Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Angeli Khang, nakaranas ng pang-aabuso sa ama! (Episode 399)

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Aired (August 9, 2024): Ibinahagi ni Angeli Khang ang dinanas nila ng kanyang kapatid noon sa Saipan kasama ang kanilang Koreanong ama na may mabigat daw na kamay pagdating sa pagdidisiplina. #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso

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00:00We still have a lot of questions.

00:07Who is Angelica?

00:09We have an idea that you grew up in Saipan and came from South Korea.

00:15Your father was a military general.

00:18But this is just a few of the things we know.

00:21What is your story?

00:22Who are you?

00:25Growing up, I was adopted by my mom.

00:30At first, I was adopted by my mom.

00:33My mom was converted from Catholic to born-again Christian.

00:38So growing up, Christian values...

00:41Where are you from?

00:42Are you from South Korea or Saipan?

00:44I'm from the Philippines.

00:45Philippines?

00:46Yes, I was born here in the Philippines.

00:47So after my elementary school, when I went to Saipan with my dad,

00:53I really respected my dad.

00:57And I missed him so much from not seeing him for a long time.

01:01But maybe my dad's military discipline was different.

01:06Wait a minute.

01:07So your dad was a military officer where?

01:11At the U.S.

01:13At the U.S.?

01:14Yes.

01:15But he was from South Korea?

01:18Yes.

01:19Alright. So that's where you started.

01:21You were born here in the Philippines.

01:23Seven years old.

01:24You joined your dad in Saipan.

01:26And then what happened?

01:28His way of teaching, a motherly love will never...

01:31A motherly love will never be true.

01:33But a dad's love, a father's love is uptight.

01:37And a dad's love is very different from a mother's love.

01:41But since my dad was military disciplined,

01:44he became more uptight.

01:47It became too much for us to handle.

01:51The both of us, me and my brother.

01:53My older brother.

01:54Older brother?

01:55Yes.

01:56Did he hurt you?

01:57Yes. Physically abused.

01:59You were physically abused.

02:01How bad was that?

02:02What was that? A beating? Was it a belt? A punch?

02:05How did he hurt you?

02:07He hurt me in every way.

02:09One time, there was a fight.

02:12He owns a construction company there.

02:15He saw a fight.

02:17He hurt my older brother.

02:19He hit him in the back.

02:20And my brother's back wasn't red.

02:23It was purple.

02:24And the reason was only...

02:28Maybe there was...

02:30The reason was only...

02:31My dad was being asked to solve a math problem.

02:33But my brother didn't...

02:36He didn't get an answer right away.

02:38My dad got an answer.

02:40And he won.

02:41When my brother couldn't take it anymore,

02:44and he went back to the Philippines,

02:46I didn't tell my dad that I knew he went back.

02:50Because my brother ran away.

02:51He ran away from my dad.

02:53And I want my dad to admit,

02:56the way he treated me,

02:58he suddenly pushed me to the dishes.

03:01He pushed me there.

03:02And he didn't let me eat for a week.

03:05Since we have a farm there,

03:08we have a garden,

03:09and I eat every time I feed the dogs.

03:12I eat avocados,

03:14oranges,

03:15apples.

03:16I don't eat for a week.

03:18Sometimes when I feed the dogs,

03:20I see how delicious it is to feed the dogs.

03:22Should I just eat this?

03:24But I got to the point where

03:27I went to school with a class.

03:30Until the very end,

03:33super...

03:34I couldn't show my temper in school.

03:37How long was this?

03:38Three years, four years.

03:40Maybe five.

03:42Three to five years.

03:45And every time your dad hurts you,

03:47do you just cry?

03:49Yes.

03:50Up to a certain point,

03:52you endured all of this.

03:54How did you get out?

03:57I thought,

03:58I actually thought there was a normal parenting hood.

04:02You thought it was normal?

04:04Yes.

04:05That if you make a mistake,

04:07it's normal that your parents hurt you.

04:11But I didn't realize that it was too much.

04:15Until I realized that

04:17I went to school with a class,

04:19my hands were bleeding.

04:23What my dad always tells me to comfort me,

04:26I want the best of you.

04:35I want the best of you.

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