We're Judged For My Wife's 'Plastic' Appearance | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
WOULD YOU support your partner's every decision even if it could be life-threatening? For Harris, an engineer from Helsinki, Finland, his wife's happiness trumps everything else. Harris is married to Sonja, a model who has spent 40,000 euros on plastic surgery to enhance her looks. Last year, the mum-of-one suffered from severe complications that forced her to remove her breast implants. But it didn't stop Sonja from wanting to get her next procedure. On social media, Sonja has always been subject to judgement about her looks - even her relationship with Harris has come under fire. But the couple chooses to ignore the negative comments while Harris says he fully supports his wife's quest to achieve her dream body.
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00:00 This is Harry. He fell in love with...
00:03 Sonja.
00:05 When I first met Sonja, it was like, "Whoa, is this real?"
00:10 I take my chance and ask her for a cup of coffee.
00:13 And they've now been happily married for five years.
00:19 Sonja has had many plastic surgeries over the years.
00:22 People say rude comments about our relationship.
00:27 And after a health scare...
00:29 Last year, I got an infection. I had to remove my breast implants.
00:33 That was a really hard time for me.
00:35 They're both concerned about the repercussions of any future operations.
00:40 I don't want to take such a big risk anymore, but I take only small risks.
00:45 So I was wondering if I can get a little bit more feeling.
00:55 I have had, well, obviously breast implants and tummy tuck
00:59 and liposuction in this area.
01:01 I take my first breast implants when I was 18 years old.
01:05 The inspiration I get from adult magazines,
01:08 I was like, "Oh my God, I want to look like that."
01:11 And years later, here we are.
01:15 We have been happily married for about five years.
01:21 First I saw Sonja in Pomper magazine cover.
01:25 Then I started to follow her on social media.
01:28 And one day I just saw her in one cast.
01:32 So I take my chance and ask her for a cup of coffee.
01:37 When I first met Sonja, it was like, "Whoa, is this real?
01:42 Can this be happening?"
01:43 Today I have an appointment for a plastic surgery consult
01:47 and we can talk about what I'm planning to do next.
01:50 So I'm quite excited.
01:52 I want to be in an appointment because I want to support Sonja,
01:57 to make her happy.
01:59 And you know what they say about happy wives, so...
02:02 Hey!
02:03 Welcome!
02:04 Thank you.
02:05 How have you been?
02:07 Very fine, thank you.
02:08 I have recovered and breasts are healing so well.
02:13 When you are doing so crazy things like I do,
02:15 then s*** can happen.
02:17 Last year it totally hit me because I got bigger and I got an infection.
02:23 And that's why I had to remove my breast implants.
02:26 So I was like five and a half months without implants.
02:32 That was a really hard time for me.
02:34 But thank God I have my family supporting me.
02:37 I have quite a big scar.
02:39 So I was wondering if it's possible to do something about the scar
02:44 and if I can get a little bit more feeling.
02:49 So...
02:50 Okay.
02:52 I should try your breasts because if they are soft,
02:56 then it's possible to enhance the size a little bit.
03:00 The healing is still in process.
03:04 So I think that it's better that we wait for two months
03:08 before the surgeon decides what would be the wisest way
03:13 to refine your scars.
03:15 Okay.
03:15 Regarding the breasts, there are risks involved.
03:19 And as you have experienced,
03:22 there is a possibility that there will be leakage or rupture.
03:27 Many things to think about before deciding to go through this operation.
03:40 We have a son, Lenni. He is four years old.
03:43 And it's changed my view for plastic surgery.
03:48 Before I got him, I was totally like...
03:51 I take huge risk and I didn't care if something happened.
03:55 But in these days, I always think that if something happens, is it worth it?
03:59 Because I definitely want to be here with him and with family.
04:04 Wow!
04:06 Show me the inside.
04:07 Just lift it up.
04:08 Last summer when I lost my breast implants,
04:11 he asked me, "Mummy, are you alright?"
04:16 And I asked him, "Do you mean that can mummy play with you without breast implants?"
04:20 And he was like, "Yeah."
04:21 I was like, "Of course I can play with you."
04:24 And he was like, "Okay, good."
04:25 Wow!
04:30 We are going to take still pictures and maybe short video clips
04:35 for Instagram and TikTok.
04:38 Look here.
04:39 Good.
04:40 People say rude comments about our relationship.
04:43 I have heard everything like, "You are such a whore."
04:49 "And you should kill yourself."
04:51 "And you are so ugly, you are ruining yourself."
04:54 And they are just comments for me.
04:55 I really don't think they are like, "Oh my God, my life is ruined now."
05:00 Somebody who I don't know doesn't like me.
05:03 So, it don't matter.
05:06 A little bit of a laugh.
05:08 Yes.
05:09 Harri, he is really proud how I look and it feels really good.
05:12 Are you worried about the risks involved with getting more surgery?
05:15 I will tell her to stop surgery if there is a big risk for infection or sepsis.
05:22 Or dying.
05:23 Or dying.
05:24 I have learned to appreciate myself and enjoy life more than I have ever done before.
05:30 Thanks for Harri.
05:31 And it's wonderful to be different.
05:34 We are enjoying life.
05:35 The way it is and the way we are feeling it.
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