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Aired (April 27, 2024): Bakit nga ba importante na may malalim na pagkakakilala sa isa’t isa ang isang couple?

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00:00 If there's a problem, I don't stop until it's resolved.

00:03 But how can you not stop?

00:05 Do you force it? Let's fix this.

00:08 Are you noisy? Are you loud?

00:11 How is your manner of resolving things?

00:14 Because sometimes your intention is good, but how do you do it?

00:19 That's what I want to know. How do you do your pursuit of resolving issues?

00:26 If the problem is small, I'll be more vocal.

00:30 How do you say it?

00:34 "Baby, I have this problem, but I can handle it."

00:38 Do you force it?

00:40 No, because I know I can resolve it.

00:43 But because he's my partner, I want him to know what's happening in my life.

00:48 Even if he hasn't told me anything.

00:51 I want him to listen.

00:54 How does he become a red flag when that happens to you?

00:58 How does he face your manner?

01:01 For him, it's not okay.

01:05 What do you mean?

01:07 It's not like everything will be okay.

01:09 It's always like, "No, later it will be okay."

01:12 That's how he handles it.

01:14 I feel like he's not serious in handling the problem.

01:19 Or maybe...

01:22 Christian is answering.

01:24 He's breathing deeply.

01:26 "I will protect myself!"

01:28 Okay, that's how you handle it.

01:33 You're not serious in handling the problem.

01:36 It's like, "Later it will be okay."

01:39 What can you say about that, Christian?

01:41 Actually, it's just my way of bringing positivity that the problem will be solved.

01:48 But that doesn't mean that I'm disregarding the problem.

01:52 I'm also concerned from time to time.

01:55 I'm also thinking of ways to resolve it.

01:58 But I can see that he's stressed.

02:03 So I will give him positivity from time to time.

02:06 That's how I handle it.

02:08 So you're asking him for advice to solve it right away?

02:12 Especially in work, we work.

02:15 So if there's a deadline, we'll just do it later.

02:18 It's like, "What if we both have to do it?"

02:20 He's not responding to what he's hearing.

02:22 I can see Christian's reaction.

02:25 And he's making a sound.

02:27 He's like, "Shh."

02:29 He's making a sound.

02:31 "Shh."

02:32 Like that.

02:34 Because, right?

02:36 Can you consider the red flag if you're not in the same way of facing the situation?

02:44 Discard.

02:46 Right?

02:47 Because, for example, one is active, the other is passive.

02:50 One is moving a lot, but the other is just small.

02:55 Thinking.

02:56 Thinking.

02:57 Calm.

02:58 I'm not being lazy.

03:02 But I'm doing something.

03:04 Right?

03:05 But I'm not doing it.

03:08 There are some who say, "You're not doing it. You need to see what you're doing."

03:13 There are some who are doing something, but you can't see it.

03:17 You don't know, but they're doing something.

03:20 Right?

03:21 It's like, you're not both being lazy.

03:24 "Why am I being lazy? You're not."

03:27 "So what's this? I'm the only one feeling stressed, and you're not?"

03:30 The other one can be lazy, but he knows how he's going to face it.

03:35 He won't be lazy.

03:37 But you just don't know how stressed he is.

03:40 Right?

03:41 Actually, it's harder to be stressed and quiet.

03:46 It's harder to not go out.

03:48 So you need to know your partner.

03:51 How he's going to face the situation.

03:54 "Ah, that's how it is, but he's doing something."

03:57 But if you don't know him, "Why is he like that? Why am I stressed? No."

04:00 "Does he not care? Am I the only one with a problem?"

04:04 "Is it right for me to do something?"

04:06 You said it, Cece. You need to know your partner.

04:09 Because that's how Erwin and I are. I'm the one who's always like, "Oh, you're the one who's like, 'Oh, no, no, no.'"

04:15 And he's the one who's calm.

04:16 It's like you're a bird.

04:18 I'm like that.

04:19 Sometimes he's angry, sometimes he's happy. It depends.

04:23 And he's just calm, but it doesn't mean he didn't do anything.

04:27 He has...

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Sa isang relasyon, dapat kilala mo ang partner mo! | It's Showtime (April 27, 2024)

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