It's Showtime: Dalagang, naka-move on sa puppy love, muling magmamahal! (EXpecially For You)

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Aired (May 10, 2024): Handa na si Ataska na muling buksan ang kanyang puso matapos ang masakit na experience niya sa puppy love relationship niya sa kanyang ex na si Sandro.

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00:00 Alright, my first question is, what does maturity mean to you?

00:06 Oh, what does maturity mean to you? What does it mean to you?

00:12 Oh no. Well, for me, I think the word maturity, you can define it many ways.

00:20 But if we take it in a perspective of relationship, I think maturity is understanding yourself first.

00:29 Knowing yourself first, what are your values, what are your responsibilities as a man,

00:35 what are your priorities, what are your studies, what are your future goals.

00:41 It's also understanding then, no, sorry, it's cultivating yourself first.

00:47 Cultivating? You're just making it up.

00:50 Oh no. Cultivating.

00:53 Because I think, before you enter a relationship, you should be ready.

00:59 Yes, thank you.

01:01 You should cultivate yourself, you should learn a lot when you're single.

01:07 So that when you're in a relationship, you add value to it.

01:11 You're so beautiful.

01:13 Ladies and gentlemen, take your last look to our candidate from Spain.

01:16 Sorry, one last. It's also about how you deal with problems, how you fix them.

01:24 Thank you.

01:26 Thank you.

01:27 Thank you.

01:28 It's the word cultivating.

01:30 Spell, spell.

01:32 Hello, you even asked me about spelling? Hello.

01:36 I won in what?

01:38 What spelling?

01:39 In volleyball.

01:41 Varsity.

01:43 You know I don't like it.

01:45 Zack, what does maturity mean to you?

01:51 For me, maturity is built by experience.

01:57 I feel like you'll mature if you can, you can accept everything, you can defend all your decisions.

02:04 You know, it's not like you won't matter.

02:08 It's like they'll just be your second opinions.

02:11 You can decide for yourself.

02:13 It's like you're the one who's choosing your own path.

02:17 That's it.

02:19 That's beautiful.

02:21 I feel like they'll mature.

02:25 Chris.

02:26 For me, maturity is realizing that loving someone is a sacrifice.

02:35 It's not all about love, it's not all about happiness.

02:39 You're supposed to choose to love that person every single day, even on the days when they feel unlovable.

02:46 They're all different.

02:49 All of them are valid and beautiful.

02:51 When you mature, you don't believe that everything is just love, everything is just happiness.

02:56 Matured.

02:57 Beautiful.

02:58 They have a lot of different answers about maturity.

03:02 You're tall.

03:03 You're smart.

03:05 What hit you and made you grow?

03:09 All of their answers are good.

03:13 But I'm gonna go with number one.

03:16 Oh, Aaron.

03:20 Because?

03:22 Cultivating.

03:26 It's the cultivating.

03:27 It's very important.

03:29 It's the cultivating.

03:32 Sandro, if you were to choose, who would you choose?

03:36 One, two, or three?

03:37 Based on the questions.

03:39 No, based on your dad.

03:41 Say it, he'll answer.

03:43 You're not going to guess.

03:45 They'll answer.

03:47 They'll answer.

03:48 For me, it's Chris.

03:51 Because for me, maturity is a sacrifice.

03:56 Because you also need to know your needs and wants of your partners.

04:02 Sandro chose a different answer.

04:07 But you, Aaron, will be giving the first green flag.

04:11 Congratulations, Aaron. You have one.

04:13 We have another question for Atasca.

04:15 Yes.

04:16 My next question is, how do you unlove a person?

04:21 It's hard.

04:25 It's a person.

04:26 It's a person.

04:28 Do we have a problem with animals, Atasca?

04:31 He's crazy about us.

04:32 He's crazy.

04:33 You talk to him.

04:34 Do you want us to be maturity?

04:37 Do you want us to cultivate you?

04:39 Do you want us to be maturity?

04:43 We have a cult.

04:46 Cultivate.

04:47 Cultivate.

04:49 Do you want us to cultivate you?

04:52 Cultivate.

04:54 Cultivate.

04:56 This is Kimchoo.

04:58 Why?

04:59 I thought you were a fat person.

05:01 We have a fat person like this.

05:03 We have a fat person like this.

05:06 We have a fat person like this.

05:08 We have a free floater.

05:10 We have a free cell phone.

05:12 This is Kimchoo.

05:14 Anyway, the question is good.

05:17 How do you unlove someone?

05:20 It's hard.

05:22 How do you unlove someone?

05:24 Let's change the sequence.

05:27 Let's start with Chris.

05:28 Number 3.

05:29 For me,

05:32 I believe that you can never really unlove someone.

05:35 You just get used to not having them around.

05:39 That's what I believe.

05:43 That's a beautiful truth.

05:46 Do you believe that?

05:48 He said,

05:49 it's not true that you lose your love for someone.

05:54 You just get used to not having them around.

05:57 That's beautiful.

06:01 That's deep.

06:03 Zach, what do you believe?

06:06 How do you unlove someone?

06:08 Is it even possible?

06:09 I'm under pressure.

06:10 For me, that should be my intro.

06:14 I just started.

06:16 But anyways,

06:17 I'll do it.

06:18 You can never truly unlove someone.

06:21 But there will come a time

06:23 that you need to accept

06:25 they are part of your life.

06:27 But they became a big part of your growth

06:29 but they are not your wife anymore

06:31 at the end of your life.

06:33 So you can't unlove them?

06:35 Yeah.

06:36 You can never truly unlove them.

06:38 Because you know,

06:39 you can't lose your love for them.

06:42 It's just a coincidence that there are boundaries

06:45 because you need to accept

06:47 that they are not the person in front of you anymore.

06:50 They are not your partner anymore.

06:52 There are times that sometimes...

06:55 That's why there's a saying,

06:57 "If it's us, it's us."

06:59 Because no matter how deep you are in love,

07:03 you can't lose that feeling.

07:06 You just don't notice it as time goes by.

07:09 So, there.

07:10 Wow.

07:16 Aron.

07:17 Well, it's something that's really hard and painful.

07:20 Through my experience,

07:22 something as simple as our dates in UP

07:25 where we eat Kwek-Kwek.

07:27 I still do that.

07:30 But you know, the other girls I've seen,

07:33 it doesn't feel the same anymore

07:35 because she's not around, you know?

07:37 So it's really hard.

07:39 The way I dealt with it was

07:41 I am so blessed that I have a mother

07:43 that I love so much.

07:45 I really love my mom.

07:47 She's watching.

07:48 And...

07:49 That's when I let her know everything.

07:52 I spoke to her.

07:53 I did the things that I love doing the most

07:56 so that I get distracted.

07:58 And then eventually, I came to accept the fact that

08:01 well, she's not around anymore.

08:03 She's no longer around.

08:04 We're not together anymore.

08:05 But she's become a big part of my life

08:08 because she spoke to me a lot about it.

08:11 Through the help of a parent.

08:14 She's a good person.

08:15 Yes.

08:16 Beautiful.

08:18 You're amazing.

08:20 Who will give the next green flag?

08:23 Second green flag.

08:27 Secret.

08:28 No, um...

08:33 There's a standout answer from me.

08:35 It's from Zach.

08:37 Because I agree with him that

08:41 that person will always be there

08:43 and it's part of growing up.

08:45 And the experience with that person

08:48 is not something that will be lost.

08:50 You'll get used to losing that person.

08:53 But the love that you had for that person

08:55 will always be a part of you

08:56 and a part of who you are.

08:58 And yeah.

09:00 Okay.

09:03 Congratulations, Zach.

09:05 You received the green flag.

09:07 Is Sanjo your favorite?

09:10 For me, Chris' answer really touched me.

09:14 Because you truly never unlove someone.

09:18 Even if you're mad at that person,

09:20 at the end of the day,

09:21 you still want to be friends with her.

09:24 Chris is chosen twice, right?

09:27 Yes.

09:28 Chris is his favorite.

09:29 Don't worry, Chris and Sanjo will date.

09:32 I'll take care of it.

09:33 And I know where you'll date, Sanjo.

09:35 We haven't met yet.

09:37 You'll date in Balacan.

09:40 Okay. Congrats to you, Zach.

09:42 You also received the green flag.

09:43 Last question, Atasca.

09:45 Okay. My last question is,

09:47 what's the worst breakup line for you?

09:50 Zach.

09:52 Worst breakup line?

09:59 I'm sorry.

10:02 You're not enough for me to grow.

10:08 Maybe.

10:09 It's like,

10:11 we're both trying,

10:16 but we're both not growing anymore.

10:19 Sorry, you're not enough for me to grow.

10:24 Aaron.

10:25 I think,

10:29 something that really hurts,

10:33 when you break up,

10:35 but in the text.

10:37 In the text.

10:38 What line is that?

10:41 Because, through my experience,

10:44 it was through text.

10:45 And it was like,

10:47 you know, I'm sorry, but,

10:50 it's like,

10:52 this isn't what I was looking for.

10:55 And,

10:58 you know, I get it, because,

11:02 over time,

11:03 we become older, we become mature,

11:06 and maybe the girl is looking for someone else.

11:10 So, I think that's painful.

11:12 Oh, it's just in the text, and then?

11:14 This isn't what I was looking for.

11:17 Chris.

11:18 Maybe for me,

11:22 sorry, but I like her more.

11:26 Something like that.

11:27 Because,

11:33 it hurts.

11:35 Because, you became an option,

11:37 and you weren't the one chosen.

11:39 It hurts.

11:42 That's a good answer.

11:43 What about you?

11:44 What's the most painful breakup line?

11:47 For me, you're the worst girlfriend.

11:51 No, no, no.

11:53 Maybe,

11:54 sorry,

11:55 sorry, but,

11:56 I still love her.

11:57 Oh, so you're just a rebound.

12:00 For me,

12:02 K-bye.

12:05 Just like that?

12:06 Capital K, right?

12:07 That's so trashy.

12:08 It's like you don't have a story,

12:10 just like that, K-bye.

12:12 Right?

12:15 Even if you're a big breakup,

12:16 we still want to feel,

12:18 you just need to chase after it a little bit,

12:20 so you can feel that you have value.

12:22 Or, if there's an explanation,

12:24 even if it hurts you both,

12:26 you're both,

12:28 you're both going to break up,

12:29 but it's still painful for you.

12:30 It means you have value.

12:32 But, K-bye,

12:34 it's so trashy.

12:35 It's painful because you said so much.

12:37 You said everything.

12:38 It's like those 10 years,

12:40 Good luck in your career,

12:42 you answered to her.

12:43 Anyway, their answer is so beautiful,

12:45 "Atas ka!"

12:46 Who will you give the last green flag?

12:48 Honestly, I think, Chris.

12:51 Chris?

12:53 Because?

12:54 Because he's thinking of something else,

12:57 right?

12:58 That's the worst thing, I think,

13:02 that's the way I could say,

13:03 that's why he's able to break up with you,

13:05 because he has someone else.

13:06 Okay.

13:08 Because all of them have a green flag,

13:10 Sandro will give you his opinion

13:14 on who you should date.

13:17 And it's up to you

13:18 if you'll accept it or you'll be rejected by someone else.

13:21 Sandro,

13:22 who should Ataska date for you?

13:27 Since all of them have a green flag.

13:30 One, two, or three?

13:32 For me,

13:34 the one Ataska really likes is,

13:37 she likes music,

13:40 so I think,

13:41 who likes music more?

13:43 But,

13:44 She wants to date M.O.D.,

13:45 because she likes music.

13:46 She likes music.

13:47 But,

13:50 for all of them,

13:51 I've been able to base all of them,

13:53 I feel like,

13:54 number one,

13:57 Aaron.

14:00 She's pushing Aaron,

14:01 even though she chose Chris twice.

14:03 Now, Aaron is her last choice.

14:05 Ataska,

14:06 who will you choose?

14:08 Based on Sandro,

14:10 Aaron,

14:11 but you,

14:12 who do you want to date?

14:13 Aaron,

14:14 Zach,

14:15 or Chris?

14:16 I need help.

14:28 Go, Ataska.

14:29 Great.

14:30 One, two, or three?

14:31 Julie is already saying it.

14:33 You have to say it.

14:34 Aaron.

14:35 Aaron!

14:36 Congratulations!

14:37 Aaron,

14:38 and he's the one who's pushing M.O.D.

14:40 That's why, Ataska,

14:41 here are the search results

14:43 that you didn't get.

14:44 Search number two,

14:46 Zach,

14:47 introduce yourself.

14:48 Hi, Ataska.

14:53 I hope you have fun with Aaron,

14:57 and always stay safe.

14:59 Nice meeting you.

15:00 Thank you, Zach.

15:03 And here's the one you didn't get,

15:05 Chris.

15:06 Hello.

15:15 How are you?

15:16 Always be careful.

15:18 I hope you're always happy.

15:22 I wish the best for you

15:24 and your happiness.

15:26 Here.

15:27 Nice work.

15:29 Thank you.

15:30 Actually, our searches are making us proud today.

15:33 Their opinions are good.

15:36 But Sanjo will give a special message

15:40 to his ex, Ataska.

15:42 Hi, Ataska.

15:48 I just want you to be happy.

15:51 I want us to be successful, both.

15:55 And at the end of the day,

15:57 I just want to be friends with you.

15:59 I also got the closure that I like,

16:01 and you like.

16:02 So, I just want you to be happy.

16:05 Ataska.

16:08 Hi, Sandro.

16:11 I want to say thank you

16:15 for being my first love.

16:18 And I forgive you

16:21 for being my biggest heartbreak.

16:24 And...

16:25 Yeah, I just want to say thank you for everything.

16:30 And despite everything that we've been through,

16:34 even if we're not friends anymore,

16:38 I just want you to be happy.

16:41 And also...

16:43 Yeah, thank you.

16:46 'Cause you always have a special place in my heart.

16:48 Thank you, Ataska.

16:49 Sanjo, I just want to message you

16:52 for Aaron.

16:53 Hello, bro.

16:57 I hope...

17:00 If you're going on a date,

17:03 I hope you take care of him.

17:05 And I hope you'll be happy.

17:07 At the end of the day,

17:09 you're the most important people to me.

17:11 So, take care of yourself.

17:13 Aaron, you'll be going to Ataska's back.

17:17 Ataska.

17:18 Ataska, meet Aaron.

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