty,
20:04but when I become defensive,
20:07it's not a nice feeling.
20:10You tend to be offensive now because you're guilty.
20:14Not like my mother.
20:15When we talked about that, she's more analytical.
20:18She's more understanding.
20:20Maybe because she's my mother.
20:23So that quality has been solved.
20:25I told her, I traced her,
20:27don't put me in a defensive stance
20:29because what happens is that I get angry and agitated.
20:35It's been solved.
20:36Now, she understands me.
20:39When there's a problem,
20:41I don't talk to her alone.
20:43Because when you talk to your mother,
20:45you can't tell her.
20:47She knows that your vulnerable spot will open up.
20:50Sometimes, we can't open up to our wife.
20:52So when that happened,
20:54I included her in the problem
20:56and she didn't put me in a defensive stance.
21:00It's been solved.
21:05So you're not jealous.
21:08No, I'm still noisy.
21:11But...
21:12Mommy's still a winner.
21:13She's still a winner.
21:14Also, my wife exerts her effort.
21:16When I'm there, she tries not to get angry.
21:21She has an effort.
21:22She's noisy, but when I'm there,
21:24I can see her effort.
21:26Does Mommy really have no effort?
21:27No, she doesn't.
21:28She doesn't?
21:29No, she doesn't.
21:31Okay, Mommy's smart.
21:33Honey's smart.
21:34Who are they?
21:36We'll talk about it when we return.
21:41We are sisters.
21:42We are sisters.
21:48Always be.
21:49We are sisters.
21:51We are sisters.
21:56Of course, it's painful for you
21:57that your wife got jealous.
21:59And it's painful for your wife to tell you
22:01that your mother is a troublemaker.
22:06PJ.
22:08No, I don't think so.
22:11There are times when,
22:14especially our mothers,
22:16they are typical perfectionists.
22:18Especially my mother.
22:20She's typical.
22:21She's a perfectionist.
22:22So...
22:25When I go to her house,
22:27I can see my wife's weight
22:31when she needs to take her medicine
22:33or waste to the children.
22:39She can't help it when she gets angry.
22:42Or when she has directions
22:46that she should not do.
22:50It's like a scenario.
22:52You're eating.
22:53Of course, your wife is cooking.
22:55And your mother is eating.
22:57It's so salty.
22:59Why is it so salty?
23:01Of course, it's just a comment.
23:03It hurts your wife.
23:05A lot of times,
23:07it doesn't go away.
23:09It happens.
23:10What do you do when it happens?
23:13Sometimes, your wife lets you go.
23:16But sometimes,
23:17she gets full.
23:19Your mom said this.
23:21Gosh.
23:22For me, it's corny.
23:24Because they adjust.
23:27You want to fight with your mother.
23:30Isn't our story corny?
23:32It's a waste.
23:33It's a waste.
23:34It's like...
23:35No conflict.
23:37Maybe, I believe it.
23:39Because when you get married,
23:40you and your wife should be one.
23:42And you should be separated.
23:45Not literally.
23:47Because it's written in the Bible.
23:50When you get married,
23:51you should be separated from your parents,
23:54your siblings.
23:55And maybe,
23:57I'm just lucky.
23:58That's what happens.
24:01Do you think,
24:02your parents have a say in you,
24:04even if you already have a wife?
24:07Yes.
24:08I think, they should.
24:09I mean,
24:11it's up to you.
24:12If what she said
24:13is good for her relationship as a husband,
24:16or for her life as a husband,
24:18why don't you listen to her?
24:19And why shouldn't she say that?
24:21Especially,
24:22if what she said is constructive
24:24for your wife,
24:25or for you,
24:26or for your family.
24:27There's no problem with that.
24:29And,
24:30in the case of,
24:31let's say,
24:32they have a little conflict.
24:33I think,
24:34since I know them both better,
24:36I'm the one they blame.
24:38How do you blame them?
24:40For example,
24:41let's say,
24:42let's say,
24:43my mother said something about my wife.
24:46Then,
24:47I'm the one to explain to her
24:48why it's like that.
24:50For example,
24:51my wife said something about my mother.
24:53I know my mother better.
24:54I'm the one to explain to her
24:55why it's like that.
24:56I can't let them have friction.
24:58Because,
24:59I believe in the saying that...
25:00You're already afraid.
25:01Yes.
25:02I believe in the saying that
25:03two can't be in the same area.
25:05Right?
25:06If you put them in the same place,
25:08and they fight,
25:09you're dead.
25:10You're really stuck.
25:11Now,
25:12if you can do something
25:13so that
25:14the negative comments
25:15won't reach them,
25:16won't reach the other person,
25:18so that there's no bitterness inside.
25:21Especially,
25:22if you know the answer to that.
25:23Let's say,
25:24my wife said,
25:26sometimes,
25:27your mother is rude.
25:28No,
25:29she's really rude.
25:30Not sometimes.
25:31But,
25:32it's just like that.
25:33For example,
25:34my mother said,
25:35I don't know what your wife is thinking
25:37because she's so quiet.
25:38It's just like that.
25:39It's annoying.
25:40But,
25:41it's not like that.
25:42So,
25:43it's just like that.
25:44It's okay.
25:45She's quiet.
25:46She won't argue.
25:47But,
25:48she doesn't mean anything.
25:49Ian,
25:50let's say,
25:51they said,
25:52it's okay
25:53with your mother's comments.
25:55Because,
25:56sometimes,
25:57if you let her be,
25:58she'll get used to it.
25:59But,
26:00what if she gets worried?
26:01No,
26:02for me,
26:03if there's a disagreement,
26:04for example,
26:05there's a problem.
26:06For example,
26:07there's a time
26:08when my mother has a problem
26:09with my wife.
26:10If she talks to me,
26:11my wife can't do it.
26:12And,
26:13I'm the judge.
26:14If I say,
26:15you're right,
26:16it's okay.
26:17If I say,
26:18you're wrong,
26:19you can't do anything.
26:20It's just like that.
26:21And,
26:22for my wife,
26:23it's the same.
26:24If she's right,
26:25I'll fix it.
26:26If she's wrong,
26:27she can't do anything.
26:28So,
26:29they need to be together
26:30no matter what happens.
26:31If not,
26:32they'll get mad at me.
26:33No!
26:34I'm tired of this.
26:35Can I say something else
26:36to your mother?
26:37At this point,
26:38you're of age,
26:39you have a family.
26:40You said,
26:41Tores,
26:42you're already giving.
26:43But,
26:44there comes a point
26:45when you're full.
26:46You're like,
26:47what is this?
26:48What is this?
26:49Like,
26:50hello,
26:51are you really able
26:52to speak up
26:53and say what you feel?
26:55Or,
26:56is it hard?
26:57There are many ways
26:58to relay that message.
27:01Because,
27:02if you balance the two,
27:04it's not easy.
27:06Because,
27:07you can't choose
27:08between the two.
27:09It's like,
27:10you love both.
27:11So,
27:12there are many ways
27:13to say
27:14what you need to say
27:15or correct
27:16in a nice way.
27:17There's love,
27:18compassion,
27:19and there's
27:20kindness.
27:21It's the way
27:22you say it
27:23or right.
27:24That's most important.
27:25Do you think most men
27:26have this maternal complex?
27:28That no matter what,
27:30you always ask,
27:31what type of woman
27:32do you want?
27:33Like,
27:34I want her to be
27:35the same as my mom.
27:36To take care of her like that.
27:38I'm the opposite.
27:39I did everything
27:40to stay away
27:41from my mom.
27:42But,
27:43I'm still like that.
27:44I'm still like that.
27:45Because,
27:46every girl I go out with
27:47becomes my mother
27:48in the end.
27:50I'm pretty much
27:51against that.
27:52Because,
27:53at a certain point
27:54in our life,
27:56at a certain point
27:57in our life,
27:58we reach a point
27:59where we rebel
28:00against our parents.
28:01Our mothers,
28:02in particular,
28:03they're the ones
28:04who are always
28:05like this.
28:06She's spontaneous.
28:07All of a sudden,
28:08you see,
28:09okay,
28:10your husband
28:11takes care of you.
28:12He takes care of you.
28:13But,
28:14it's like,
28:15is she my mother?
28:16Right?
28:17Do you go crazy
28:18because of that?
28:19Are there things
28:20like that?
28:21Right?
28:22I'm used to it.
28:23I'm used to it.
28:24Right?
28:25There's nothing you can do.
28:26If you're still living
28:27in your mother's house,
28:28you're really there.
28:30You have to face
28:31the reality
28:32inside the house
28:33and all of that.
28:35But,
28:36in the long run,
28:37later on,
28:38you'll realize
28:39that everything
28:40that happened
28:41was for your own good.
28:42So,
28:43yeah.
28:44That's all.
28:45I would say that
28:46as much as possible,
28:47always be positive.
28:48So that,
28:49you know,
28:50your head doesn't get hot.
28:51Before,
28:52I used to think
28:53that my mom is so strict.
28:54My mom,
28:55why is she like this?
28:56Why is she like that?
28:57You think it's negative.
28:58But,
28:59in the long run,
29:00you'll realize
29:01that it's good
29:02that my mom is like that.
29:03Right?
29:04My mom is so strict.
29:05So,
29:06what about
29:07the mothers
29:08who,
29:09when you're 16 years old,
29:10you're being chased.
29:11Son,
29:12powder yourself.
29:13Powder.
29:14Wipe your sweat.
29:15In front of a lot of people,
29:16your girlfriend is there.
29:17Kiss me.
29:18Kiss.
29:19Kiss.
29:20Kiss.
29:21That's true.
29:22That's true.
29:23When I was in third year high school,
29:24first day of school,
29:25my mom was still with me.
29:26She took me to my classroom.
29:27Did you get chased?
29:28Yes.
29:29But,
29:30it's nothing.
29:31It's okay.
29:32Well, anyway,
29:33both mom and honey
29:34are the best.
29:35We'll find out
29:36in the Sis Challenge.
29:47Always,
29:48always be
29:49we are sisters.
29:51We are sisters.
29:55Like what we said earlier,
29:57I have the Sis Challenge.
29:59We'll balance
30:00mommy and
30:01missis.
30:02So,
30:03we'll give you
30:04things,
30:05scenarios,
30:06whatever.
30:07Then,
30:08you'll tell us
30:09how missis
30:10tackles it
30:11and how mommy
30:12does it.
30:13Okay, balance.
30:14Okay, first,
30:15issue.
30:16Seasoning of coffee.
30:20Coffee.
30:22In Bicol,
30:23Hi,
30:24I'm in TV.
30:25Hi,
30:26he's in TV.
30:27He's in TV.
30:28In Bicol,
30:29the coffee there is different.
30:31Right?
30:32I miss
30:33the coffee
30:34in rice.
30:36The,
30:37the,
30:38the real rice.
30:39The real rice coffee.
30:41Then, I'll put it
30:42in the rice.
30:43That's delicious.
30:44I can't do it anymore.
30:45Because,
30:46in my house,
30:47in my missis' house,
30:48it's kind of,
30:49it's kind of
30:50complicated.
30:51There are flavors.
30:52Like,
30:53choo choo choo choo.
30:54That's right.
30:55Modern.
30:56Modern.
30:57For me,
30:58I just started
30:59drinking coffee
31:00when I got married.
31:01So, I can't.
31:02There's no difference.
31:03No.
31:04There's no point of comparison.
31:05They both can't.
31:07Why?
31:08Because I don't drink coffee.
31:09They really can't.
31:10I don't drink coffee.
31:11They can't season it.
31:12I don't know how.
31:13It's easy for them
31:14to season their coffee
31:15with me.
31:16Because,
31:17they want me to be arrogant.
31:18And, coffee is for
31:19making them nervous.
31:21Ah.
31:22No.
31:24Coffee?
31:25It's different
31:26because there's coffee
31:27in the cup, right?
31:28It's different.
31:29The cup is different
31:30from the rice.
31:31The cup is different
31:32from the rice.
31:33Okay, okay.
31:34There's coffee
31:35that can cancel that.
31:36Planting clothes.
31:40Uh huh.
31:41You first.
31:42Planting clothes?
31:44Well,
31:45my mom
31:46is good
31:47at planting clothes.
31:48But,
31:50for my wife,
31:51I'm better
31:52at planting clothes
31:53than her.
31:55There.
31:56That's the difference.
31:57I don't plant clothes
31:58for my wife
31:59or my mom.
32:01Usually,
32:02I do it before.
32:03Really?
32:04Yes.
32:05I like it more.
32:06Because,
32:07if I can't do it,
32:08I'll try to talk to
32:09one of them.
32:10But, if I can,
32:11I don't plant.
32:12For me,
32:13they both
32:14don't plant.
32:15For helpers,
32:16they plant.
32:18So, in other words,
32:19you don't help?
32:20No, I don't help.
32:21I don't plant.
32:22Actually,
32:23because the other day,
32:24when I came in,
32:25there were admirals,
32:26right?
32:27Yes.
32:28That's why my mom
32:29is so...
32:30That's how it is.
32:31It's different.
32:32It's really different.
32:33It's very crisp,
32:34right?
32:35Yes.
32:36But,
32:37for my wife,
32:38it's like
32:39she has a backjab.
32:41It's like an additional.
32:42It's an additional.
32:43That's right.
32:44In the helpers,
32:45they don't plant.
32:46It's like,
32:47you guys again?
32:48That's why.
32:49That's the problem.
32:50Yes, that's the difference.
32:51Okay, next!
32:52Waking up in the morning.
32:56I've answered that.
32:57They're both angry
32:58because it's hard to wake up.
32:59Yes.
33:00That's it.
33:01I'm sorry.
33:02I'm really sorry.
33:03Who said sorry?
33:04EJ.
33:05My mom
33:07wakes up
33:09in her sleep
33:10sleep because of course he should be a little on time with him things for the children so my wife
33:19is just letting me sleep as long as I want to sleep because of course I can get some sleep
33:27the other day because we have a lot of siblings if you don't wake up early you will be late for class
34:04if you don't wake up, you will still be mad
34:08my mom is like that, she really wakes up sometimes during sermons
34:12my wife, because for me the most important thing in my life is my sleep
34:17even if there's no food, sleep is important
34:20so my wife, I'm afraid to wake up because sometimes, you know, it's like I'm possessed
34:24you're not a master
34:26yes, so I can't be touched
34:29in the past, I used to be far away from my bosses
34:32and sometimes I would still fall asleep when I woke up
34:34so what she does is she turns off the air conditioner
34:36so that when I'm hot, I can sleep
34:39you'll wake up then?
34:40talking about how I wake up, my wife lately
34:43she already knows how to wake me up
34:45there's a time
34:47that's my anthem by the way
34:51I think she remembers me
34:53good morning, remember
34:55I really hope that your wife will remember me
34:58my voice is louder and louder
35:01I'm sorry
35:02no, I'm sorry
35:05who gives more allowance?
35:07mommy or honey?
35:10or who gives more allowance?
35:13no, because the other day
35:15you don't care where the allowance comes from
35:18you just ask mommy, you're a regular now
35:21actually, I got that too
35:23because my mother is the one who handles the budget
35:25and she gives all the money to my mother
35:28so I thought that's how it's set up
35:31so when I got married, it's the same
35:33I give all the money to my wife
35:34and I'm the only one who gets the allowance
35:37although it depends on the need
35:42of course, my mom gets more budget
35:47you're 11, Joey
35:49it's a different situation
35:53for me, it's the same
35:55I give all the money to my wife
35:58it's up to her how she spends it
36:00I just give all the money
36:02so of course, my allowance comes from me
36:04so I don't have any
36:06he doesn't have a problem with that
36:08for me, it's the same
36:09I try everything
36:10because for me,
36:12whatever I need
36:14she can see it
36:16so she can budget it
36:19this time, at this point
36:21I didn't see any difference between the two
36:23with my mother before
36:25when you ask for money or allowance
36:27there are questionings
36:29why are you asking for this?
36:31why is it this big?
36:33it's too expensive
36:36do you really need it?
36:38they have money
36:39and they're the ones who budget
36:41so they're conscious of the expenses
36:44with my wife also
36:46so like the other boys here
36:49I give the money to them
36:51to my wife
36:53so she's also thinking of budgeting
36:56so it's not always that
36:58I ask for allowance
37:00or expenses
37:01to buy this, to buy that
37:03there are still questions
37:05or reminders
37:06so it's the same
37:07there are reminders
37:09talking about allowance and budgeting
37:11I don't know if that's one area
37:13that my wife wants to turn over
37:15because sometimes
37:17when you're a man
37:18you're looking for
37:19what happened?
37:20I don't have money
37:21why is this not enough?
37:23so of course
37:24the other day
37:25when you bought groceries
37:26for 1,000 pesos
37:27that's one cart
37:28now, it's 5,000
37:29half of the cart
37:30why is that?
37:31so you're the one
37:32who needs to budget
37:33to understand the situation
37:34you buy groceries
37:35you buy groceries
37:36so that's one area
37:37where I say
37:38I don't care about that
37:39it's up to you
37:40so who's gentle?
37:42who's more gentle?
37:44gentle
37:46gentle?
37:47how is it gentle?
37:48gentle
37:49like a gentle wife
37:51maybe like
37:52what Ian does
37:53in the back
37:54when he's sleeping
37:55like that
37:56they're different
37:57in being gentle
37:58my mom, for example
37:59when she's going to be gentle
38:00she'll tell me
38:01hey!
38:02you're going to be like that
38:03I'll just do this
38:04she's like that
38:05when she's gentle
38:06my wife
38:07she's like a wife
38:08when she's gentle
38:09she'll hug you
38:10and then
38:11she'll do whatever she wants
38:13or when she needs something
38:14she'll tell me
38:15hey!
38:16you're stupid
38:17she'll be like that
38:18they're different
38:19when they're gentle
38:20my mom is like
38:21body-body
38:22gentle
38:23like friends
38:24my mom and I
38:25are more like a family
38:26when she treats me
38:27when she's here
38:31why are you looking at me?
38:32it's your turn
38:33who's more gentle?
38:35gentle
38:36it's the same
38:37it's the same
38:38my wife is like that
38:40I'll tell her
38:41that happens
38:44that's how it is
38:45that's how it is
38:46when there's
38:47for example
38:48my wife
38:49hey!
38:50I saw a shoe
38:51it's beautiful
38:52it's new
38:53that's how it is
38:54that's how it is
38:55that's how it is
38:56that's how it is
38:57that's how it is
38:58that's how they're gentle
38:59you know
39:00what we're talking about
39:01is very tame
39:02look
39:03the color
39:04it's all blue
39:05that's right
39:06you're all blue
39:07that's why
39:08all of these
39:09are gentle
39:10because the color
39:11of gentleness
39:12is the same
39:13is that how it is?
39:14I don't know
39:15that's how it is
39:18that's how it is
39:19that's how it is
39:20that's how it is
39:21okay
39:22if you're last day in the world
39:23and you're in front of your mom
39:24and your husband
39:25what will you tell them?
39:29that's a hard question
39:30last day
39:31imagine
39:32I'll be the last day
39:33and not my mom
39:34will be the last day
39:37I'll be the first
39:40come on
39:42actually
39:46at this point in time
39:48I realized
39:49while they're still here
39:50and we're still here
39:51let's show them
39:52how much we love them
39:54you know
39:55it's verbalized things
39:56like my mother
39:57we don't say
39:58I love you
39:59or I love you
40:00but my mother
40:01is more of touch
40:03holding
40:04hugging
40:05and the tenderness
40:06when they come to you
40:07you can't not hold them
40:08so my wife
40:10we say
40:11I love you everyday
40:12it's like
40:13even when we're not
40:14brushing our teeth
40:15when we wake up
40:16in the morning
40:17she'll kiss me
40:18that I love you
40:19so what I'll say
40:20which I like
40:21other people to do
40:22is
40:23let's show them
40:24how much we love them
40:25as long as
40:26we're still here
40:27in this world
40:30to the husband
40:31if that's the case
40:32to the husband
40:33yes, that's right
40:34imagine
40:35they're mom and wife
40:36that's it
40:37what I want to say
40:38to them
40:39nothing
40:40just like that
40:41to my mom
40:42we don't
40:43say I love you
40:44to each other
40:45even when
40:46I'm growing up
40:47but that's there
40:48you know that
40:49in other things
40:50in kilos
40:51in kilos
40:52in work
40:53and in
40:54you know that
40:55so my wife
40:56is like that too
40:57but of course
40:58we say I love you
40:59more often
41:00to my wife
41:01and this is mommy
41:02coming down
41:03she's like
41:04I love you
41:05I love you
41:06and mommy comes down
41:07no, son
41:08I don't know
41:10let me know
41:13for me
41:14I'm happy
41:15that I can tell my mom
41:16that I love her
41:17that I love her
41:18I do that
41:19and maybe
41:20if it's my last day
41:21and I'm facing the same thing
41:22maybe
41:23it's the same message
41:24for both of them
41:25to say
41:26I wish I had more time
41:27to show them
41:28how much I appreciate them
41:29how much I wanted
41:30to be with them
41:31and at the same time
41:32I'm happy that
41:33I'll be the first
41:34because
41:36serious
41:37serious
41:39for me
41:40what happens
41:41for me
41:42if it's my last day
41:43for
41:44that happens
41:50if it's my last day
41:51maybe
41:52well
41:53the best I could do
41:54is to
41:55to
41:57speak out words
41:58as much as I could
41:59everything
42:00that I want
42:01to say
42:02that
42:06my love for them
42:07I'll say it
42:08until I run out of
42:09words to say
42:10to them
42:11that I love them
42:12and along the line
42:13they can see
42:14that I love them
42:15and I think
42:16it's important
42:17especially to mom
42:18to express
42:19thanks
42:20to life
42:21because
42:22it's like
42:23we have a life
42:24in this world
42:25because of our
42:26mothers
42:27especially
42:28of course
42:29to the parents
42:30but to mom
42:31that's really
42:32a special breed
42:33of love
42:34a special breed
42:35of person
42:36in this world
42:37the mothers
42:38so it's a thanksgiving
42:39it's a
42:40thanks to them
42:41of course
42:42thanks to the wife
42:43because
42:44they're alone
42:45in this life
42:46why is it like
42:47why also
42:48thanks also
42:49to the wife
42:54the mothers
42:55they risk their lives
42:56to reach you
42:57in this world
42:58the wives
42:59they risk their lives
43:00to give it to you
43:01to your children
43:02and at the same time
43:03they agreed
43:04to share your life
43:05with you
43:06they'll grow old
43:07with you
43:08so how can I
43:09tell my wife
43:10I have better things
43:11to do
43:12than to be with
43:13this old man
43:14I saw his teeth
43:15his hair is white
43:16he's bald
43:17but she chose
43:18to be with me
43:19so that's different
43:20your wife
43:21you're with her
43:22your mother
43:23you left her
43:24yes
43:25so what's the point?
43:34where are we going
43:35with this?
43:39I'll just touch
43:40what we're talking about
43:41when it comes to
43:42mother
43:49thank you
43:50where are we going?
43:51thank you
43:52thank you
43:53you're so nice
43:54to yourself
43:55so
43:58a round of applause
43:59please
44:03we are sisters
44:04we are sisters
44:10always
44:11always be
44:12we are sisters
44:13we are sisters
44:18okay Gem
44:19actually
44:20you shouldn't compete
44:21with mommy
44:22and honey
44:23because
44:24when you get married
44:25you're really
44:26supposed to
44:27be separated
44:28from your parents
44:29your life is different
44:30your life is different
44:31although
44:32you're still
44:33your parents
44:34yes
44:35it doesn't mean
44:36you're supposed to
44:37disrespect them
44:38or you're not
44:39separated from them
44:40but
44:41this is
44:42your
44:43immediate family
44:44at the moment
44:45because
44:46they become
44:47an extended family
44:48exactly
44:49that's how it is
44:50just like what
44:51our guests said
44:52yes
44:53things like this happen
44:54sometimes
44:55there's
44:56an issue
44:57actually
44:58nothing
44:59it's really like this
45:00mommy is
45:01forever
45:02your mother
45:03she will nurture
45:04she has nurtured you
45:05brought you up
45:06blah blah blah
45:07mommy did everything
45:08but of course
45:09now
45:10she's a wife
45:11but mommy is still
45:12there
45:13yes
45:14I remember
45:15what mommy said
45:16that
45:17whoever
45:18we're going to
45:19marry
45:20they should also love
45:21because they're the ones
45:22who will continue
45:23taking care of us
45:24like what
45:25taking care of us
45:26the husband
45:27will continue
45:28yes
45:29so that's what
45:30we're going to talk about
45:31today
45:32and we would like to
45:33thank you for joining us
45:34see you again tomorrow
45:35here on
45:36SIS
45:37SIS would like to thank
45:39Bambi Fuentes
45:41Mossimo
45:42F&H
45:43Chloe for our eyewear
45:45Optical Works
45:47Adidas
45:48Janeline Shoes
45:50Wade Shoes
45:51Bayo
45:52Under the Sea Pet Shop
45:54Salon de Manila
45:55La Germania
45:57680 Home Appliances
45:59Jurastar
46:00Mano Mano
46:02Play and Display
46:03JBL Home Furniture Enterprise
46:06The Barnyard
46:07Grand Flora
46:08Our Home
46:10Wayless Center and Spa
46:12Balloon Creations
46:14Color My Hair
46:15and Union Square
46:17because mommy said
46:18you haven't taken a bath yet
46:20she's like that
46:22her style is beautiful
46:25so you thought
46:26you're in Alaska
46:27you thought
46:28you're in Alaska
46:29you thought
46:30you're in California
46:31but you're in Surinam
46:32you think you're in Surinam
46:33good good
46:34his style is beautiful
46:35my mom
46:36she wakes up
46:37during sermons
46:38she wakes up
46:39my wife
46:40because in my life
46:41my sleep is the most important
46:42sleep is very important
46:43even if you don't eat
46:44sleep is very important
46:45so my wife
46:46I was so scared
46:47to wake up
46:48because sometimes
46:49you know
46:50it's like you're in a piano
46:51when you're tired
46:52yeah
46:53oh my
46:54I'm in a TV
46:56It's delicious!
46:58I'm saying this because
47:00the coffee is different there, right?
47:02For us, it's different. My mom is different.
47:04Your moms didn't say anything.
47:07My mom didn't say anything.
47:08My mom didn't say anything.