Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Carla Abellana, kumusta na matapos ma-divorce kay Tom? (Episode 370)

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Aired (June 28, 2024): Kumusta na nga ba si Carla Abellana pagkatapos ng kanyang divorce sa kanyang dating asawa na si Tom Rodriguez? #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso

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00:00Today, as we call, are you happy?

00:09Yes.

00:11My smile is still beautiful. Yes, I'm happy.

00:15It was a difficult journey to get to this point.

00:19But yes, I'm definitely confident that I'm happy.

00:23Difficult to get to this point?

00:25Difficult to get, yes.

00:26A long, tedious, difficult way to get to this point.

00:31And when you connect the dots, Carla, when you look back,

00:33and you're telling yourself that self-talk is very important,

00:37God, I got to this place.

00:39Right, yes.

00:41Why? How did you get to where you are today?

00:44There are a lot of processes, a lot to go through and do.

00:48There are times when I question myself,

00:52like, how? How did I get here?

00:56I surrendered to God, and by God's grace,

01:00He brought me here.

01:03It's not that I didn't do the work that was needed

01:09to rise again, to move on, to heal, to forgive and forget.

01:15But if God and His grace are not there,

01:19I wouldn't be happy today.

01:21Have you forgiven?

01:22Definitely, yes, definitely.

01:25Have you forgotten?

01:26No, it doesn't just leave your head, your heart even,

01:34even the body, I still remember.

01:37Especially because it wasn't so long ago.

01:41Right.

01:42Where are you and Tom at this point?

01:46We are divorced.

01:48Our local court recognized it.

01:52Because it needs to be recognized.

01:54Yes, the foreign decree.

01:56So, we haven't spoken since.

01:59We haven't met or talked.

02:01He has a new girlfriend?

02:02I have no idea. According, yes, we're already dating.

02:06Or dating, I'm sorry.

02:08I don't have any updates or anything.

02:10We don't communicate anymore.

02:13The anger, how much of that is really gone?

02:21Oh, 100%.

02:23It's hard to have a little bit of anger here, right?

02:26Because life is so short.

02:28If you hold on to anger, it will just ruin you.

02:33It will manifest in your health.

02:36You will carry it.

02:38And I believe that you won't be able to move on

02:42if you still have a little bit of anger left.

02:45You said in an interview, you are ready to meet him.

02:49Well, yes.

02:50Right?

02:51Yes, correct.

02:52For example,

02:53Right, I'll be ready.

02:54You'll be ready.

02:55Right.

02:56And if you do that,

02:57He's not here.

02:58He might surprise us.

03:00If you do that, if you meet Tom,

03:03what would you tell him?

03:05I won't say anything.

03:07You wouldn't?

03:08Yes.

03:09He says hi.

03:10He says hi, for example.

03:12Maybe I'll nod.

03:14I won't even say hi back.

03:16It's not that I don't want to talk to him or what,

03:19but as much as possible,

03:21I'll avoid that.

03:23A conversation.

03:24I'll acknowledge.

03:25Yes, I'll avoid conversations.

03:27You would much prefer not to say anything.

03:29Yes, much prefer not to talk, even a small talk.

03:34In your current state,

03:35are you open to knowing?

03:39With you, for example,

03:41I thought you would feel it.

03:43Some people would be interested.

03:45Are you open to entertaining people?

03:48At this point,

03:49it's one thing that I don't really think about.

03:52Okay.

03:53Especially with the amount of work that we have,

03:55and the very little time that we have left for ourselves

03:59to rest, recover, for personal matters.

04:03It's not a priority.

04:05But with less pain, the heart opens.

04:09Oh, yes.

04:10Right?

04:11The heart opens.

04:12Are you also trying to say that,

04:14you know, I'll move with the flow?

04:16Yes.

04:17Definitely.

04:19I told myself that I don't want to close myself.

04:24I don't want to be too bitter or too angry at the world.

04:27I also don't want to be open.

04:30I don't want to look for it or chase it.

04:33Whatever comes along the way,

04:36we'll see where it will take me.

04:39Carla, what have you become because of your failed marriage?

04:45The most obvious, maybe, is stronger.

04:49What have I become?

04:51Wiser.

04:53And contradictory but vulnerable at the same time,

05:00which is still good.

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