Faith Da Silva, EMOSYONAL na ibinahagi ang detalye ng pagkikita nila ni Dennis Da Silva | Sarap,‘Di Ba? - video Dailymotion

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Aired (March 02, 2024): Sa kanyang panayam sa MINAmahal, ibinahagi ni Faith Da Silva kung paano niya pinaghadaan ang unang pagkakataon na makita niya ang amang si Dennis Da Silva.

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00:00 [music]

00:05 Welcome back to "Sarap 'Di Ba?"

00:07 You know, it's so nice to chat, right?

00:09 Yes!

00:10 Especially when there are snacks, when there's food,

00:12 it's so nice to chat and chat.

00:15 That's why I won't miss this opportunity

00:19 to talk and put Faith DeSilva in the hot seat.

00:24 Alright!

00:25 Here we go. I'll start.

00:26 Let's not go around.

00:28 I'm sure many people have asked you,

00:30 many people have interviewed you

00:33 about your first meeting with your dad, Dennis DeSilva.

00:38 Yes.

00:39 Because I know you were one year old

00:42 when you separated.

00:44 And then this December,

00:46 this was the first time you saw your father.

00:50 Yes.

00:50 So that was after 22 years?

00:53 22 years.

00:54 After 22 years.

00:55 So meaning, you were one year old,

00:58 you don't have any memories with your dad.

00:59 None.

01:00 None. Because you don't have any memories when you were one year old.

01:03 So you don't have any pictures growing up?

01:05 We don't have any pictures together.

01:07 Okay.

01:08 But you know that your father is Dennis DeSilva.

01:11 I just know his name,

01:14 but I have no idea about his job in the past.

01:17 Or what he looked like.

01:19 Yes, or if he was an artist or what.

01:21 I don't have any idea.

01:22 So when did you find out that Dennis DeSilva,

01:25 the artist in the past,

01:26 is my dad and this is what happened to him?

01:29 Maybe when my teachers asked me.

01:33 Okay.

01:34 Yeah, from school.

01:35 Okay. Because you said growing up,

01:38 you knew that your dad is from another country.

01:41 Yes.

01:42 Okay. And then when you were in school,

01:45 your teachers asked you,

01:46 and of course you answered that your dad is from another country.

01:49 Yeah.

01:50 Because when they see the name Dennis DeSilva,

01:53 they know him because they are his idols.

01:56 They are his crushes.

01:57 Here's the thing.

01:59 I'm not going to hide it.

02:00 I'm not going to contain it.

02:02 Because Dennis is one of my crushes in the show business.

02:06 I'm not an artist yet.

02:08 I watched him on Ninja Kids,

02:10 before we talk about this,

02:11 I have some stories.

02:13 At least you have something happy with your dad.

02:15 I really watched him on Ninja Kids.

02:19 I think I was the youngest one.

02:21 Because he's so cute.

02:23 Oh my gosh.

02:24 He's really cute.

02:25 But anyway, that's my story.

02:27 So here it is.

02:28 Last year, December,

02:29 finally, you had the chance to meet.

02:33 Yes.

02:34 I want to know first, how did it happen?

02:36 Who planned it?

02:38 Who initiated it?

02:40 I want to see him.

02:41 I want to meet him.

02:43 Was it you or him?

02:44 Me.

02:45 Because?

02:46 Because I have been planning for it for a long time.

02:50 Of course, I had to take my time to make sure that

02:54 I'm sure that when we meet,

02:56 I'm not going to have negative emotions.

03:01 No hatred, no anger.

03:02 None of that.

03:03 Okay.

03:04 What was your first reaction or feeling?

03:08 That this is it.

03:10 I'm almost there.

03:11 I'm going in.

03:13 I was really nervous.

03:14 I couldn't sleep.

03:16 I'm sure.

03:17 I was thinking about what I'm going to wear,

03:19 what I'm going to tell him.

03:21 I was directing myself,

03:23 my mind, to what I want to happen.

03:26 But when I was there,

03:27 it felt so different.

03:29 It was meant to happen.

03:33 I felt like I was a kid.

03:35 I felt like I was a kid,

03:39 with faith, longing for him.

03:41 And finally, when I was able to hug him,

03:44 that's when I really cried.

03:45 That's when I became emotional.

03:46 Because it's like a puzzle,

03:49 that was just right.

03:52 God blessed me at the right time.

03:55 Maybe if I was there earlier,

03:58 Your reaction would have been like that.

04:00 Yes.

04:01 I might have questions for him

04:03 that wouldn't have helped deepen our relationship.

04:07 And I feel like all of your plans

04:10 and your reactions,

04:12 were all lost.

04:14 Because this is what you said,

04:16 that you can't act.

04:18 Those moments were different.

04:20 It's like you were just carried away by your emotions.

04:23 I was so confused when you told me

04:28 that you were a kid with faith.

04:31 Because it's like,

04:32 "Oh my gosh, I'm just going to hug my dad now."

04:35 So this is what grew.

04:37 Because you don't have a father figure.

04:39 Right?

04:40 That lack of a father figure,

04:44 did you find it in your male friends?

04:48 Or in your boyfriends?

04:52 I was so confused.

04:54 Really?

04:55 Because it's just two things.

04:56 You can be attracted to older men,

04:59 or not.

05:02 Yes, it became natural for me

05:05 to choose men who are ahead of me.

05:11 Like, more mature.

05:14 Not because,

05:15 maybe subconsciously,

05:18 I'm not aware that

05:20 those are my choices when it comes to men.

05:23 But my longing for a man in my life,

05:27 outside of my family,

05:28 that's what really happens.

05:30 That's why I was wondering before,

05:32 I was like, "Why am I still in grade school?"

05:34 I already had boyfriends.

05:36 I mean, puppy love,

05:37 things like that.

05:38 But I never lost someone by my side.

05:43 Until I realized that,

05:45 "Okay, this is a daddy issue."

05:47 When you realized that,

05:49 and you fixed it,

05:50 did your outlook on love life change?

05:53 Yes.

05:54 I haven't dated since.

05:56 Oh.

05:57 Yes, maybe it's been three years

06:00 since I finally realized,

06:02 the truth is that,

06:04 "Okay, there's something here."

06:06 It's not like, "That's your trauma."

06:08 Because when I noticed,

06:10 when you really lined up,

06:11 they were both the same.

06:13 And I saw what my dad's quality is.

06:17 Oh my gosh.

06:18 That's what really drives me crazy.

06:19 So those two hours,

06:20 of course, that's not enough.

06:22 If I give you additional time

06:24 to communicate or to spend time with your dad,

06:26 what else do you want to say to him?

06:28 I just wanted to hug him more.

06:32 I just wanted more.

06:35 I wanted more from it.

06:38 Because I have been longing for it

06:44 for almost two decades.

06:47 And I want to be thankful for that moment.

06:51 You know, it happened, I'm here, I'm with you.

06:54 But I want to hug him more.

06:57 Actually, sometimes words aren't enough.

07:00 But actions,

07:02 like hugging is more than enough.

07:05 When you hug or when you touch someone,

07:09 it's beyond words.

07:11 The things you can't express,

07:13 the things you can't express in your heart,

07:15 but when you touch or when you hug someone,

07:18 it's enough.

07:20 But you are still lucky, you're still blessed

07:23 because your dad's still here.

07:25 You can visit your dad anytime.

07:27 I suppose you can.

07:28 Yes, now I know I can.

07:30 So you can.

07:31 I'm sure you'll create more wonderful memories with your dad,

07:35 even if you're in that situation.

07:38 Because there are others,

07:40 no matter what happens,

07:41 no matter what I wish for,

07:44 I can never have.

07:45 Hug my dad.

07:46 At least you still have a chance,

07:49 you still have time,

07:50 even if you say it's only two hours a day,

07:52 at least you get to spend two hours daily with your dad.

07:57 So you're still blessed,

07:58 and you're still okay.

08:01 And I'm so happy for you because

08:03 you have a lot of realizations,

08:06 you have a lot of issues that you've solved,

08:09 that it's not easy.

08:10 Because acceptance is just the name.

08:12 Because that's the first step, right?

08:14 And anything that you go through in your life,

08:16 acceptance is the hardest.

08:18 Because we're always in denial,

08:19 "No, we're not like that, we're not like that."

08:21 Accepting whatever the problem is,

08:24 that's the hardest.

08:25 I know it's a sensitive topic,

08:28 but thank you so much for the trust.

08:30 And it's so happy to talk about this.

08:34 Because moving forward in life.

08:36 And you know that you're gonna see each other again, right?

08:39 Just don't forget.

08:42 Anyway, thank you, thank you again so much.

08:46 For sharing your thoughts and your inner feelings.

08:50 We're gonna leave soon,

08:51 there's a lot more to happen.

08:52 Keep on sharing happiness.

08:54 Here at...

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Faith Da Silva, EMOSYONAL na ibinahagi ang detalye ng pagkikita nila ni Dennis Da Silva | Sarap,‘Di Ba?

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