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Five things you must stop right now to be happy, according to therapist
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4/16/2024
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Here's five things to avoid if you want to be happy. So number one is stop trying to please everyone. If you try and please
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everyone you'll end up disappointing yourself. Number two is stop overthinking. When we overthink we start to
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catastrophize and so if you find yourself overthinking just simply say to yourself, "I wonder what my next thought is gonna be?"
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You'll notice it goes silent. Number three is stop living in the past. It's happened. It's been, you might not have got it right.
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But you did your best in the moment. And number four, stop putting yourself down.
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By putting yourself down you're just beating yourself up and there's only one person that's gonna be with you 24 hours a day,
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seven days a week and all your life and that is you. So you deserve to respect yourself and to champion yourself.
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And the final one is stop fearing change.
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It's when we step out of our comfort zone and do new things and have new adventures that we get new exciting results.
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